Tactless Boyfriend!

girl there's just so much wrong with this and your BF is only a part of the issue.

for instance, why are you only eating yogurt and blueberries for lunch and working out 3 hour a day?

you are asking for advice on the wrong thing dear....

all i'll say i low self esteem people get with low self esteem people. yes he' a jerk, but the lack of respect he's showing you is just a reflection of your own lack of respect towards yourself. people tend to treat us the way we treat ourselves

get right and your relationships will follow the same right direction

^^THIS

Okay, so he doesn't know about her ED... in what world is eating a cup of yogurt and then exercising for 3 hours healthy or normal? That's like saying, "Oh well he didn't know she had a broken leg when she limped up to him..."

C'mooonnnn.

Anytime you have to preface a topic with "my boyfriend's really sweet/wonderful/great" chances are good you already know he isn't these things. I think you know what he is and isn't and just aren't ready to face it. I've learned that in relationships women in general need to be direct about what they think and feel because men in general don't pick up on hints very well. (This is my experience and I know there are exceptions, just saying.). You also need to compromise, but on things like where to eat and which movie to see. Never compromise on your feelings (ie, do you feel he is the one) or how you are treated (but talk to him first to make sure you're understanding each other). Since you are going off to different colleges, might I suggest taking some time to be on your own and heal, THEN look for a guy who thinks you're fantastic just the way you are?

As far as your diet and exercise, 3 hrs a day does sound like a bit much, but only you know how you feel. Everyone is different. Just make sure you are eating enough calories to fuel all that.

any man who comments on what a woman eats or her weight in a negative way...its a deal-breaker!

THIS!

And especially to make such an unnecessary comment about eating a yogurt?!

If you have to defend your boyfriend as being a nice guy before explaining away the heartless and rude comments hes made, you may want to rethink how "nice" he is. Nothing he said was encouraging or positive and that is completely uncalled for, and given your history, you shouldn't have to put up with that crap.