Tall girls and stilettos

thefrahmers
thefrahmers Posts: 44
edited December 22 in Chit-Chat
I'm 5'9'' and I absolutely love wearing heels! They make you 20 pounds slimmer in an instant! The only problem is me already being so tall.. I tend to make friends with really small people, lol. That makes me kind of self consious about my height..

What do you guys think when you see a really tall girl in a pair of killer heels?
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  • thefrahmers
    thefrahmers Posts: 44
    bumbidi bump :)
  • lucystrut
    lucystrut Posts: 27 Member
    im the same! im 5 ft 8 and like my heels 4inch minimum. feel like a giant sometimes tho!
  • laxwyo
    laxwyo Posts: 192 Member
    I'm 5'9'' and I absolutely love wearing heels! They make you 20 pounds slimmer in an instant! The only problem is me already being so tall.. I tend to make friends with really small people, lol. That makes me kind of self consious about my height..

    What do you guys think when you see a really tall girl in a pair of killer heels?

    My wife is the same height as u. I'm just slightly taller than her and I think, damn I feel short! Still sexy as hell though!
  • lifes_revenge
    lifes_revenge Posts: 49 Member
    5ft10 and my heels are always skyscraper. Though, i prefer a wedge or sturdy heel to a stilletto...less obvious. And my friends are all petite so i tend to look like some kind of amazonian haha

    Also, does anyone find they attract alot of older men and really short men???? I hate this!! :huh:
  • thefrahmers
    thefrahmers Posts: 44
    5ft10 and my heels are always skyscraper. Though, i prefer a wedge or sturdy heel to a stilletto...less obvious. And my friends are all petite so i tend to look like some kind of amazonian haha

    Also, does anyone find they attract alot of older men and really short men???? I hate this!! :huh:

    hahaha, this! ^
  • NocturnalGirl
    NocturnalGirl Posts: 1,762
    Aww but you don't need to go through the same pain!! haha. You guys can look hot in flats too. I'm 5'4" and I loveeee my heels :)
  • thefrahmers
    thefrahmers Posts: 44
    Aww but you don't need to go through the same pain!! haha. You guys can look hot in flats too. I'm 5'4" and I loveeee my heels :)

    I know, but honestely. Heels does sooo much good for you. I've never found a pair of flats that did the same for me as heels..I wish :D
  • lifes_revenge
    lifes_revenge Posts: 49 Member
    And it's about how they make you feel!! It's not quite the same rocking it on the dancefloor in flats. You feel kind of "frumpy" :frown:
    Amittedly, after one too many the majority are less likely to take a tumble but i fall over sober so...lol
  • thefrahmers
    thefrahmers Posts: 44
    And it's about how they make you feel!! It's not quite the same rocking it on the dancefloor in flats. You feel kind of "frumpy" :frown:
    Amittedly, after one too many the majority are less likely to take a tumble but i fall over sober so...lol

    My favorite pair is a wedge and i think i could run a marathon in them. I just bought a new pair of skyscraper stilettos so i'll probably fall on my face too! haha
  • scarlettgeorgia4
    scarlettgeorgia4 Posts: 88 Member
    Im 5'11 and SO jel of girls who can wear heels - im way to self-conscious, i feel like a man in drag in them. :(
  • lifes_revenge
    lifes_revenge Posts: 49 Member
    haha i don't wear them with trousers, they have to be on show or i feel kinda butch too lol I'm very girl-shaped, god blessed me wth a waist....forgot the boobs and gave me some paunch but I guess he is male and therefore cannot be perfect...so aslong as I'm dressed abit girlie i don't mind.

    I get alot of my shoes from Office online and they only come in skyscraper so god the wedge is a must or my feet wouldn't last 10minutes haha
  • lifes_revenge
    lifes_revenge Posts: 49 Member
    Im 5'11 and SO jel of girls who can wear heels - im way to self-conscious, i feel like a man in drag in them. :(

    Lifes too short to be paranoid girl!! Grab those heels and make it a challenge to look for that tall fella next time your out :wink:
  • thefrahmers
    thefrahmers Posts: 44
    Im 5'11 and SO jel of girls who can wear heels - im way to self-conscious, i feel like a man in drag in them. :(

    Lifes too short to be paranoid girl!! Grab those heels and make it a challenge to look for that tall fella next time your out :wink:

    yeah, i keep telling myself that supermodels are always really tall, so maybe someone will confuse me for one? hah!
  • xarge
    xarge Posts: 484 Member
    5'11 and I definitely don't wear stilettos and avoid high heels as much as I can, I don't wear flats either. I love my feet, tendons and spine.
  • startinganewleaf
    startinganewleaf Posts: 56
    im 5'7 which isnt that tall compared to you guys i suppose but i feel freakishly tall when wearing heels because i usually tower over men..but now....i dont care and i like being tall!
  • scarlettgeorgia4
    scarlettgeorgia4 Posts: 88 Member
    haha i keep telling myself that when im skinny i will be able to wear heels because i'll look more feminine, but im not sure it will ever happen - i have broad shoulders :(
  • dollipop
    dollipop Posts: 379 Member
    I'm 5'9", and love my heels! The taller the better!
  • Jferg69
    Jferg69 Posts: 241 Member
    Tall women scare me and I don't know why.

    Not under 6ft but, those 6ft3 and over. I start to panic, etc
  • thefrahmers
    thefrahmers Posts: 44
    btw, thank you for all the great responses. I feel better knowing i'm not the only tall girl wearing heels ;)
  • lucylAnneMason
    lucylAnneMason Posts: 87
    One of my best friends (who is a girl) is 6'5 and a red head and she's gotten to the point where she's just not bothered, if you act like your not bothered there other people won't unless they have nothing better to do =) xx
  • laxwyo
    laxwyo Posts: 192 Member
    I find it odd that tall women that complain about short men would continue to wear heels. So, your man needs to be at least 4" taller than you or do you cut guys slack that are 0-4" shorter than when u wear heels?
  • thefrahmers
    thefrahmers Posts: 44
    I find it odd that tall women that complain about short men would continue to wear heels. So, your man needs to be at least 4" taller than you or do you cut guys slack that are 0-4" shorter than when u wear heels?

    Hah, this is a great point. Personally i don't expect a guy to be taller than me when i wear heels. I would be really nice, but not necessary at all.
  • 180farm
    180farm Posts: 230
    I'm jealous. My 4 in heels get me to 5' 6". I'm just trying to catch up to you gals. Can't get any higher as falling down because your heels are too high is never an attract look. If I was taller I'd still rock the heels, nothing like the perfect pair of stilettos to finish an outfit.
  • laxwyo
    laxwyo Posts: 192 Member
    I find it odd that tall women that complain about short men would continue to wear heels. So, your man needs to be at least 4" taller than you or do you cut guys slack that are 0-4" shorter than when u wear heels?

    Hah, this is a great point. Personally i don't expect a guy to be taller than me when i wear heels. I would be really nice, but not necessary at all.

    I was going to say... Lol if u already tall girls wanted a guy to be taller than you with heels, you might want to start hanging around basketball courts! Probably already hard enough to find a good guy that is at least your height. I do admit, I feel a limitless weird when my wife puts on tall heels. There are rules to some things right? I'm bald, I don't wear visors. Fat guys don't wear medium shirts and tall girls shouldn't wear 4" heels. Lol
  • thefrahmers
    thefrahmers Posts: 44
    I find it odd that tall women that complain about short men would continue to wear heels. So, your man needs to be at least 4" taller than you or do you cut guys slack that are 0-4" shorter than when u wear heels?

    Hah, this is a great point. Personally i don't expect a guy to be taller than me when i wear heels. I would be really nice, but not necessary at all.

    I was going to say... Lol if u already tall girls wanted a guy to be taller than you with heels, you might want to start hanging around basketball courts! Probably already hard enough to find a good guy that is at least your height. I do admit, I feel a limitless weird when my wife puts on tall heels. There are rules to some things right? I'm bald, I don't wear visors. Fat guys don't wear medium shirts and tall girls shouldn't wear 4" heels. Lol

    I guess that all depends on how you feel. I don't wear heels because i would like to be taller, i wear them cause i love beautiful shoes (and damn, heels are beautiful). It would be kind of unfair that just cause you're tall you have to limit your options. I guess what i'm really trying to say: you should be able to wear whatever you want and rock it. Theoretically speaking ;) I don't even know where guys came in the picture, lol
  • ChaseAlder
    ChaseAlder Posts: 804 Member
    I'm not super tall (I'm 5'7") but I still wear heels no matter how tall they are. If I were 4 inches taller, I'd still wear them. I don't have a problem with feeling taller than everyone else. And if anyone feels small next to me, that's not my insecurity, it's theirs, I stand proud.
  • lifes_revenge
    lifes_revenge Posts: 49 Member
    I find it odd that tall women that complain about short men would continue to wear heels. So, your man needs to be at least 4" taller than you or do you cut guys slack that are 0-4" shorter than when u wear heels?

    Hah, this is a great point. Personally i don't expect a guy to be taller than me when i wear heels. I would be really nice, but not necessary at all.

    I was going to say... Lol if u already tall girls wanted a guy to be taller than you with heels, you might want to start hanging around basketball courts! Probably already hard enough to find a good guy that is at least your height. I do admit, I feel a limitless weird when my wife puts on tall heels. There are rules to some things right? I'm bald, I don't wear visors. Fat guys don't wear medium shirts and tall girls shouldn't wear 4" heels. Lol

    I guess that all depends on how you feel. I don't wear heels because i would like to be taller, i wear them cause i love beautiful shoes (and damn, heels are beautiful). It would be kind of unfair that just cause you're tall you have to limit your options. I guess what i'm really trying to say: you should be able to wear whatever you want and rock it. Theoretically speaking ;) I don't even know where guys came in the picture, lol


    Agreed, I like beautiful shoes too :happy:


    And I'm sorry but yes i am heightest haha I don't mind too much if they are same height as me but in flats I really would like them to be at least my height but a little taller is best. I know men can't help if they weren't born with the tall gene but I find it freaky when I see really tall women with short men I want a guy who makes me feel small and feminine :wink:
  • Here2GetFit
    Here2GetFit Posts: 292
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  • thefrahmers
    thefrahmers Posts: 44
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    LOL, i don't know how to post any! Girls, please show us some beautiful shoes :P
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
    I find it odd that tall women that complain about short men would continue to wear heels. So, your man needs to be at least 4" taller than you or do you cut guys slack that are 0-4" shorter than when u wear heels?

    Hah, this is a great point. Personally i don't expect a guy to be taller than me when i wear heels. I would be really nice, but not necessary at all.

    I was going to say... Lol if u already tall girls wanted a guy to be taller than you with heels, you might want to start hanging around basketball courts! Probably already hard enough to find a good guy that is at least your height. I do admit, I feel a limitless weird when my wife puts on tall heels. There are rules to some things right? I'm bald, I don't wear visors. Fat guys don't wear medium shirts and tall girls shouldn't wear 4" heels. Lol
    No, there aren't rules about what kind of shoes tall women can wear, and if there were, it wouldn't be up to YOU to make the rules.
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