Why wont you open your diary?
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Mine is open but if anyone feels the need to say something mean or whatever about what I am eating or what I go over on or if I was way under goal or whatever they can piss off. I will gently correct someone if they make a "helpful" comment without knowing my situation though.
I log for me and I leave it open to maybe help someone with ideas of what to eat since I am on dialysis and they might be too or might be facing that soon.0 -
there's a Food Diary?
I like to keep secrets.
Hahaha. Mine's open -- no one's commented so far. I don't eat a lot of crap, but I'm sure you could find something! I kept it open on the off chance I DO want to ask people about things.0 -
Mine is open to my MFP friends...it helps keep me accountable. Especially because I work with one of my friends who is also on MFP and we really help encourage each other. As for the whole world...yeah, I'm not interested in EVERYBODY knowing what I eat...0
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I'm far more likely to be honest if it's closed.0
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Because.0
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my diary is open to my friends-and they don't judge me, if they did-they wouldn't' be my friends. With that being said- I find it helps me make "better" choices when I know people will see what I have eaten. It has taught me accountability.0
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I don't want to be judged. There are so many different philosophies regarding nutrition, and I am not open to having to defend my food choices. I also dont care to get the "constructive criticism" comments unless I specifically ask for it. I'm sensitive!0
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I completely agree only my husband can see my great progress or walk of shame (when i give in to chocolate or junk food) He's a lot more motivated than me and we're doing this together. I wouldn't dream of opening it up to some stranger and have THEM tell me what I ALREADY KNOW.... I"m a work in progress that's why I'm using this site.0
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I know if I had a bad day or not and dont need to be reminded by others.0
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Mine is open - I keep it that way only because I feel that it keeps me accountable to self - I don't mind someone commenting as long as when I look at their diary it looks similar or better than what I eat - and I EAT...
But I can understand those who wish to keep it closed - there are some very judgmental peeps out there who believe if things are not being done their way it is being done the wrong way...0 -
I quite like showing off my food.... call me an exhibitionist if you want ..... LOL0
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Coincidentally, I just decided to open mine today after being on here since February or so.
I had it closed before because what I eat is kinda private to me. Sounds weird but I don't like people looking at what I eat and maybe judging it's not the right balance, not healthy, etc.
I'm doing my best but occasionally have some chcocolate, or fried rice, or alcohol, but overall my diet is WAY better than before I joined MFP and started paying attention.
Anyway I got over my weird feeling about it and now I don't care. My friends are welcome to view my diary. Maybe it will even help some people??0 -
i open mine to friends but sometimes i just close it. this is because sometimes i get low on food and i dont have many healthy choices and i dont want to be judged for it.0
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Mine is open because I'm more inclined to stay on track if I know other people can see what I'm eating. I must have lovely friends because even if I've have a bad day, nobody is mean to me! :laugh:
I like to see peoples diaries because it gives me new ideas on what I can eat. Also if they are doing well, it's good to see how they're doing it.0 -
I don't really care if people see my diary, for the most part everyone knows I eat a very low low intake everyday but I do encourage NO ONE to eat the way I am eating, it's for my benifit alone. So far I've had no one comment on it so I just assume they aren't interested in me or my diary so it's all good on my end. Look today and see I way way way over did my intake, but went to Zumba to help make up for it.0
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To be blunt, it's nobody's business. I am the only one to suffer or benefit from what I eat or don't eat. My choices aren't affecting anyone else. I don't always eat clean and I don't deprive myself of things I want. This has to be a life change that I can live with forever. All in moderation.
^^ Exactly this. :drinker:0 -
I track my food for my own benefit - so *I* know how many calories I've eaten, how balanced my diet is, etc. I'm not interested in feedback from strangers, and I don't think I have any kind of "civic duty" (so to speak) to make my food tracker available to others for inspiration, social comparison, or whatever.
This. I was getting some really rude comments about my diary and people would point out when I went over when obviously I can see that. I started not tracking everything to make it look better but all that does is hurt my progress so for now, it's my business not yours.0 -
Mine's open, and no one has ever given me much crap about it, especially now that I don't display my sodium.0
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BECAUSE IT'S MINE!!! ALL MINE!!! Bwaaahhahhhaah!!
Sorry. Had a moment. Seriously though, I have four kids and a husband. There isn't much in this world that is "mine all mine" and I just don't want any input at this time. If I ever do, I'll open it.0 -
I only use the food diary to keep a personal record of my eating. Nobody else needs to see it.
Yeh, that's pretty much it. I don't need to aggro of someone critiquing my nutrition.
If anyone wants to know what I eat on a regular basis I'll happily tell them though.
My eating patterns are also determined by hunger, primarily, so I eat at odd times ... but I try to keep them 'healthy' real food.
I don't log exercise and I don't log alcohol, I figure they cancel each other out and the last thing I want to be doing when drinking and relaxing is thinking about how many calories/carbs I am consuming.
As for exercise I think it is overrated as a weight control tool so the "xxx calories burned" are not really important to me. I exercise if I feel like it (for the other good effects) and literally don't sweat it if I don't. As long as the nutirition fits my guidelines my body will largely sort itself out.
I am happy with progress so it's all good.0 -
I reckon there allot of secret, cheating going on lol ......Joke :bigsmile:0
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But frankly, I track my food for my own benefit - so *I* know how many calories I've eaten, how balanced my diet is, etc. I'm not interested in feedback from strangers, and I don't think I have any kind of "civic duty" (so to speak) to make my food tracker available to others for inspiration, social comparison, or whatever.
I agree 100%.0 -
I'm far more likely to be honest if it's closed.
This is absolutely true for me as well.0 -
Some of us don't think about it. I didn't realize for the first few weeks that my diary was closed, some people just don't even know (or know how to change it).0
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I reckon there allot of secret, cheating going on lol ......Joke :bigsmile:
You are a perceptive man, don't tell the wife. :bigsmile:0 -
I leave mine open and I've never gotten a negative comment about what I eat, just congrats when I have a good day and finish under People aren't as bad as you think.0
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Personally, Ive seen some people get pretty judge-y and nasty to people whose diaries that aren't 100% perfectly clean foods, organic free range chicken etc, and since that's just not me, I would prefer to not deal with that.
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I reckon there allot of secret, cheating going on lol ......Joke :bigsmile:
You are a perceptive man, don't tell the wife. :bigsmile:0 -
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Mine is open, and always has been. I haven't experienced the pleasure of having someone be critical of my diary, so far everyone has been extremely positive. Should that day ever come, said person would be taken to task so swiftly that they would think twice before ever commenting again. :smokin:0
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