I NEED SUPPORT FEELING ON EDGE

Yes. Right around this time each week, my husband gives me side-eye and suggests dessert. I try giving him sex instead, but then he just wants both.

Negotiation fail.

You + fresh strawberries + Lite whipped topping.

Everyone wins.

Have you at all changed your life insurance policy? Or has she asked you to sign something without telling you what it was? Tread lightly I foresee a hit coming up

Who says she cant have them and you have unfried ones or something different to eat?

My hubby and I eat the same dinner most nights ( healthy low carb).....but he's not on a diet I am. So, there are nights that I make my hubby what ever he wants....and I can't eat it. That is only because it's my choice to get thin & healthy, or go back to my old habits!! He also eats chips, & ice cream in the evenings. I have a apple, and I'm okay with it. When we go on vacation I will feel so good wearing my swim suit this year....I can't wait!!

Tell her fine, but that you will make your own. STEAM the tortillas, add what YOU want to the taco, no cheese, sour cream, that kind of stuff. Onions, cilantro and hot sauce is the way to go.

You guys can share meals, but you can make your own healthier version of the meal for yourself.

^^This. Good idea!

I totally agree. Maybe she knows what she is doing, maybe she is sabotaging you because she knows she deosn't have the dedication to eat healthy. Buy the oil, but remember to talk to her about it. You NEED to inform her how important this is to you. If she loves you, she will try to understand and be more supportive.

where's the beef?

She could be fearful if you will leave her or want to if you succeed. Talk to her though, she won’t know how you feel unless you do. She may have no idea what she is putting you thru.

Eat them up.
Have you heard of Alli? I suggest you might want to try that. It will help your with excess fat you are consuming.

I sympathize. I was told that tonight is pizza and movie night. It is beautiful outside and I don't want to eat pizza and sit around on my butt. I suggested an alternate plan that includes getting out of the house first then doing something fun (shopping). The reply was a little hesitant, but when I suggested there was something in it for her, she agreed. I also get a lot of food presents that are hard for me to resist: ice cream, chocolate, etc. I've asked her to stop and she still hasn't. It is not intentional sabotage but fear that you are changing and she is not. Maybe she worries about what that means over the long term as you continue to change. No one wants to get left behind but only she can take the first steps to change.

As for the gifts of food I'm just going to have to make a statement by throwing them away. It will make her mad but I bet it will also stop her behavior because she hates to waste food.

Maybe it's your profile picture causing her to make an attempt on your life with fried tacos. Just a thought.