Adult movies vs Adult novels.
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Typical female double standard in a relationship.
This is such a disappointing statement given the variety of responses here.
I dont know if its typical but it sure has been with every woman ive ever dates. There were double standards about everything.
Btw thank you to many who understands erotic fiction is not a romance novel. Erotic is erotic no matter what the format is.0 -
There is nothing wrong with watching porn and I do watch porn sometimes, but there are times where Erotic SHORT stories ( no patience for novels) totally do it for me.
Lol I agree with you totally!!!!!!!0 -
I love porn and I love books.....BUT...when my husband watches porn..I am scared....he is all about BDSM...so I never know what position or "piece of equipment" he is going to use.....::sigh::: I did marry him.....:devil:0
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You think porn is cheesy!? I tried reading 50 Shades of Grey and I couldn't continue because it sounded like a teenager's wet dream.
But that's the point of this stuff. It's so unbelievable because it's an escape.
Porn, books, it's all good0 -
Personally I am not a fan of either, but I prefer the idea of literature because watching porn is just watching 2 strangers having sex. To me there is nothing interesting about that, and fortunately my husband agrees. Reading is different because you can put yourself into the situation, it can be about you in a way watching other people isn't.0
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Hell, I love porn! I love the erotic novels too. I love it all!
ETA - I am female.0 -
both of them are distructive toward marriage.
Untrue.
They can help a marriage more than kill one!0 -
Hell, I love porn! I love the erotic novels too. I love it all!
ETA - I am female.
I love you!0 -
Personally I am not a fan of either, but I prefer the idea of literature because watching porn is just watching 2 strangers having sex. To me there is nothing interesting about that, and fortunately my husband agrees. Reading is different because you can put yourself into the situation, it can be about you in a way watching other people isn't.
Watching two people having sex is HOT!
And believe me you can also put yourself into the situation when you're watching other people.
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This has probably been said, but I think what women hate so much about the visual erotics is they believe it makes guys have false fantasies of how their lovers should look, act, etc or that they get compared to the women in the films. With written stuff, it's not so much focused on looks but action but I think sometimes, especially with the Harlequin stuff, that it deceives women the same way porn can deceive guys.
Myself I have no problem with my guy watching porn. In fact we had a conversation once in the beginning of our relationship about various ones we watched that had hilariously stupid or unrealistic scenes and he told me he and his friends used to get together to watch really bad porn and anime just to laugh at it.
In the end, they're both there to give the feeling of pleasure and of course react accordingly to, whether alone or with someone else. It can't replace a person nor should it give anyone a certain idea about sex or seduction or what have you. Because in the end it's fiction, just like love stories. You don't really fall in love like those in books and movies do.0 -
I think that porn does have it's place. I'm nether for or against it. It is really whatever works for you. I will say that if I come across something that looks interesting, I share with my hubby. It definately does contribute to our spice.0
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Pulls up chair, grabs popcorn, and glass of water with a twist of lemon and begins to watch this thread unfold. Great question!!
May i pull up a chair and sit beside you and whatch too? :laugh: :drinker:0 -
Personal preference is novels... but that's because I can omit visualizing the grosser elements of sex. Also, novels *tend* to be a little more classy in general as they're meant to bring on more than just sexual fantasy (generalizing here I know there are definitely porny, crass books out there). But as far as one being bad... no, I don't see a problem with porn. Porn is porn and in moderation helps keep a relationship healthy. Hell, I'd much rather catch my fella watching porn than 'caming' with a stranger.0
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Honestly, to each their own -- as long as it's not a replacement for your significant other, I think it's totally healthy for a relationship.
Hell, I read erotic short stories from time to time or watch some of the 'classier' porn (that made me giggle -- as if there is such a thing!) I think I could be pretty happy with a guy that wanted to partake in the fun with me from time to time 0 -
Some one posted a thread in the boards about erotic novels on which ones to read. lol. Im not dissing her, its just funny cause this one chick on here says normal women dont read that stuff and that i was making things up. Normal read that stuff just like normal guys watch porn sometimes.
http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/679385-erotic-literature0 -
Some one posted a thread in the boards about erotic novels on which ones to read. lol. Im not dissing her, its just funny cause this one chick on here says normal women dont read that stuff and that i was making things up. Normal read that stuff just like normal guys watch porn sometimes.
http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/679385-erotic-literature
Since when it is it considered not normal to get hot in the britches once in a while? Everyone scratches their itch somehow.0 -
Some one posted a thread in the boards about erotic novels on which ones to read. lol. Im not dissing her, its just funny cause this one chick on here says normal women dont read that stuff and that i was making things up. Normal read that stuff just like normal guys watch porn sometimes.
http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/679385-erotic-literature
Since when it is it considered not normal to get hot in the britches once in a while? Everyone scratches their itch somehow.
Ask that one chick who was bashing women for reading those things. I think normal people do read them. I wish I could find who she is that bashes women for reading them.0 -
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50 Shades of Grey is fanfiction of Twilight. So just like Twilight, it sucks.
As for for the reading of erotica and/or romance novels, to each their own. I'm comfortable in my sexuality and I think it's just women who are uncomfortable by these books that have a problem with them. Maybe if they read a few more of these books, they'd be a lot less uptight.... 0 -
porn is porn..
if your reading it it goes into details.
if your watching it it goes into details.
rather your watching or reading it,someone's getting screwed.
but,i could careless, if my man wants to watch it okay,its better for me when he gets to me anyway
...the movie/book cant touch him,but i sure can.0 -
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Pulls up chair, grabs popcorn, and glass of water with a twist of lemon and begins to watch this thread unfold. Great question!!
May i pull up a chair and sit beside you and whatch too? :laugh: :drinker:
Okay...I'm in for sitting and watching as well. Some conversations I never expect on ole' MFP...:huh:0
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