flirting bad?

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  • AtticusFinch
    AtticusFinch Posts: 1,262 Member
    I could not agree more. There is a fine line. For example, someone demanding photos of my boobs within minutes of an accepted FR is creepy. Telling me I'm lovely and funny is flirting.

    Yep - I always wait for a couple of weeks before I ask for those kind of photos, it's only good manners after all. They were great pics btw Amy, funny in fact. :wink:
  • CarolinaGirlinVA
    CarolinaGirlinVA Posts: 1,497 Member
    why is it only a handful of girls on here want to flirt?

    A handful?

    Good Lord man, what rock are you looking under?

    No kidding! That's like whining there are NO shirtless guys on MFP! :sad:
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    why is it only a handful of girls on here want to flirt?

    A handful?

    Good Lord man, what rock are you looking under?

    No kidding! That's like whining there are NO shirtless guys on MFP! :sad:

    Nooo kidding right?

    :wink: :flowerforyou:

    (See what I did there?)
  • Captain_Tightpants
    Captain_Tightpants Posts: 2,215 Member
    Hey OP, I got a recommended addition to your profile for ya:

    I've always wanted to be a professional bodybuilder/fitness model and I'm using this site to watch my macros...

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  • BikerKevin67
    BikerKevin67 Posts: 20 Member
    Here's a serious question. If you're married, engaged or have a BF or GF, why do you need to flirt? Just wondering. Flirting is a form of cheating.
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 1,799 Member
    Aren't you the same guy that didn't like either strippers or porn?
  • TheWinman
    TheWinman Posts: 684 Member
    Here's a serious question. If you're married, engaged or have a BF or GF, why do you need to flirt? Just wondering. Flirting is a form of cheating.

    Flirting is not a form of cheating. IMO I don't flirt when I have a significant other or when I was married, but it would have not been cheating if I chose to do it. For the record, most of the women that I flirt back and forth with on this site are married. I don't know what that means. lol
  • BikerKevin67
    BikerKevin67 Posts: 20 Member
    Yeppers, that's me.
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Here's a serious question. If you're married, engaged or have a BF or GF, why do you need to flirt? Just wondering. Flirting is a form of cheating.

    For me, flirting is not a form of cheating...but it IS a form of disrespect. Being nice (which is what most of the people I've seen here call flirting) is not. If I have a girlfriend...I don't flirt, but I'm still nice...just how it works.
  • BikerKevin67
    BikerKevin67 Posts: 20 Member
    Here's a serious question. If you're married, engaged or have a BF or GF, why do you need to flirt? Just wondering. Flirting is a form of cheating.

    For me, flirting is not a form of cheating...but it IS a form of disrespect. Being nice (which is what most of the people I've seen here call flirting) is not. If I have a girlfriend...I don't flirt, but I'm still nice...just how it works.

    Thank you and that's exactly my point. Flirting when you're married or have a GF/BF is just disrespectful to your partner.
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Here's a serious question. If you're married, engaged or have a BF or GF, why do you need to flirt? Just wondering. Flirting is a form of cheating.

    For me, flirting is not a form of cheating...but it IS a form of disrespect. Being nice (which is what most of the people I've seen here call flirting) is not. If I have a girlfriend...I don't flirt, but I'm still nice...just how it works.

    Thank you and that's exactly my point. Flirting when you're married or have a GF/BF is just disrespectful to your partner.

    But disrespect isn't cheating, first...and second, not everyone feels the way I do, which is ok.
  • jdploki70
    jdploki70 Posts: 343 Member
    We all want to flirt on here... just have to change your approach for the different girls you want to flirt with. :tongue:
    That really seems like a lot of effort
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    We all want to flirt on here... just have to change your approach for the different girls you want to flirt with. :tongue:
    That really seems like a lot of effort

    True story ^^^^^

    Personally, I HATE flirting online. It's literally like menu browsing at PF Changs, when you've only got a McDonalds budget.

    Not that it doesn't happen.../sigh, but only with someone I'd very much prefer to meet in person.
  • BikerKevin67
    BikerKevin67 Posts: 20 Member
    Here's a serious question. If you're married, engaged or have a BF or GF, why do you need to flirt? Just wondering. Flirting is a form of cheating.

    For me, flirting is not a form of cheating...but it IS a form of disrespect. Being nice (which is what most of the people I've seen here call flirting) is not. If I have a girlfriend...I don't flirt, but I'm still nice...just how it works.

    Thank you and that's exactly my point. Flirting when you're married or have a GF/BF is just disrespectful to your partner.

    But disrespect isn't cheating, first...and second, not everyone feels the way I do, which is ok.

    Good point. Okay, it's not cheating, but still disrespectful to your partner. Maybe cheating was a little too harsh to say. :)
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 1,799 Member
    Yeppers, that's me.

    Cool. No further questions, lol. Just getting to know my board mates.
  • samra2012
    samra2012 Posts: 715 Member
    You haven't met the right girls yet. Plus, this isn't called Meet Flirty Pals...
    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • AggieLu
    AggieLu Posts: 873 Member
    You haven't found the right type :tongue:
  • obolton756
    obolton756 Posts: 261 Member
    interesting thread.. i have never had anyone try to flirt with me on here... most are probably just here to be fit and healthy anyway!
  • Fockertots
    Fockertots Posts: 221 Member
    isn't there a saying that anything more than a handful is a waste?

    I've always hated that saying...
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    interesting thread.. i have never had anyone try to flirt with me on here... most are probably just here to be fit and healthy anyway!

    If you were a little older, and a hell of a lot closer, I'd be in line lol.
  • 115perfection
    115perfection Posts: 109 Member
    We flirt, just not with you.
  • BriskisGrl
    BriskisGrl Posts: 461 Member
    Here's a serious question. If you're married, engaged or have a BF or GF, why do you need to flirt? Just wondering. Flirting is a form of cheating.

    When did flirting become cheating?
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 1,799 Member
    interesting thread.. i have never had anyone try to flirt with me on here... most are probably just here to be fit and healthy anyway!

    How YOU doin'? :flowerforyou:
  • BikerKevin67
    BikerKevin67 Posts: 20 Member
    Yeppers, that's me.

    Cool. No further questions, lol. Just getting to know my board mates.

    :) Nice to meet you.
  • obolton756
    obolton756 Posts: 261 Member
    interesting thread.. i have never had anyone try to flirt with me on here... most are probably just here to be fit and healthy anyway!

    How YOU doin'? :flowerforyou:

    haha!! i am hearing joey's voice from friends in my head right now.. :P but thanks.. i am very flattered!
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    interesting thread.. i have never had anyone try to flirt with me on here... most are probably just here to be fit and healthy anyway!

    How YOU doin'? :flowerforyou:

    Back off blondy! I was first :).
  • nailqueen74
    nailqueen74 Posts: 38 Member
    Um, because people are here to get healthier not hookup.
  • CaseyP1207
    CaseyP1207 Posts: 148 Member
    whatever. people turned this question into something it wasn't meant to be. I can probably bench more than anyone on here can squat.
    Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand the winner for *kitten* of the Year goes to...............................
  • BikerKevin67
    BikerKevin67 Posts: 20 Member
    whatever. people turned this question into something it wasn't meant to be. I can probably bench more than anyone on here can squat.
    Aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaand the winner for *kitten* of the Year goes to...............................

    LOL! Good one!!!
  • BikerKevin67
    BikerKevin67 Posts: 20 Member
    Here's a serious question. If you're married, engaged or have a BF or GF, why do you need to flirt? Just wondering. Flirting is a form of cheating.

    When did flirting become cheating?

    I stated earlier that it wasn't cheating, just being disrespectful to your partner.
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