Too big to exercise?

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  • marylouise123
    marylouise123 Posts: 127 Member
    I started this journey at 295.. I started out with 20 minutes of Leslie Sansone walk away the pounds workouts.. Now I am up to at least an hour. Plus I do Wii boxing, Wii Tennis & I have several DVD's I do.. I even have done some Tae Bo & biggest loser DVD's.. Start small & work your way up.. Walking of any kind is a great start..I am down 33 pounds & 34.5 i nches so I know something is working... I have noticed alot on here that people jump right into the hard stuff & get discouraged when they can't do it.. Sometimes it works for people.. I have a bad knee so I started out with what worked for me.. I would rather do a 30 minute walking workout then try to do something that I just can't complete.. When I get more weight off then I will try that stuff.. The important thing is to move.. I do more yard work now, clean more... I know to some people this stuff is not a workout - but your still burning calories.. Good luck....
  • Yes2HealthyAriel
    Yes2HealthyAriel Posts: 453 Member
    Oh wow I thought I was the only one, makes me feel a bit better. When I first started in April I could only workout doing jogging in place or a fitness video or step aerobics for a total of 2-3 minutes at a time. What I did, was do what I could then rest, then all through out the day when I noticed I had been sitting or being inactive for an hour or more I would get up and do another 2-3 minutes of exercise. I continued to do this until I could do more. One thing I could do without getting out of breath was going for slow walks. As you go along you will build up your endurance. I can now jog in place for 9-15 minutes straight. For me a big factor is humidity. I am originally from Oregon and still have not gotten used to the high humidity in the south. On high humidity days I can not go as long and get winded a lot faster. Just take it easy and do what you can and never give up. If you would like to add me for support go ahead and add me as a friend. Hope my info was helpful.
  • vim_n_vigor
    vim_n_vigor Posts: 4,089 Member
    Like you already said, see your doctor.
    I had a lot less to lose than you when I started. I started by walking. At first it was only 5-10 minutes at a time. I was winded, tired and sore. But I kept going. When it started to get easier I added 5 more minutes of walking, or a flight of stairs. I was winded, tired and sore... see where this is going? A year later I am doing 45 minutes of Zumba or running a day (6 days a week) plus an hour or more of walking. I lift weights and feel so much better. It takes time. If you have never really exercised in your lift, those videos are going to be pretty demotivating in my opinion because they kind of assume that you are already at an ok fitness level or better. Turn on some tunes and walk in place!
  • BrianSharpe
    BrianSharpe Posts: 9,248 Member
    I'm with the others in "talk to your doctor first" but I'm pretty sure that he or she will suggest that you start with something low impact and relatively low intensity, such as walking, water aerobics, stationary bike etc. as these will burn calories and, probably more importantly, improve your cardiovascular health, lipids etc.

    You could also probably start some light strength training. There are a bazillion different exercise you can do using dumbbells, which are relatively inexpensive and don't take up a lot of space in your home.

    The key is starting slow and progressing at a reasonably conservative rate and (really important) being consistent (ie walking 3 to 5 times weekly or more more and strength - even a few minutes at at time - 3 times per week)
  • EDesq
    EDesq Posts: 1,527 Member
    I have a problem where 30seconds - 2 minutes into a workout I feel like I am DYING. I've heard several theories: I'm not breathing right, I just have to get my endurance up, and then that I'm physically too large right now to do heavy cardio. Is there any truth to this? I've seen several bloggers who were trying to lose 100+ lbs that didn't start an exercise regimen until they'd lost about half of that so I was wondering if it's true. I certainly don't want to use that as a cop-out, but I also don't want to endanger myself exercising in a way that isn't good for me. Any thoughts? Or should I speak with a doctor about it?


    An exercise routine is not something that you have to do at one time. Break it up into Manageable segments over the course of the day. You will be surprised how much just a little activity helps a very large person. As you progress in your wt loss increase your routine and toning efforts.
  • NotGoddess
    NotGoddess Posts: 1,198 Member
    Definitely make an appt to get checked out by your doctor. You don't want some underlying issue affecting you that you don't know about. If you know, then you can work around it.

    Like others have said, start walking. Let your body tell you for how long or how fast. Rest when needed. LRR. You'll build up cardio endurance and soon walking a mile or two or three won't be a big deal-maybe not easy, but definitely do-able. Then look into doing the c25k if your doctor gave you the green light. You'll already know you can walk that far, and it'll make the first few weeks easier in perspective if not in doing. :)

    Just remember your goal right now is just progress of any kind.
  • foxbat2828
    foxbat2828 Posts: 391 Member
    I started at around 295 and could barely do more than about 5 minutes on a treadmill when I started back in November. Last week I did 99 minutes on the elliptical. It can certainly be done, but realize that those first few weeks, you are not going to necessarily be running a marathon. :smile:

    Start out small. Walk. Each day add a little something different TO YOUR LIFESTYLE as opposed to your exercise routine ... although you can certainly add to your exercise routine too. For example, one thing I started doing after I started my routines, is I started walking down stairs. I know that sounds strange, but instead of taking the elevator from the third floor down, I would walk down the stairs. It put some extra steps in my day so that outside of my workouts I was getting to add some activity. Instead of parking right next to the elevator doors in the parking garage, I started parking a couple of spots down, so that I walked a few extra steps ... after a couple of days, I'd park one or two spots further away. Eventually, I started getting more and more stamina while working out and that transformed into starting to go UP the stairs at work. I find now that I take the stairs all of the time instead of using elevators.

    This will all come to you, but the biggest enemy is time because people often get frustrated because they don't see change quick enough ... but it will come if you can wait it out. It will take time with some small, even miniscule, results early on, but then one day you'll notice that adding an extra minute or a 1/2 degree incline on the treadmill doesn't feel like anything at all. At that point, the light goes on and the burden gets lighter ... I promise.
  • kgprice11
    kgprice11 Posts: 749 Member
    My friend who has lost 99 lbs. so far actually got a fitness trainer because it was to hard to workout alone and too hard to keep motivated, therefore he hired a trainer at his gym and started eating healthier and so forth.
  • shar140
    shar140 Posts: 1,158 Member
    Good idea to talk to your healthcare provider, and lots of walking to build up your endurance!

    I started at 260+ lbs (double the weight I should be!), and I couldn't even walk around my block (not even a mile!) or up just 1 flight of stairs to my boss's office (SO.Embarassing.). I eventually built up to that, plus adding a lap around another block, then adding more laps around that smaller block (I didn't want to venture too far from home, lol). I also found a women's only gym that had a circuit (similar to curves, but had more equipment - cardio, weights, etc), so I'd do that plus the recumbent bike. Lots of walking, like others mentioned! Split it up too, like others said. I would walk at lunch sometimes (I kept a pair of sneakers at my desk), and walk in the evenings.

    That was 75+ lbs ago. Last weekend I ran a 5k in 35 minutes. You'll get there. :flowerforyou:
  • mello
    mello Posts: 817 Member
    First of all, like almost all here have stated....consult your doctor to be cleared.

    I was 328 when I started and I have been doing cardio from day one. I felt like I was about to pass out as well, but after being cleared from doc, I realized this was just due to my weight and previous inactivity.

    I started walking on the treadmill for 15 mins at a time.
    2.0 for the first two mins
    2.5 for the next two mins
    3.0 for one min
    Then I started that 5 min interval all over again. You will be suprised how fast you are able to adjust your speed up, increase your time and add incline.

    I still do intervals, I only do 30 mins a day but I make it count. If I was told I had to exercise 2 hrs a day to get results I would have quit long ago!!!!

    Oh, I also strength train two times a week as well.

    All my best to you!! :flowerforyou:
  • 3ofmine
    3ofmine Posts: 136 Member
    I don't know about anyone else but I can tell you that when I started I was 304lbs and I couldn't exercise very long AT ALL. What i started doing was going on a short walk. There is a lake on the opposite side of the road about about two tenths of a mile and I started out walking down to the the lake and sitting down to rest then walking back home. After a little bit I was able to walk down to the lake and back that is when I started walking on the gazelle every night and going for hikes with my husband and kids. At first I had to stop every 10th of a mile but my tolerance just kept building up and up. I'm now doing 2 mile hikes(walk/run combo) and I can do it with only 1 or 2 rest stops which are when my kids want to stop to play in the water for a few minutes. The rest of the hike is me waiting on them now instead of them waiting on me! You just have to do what you can do but do it several times a day and every few days add 5 mins...it worked for me even though I can't say it will work for you it's an option for you to try. Good luck!
    Angel
  • supergirl6
    supergirl6 Posts: 224 Member
    You are not too big to exercise. I hate when I hear someone say this. It's just not true.

    I started at 330lbs and at first it was horrible. HORRIBLE. I wanted to do more than my body could physically handle, and you know, that's fine. I did clear it with my doctor before I started, which I recommend doing, and going in every once in a while to double check you're still doing ok (and hopefully, you're starting to improve your physical health.)

    Once you get the all clear to work out, then take it slow and do what you can but expect you'll feel like you're dying sometimes. It will feel that way less and less as time goes on.

    What I found to work for me (and this is just what worked for me, take what you want from it that might work for you) is that I started out going 5 days a week. It's a lot, but I found I improved very quickly in the beginning and got through the "I'm dying!" phase in about 3 weeks. I also did research on weight lifting and started doing weight lifting to strengthen my knees, which were causing me pain. About 3 weeks into working on my knees, the pain went away and I was able to do a lot more cardio.

    I used the elliptical and the bike at first, then after about a month and a half I started walking on the treadmill too. At about 2 months in I started jogging. I could only jog for about 20 seconds at first, but I've worked up to where I run every other minute for 25-30 minutes. I also completed by first 5K in April, about 5 months into working out.

    Take it slow and tell yourself you'll be able to do more soon. See your doctor regularly to make sure you're still doing ok. Good luck!
  • finchase
    finchase Posts: 174
    I started out at 355. My blood pressure was out of control, and my knees and right hip had gotten so bad that I could barely sit in my desk chair at work all day, and walking was quite painful. To make matters worse, thanks to the other problems and some not so great walking shoes, I shortly thereafter developed plantar fascitis, which was quite painful.

    My doctor told me not to exercise at all the first month, just diet and anti-inflamatories for my knee and hip problems. I lost 8 pounds the first month and my knees improved a little, so the second month he told me to start walking. I took my dog for walks, or rather she towed me in her impatient little wake. I couldn't do much more than half a loop around my neighborhood, but I stil lost about 14 pounds that second month. I was able to increase my walking time a little more each week, although the plantar fascitis was a real problem until I invested in some really high end, high support athletic shoes. Hot weather drove me to a local gym, and I was able to increase my exercise with the different cardio machines and the weight machines. My weight loss really picked up then.

    So that's my long way of saying that as long as you don't have joint problems that will be aggravated by exercise, you aren't too big. Do what you can do at first; just do SOMETHING. Walking is great, as is swimming if you have access to a pool. You don't have to start out with Zumba or spinning or more advanced things like that. Just try and do a little bit more each week, and you'll get there.

    Good luck on your journey!
  • jcmartin0313
    jcmartin0313 Posts: 574 Member
    I began running when I was still 375lbs down from 394 and it was very tough. I could only run 1/4 of a mile before I was spent and I hurt terribly thereafter. I am by no means advocating my approach, but if you search for obese runners, cyclists and swimmers the blogosphere is replete with personal journeys of people much bigger than you or I who are now fit athletes. The key, as I say in my blog is to just begin and keep on beginning each day.

    One other thing to consider is that all athletes have to endure a sucktastic warm up period. For the first minutes or miles, exercise is hard for almost everyone. I have a friend who runs the Boston who endures this for 4 or 5 miles, but once you break through this period something magical happens and you just keep going. For you it may be a few minutes and then you can go for a few more minutes, but in time that will improve.

    I am now down 112 pounds and am competing in my first sprint triathlon this Saturday so just begin and keep beginning each day. You are NOT too big to exercise, but we have all been more than big enough to die from not beginning!
  • Scarlettbird50
    Scarlettbird50 Posts: 45 Member
    ditto on those who mention aquafit type classes. I do these because it doesn't hurt my knees and I don't get all red and sweaty and feel like I could die like I do in regular classes. I hope to build up some endurance this way and drop a bit of weight then hope i can do other things. And walking is great too, dress in layers!!! keep on going you can do this.
  • TexanThom
    TexanThom Posts: 778
    I started out at 393 lbs at 50 years old and lost 53 lbs this year. Start slow and work up to it. Good luck.
  • Geminieve24
    Geminieve24 Posts: 364 Member
    When I was at my heaviest back in 08 I felt that way. I weighed 245 pounds. My knees ached all the time! I lost the first initial 30 pounds from pushing through it. My treadmill was my friend. I would walk/jog for thirty minutes and then gradually increased the length of time to about 45 minutes and found myself jogging more than walking. Look at the people starting out on the Biggest Loser...many of them have a lot more than 100 pounds to lose and they worked out for long periods of time.

    All things are possible. You may feel like your dying. Look at it as weakness leaving your body!
  • Mommy2Avaj
    Mommy2Avaj Posts: 140 Member
    I started on here about a month ago. I started at 350 lbs. I'm at 339 now. I started walking 30 minutes at a slow but steady pace. Now I can walk a brisk pace for 60 minutes and do 30 minutes of dancing without feeling like I'm gonna keel over lol. Start slow and work your way up.
  • NNAhuja
    NNAhuja Posts: 669 Member
    I would definately say talk to a doctor before starting any excercise program.
    One of my mother's friends, I'm not sure what she weighed, but was very out of shape.
    She did this workout, very low impact aerobics geared to seniors called "SIT AND BE FIT". All the excercises were done from a chair and would just get her moving. I agree with another poster and say walking would be a great excercise. Another idea may be water excercising, swimming and workout classes.
    I personally think you just have to get your endurance up. With time and hard work, I know you can do it!
  • BigMech
    BigMech Posts: 472 Member
    I would talk to your doctor, but I started exercising at 490lbs. I started off just walking for a few months. At first just a mile, and built up to 3-4 miles. Then I joined a gym and started using the ellipse machines and exercises bikes there and lifting weights. I would also invest in a heart rate monitor, so you can really see how hard you are working.
  • Sorry to repeat what most have been saying, but, yes...talk to your doctor first.
    I was 300 lbs and a 10 minute walk felt like a death crawl to me. But when it turned into a 20 minute walk, I was super jazzed about it! The little things will add up and you will build your endurance. But for me when I tried to do too much of anything I would burn myself out at the beginning. I lost the majority of my weight by walking. But any little exercise will help! Wishing you the best!
  • DaleArden
    DaleArden Posts: 26
    About this time last year, I couldn't even walk for a mile without being desperately out of breath and having to take a break. I built up my ability to walk very slowly--I'd take a book to the local park and walk until I started to feel discomfort, then stop and read for 15 minutes, then walk a little more. As I got to know where the benches/sitting areas were, I started to walk to the next bench along, and so on, until I was able to walk an entire circuit of the park. It took a while, but I did it and stayed mostly out of discomfort. Thanks to the fact that I did this--and did it slowly--I was able to start going to the gym in February. Again, I started out super slowly (level 1 on the elliptical for 5 minutes almost killed me!) but now I'm up to level 10, and I do at least 90 minutes of intense cardio every single day. I've even started running--albeit much more slowly than even Couch to 5K would like. I'd suggest you take it really slowly and carefully. My mantra has been never to work out so much that I'm in pain--discomfort, yes, a healthy burn is good, but I don't ever want to be so sore that I can't move the next day. Be gentle with yourself, increase your distance by incremental amounts and you'll be amazed how fat you get. Good luck!
  • mamasyd
    mamasyd Posts: 80 Member
    First, let me add my voice to those saying that it would be best to consult your doctor first. I began my journey at 385 pounds and was in very poor cardiac health. I did no exercise at all until I had lost the first 60 pounds and been cleared by my cardiologist to begin. (Actually, I didn't start exercising until I had lost about 80 pounds.)

    When I first started, I used the Biggest Loser Jump Start DVD. It had 10 minute workouts with modifications on many of the exercises. I could only do about 7-8 of the 10 minutes initially - and most of that was the modified versions! Although the DVD is designed to be used for four weeks, with each week basically doubling the amount from the week before, I stayed on the 'first week' for about four months. Eventually I could do the entire ten minute workout without having to modify many of them. At that point I moved on to the second week!

    It is a very slow process. The weight wasn't gained quickly and it won't come off quickly (that is, it shouldn't - especially if you want it to be a lasting change). Just keep at it. Don't give up - even if two minutes is all you can handle! Just do that two minutes every day until you find it can be three, and then four.

    The truth is that I still don't love exercising. I have not become a "fitness junkie" like so many others that I have read about. My greater joy is being able to have an active lifestyle, burning calories through things like serving at my church and playing with my grandchildren. Yes, I do have an elliptical and an exercise bike - they both get use, but not daily!!
  • ninerbuff
    ninerbuff Posts: 49,030 Member
    Exercise can be done by anyone who can PHYSICALLY do it. Problem is that many think they should be doing what everyone else is. You do exercise that is FIT for you. If it's walking to start with, then that's what you start with.

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  • sweetiemimila
    sweetiemimila Posts: 28 Member
    Hi hunnie. Well I agree with others about getting a doctor's opinion first because you never know what is going on within your body. I don't know how much you weigh, but I am 390. I walk a couple of miles on the treadmill everyday if possible; I lift weights; and do a couple of cardio dvds at home with the shortest one being 46 minutes. I also try to jump rope, do situps, and crunches. In my opinion, I don't think anyone is too big to not exercise. We can always start somewhere. I think that once we do get so big sometimes and not use to the exercise, our muscles and bones tend to get accustomed to not moving so often. So when we finally do start again our muscles start to hurt for instance back hurting, legs hurting, and shortness of breath from all of the weight. I used to sit down and give up when I got in pain, but I know now that if I quit everytime it gets tough or hard I am never going to know how strong I really am or get to where I want to be. Gaining weight is easy, but losing weight is where all the sweat, pain, tears, and hard work comes in. But good luck on your journey. Remember you are strong and can do anything you put your mind too. Take Care xoxo
  • embersfallen
    embersfallen Posts: 534 Member
    Defintally ask your Doctor!

    Also though, if he/she gives the go ahead...from someone who started @ a very large size...

    I started TurboJam when I was 337...and would start with the intro workout...and then moved up to the 20 min, and went from there. She has a good modifer, so I did what that person did. I now can do an hour of Zumba or TurboFire etc... :) Start slow, videos are good, because you can pause, or go back and no one sees you ;). You can do it! I have a knee I've had surgery on, and bad ankles I wear wraps on....and have still been able to lose! Walking is also very good just to get yourself moving... or look for an exercise bike etc @ goodwill....anything to get yourself started will have an impact! Exercise bands or even an under the desk elliptical you could sit in a chair to use would be less stress on your body. Before you know it you will be able to more on to more strenuous workouts. I went from a couch potato to actually being addicted to working out. Something I NEVER thought would EVER happen!
  • mogletdeluxe
    mogletdeluxe Posts: 623 Member
    I started at 224lb and knew I couldn't throw myself into an energetic exercise regime as I'd be going from being sat on my bum to sweating like a demon.

    I started small - go to the gym three times a week with a routine consisting of 15 minutes walking uphill on the treadmill, then 20 minutes at a medium pace on the crosstrainer, 15 minutes at a medium pace on the bike, then 5 minutes cooldown on the treadmill - walking, no incline. That was enough to get me sweating good and proper!

    I'll admit, it was frustrating - I wanted to throw myself into it and get that weight off me NOW. But it doesn't work like that, unfortunately - slow and steady wins the race. I didn't really base my exercise increase on weight, rather on how fit I was feeling. I upped it slowly - 10 more minutes on the crosstrainer here, 10 more minutes on the bike there.

    I can echo other poster's sentiments about swimming; it was great for when my joints felt like they were taking a pounding. Even the gentlest laps did me the world of good.

    You can do it, honestly - it's just having the combination of grit and patience. Good luck :)
  • Creamshakes
    Creamshakes Posts: 38 Member
    Personally, I'm starting small because of my size. Some things really are just too much for me at the current time thanks to being a smoker and also starting off at 330lbs. I'm 290 now, so, I'm doing light cardio and yoga.

    I reccomend TTap, Walk Away The Lbs and yoga. I fall a lot with the yoga but admittedly, it's still kinda fun...
  • iplayoutside19
    iplayoutside19 Posts: 2,304 Member
    Thanks for all the responses! I'll definitely see a doctor soon to see what I should be doing. I've tried a variety of things, never lasting more than a day or two on each: 30 day shred, couch to 5k plan, various workout videos. I think I'm trying to do too much too fast because I never exercised AT ALL. I'm going to start just walking and building up my endurance for other things.

    Similar to what I did. I started by trying to do all the stuff I did in HS. Needless to say trying to do the same stuff I did 70lbs lighter and 11 years younger didn't work out very well. I decided I needed to start at square one, and work up from there. I walked to the mailbox, then to the end of the block, then over to the other block and to the end of that. Then one day I felt like I might want to start running. So I ran as far as I could...which wasn't very far. Then I did C25K. Etc, etc.

    It takes time. But when you reach a goal, you'll look back and be proud of yourself for coming that far. And other people who know your story will be proud of you.
  • Leslie85
    Leslie85 Posts: 265 Member
    Thanks for all the responses! I'll definitely see a doctor soon to see what I should be doing. I've tried a variety of things, never lasting more than a day or two on each: 30 day shred, couch to 5k plan, various workout videos. I think I'm trying to do too much too fast because I never exercised AT ALL. I'm going to start just walking and building up my endurance for other things.

    I think you nailed it here. See the dr, make sure you are cleared but then start slow. If you have not been exercising walking is a darn good stepping stone to the road to fitness. Good luck on your journey.

    Yep, you did nail it. The first time I did 30 Day Shred I thought I was going to throw up....and I'm 115 lbs, in "ok" shape, and just wanting to tone up. Take it easy at first...walking sounds like a great start.
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