Unfriended for being too fat?

:noway: bah! Her loss, everyone is different I suppose but, like everyone else says, just shrug your shoulders and move on hon :flowerforyou:

The more I try to understand people and their actions, the more they confuse me.
Dont sweat it, you've got a bunch of support and friendship here.
Add me if you'd like

^^^Like^^^^
OMG - I couldn't agree more! I don't know why some people have to be so negative.

That's a silly reason to unfriend someone. If you want support regardless of your weight and a friend with a tolerant point of view, I'm available! :flowerforyou:

I notice on MFP that there is a distinction between those who have 20lbs or less to lose, the people in between, and then the obese people who have 100lbs or more to lose. I don't really give a crap anymore. I'm on here to lose weight, plan on losing it, and if you can't support that, leave me the hell alone.

^^^ She's right...

I'm in the 20 -25 lbs group and the only thing that matters to me is that the people that I add as friends are

1) committed to healthier choices, regardless of their start weight (No "shakes only" or "500 calorie limits")
2) supportive of their other friends
3) patient with themselves <-- KEY
4) don't throw fits if they "mess up" or have a bad day

It doesn't matter to me if my Pals are trying to lose 10 lbs or 100 lbs, as long as they're trying to be the healthiest versions of themselves that they can be. It's nice to see friends of all sizes hit their goals or benchmarks.

Let this other person go. That "friendship" was not meant to be. Pray for her (as another person suggested) if that's your thing. Genuinely wish her the best if praying's not your thing (I'm certainly not judging), wish her no ill, and instead, work to surround yourself with optimistic people who are aligned with being positive, focused, and encouraging.

People are unusual huh! I have friends who want to gain muscle on here, friends with perfect bodies that I so wish I had, and friends who need to lose various amounts of weight. I love all of it!!! We are all here for each other and that is what counts; whether we are trying to build muscle, lose weight, whatever. I am sorry and try not to let it bother you :flowerforyou:

I am also guilty of unfriending members when I see them only eating 400 calories a day or only eating fast food.

But I always include a message on their page: "Sorry I can't be part of your journey towards weight loss but I wish you all the success in the world, good luck!"

We just don't have anything in common. I am on a lifestyle journey, not a quick fix journey with heath problems down the line.

As Stephanie Tanner would say on Full House....HOW RUDE!!!! Feel free to add me

Maybe there are other reasons, maybe she made a group of some sort? Why get offended, it's a stranger on a website.

People are mean. I'm sorry that happened to you. But, honestly, you are better off. Everyone on here is trying to work on, or work through, something. I've seen people on here posting about weight loss, weight gain, balance, breakups, makeups, work, school - essentially, all the stuff that makes us human. It's weird to me that someone would want to so strictly categorize who they want to associate with based on how much they need to lose.

There are some really awesome people here who just want to be positive and helpful and those are the people worth spending your time on.

I've often wondered if that is why the friend requests I send out don't get accepted. I send a message with my request and every thing. *shrug* OH Well. Their loss.