Hey Fat Girl....

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This is a blog entry from flintland.blogspot.com.

I am in love with this person!

Hey, Fat Girl.


Yes, you. The one feigning to not see me when we cross paths on the running track. The one not even wearing sports gear, breathing heavy. You’re slow, you breathe hard and your efforts at moving forward make you cringe.

You cling shyly to the furthest corridor, sometimes making larger loops on the gravel ring by the track just so you’re not on it. You sweat so much that your hair is all wet. You rarely stay for more than 20 minutes at a time, and you look exhausted when you leave to go back home. You never talk to anyone. I’ve got something I’d like to say to you.

You are awesome.

If you’d look me in the eye only for an instant, you would notice the reverence and respect I have for you. The adventure you have started is tremendous; it leads to a better health, to renewed confidence and to a brand new kind of freedom. The gifts you will receive from running will far exceed the gigantic effort it takes you to show up here, to face your fears and to bravely set yourself in motion, in front of others.

You have already begun your transformation. You no longer accept this physical state of numbness and passivity. You have taken a difficult decision, but one that holds so much promise. Every hard breath you take is actually a tad easier than the one before, and every step is ever so slightly lighter. Each push forward leaves the former person you were in your wake, creating room for an improved version, one that is stronger, healthier and forward-looking, one who knows that anything is possible.

You’re a hero to me. And, if you’d take off the blaring headphones and put your head up for more than a second or two, you would notice that the other runners you cross, the ones that probably make you feel so inadequate, stare in awe at your determination. They, of all people, know best where you are coming from. They heard the resolutions of so many others, who vowed to pick up running and improve their health, “starting next week”. Yet, it is YOU who runs alongside, who digs from deep inside to find the strength to come here, and to come back again.

You are a runner, and no one can take that away from you. You are relentlessly moving forward. You are stronger than even you think, and you are about to be amazed by what you can do. One day, very soon, maybe tomorrow, you’ll step outside and marvel at your capabilities. You will not believe your own body, you will realize that you can do this. And a new horizon will open up for you. You are a true inspiration.

I bow to you.
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  • FinallyFindingLisa
    FinallyFindingLisa Posts: 222 Member
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    This is freakin' fantastic! I don't run, probably won't ever (bad knees) but I swim and I bike and I am the "fat girl"
  • curvykim78
    curvykim78 Posts: 799 Member
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    That is AWESOME. Kudos to the author. :)
  • tabbygeorge
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    I am sooo happy that I read this. I am the "Fat Girl" I dont run but I go to the gym and blare my headphones not really looking at anyone. This is definite motivation to keep doing so. Thank you for sharing
  • tinana_RN
    tinana_RN Posts: 541 Member
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    I'm finishing couch to 5k... I have 2 days left. I can't tell you what it means for me to read this. Thanks for posting.
  • FatToFit12
    FatToFit12 Posts: 66 Member
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    Love it!!!!
  • katrwal
    katrwal Posts: 336 Member
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    this is fabulous... thanks for posting it.
  • Cupcakehippiemommy
    Cupcakehippiemommy Posts: 457 Member
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    Srsly cried this is awesome! I will hold my head high now when I the fat girl jog :) Thanks for posting doll!
  • Dipmom
    Dipmom Posts: 228 Member
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    Love, love, love!!! Thanks for sharing!
  • vegannlg
    vegannlg Posts: 170 Member
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    {sniff} Made me cry... :) This was so good t read, especially sitting here all sweaty, trying to decide if I should do my treadmill time too. Guess what... now I will. Thank you.
  • CristaA42962
    CristaA42962 Posts: 45 Member
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    That was wonderful!!!
  • Megdonald1
    Megdonald1 Posts: 149 Member
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    That is so amazing. Made me cry :sad: happy tears
  • tistal
    tistal Posts: 869 Member
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    I love this. I posted it on my feed yesterday!
  • Jennchel
    Jennchel Posts: 16
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    I love this! I've been known to yell out my car window at girls jogging down the street, no matter what size, "you go girl!". My husband thinks I'm nuts, but I KNOW how hard that is. I still can't do it after working out for 3 months... Fat Girl Power! We're out there, we just have to show ourselves, and not just hide in the corners. :happy:
  • lizzybethclaire
    lizzybethclaire Posts: 849 Member
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    awesome post. love it! I wonder what they think when I walk by.
  • jmelyan23
    jmelyan23 Posts: 1,664 Member
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    This was really touching and made me feel even prouder for starting the C25K program and getting this far without giving up even if I am the "fat girl". Thank you for posting. :flowerforyou:
  • Emmabulliemum
    Emmabulliemum Posts: 294 Member
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    love it! I don't run either but yep I'm the fat girl! but not for much longer :@) great post thanks x
  • JamesonsMommy
    JamesonsMommy Posts: 771 Member
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    Love this!! Thanks for sharing :)
  • Billywoo
    Billywoo Posts: 141 Member
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    Incredable.. Thanks for sharing.
  • Bakerchk
    Bakerchk Posts: 424 Member
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    WOW! That made me tear up. I was never the "fat girl" but I sure did feel like it sometimes. Thank you so much for this!
  • jkulesza
    jkulesza Posts: 2
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    :love:
    This is a blog entry from flintland.blogspot.com.

    I am in love with this person!

    Hey, Fat Girl.


    Yes, you. The one feigning to not see me when we cross paths on the running track. The one not even wearing sports gear, breathing heavy. You’re slow, you breathe hard and your efforts at moving forward make you cringe.

    You cling shyly to the furthest corridor, sometimes making larger loops on the gravel ring by the track just so you’re not on it. You sweat so much that your hair is all wet. You rarely stay for more than 20 minutes at a time, and you look exhausted when you leave to go back home. You never talk to anyone. I’ve got something I’d like to say to you.

    You are awesome.

    If you’d look me in the eye only for an instant, you would notice the reverence and respect I have for you. The adventure you have started is tremendous; it leads to a better health, to renewed confidence and to a brand new kind of freedom. The gifts you will receive from running will far exceed the gigantic effort it takes you to show up here, to face your fears and to bravely set yourself in motion, in front of others.

    You have already begun your transformation. You no longer accept this physical state of numbness and passivity. You have taken a difficult decision, but one that holds so much promise. Every hard breath you take is actually a tad easier than the one before, and every step is ever so slightly lighter. Each push forward leaves the former person you were in your wake, creating room for an improved version, one that is stronger, healthier and forward-looking, one who knows that anything is possible.

    You’re a hero to me. And, if you’d take off the blaring headphones and put your head up for more than a second or two, you would notice that the other runners you cross, the ones that probably make you feel so inadequate, stare in awe at your determination. They, of all people, know best where you are coming from. They heard the resolutions of so many others, who vowed to pick up running and improve their health, “starting next week”. Yet, it is YOU who runs alongside, who digs from deep inside to find the strength to come here, and to come back again.

    You are a runner, and no one can take that away from you. You are relentlessly moving forward. You are stronger than even you think, and you are about to be amazed by what you can do. One day, very soon, maybe tomorrow, you’ll step outside and marvel at your capabilities. You will not believe your own body, you will realize that you can do this. And a new horizon will open up for you. You are a true inspiration.

    I bow to you.