Most annoying NSV ever.

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Jkmumma
Jkmumma Posts: 254
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I live near enough to the gym that sometimes I walk there and back.

Yesterday, while I was walking back from the gym, not one but TWO guys, completely separate incidents, about a half mile from each other slow rolled me in their cars and asked for my number.

This also happened the day before yesterday walking home from the light rail...

I have a long way to go, but I have slimmed down enough for it to be really noticeable. When I started, it had been about 10 years since that's happened to me.

It creeps me out, and no one got my number out of it (I have a boyfriend after all) but STILL it's an NSV, even if it's weird.

Do boys just do this? Is this NORMAL boy activity?
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  • Awkward30
    Awkward30 Posts: 1,927 Member
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    I think it is "normal" in urban areas because I get it somewhat regularly nowadays and I'm not especially special looking lol

    Congrats! I hope you continue to get attention (as long as its flattering and not too creepy)!
  • deedog007
    deedog007 Posts: 89 Member
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    This type of behavior is normal for 'boys' , not men,,,.. especially if your on "foot patrol". :)
  • Pedro_Infante
    Pedro_Infante Posts: 116 Member
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    Owoooooo!
  • jenj1313
    jenj1313 Posts: 898 Member
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    Just got back from 3 days in Vegas where NO ONE hit on me at all ;-p That's NEVER happened there before, so I'm using it as motivation to get lean and mean before I go back next summer!
  • jenj1313
    jenj1313 Posts: 898 Member
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    Just got back from 3 days in Vegas where NO ONE hit on me at all ;-p That's NEVER happened there before, so I'm using it as motivation to get lean and mean before I go back next summer!

    Oh, and it's not that I was particularly hot in the past, but it's Vegas, you know? I don't think I'm dog-awful now, but still... it was a bit disappointing in an odd sort of way.
  • Pedro_Infante
    Pedro_Infante Posts: 116 Member
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    @Jen

    Girl, I'll honk at you. *honk* *honk* Hey baby!
  • lisakyle_11
    lisakyle_11 Posts: 420 Member
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    I live near enough to the gym that sometimes I walk there and back.

    Yesterday, while I was walking back from the gym, not one but TWO guys, completely separate incidents, about a half mile from each other slow rolled me in their cars and asked for my number.

    This also happened the day before yesterday walking home from the light rail...

    I have a long way to go, but I have slimmed down enough for it to be really noticeable. When I started, it had been about 10 years since that's happened to me.

    It creeps me out, and no one got my number out of it (I have a boyfriend after all) but STILL it's an NSV, even if it's weird.

    Do boys just do this? Is this NORMAL boy activity?

    uh... yes normal boy-man activity!
  • Werglum
    Werglum Posts: 378 Member
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    I got whistled at today while pushing my baby in her buggy!! Maybe they were whistling at her, she is pretty cute :bigsmile:
  • hpynh2o
    hpynh2o Posts: 194 Member
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    Take it for the complement it is. You've apparently done well. This is the pay off. :)
  • LaMujerMasBonitaDelMundo
    LaMujerMasBonitaDelMundo Posts: 3,634 Member
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    OMG I've been experiencing that same problem ever since I lost the weight & officially got fit. I guess its because we are starting to become more confident with ourselves as we progress in our journey that attracts a lot of guys.

    Keep it up, you're doing great!
  • CeeRawr89
    CeeRawr89 Posts: 328 Member
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    I got whistled at today while pushing my baby in her buggy!! Maybe they were whistling at her, she is pretty cute :bigsmile:
    lol
  • AmyG17
    AmyG17 Posts: 24 Member
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    Its very normal for buys and men to act this way. Nothing gets me more upset then when I am with my kids who are 5 and 8 and they cat call or say things to me in front of them. Why do that in front of kids? I don't get that at all? Congrats on your weight lost!
  • JeepBaja
    JeepBaja Posts: 1,824 Member
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    I can't believe I have a NSV... I was hit on*! I was actually shocked once I realize what was happening.






    * I don't really think being hit on counts when it is a fast food drive-up window that the person handing the food over to me, if not a current meth addict, had been one within the past 24 hours to 5 weeks.
  • Taratruex
    Taratruex Posts: 215 Member
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    you said light rail and i thought, hmm i bet she is from sacramento! And i was right.

    P.s that is normal! Congrats on your annoying NSV!
  • CloudX
    CloudX Posts: 13 Member
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    This type of behavior is normal for 'boys' , not men,,,.. especially if your on "foot patrol". :)

    ^^this
  • AlayshaJ
    AlayshaJ Posts: 703 Member
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    Yeah, I hate that. Guys do this to me regularly. I usually have a child or two with me but apparently that means nothing to the guys that do this.

    *It has gotten to the point where I am just completely rude to them and tell them to *kitten* off, even if I have my kids. Sometimes I even lecture them about manners and what is appropriate and what is not. If they bother me enough, like drive by more than twice all hell breaks loose and I may or may not throw something at them.
  • stang_girl88
    stang_girl88 Posts: 234 Member
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    Take it as a compliment. Your hard work is paying off.
  • Karalopolous
    Karalopolous Posts: 574
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    It's pretty normal, just can be creepy depending on the guy. I had one try to leave his car and come after me :noway:
    Otherwise, just take the compliment
  • callmeBAM
    callmeBAM Posts: 450 Member
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    Is there anything more annoying than an attractive girl complaining about getting hit on? It's not like they were going all Night at the Roxbury on you. If a guy can't ask a strange girl for a simple phone number, how the hell do babies get made?
  • callmeBAM
    callmeBAM Posts: 450 Member
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    Yeah, I hate that. Guys do this to me regularly. I usually have a child or two with me but apparently that means nothing to the guys that do this.

    Yes, b/c there aren't any single moms out there who want to date a guy who isn't turned off by children. SMH

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