Where do you draw the line with flirting?
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I wouldn't stay with someone that was openly flirting with others. I think you deserve better.
Yeah, this. You told him it hurt you yet he still does it.0 -
Dump him, but first start telling him how big other guys penis's are; say "even bigger than yours!"
See how he likes it!!!
Hahah! I love it!!!0 -
My rule of thumb for "cheating" has really been anything I wouldn't want to do right in front of my spouse, including seemingly harmless flirting e-mails.
This guy takes the douchenozzle cake. He does it right in front of you!0 -
You deserve to be with someone who thinks you are beautiful even when you in sweatpants, no makeup, and just rolled out of bed. Show him the door.0
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He doesn't care. He's an immature boy. He's a jerk. Respect yourself enough to dump the guy, you (and every other woman) deserves better. He has a lot of growing up to do yet.0
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"A Boy makes his girl jealous of other women, a MAN makes other women jealous of his Girl!"
Sounds like you need to ditch the boy and find a man!
Love it, its so cute haha
I agree!
You guys are the greatest, you remind me that its possible for a guy to have a heart!0 -
Guy sounds legit to me.
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You get to live an MFP dream right now, and drop more than a hundred pounds overnight. Don't put up with a-holes, ladies.0
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I agree with every one else.. SERIOUSLY He's a Douche Bag.. You don't ever let a man (or rather, boy) treat you like that, sweetie..0
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Dump him, but first start telling him how big other guys penis's are; say "even bigger than yours!"
See how he likes it!!!
^^^ This0 -
Why do people make these threads?
Then you have all these people chiming in go...Dump him...
He doesn't get a chance to speak or say what is the truth or lie in the OP's Statements....
*sigh*0 -
Run, run fast and dump his *kitten*.
You're not being stupid or paranoid; he's being rude, inconsiderate, and doesn't deserve you or ANYBODY!0 -
Why do people make these threads?
Then you have all these people chiming in go...Dump him...
He doesn't get a chance to speak or say what is the truth or lie in the OP's Statements....
*sigh*
If she's telling the truth, the folks are right. And if it were to turn out instead that she's just pyscho-jealous, then the folks are doing *him* a favor without knowing it. Win/win eh?0 -
a little harmless flirting can be fun, makes you smile. but there is such a thing as crossing a line.
That being said you need to speak to him. Maybe he simply isn't ready to make the commitment your looking for which is okay he's allowed to not be ready. Doesn't necessarily make him a douche. People grow and mature at different rates. Maybe he's not at your level.
Either way speak to HIM...ultimately it will be up to the two of you to find a happy medium in which you can live with if not.. There are other fish in the sea.0 -
it hurts to know that he's that selfish that he doesn't CARE if he hurts my feelings to begin with.
I don't know if I'm over reacting or if it's okay or not that he's acting this way towards other girls, particularly when he's hardly ever affectionate to me because he's 'been hurt before'. So HONESTLY MFP peeps, am I overreacting and being a paranoid, jealous, crazy girl - or should I be hurt? How would you handle this?
I promise I won't get upset if you call me crazy, we're girls - we're supposed to be, right? Lol!
1. He doesn't care.
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2. He uses the oh put up with me please because I've been hurt before line.
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3. He's emotionally abusive to you.
Leave, girlfriend, leave via running and don't look back and you'll thank yourself later.
Best wishes to you.0 -
Why do people make these threads?
Then you have all these people chiming in go...Dump him...
He doesn't get a chance to speak or say what is the truth or lie in the OP's Statements....
*sigh*
If she's telling the truth, the folks are right. And if it were to turn out instead that she's just pyscho-jealous, then the folks are doing *him* a favor without knowing it. Win/win eh?
lol this is true! Win-win either way. But I mean that's the thing, maybe in someone else's context a bit of harmless flirting IS fine - that's why I want advice!0 -
Why do people make these threads?
Then you have all these people chiming in go...Dump him...
He doesn't get a chance to speak or say what is the truth or lie in the OP's Statements....
*sigh*
If she's telling the truth, the folks are right. And if it were to turn out instead that she's just pyscho-jealous, then the folks are doing *him* a favor without knowing it. Win/win eh?
Smart Man. (See if he's single, honey )0 -
Run0
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Ditch him. Soooo not worth it0
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That is unacceptable; please get out of the relationship. It made you uncomfortable (and for good reason!) and he didn't even care. I know since this is your first relationship maybe you think this kind of thing is normal, but you deserve so much better. Trust me on this one. My first relationship the guy treated me basically the same way, was always comparing me to his ex girlfriends, etc. and made me feel like crap half the time. But he was a great bf the other half of the time and I convinced myself that was just life and I should stay with him. After a year he broke up with me. I started dating other people and realized how terrible he was for me all along. Get out now!0
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