Hesitant about accepting friends requests from young men

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GlenWalterGal
GlenWalterGal Posts: 85 Member
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I just got a friends request from an 18 year old young man. I am a female in my sixties and this has me a little baffled. Anyone?
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  • pinuplove
    pinuplove Posts: 12,874 Member
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    You're never required to accept. I've had some requests that sort of creeped me out, so I declined. Easy as that :smile:
  • Jules2Be
    Jules2Be Posts: 2,267 Member
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    I like the young ones...
  • lickmybaconcakes
    lickmybaconcakes Posts: 1,063 Member
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    Usually it's the other way around :laugh:
  • DaughterOfTheMostHighKing
    DaughterOfTheMostHighKing Posts: 1,436 Member
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    lol!!! I begin by telling them, You know I am older than your mom, right? lol!!! I am 47! :)
  • Jules2Be
    Jules2Be Posts: 2,267 Member
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    Usually it's the other way around :laugh:

    hey...i stalked you for your bacon cup not your Abs..they were a bonus.
  • nikkiprickett
    nikkiprickett Posts: 412 Member
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    This is a place for encouragement, I accept all friend requests, you never know who you may help or who may help you
  • lickmybaconcakes
    lickmybaconcakes Posts: 1,063 Member
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    Usually it's the other way around :laugh:

    hey...i stalked you for your bacon cup not your Abs..they were a bonus.

    :flowerforyou:
  • TrophyWifeSass
    TrophyWifeSass Posts: 490 Member
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    Usually it's the other way around :laugh:

    *he's 21 Laurie, 21, DAMN...walks away*
  • croberson8711
    croberson8711 Posts: 67
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    I say add him and if he does end up making you uncomfortable, delete him.
  • smileybooliz
    smileybooliz Posts: 193 Member
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    Maybe he's just looking for a "safe" friend. Someone he can feel comfortable with and not feel the pressure of sharing his struggles of his weight with a girl considered more of a peer. You could always accept and see if it seems ok and if it seems weird you could delete him.
  • Jules2Be
    Jules2Be Posts: 2,267 Member
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    Usually it's the other way around :laugh:

    *he's 21 Laurie, 21, DAMN...walks away*

    i know...it hurts.
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
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    I just got a friends request from an 18 year old young man. I am a female in my sixties and this has me a little baffled. Anyone?

    You can always decline. There is no rule about always accepting. There is no contract between you and him/anyone else that you HAVE to accept the friend request. Neither is there a contract that you have to keep anyone on your list once you accept.
  • california_peach
    california_peach Posts: 1,858 Member
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    Usually it's the other way around :laugh:

    Excuse me, I sent you a FR because of your massive intellect.
  • ElementalEscapee
    ElementalEscapee Posts: 552 Member
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    Uhh...............................why does it have you baffled? Shockingly, guys can be friends with girls too. :huh:
  • victoria4321
    victoria4321 Posts: 1,719 Member
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    Maybe he wants to be a cub
  • kris_joanna
    kris_joanna Posts: 7 Member
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    I think it's fine, but don't do it if you are not comfortable. I think we are all here to encourage & support each other. If you accept him as a friend & he does something you are not OK with, you can always remove him. Simple as that. :)
  • GasMasterFlash
    GasMasterFlash Posts: 2,206 Member
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    WORK IT!

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  • Edwin_S
    Edwin_S Posts: 440 Member
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    I like the young ones...


    YESSSSS!
  • littlepinkhearts
    littlepinkhearts Posts: 1,055 Member
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    Maybe he wants to be a cub

    :laugh:
  • littlepinkhearts
    littlepinkhearts Posts: 1,055 Member
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    WORK IT!

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    omG I LOVE this!!

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