Religon & fitness?
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Just getting opinions on this matter...
Do you think its "fair" (or whatever word you want to use) for people to add others based on religion? Seeing as how this is a FITNESS & NUTRITION site, what do you think!
Ok, just so i don't get attacked... I did NOT say i was against it! I was just wondering how others felt about it!
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Do you think its "fair" (or whatever word you want to use) for people to add others based on religion? Seeing as how this is a FITNESS & NUTRITION site, what do you think!
Ok, just so i don't get attacked... I did NOT say i was against it! I was just wondering how others felt about it!
Dear Posters,
Please note that certain topics that were formerly off-limits in the public forums are now permitted to remain on the boards, though we strongly recommend utilizing the new Group feature if you are concerned about unwanted commentary on your topic. The moderators will do our best to enforce civil conversation in this thread, and we expect all participants in this thread to abide by the guidelines which you can review in their entirety here: http://www.myfitnesspal.com/welcome/guidelines
Posts made to publicize existing Groups are allowed in ALL cases on the Public Forums.
Please DO NOT report a post that is advertising a group, or that is proceeding politely and without incident.
If you start a new topic on the Public Forums, please use the following guideline as a filter:
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You mean Catholics adding Catholic, Muslims adding Muslim, stuff like that? I dont see a problem lol I mean it gives you more common ground than just exercising...0
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You mean Catholics adding Catholic, Muslims adding Muslim, stuff like that? I dont see a problem lol I mean it gives you more common ground than just exercising...
Yes i did.
I did not say i was against it by the way, was just asking for opinions. Just to make that clear lol0 -
I think that if a person adds someone to their FL due to religion then there is nothing wrong with that. People with deep faith roots will support each other just as others with other similarities will do the same. Just sayin0
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I think people should be able to add whoever they want based on whatever criteria they choose. It is a fitness and nutrition site but the site does not require you to add friends. I see nothing wrong with choosing friends you have something common with, whatever that may be.
It isn't kindergarten, we don't have to play with everyone else.
For the record, I am not religious so that is not my basis for arguing against it.0 -
Personally, I don't see it as a big deal. For many people this is more than just a health tool. It's a social network. I know people that only have friends of the same gender... Some of the same religion... Some from the same region of the world. It's just a common thread that brings people together.
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I add people who sound interesting and if I think we have something in common. That might be that we live in the same area, are a similar age, love to run etc.
I'm not a religious person but if I was, I'm sure I'd be looking out for people who shared my values and beliefs.
People add whoever they want for their own reasons, it doesn't matter what they are.
One of the rules of this site though, is that controversial topics (religion, politics etc) aren't discussed in the main forums. Usually when I see the "looking for "x" friends" I'll see that someone directs that person to the groups section where it is easy to find people with similar interests, and which is a more appropriate place for discussions along specific lines that don't apply to everybody.
Edited to add: I'm curious to know why this bothers you enough to start a thread? You say "i'm just interested" but clearly you have some particular reason for asking.0 -
Life isn't fair and neither is the internet. People can do whatever they want, cause it's their journey/choice/yaddayaddayadda/hookers/cocaine.0
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People naturally gravitate towards others with common interests, goals, outlooks, politics, and yes, religion. "Fair" has nothing to do with it.
Adding to that, since this is a fitness and nutrition-based site, some here collect "eye candy" as friends and there's no shortage of people willing to oblige.
I guess I don't understand the point of the question.0 -
I don't think it is about fair or not fair. I choose people friends on MFP based on what we have in common and how we get along. This is how I choose friends in person. The beauty of this is that you get to choose. I love having other christian friends but I don't choose to decline a friend request just b/c someone is religious.0
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I usually only add female friends with common goals. Its just what I'm comfortable with. But religion doesn't matter on this site. I can understand though. You don't want to feel awkward saying "I'll pray for you." if that person is not of the same faith or is not of any faith. It can cut down on confusion and being unintentionally offensive.0
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Not a big deal for me, but I was a little thrown when I joined and people seem to use this as a dating site and for rating each other..I ignore a good 95% of posts because I don't want someone telling me how bad I look or how fat I am.0
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Once again,
I did NOT say i don't think people should do that
I was just seeing what other people on this website think!
Jeez, im sorry
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Eh I don't do that considering I'm atheist.
but hey, if they want to thats all them, I usually add people that seem good motivators.
it's not about religion...its about getting healthy and staying that way no matter what beliefs any other has, in my opinion.0 -
I think that we naturally gravitate toward people who are similar too us. That's just a fact of life. And as far as religion is concerned, people probably just want to be able to have a decent conversation with their friends and not have to filter through foul or inappropriate comments.0
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Fair. Especially for sharing food diaries, schedules, etc. Locking can begin....0
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Once again,
I did NOT say i don't think people should do that
I was just seeing what other people on this website think!
Jeez, im sorry
And once again... why does it even matter? I'm curious to know what bothers you so much about it?0 -
Once again,
I did NOT say i don't think people should do that
I was just seeing what other people on this website think!
Jeez, im sorry
Nope, you just wanted to stir a little.....0 -
Once again,
I did NOT say i don't think people should do that
I was just seeing what other people on this website think!
Jeez, im sorry
I am not bothered whether you think that or not. But, whether you realize it or not, the way you worded the question seems to imply how you feel.0 -
It's perfectly ok for anyone to add anyone for ANY reason. If you wanted only friends with webbed toes, that's your prerogative.0
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You can add people based on whatever bias you seem fit. Lol only people with a poor personality are going to judge you for that.
I try to add people who aren't afraid to eat food, and enjoy the healthy/fit lifestyle. If you complain about having to workout you lose points in my book, just how it is. The same applies to religion, if you want religious people with a religious message around you you are going to look for those people.0 -
When I started here I put a post on this board. I told a little about myself. I didn't say people had to be like me but they had to understand that I am a Christian and that is where I approach life from. I kinda felt like those who chose to friend me weren't going blindly. Consequently, most of my buddies here are Christians too. We have common ground. I love all people though and appreciate support and will support anyone. Personally, I like a smaller group of friends. I don't need 300 people telling me how great I am doing. I also don't want to try to support 300 people. My Christianity probably narrowed it down a lot and I am fine with that.0
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Seriously? "Wording"? It's an opinion topic. Some of you need to stop being so damn sensitive when it's just a question of curiosity, like most other threads on this site.
Also, I say as long as you're not targetting anyone negatively or discriminating against them for whatever reason, I say anything go's. After all, it's all about what makes you feel comfortable at the end of the day.
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Seriously? "Wording"? It's an opinion topic. Some of you need to stop being so damn sensitive when it's just a question of curiosity, like most other threads on this site.
Also, I say as long as you're not targetting anyone negatively or discriminating against them for whatever reason, I say anything go's. After all, it's all about what makes you feel comfortable at the end of the day.
^this^:bigsmile:0 -
Seriously? "Wording"? It's an opinion topic. Some of you need to stop being so damn sensitive when it's just a question of curiosity, like most other threads on this site.
Also, I say as long as you're not targetting anyone negatively or discriminating against them for whatever reason, I say anything go's. After all, it's all about what makes you feel comfortable at the end of the day.
Someone is being sensitve. And its not me.
She keepsmposting that she didn't "say" she was against it. I was just pointing out to her why some thought she was anyway. If she hadnt mentioned, I wouldnt have.0 -
Seriously? "Wording"? It's an opinion topic. Some of you need to stop being so damn sensitive when it's just a question of curiosity, like most other threads on this site.
Also, I say as long as you're not targetting anyone negatively or discriminating against them for whatever reason, I say anything go's. After all, it's all about what makes you feel comfortable at the end of the day.
Someone is being sensitve. And its not me.
She keepsmposting that she didn't "say" she was against it. I was just pointing out to her why some thought she was anyway. If she hadnt mentioned, I wouldnt have.
But that's just it, why does she have to be for or against anything? People can be curious about something without attacking it, everyone does it...0 -
I kept posting it because people assumed.
I didnt say it bothered me :S
I was curious to what people think not trying to "stir" a problem.
I didnt not mention specific religions, i was saying in general, so I dont understand why people are getting so mad at me0 -
It's perfectly ok for anyone to add anyone for ANY reason. If you wanted only friends with webbed toes, that's your prerogative.
HAHA now I got the Bobby Brown song stuck in my head!0 -
Just getting opinions on this matter...
Do you think its "fair" (or whatever word you want to use) for people to add others based on religion? Seeing as how this is a FITNESS & NUTRITION site, what do you think!
Ok, just so i don't get attacked... I did NOT say i was against it! I was just wondering how others felt about it!
yes because religion is everything. If you dont believe in religion than you are evil0 -
I kept posting it because people assumed.
I didnt say it bothered me :S
I was curious to what people think not trying to "stir" a problem.
I didnt not mention specific religions, i was saying in general, so I dont understand why people are getting so mad at me
No one is mad, not that I saw.
I simply tried to explain why people assumed that.
And to above poster - no, youndont have to be for ir against something, but the question did not come off neutral. Again - pointing it out because she asked. Neber said she attacked it.
I think we arent getting each other. Have a great night ladies.0
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