I NEED SUPPORT FEELING ON EDGE

while you're at the store, get some whole wheat tortillas. Don't fry yours - make a quesadilla instead!

Go to the store and buy the oil. You don't need to eat them, maybe you need to go on a walk when she's making them. You can be strong. Tell your wife how you are feeling too. My husband sometimes doesn't understand the little things that bug me, but he won't get it unless I tell him. Good luck!

I'm scared of her, and fear that she's trying to hurt me.

Fear is healthy. Her being supportive is not. Tell her you will not make the unhealthy food anymore. You will make a healthy meal. If she wants that unhealthy she can go get it someplace else. BTW How much life insurance you got? (Are you worth more dead then alive, wink wink )

As you go to the store stop by a place that serves salads with some protein and eat it there or go to the park. Put your cell phone on mute. Then buy her the oil (a small one). Go home and give it to her. Let her eat all the fried tocos by herself. Meanwhile you are out of the house. Don't smell the tacos, don't see the tacos, don't hear the invitation and don't tempt yourself. Go to an arcade and play for 2 hours, enough time for her to clear the table and kitchen. Another place to go is to the park and pray "grateful prayers" for everything and everyone..... It really works wonders. No wishful (bad) thinking! That is very stressful and will provoke eating.

Tacos lol no seriously just avoid it. :laugh:

Just spray windex on the tacos.

And in her face, whilst shouting, "In your face!".

This will practically guarantee no future tacos.

problem solved.

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I tried, guys. I really did. Off to get the oil now. I can already feel my arteries clogging. This makes me so angry, and sad. I really wish that she would show me that she loved me -- even a little bit. It's killing me -- figuratively and literally.

Well, since you have to give in, just call it a cheat day and then it's OK! Also, make sure you eat it all before 6pm. And if you're really worried, cut some arm holes and a head hole and wear a garbage bag after to sweat out the oils.

Tell her fine, but that you will make your own. STEAM the tortillas, add what YOU want to the taco, no cheese, sour cream, that kind of stuff. Onions, cilantro and hot sauce is the way to go.

You guys can share meals, but you can make your own healthier version of the meal for yourself.

^^This. Good idea!

This again!

She's trying to kill you. GET OUT OF THE HOUSE NOW.

LOL

Tell her she can go to hell with her little corn tortillas ... insist on flour ... the really big ones ... and demand your weight in cheese be put over the fried meat. And don't forget the sour cream. B*tch clearly doesn't know how to make a taco.

No need to be rude. Tacos are made with corn. When you use flour, it's a burrito -- regardless of size.

You're right ... flour equals a burrito ... guess I'm just hungry and fried tortillas with meat and cheese sounds damn tasty right about now ... the bigger, the better. Tell you what, if you're this conflicted about it, I could come over and eat what your wife has prepared in your place. Now be a dear and get the oil, I'm hungry. :flowerforyou:

Nice reply, very supportive and gives concrete, usable advice