Does the anonymity of social networks allow rudeness

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  • GFab
    GFab Posts: 75
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    Allow...No it encourages it. Most people dont have the balls to even talk to people or confront them let alone say the things they say on Social networks. Most of them dont even have the stones to look the other person in the eyes and give them the evil eye.

    So true!! They usually ***** about it behind the person's back
  • calvert6183
    calvert6183 Posts: 539 Member
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    People can say whatever they want these days wether its online or in person. We live in a society now the nerds are the bullies because we can punch them in the face anymore. It sucks and I miss the old days. You wouldn't believe how many times some stupid nerds or hipsters would just walk up to me and say something rude or attack me about what im eating or drinking.. The women back home would just walk up to strangers and say "ugh, you are so fat and not pleasing to the eye, go back to your cave and eat yourself to death." I had a dude come up to me the other day and said "ugh, why do put that poison in your body?" I told him if he didn't leave me alone that I would shove my beer bottle up his hipster *kitten*. People need to respect others and stop being rude because one day they will get hurt. You just cant keep attacking others and get away with it.
  • futuremalestripper
    futuremalestripper Posts: 467 Member
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    I'm the same way in person as I am on here. Friendless, rude, irritable, and a crazy cat man.
  • futuremalestripper
    futuremalestripper Posts: 467 Member
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    People can say whatever they want these days wether its online or in person. We live in a society now the nerds are the bullies because we can punch them in the face anymore. It sucks and I miss the old days. You wouldn't believe how many times some stupid nerds or hipsters would just walk up to me and say something rude or attack me about what im eating or drinking.. The women back home would just walk up to strangers and say "ugh, you are so fat and not pleasing to the eye, go back to your cave and eat yourself to death." I had a dude come up to me the other day and said "ugh, why do put that poison in your body?" I told him if he didn't leave me alone that I would shove my beer bottle up his hipster *kitten*. People need to respect others and stop being rude because one day they will get hurt. You just cant keep attacking others and get away with it.

    I'm all for free speech, but this desire to judge others is getting annoying.
    Hipsters = over-inflated ego
  • rextcat
    rextcat Posts: 1,408 Member
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    mabie you over estmate just how "polite" people are in the RW. for instance i will generaly tell poeple my opinon of them with my teretts is kicking, how ever on the internet, it just looks like bad spelling/grammer. also just cuz someone is nice to your face dosent mean that they didnt just tell 12 people what a ______ you are behind your back

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  • lizzybethclaire
    lizzybethclaire Posts: 849 Member
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    absolutely. A person can express what they are truly thinking without having to deal with any consequences. People will post things they would never say in person or on the phone. Think about it. You are at a restaurant and get crappy service. Some people (myself included) would politely complain to the manager about the level of service and hopefully arrange some sort of compromise/compensation. Others will pay the bill, short them on a tip, and leave a nasty review online. Just my opinion.
  • WinWinGo
    WinWinGo Posts: 99 Member
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    Yes and no. People are rude online because of the lack of real-world backlash, and because it's sometimes simpler than being polite. It's also more difficult to think of text on a screen as another person.
    Internet rude people are rude everywhere. It's just that they're on their best(?) behaviour when in an environment that will punish them for it. (real life)
  • jennieh1980
    jennieh1980 Posts: 21 Member
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    Couldn't agree more. Lots of people hide behind their screens and keyboards and say things that they would never ever have the guts to say in 'real life'. Think its a bit sad really
  • Drunkadelic
    Drunkadelic Posts: 948 Member
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  • dmpizza
    dmpizza Posts: 3,321 Member
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    What are you a jerk?
  • jennieh1980
    jennieh1980 Posts: 21 Member
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    I'm sluttier on the interwebs than I am in real life.

    Everyone is

    Yep everyone definatley is. Personally I never say anything I'm not prepared to do for real
  • Prettylittlelotus
    Prettylittlelotus Posts: 239 Member
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    Do you know what else is cowardly? Creating new accounts for the purpose of using said internet anonymity so that you can call others out.

    Well that would just be weird and pathetic. Why would anyone do that?
  • karylee44
    karylee44 Posts: 892
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    I'm a troll.

    but a cute troll.. which is why you can get away with it!
  • jerber160
    jerber160 Posts: 2,606 Member
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    I'm slowly learning I should be polite on the internet... interacting as if I were face to face with a person.. I'm not good at it yet, but getting better. but i still tend to be radically sarcastic

    The problem with sarcasm in text is that it doesn't tend to translate perfectly. Without the inflection in your voice (which you hear in your own head when you think it, but they can't hear in the words when they read them) or facial expression cues, it's very hard for the person on the other end to detect sarcasm. You have to make it painfully obvious, and even then it sometimes falls flat.
    I can only hope that when I said the FLOTUS was practicing hoodoo in the nuclear bunker built under the white house, NO ONE would take me seriously...without emoticons
  • Bobby_Clerici
    Bobby_Clerici Posts: 1,828 Member
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    A good rule of thumb to follow is to behave online as you would in real life....
    Exactly! Let what others see be just what they get in person.
    Just one problem.
    Some people are just loathsome, and they know it. They can't be themselves.
    The anonymity of the internet gives these folks the fake fresh start they could never earn in the real world.
    That's why I pity people who are double fisted on-line but complete clowns in real life.
    Just imagine what their lives must be like?
  • saragato
    saragato Posts: 1,154
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    Safety of any kind gives some people the feeling of power and thus they will abuse it. A perfect example of what this false power does on the internet is the site 4chan with their random or /b/ board. People spanning from teens to adults sit in there and will make racist, sexist, offensive remarks and demand gore, porn, pedophelia-related material and various other things that would make normal people retch. Offline, many of them are those people that would retch. Online, you can be whoever you want to and act out just about anything and then log off and basically be a Dr Jekyll/Mr Hyde case.

    I'll even admit to being a little more eager to mouth off in anger via the internet sometimes, and it's gotten me in trouble, than if I were in a group of people at, say, a party. Doesn't mean I'm a cruel, bitter person all the time, I just have quirks that are easier fed through a keyboard and screen. That's the majority of the people who rally to hurt others or just be generally offensive. The people that are like that no matter what are honestly in the minority.

    The other problem is, people tend to be a lot more sensitive, especially with certain subjects, on the internet and when you're putting subjects like your relationship, your personal problems, your medical problems or certain family members or friends and you're entrusting the answer or just advice to a complete stranger, you just opened a wormhole for them. You've invited the trolls, the highly opinionated people, those who don't even bother reading your problem and giving ultimatums, and hundreds of other views that basically can range from "oh you can fix this" to "you're screwed". And really that's your own stupidity. If it's that sensitive, you need to consult a friend, family member, or therapist instead of having strangers give you advice from only your side and then go apesh*t because you didn't get the reply you wanted or you got offended. Yes some, many, people online can be supportive but they're outnumbered.
  • rcc1988
    rcc1988 Posts: 125 Member
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    i think it does allow rudeness...but only from people who are already rude at their core. Many people still choose to be polite and kind despite their anonymity. I think anonymity also allows a sort of honesty (which indeed does encourage some rather impolite comments sometimes) which real life does not. It let's people who might have embarrassing problems talk to others without fear and find social groups who can help them. I also lets people compartmentalize parts of their online life - maybe you're really big into music or social justice or something, but you'd prefer not to have your real life friends in on that. Anonymity allows you to keep those things separate on separate sites. I like that!

    So even if it means dealing with a few big rude babies, I wouldn't give up the anonymity of the internet for the world.
  • calvert6183
    calvert6183 Posts: 539 Member
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    People can say whatever they want these days wether its online or in person. We live in a society now the nerds are the bullies because we can punch them in the face anymore. It sucks and I miss the old days. You wouldn't believe how many times some stupid nerds or hipsters would just walk up to me and say something rude or attack me about what im eating or drinking.. The women back home would just walk up to strangers and say "ugh, you are so fat and not pleasing to the eye, go back to your cave and eat yourself to death." I had a dude come up to me the other day and said "ugh, why do put that poison in your body?" I told him if he didn't leave me alone that I would shove my beer bottle up his hipster *kitten*. People need to respect others and stop being rude because one day they will get hurt. You just cant keep attacking others and get away with it.

    I'm all for free speech, but this desire to judge others is getting annoying.
    Hipsters = over-inflated ego

    I agree hipsters have an over inflated ego and so does the prissy kim kardashian wannabes. I would never go up to strangers and say stupid ad insulting things to them. Im all for free speech but there has to be respect for other people who are not like you. I drink beer, eat bacon, and shop at Walmart and ill never change. What makes the world great is that everyone is different, this whole lets try to make everyone the same is bs. I live in Austin, I see it everyday. To be honest, it scares me, ive been to jail before and dont want to go again because of these mouthy hipsters or prissy insecure women. Leave people alone and mind your business. On here, there are so many people who work hard to get results and are going through tough times and needs encouragement, not insults and negative feedback. Those insecure people need to grow up and concentrate on their lives and not everyone else's.
  • ken1994
    ken1994 Posts: 495 Member
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    I think people respond they way they are in real life, I think that the other side of deal is the person asking the question. Would they walk into the middle of a room of people and ask the same question? So it does give the OP a bit of anonymity as well. Questions asked to a room full of opinionated people is going to get the same response on the interweb or in real life.
  • saragato
    saragato Posts: 1,154
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    Do you know what else is cowardly? Creating new accounts for the purpose of using said internet anonymity so that you can call others out.

    Well that would just be weird and pathetic. Why would anyone do that?

    I've actually had a guy do that to me on another forum. He and I didn't get along because we had two differing opinions and to him, everyone that disagreed with him was a stupid troll to be laughed at and made fun of. I ended up blocking his account because I have a weakness for interjecting and correcting people depending on the subject and he was basically taking hours of my time because I kept replying. He made another account with a rude name and started quoting everything I said (on this said, when you're quoted you're notified by email so my inbox was getting flooded) and I blocked him again. He made another account, same thing and basically was calling me a coward and how stupid I must be to be childish and block him instead of responding like an adult.

    The sad thing was, I ended up getting banned for a month after I reported him because the moderator said I was asking for it. I just learned to stay away from the section of the forums he trolled.