What's YOUR Deal-Breaker

rude behavior:interrupting
bad tipper
gossipy
arrogant
self-centered: never asks about me
makes asumptions

predjudiced: not tolerant of other's differences: political, religious, sexual...
oh, and racial profilng!

pretty much describes my whole family!

also,
those who belive what they hear in the media is the truth

DEAL BREAKERS:

emo
no sense of humor
lazy
no respect
poor hygiene
conceited
thinkin that being "queen *****" is something to be proud of

i know this may come as a shock to most women, but gettin botox in ur lips IS DISGUSTING!

wearing slutty clothes in hopes of attracting the right guy all the while pulling your skirt down and giving the not so attractive guys ***** looks like theyre pervs giving you the stare down

wearing clothes 5 sizes smaller

****ty attitudes....like if you read all these deal breakers and you think to yourself "pfffft, im all that and still get guys" then this applies to you (c:`,

poor hygiene
smoker
no maners

Abuser of any kind
Intolerant/judgemental
Addict (to anything)
Dishonest
Unhygienic
Emotionally cold/distant
Intellectually lazy

I don't care if people are any of these things, but I won't be bringing anyone with those traits home with me.

pretty much this.

*I'm adding another.. :P
Not passionate. Even if it differs from what I enjoy or believe in, it's nice to know someone else feels strongly about something.

*like*

For me...mostly, it's having no basic understanding of the word 'we' as it relates to a relationship. 'We', is not 'me...oh yeah, and you too, as long as you don't interfere with me'.

And addiction is acceptable, if what she's addicted to is 'we'. For me...that falls under the heading 'passionate' lol.

you win.

Do I?!?!

Not so far!!

:grumble: :laugh:

Seriously though! Don't you agree? All this 'codependant' and 'independant' brainwashing that goes on nowadays is ridiculous! While those things certainly exist...and an extreme of either can certainly be bad for a relationship...I'd rather have mine lean a little towards the left than the right. If I wanted to be independant...well...I wouldn't have agreed to be in a freakin relationship!!

Wait, was that a soap box I was just on?

you girl!

Smoker
Not intelligent
And obese. And I am not being a hypocrite. My late fiancee was obese and did nothing about it....its what killed him. I NEVER want to go through that again. And since I wont do that to anyone else either, that,s ANOTHER reason for me to lose weight.

thank you to whoever started this thread/post, it's a winner. :happy:

The lovely Miss LemonBurns .

A round of applause please!!

Abuser of any kind
Intolerant/judgemental
Addict (to anything)
Dishonest
Unhygienic
Emotionally cold/distant
Intellectually lazy

I don't care if people are any of these things, but I won't be bringing anyone with those traits home with me.

pretty much this.

*I'm adding another.. :P
Not passionate. Even if it differs from what I enjoy or believe in, it's nice to know someone else feels strongly about something.

*like*

For me...mostly, it's having no basic understanding of the word 'we' as it relates to a relationship. 'We', is not 'me...oh yeah, and you too, as long as you don't interfere with me'.

And addiction is acceptable, if what she's addicted to is 'we'. For me...that falls under the heading 'passionate' lol.

you win.

Do I?!?!

Not so far!!

:grumble: :laugh:

Seriously though! Don't you agree? All this 'codependant' and 'independant' brainwashing that goes on nowadays is ridiculous! While those things certainly exist...and an extreme of either can certainly be bad for a relationship...I'd rather have mine lean a little towards the left than the right. If I wanted to be independant...well...I wouldn't have agreed to be in a freakin relationship!!

Wait, was that a soap box I was just on?

you girl!

hush....
knocking you off your box. ;P
I'm already in the who should pay for dinner thread. ha!
*kiss*

1. Shorter than me, sorry gotta be taller than 5'6"
2. Can't cook
3. No desire for marriage/children
4. Small hands/feet (hehe)

Smoker!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

doesn't pull his own weight: IE: you want to eat?~help cook, you want clean clothes?~do some laundry, you want a clean house?~bust out the vaccum, you want well behaved kids?~be the other 50% of the parenting, you want a nice yard?~help me plant the flowers, you want to spend money?~have a good job

If you can't participate in your own life than I don't want you participating in mine. Thank god my husband is my other 1/2 or we'd have major problems.

Major one; If he doesn't like animals, conversation is over in an instant.

Smoking
Has kids
No education or career
No car

This. Plus, violent/aggressive, cheater, liar, drug user, shorter than me, unintelligent, doesn't work out or no sense of taking care of themselves.

When she says, "Sex is overrated".

Hates animals
Hates eggs
Smokes
Doesn't like rock and/or metal
hates videogames

Nasty/mean drunk

Drug addiction

Abuse of any kind

Cheating.

A life with nothing but DRAMA


Unfortunately, I have 'been there done that' with the above list. I absolutely REFUSE to live that lifestyle ever again. Those of you who have experienced the same, I'm sure will completely understand.

Smoking, drug dealing, guns, stupidity, alpha male throwing weight around attitude - I am the boss in my house!