Ladies; what are you looking for in a Man?

The last time I was asked this question, I was told that I was asking for way too much and was promptly dismissed. LOL - I don't ask for much - I honestly want someone that will appreciate me for who I am - the good and the bad...because I will do the same.

A penis.
Intelligence.
Self confidence.
A sense of humor.
Caring, respectful, and not totally selfish.
A relatively attractive face.
A nice set of pecs.
A nice *kitten*.

Tall, dark and handsome cowboy.. something like the Marlboro man... sweet, funny, sarcastic, loving, faithful, a forever kinda guy..

Yes, I just described my husband, but still everything I've ever wanted

a nice dingdong.

a nice dingdong.

not that kind, but from this picture your dingdong looks big!

I used to have that list, you know the one....funny, smart, ambitious, handsome, blah blah blah. All that is still good, but I've realized the two most important things are a man that has hobbies(aside from drinking/partying/being social), and values me.

A man with hobbies is usually content with himself, isn't needy, and can entertain himself when he isn't included in plans (like girls night).
The worst thing is being with a guy that won't let you be you because he doesn't know how to be him. Plus their life is pretty uninteresting and monotonous.

Treat me with respect and value the time we have together. Because honestly, if a man isn't going to value the time he has with me, I can be around tons of other people that do.

But if he's smart, funny, and handsome that wouldn't hurt either.

Gosh you all have high standards. I am just looking for a man that doesn't have ED.

You mean an eating disorder, right?

No silly! I love my men to be thick!

Faithful. - Number one.

A man who can hold me tight and i can feel so safe under any circumstance.
A man who will whisper sweet things into my ear when im down.
A man that is confident in our relationship.
A man that knows ill love him and have faith and trust in me.
A man with a smile that shows far too often.

A man with a cowboy hat...

My...this thread is interesting for the ten millionth time...

Yes, that was sarcasm lol...but I really meant the interesting part .

YAAAAAAY! i am looking for funny!

I'm truly flattered that every one of these posts described me, but sorry ladies, I'm already taken. :drinker:

A freaking mind reader!

Captain knew you were going to say that.

Just ask him.

I'm truly flattered that every one of these posts described me, but sorry ladies, I'm already taken. :drinker:

A pity. Being a Firefly fan would have put you high on my list.

Let's see, here goes my list:

Intense
Intelligent and educated (self educated is fine)
Compatible sense of humor (that's where Firefly fans come in handy)
Compatible romantically and attractive to me
Feels about me the way I do about him
Honest
Doesn't do drugs
Doesn't drink more often than I do (or much more, anyway. Three or four times a year is fine)
Self Confident but not arrogant
Not the kind of extrovert that insists on dragging me everywhere and also gets that sometimes I need to be alone
Political leftist and knowledgeable about politics
Lives somewhere or is willing to move somewhere cold (I don't care if I meet the man of my dreams tomorrow, if it involves having to keep living here or anyplace like it, I'm not interested)
Doesn't expect anything from me I either can't deliver or simply don't want to (minor things like not dripping water all over the bathroom floor after my shower don't count)
Reads for enjoyment
Bathes regularly (had to get that one in there somewhere)
 

I am not looking for a man but if I were single I'd be happy bc I really don't need a man. I tend to like the bad ones anyway so that's probably for the better

Well i have two types that are completely different.

1) Scruffy, alot of hair, musical, calm, doesnt take too much to heart, fun and adventurous, dark hair, dark eyes.

2) Big and buff, takes care of self, works out, eats clean, strong, funny and protective.

The reason:

2) only in the last couple years since i started working out myself , i feel id have something in common and we could be gym buddies haha!

1) Always been into the scruffs, the ones that look homeless, and i play guitar and i draw so i just find something so interesting about a man who has the same interests as me.

What if a man was most of both?

ETA - Wait...you're 19...scratch that hun.

:flowerforyou:

Hahaha best of both