How can you tell a girl likes you...

Well, I think the first thing you need to address is your self confidence. No girl will ever like/love you if you don't love yourself. I know it's tough to move past what you used to look like but, that's just the point. It's what you USED to look like. That said, girls are pretty easy. If we like you, we spend time with you...simple as that. If we ask about your life beyond the generic "how are you?", if we touch you while we're speaking to you and all those silly signs you already know.

It's all in the gut for the most part. If you think she likes you, go for it. The most she can say is "no" and you're not really in a worse place than you were before.

With being so over weight for such a long time and having a failed marriage, how can you tell a woman likes you? Especially if your still shy and still see the old self?

if shes all up on your wall every single. day.

if shes constantly sending you PM's.. if she makes a point to comment on all your statuses
in "real life" its the same

goes out of her way to say HI

does little things for you

smiles a LOT when you are around

maybe touches you innocently..

she tells you.
she contacts you more than is necessary.
she doesnt break eye contact with you.
she giggles all the time when she talks to you.
she finds a way to touch you while she is talking to you.
you just know.

I find some way to touch a guy on the arm or I laugh at all the "funny" things he says lol. Also, I text him back right away when he texts me.

Good question but I'm sure if you have a female in mind she is probably diggin you man. I think its all in the way she looks at you.

She will do this to you:

We usually make it pretty obvious

yup...girls bring sammiches when they like a guy

wow just read your profile and seen your before and after pics seanson! Wow! you really are a true inspiration with how you have changed your life. If you put in even half as much effort as you have done with your fitness journey then this girl would be crazy not to like you!

Keep up the great work!

Dude, it took me a while when I was first on my own because I had been out of the game for 16 years. But, I picked it back up. But, it did take some time. Basically, here's how it goes. If you like her, throw her a bone or two, and see how she takes it. If she likes you, she'll laugh and show friendliness and be flirty. If she doesn't, or if she's not interested, just friendly, she'll act a little differently, she'll say something about her boyfriend or husband, or she'll use body language that closes her off or keeps her away from you sort of. Women have awesome body language. You just know by the way they lean in and talk to you, and when they laugh and really stupid things you say. If she doesn't like you in that way, she'll close up her body...no leaning in, maybe arms cross. Maybe she'll look around the room while you're talking to her, meaning she's not interested. They are pretty easy to read. Mainly, if they pay attention to you, you're in. But, you gotta move, they usually wont make a move until you do. Suck being a girl. You just sit there and hope a dude you like will make a move. LOL. I've always thought that that blows for a girl.

She will do this to you:

You are so right...

honestly I have had crushes on people for YEARSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS without them knowing .. lol.. I am just that shy..

and the by the time they initiated or figured it out I had moved on.. lol.. my pining limit is 2 years.. if by then you dont realize your loss.. lol.

so I think maybe you should look for all these signals .. and then .. kinda maybe ask her if she would like to go do something with you .. something that involves conversation I E no loud concerts .. or movies.. something where you guys can interact more.. if she says Yes and is smiling you have a good indication that she likes you.. if she kinda hesitates or starts stuttering .. RUN.. lol

Dude, it took me a while when I was first on my own because I had been out of the game for 16 years. But, I picked it back up. But, it did take some time. Basically, here's how it goes. If you like her, throw her a bone or two, and see how she takes it. If she likes you, she'll laugh and show friendliness and be flirty. If she doesn't, or if she's not interested, just friendly, she'll act a little differently, she'll say something about her boyfriend or husband, or she'll use body language that closes her off or keeps her away from you sort of. Women have awesome body language. You just know by the way they lean in and talk to you, and when they laugh and really stupid things you say. If she doesn't like you in that way, she'll close up her body...no leaning in, maybe arms cross. Maybe she'll look around the room while you're talking to her, meaning she's not interested. They are pretty easy to read. Mainly, if they pay attention to you, you're in. But, you gotta move, they usually wont make a move until you do. Suck being a girl. You just sit there and hope a dude you like will make a move. LOL. I've always thought that that blows for a girl.

lol I love "mainly if they pay attention to you, you're in". that's funny, but very true. It does suck always having to wait around for the guy to make the move. Then, if he doesn't, you are almost forced to make the first move and sometimes you get shot down! Brutal!

Watch her body language. If she touches her hair...twirls it in her fingers or flips it around. When standing her feet will be pointed towards you. When sitting her legs will be crossed towards you or again, feet pointing to you. Research body language in Google. Interesting stuff!

I'm sorry, but as a woman, I even have to agree....I don't think we make it obvious(or easy) for the guys....at all!!!

If she puts your d*** in her mouth without asking you for money in return chances are she likes you.

If she puts your d*** in her mouth without asking you for money in return chances are she likes you.

Preppy!

you my girl right there!