flirting bad?

Here's a serious question. If you're married, engaged or have a BF or GF, why do you need to flirt? Just wondering. Flirting is a form of cheating.

Um...wow...flirting is not cheating in any way. It is also not disrespectful as long as your are honest and it's all harmless fun. I've been married for almost 10 years and both my husband and I are flirts. It's all innocent fun and we NEVER take it too far...but it is just the type of people we are....we are fun and friendly and love people.

Maybe you and your significant other feel it is cheating or disrespectful, but that's not the way most people see it.

As the old saying goes, "to each his own". Me being me just thinks it's very disrespectful. If you and the hubby enjoy it and are fine with it, have a blast.

why is it only a handful of girls on here want to return my creepy pm's fishing for spank bank fodder?

Fixed it.

Dying. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Probably because a lot of us are in monogamous relationships and are uninterested in flirting.

We're not here to flirt. If someone tried that on here, I'd be creeped out.

The OP messaged me to tell me I was hot, then asked why I didn't tell him he was hot. I told him that judging by apparent ego he didn't need to hear it from anyone else, tells himself enough.

What is it with guys and creepy messages lately. My profile motto used to be "eating dirty, training dirty, but you won't find me riding dirty" which I thought was hilarious until I got a pm " you're my favorite dirty girl. Yes you're so dirty..." it was the girl's side of a phone sex call.

Oh man, on second thought, these PMs always make me laugh. Hard. So keep em coming.

ETA: throw in some 195 lb (1.3xbodyweight) bench presses for me. I wish I knew my 1RM so I could give you a more impressive number lol or if I was bigger doing 1.3xbw, I could totally win.

This guy messages me to tell me I was hot, then asked why I didn't tell him he was hot. I told him that judging by apparent ego he didn't need to hear it from anyone else, tells himself enough.

What is it with guys and creepy messages lately. My profile motto used to be "eating dirty, training dirty, but you won't find me riding dirty" which I thought was hilarious until I got a pm " you're my favorite dirty girl. Yes you're so dirty..." it was the girl's side of a phone sex call.

Oh man, on second thought, these PMs always make me laugh. Hard. So keep em coming.

ETA: throw in some 195 lb (1.3xbodyweight) bench presses for me. I wish I knew my 1RM so I could give you a more impressive number lol or if I was bigger doing 1.3xbw, I could totally win.

omg that totally made ME laugh too, ha! gross! and hilarious

interesting thread.. i have never had anyone try to flirt with me on here... most are probably just here to be fit and healthy anyway!

If you were a little older, and a hell of a lot closer, I'd be in line lol.

Dammit man... U r hot for a 99 year old! I think she'd need to be a lot older

Every woman's dream

Have you tried PMing them pictures of your junk? Chicks here dig it man.

Especially when the junk is covered in feathers. *swoon*

Am I the only one who wants to know how much he benches?

Have you tried PMing them pictures of your junk? Chicks here dig it man.

Thanks for making me shoot yogurt out of my nose... that was cool. Probably real good for the sinus infection. :grumble:

Well you haven't met me and my friends yet. Lol !

ummm......because it's neither the time nor place. In real life, I'll flirt with practically any guy around my age, but on here....this site isn't for flirting, it's to improve on myself and focus on purely me. If it sounds selfish, so be it, but for me, this site is solely for me to focus on my health and weight.

So what do you bench?

Because it's vaguely 290-ish to receive a random PM from a random guy saying how "h-o-t" I am. Written just like that lol.

290 is CA penal code for sex offender sorry...:laugh:

Your profile said you want to look like Sarah Connor.
Are you talking about the first one who got capped?
"knock knock knock"
"Can I help you?"
"Sarah Connor?"
"Yes?"
Bang bang.

We all want to flirt on here... just have to change your approach for the different girls you want to flirt with.

That really seems like a lot of effort

Agreed...How about chloroform?