How old is too old?

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  • for_ever_young66
    for_ever_young66 Posts: 2,877 Member
    newmeadow wrote: »
    Mykaylauk wrote: »
    ready4_50 wrote: »
    Mykaylauk wrote: »
    Honestly, if there's a connection does it really matter?

    Yes. To me, it's all about maturity. I've met some very immature people who are quite older than me.

    But that's what I mean. A connection. Not just sexually, but intellectually .

    Find out. See if a man 25 years your senior is interested in having an intellectual relationship with you :smile:


    Hey, us older dudes are not all shallow you know. I watch all those Kate Upton interviews because she offers great insight. Of course I can't type this without keeping a straight face. Lol
  • Mykaylauk
    Mykaylauk Posts: 770 Member
    newmeadow wrote: »
    Mykaylauk wrote: »
    ready4_50 wrote: »
    Mykaylauk wrote: »
    Honestly, if there's a connection does it really matter?

    Yes. To me, it's all about maturity. I've met some very immature people who are quite older than me.

    But that's what I mean. A connection. Not just sexually, but intellectually .

    Find out. See if a man 25 years your senior is interested in having an intellectual relationship with you :smile:

    My ex husband was 17 yrs older, and didn't seem to have a problem with keeping up to me intellectually...sadly, he couldn't keep it in his pants!

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  • Mykaylauk
    Mykaylauk Posts: 770 Member
    Maximus wrote: »
    @mykaylauk so you're saying I have a chance?

    As long as you can string a sentence together! Us younger women are quite shallow!

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  • Mykaylauk
    Mykaylauk Posts: 770 Member
    We're sneaky too...but totally worth it!
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    In my experience, there's also a huge difference being an early 20 something and age difference vs age differences later in life. I personally did a lot of changing in my 20s...I'm not even remotely the same person that I was when I was in my early 20s or even mid to late 20s. I'm 41 now though and I'm pretty much the same guy I was in my 30s....

    I just think there's a lot of changing that goes on in your 20s which would make it difficult to have a serious, long term relationship with someone in their 30s or older. hell, I know plenty of people who were of the same age in their 20s and got married, etc...only to find out 10 years later that they're completely different people and end up getting divorced.
  • pechepanda
    pechepanda Posts: 7,939 Member
    edited September 2015
    depends on if theres a connection, and where both of you are in your lives, if youve got similar goals and theres a connection dating is fine no matter what the age difference is, but do keep in mind youre more likely to change lots in the next few years where he might not.
  • soldiergrl_101
    soldiergrl_101 Posts: 2,205 Member
    Your 21 so legally its all good if hes older
  • Yogi_warrior
    Yogi_warrior Posts: 5,464 Member
    Age is just a number.
  • TUsphg8B4zrapVx
    TUsphg8B4zrapVx Posts: 259 Member
    There's nobody can answer correctly but yourself.

    But in my opinion, in general, 21-year-olds are too young for anybody.
  • jennmpantoja
    jennmpantoja Posts: 1,080 Member
    Honestly at this point, you should just really do the best you can on communicating and getting to know that person. You maybe on a totally different level than he is responsibility and intellectually. You never know unless you just give it a chance.
  • striderb
    striderb Posts: 5,843 Member
    <<<<<< Is to old - for some. :p
  • Determined_ella_89
    Determined_ella_89 Posts: 1,710 Member
    Personally... Age means nothing ( must be over 18 though! ) if I fell in love with a man.. I could care less what he looks like.. Care less what his age is.. If you truly love and care for someone you see their beauty whatever age they are or how they look. People think it's wrong.. Or they get harassed because others believe the younger partner is after the elder persons money... When in fact they care deeply and share something so very special.. I think it's a beautiful thing to find someone that makes you smile.. That makes you happy.. That would do anything to protect you.
    It's not the body that counts.. It's the mind, heart and soul that counts.. You can have an aged body.. But have the mind of a 20 year old however you can have a young body and an aged mind ;) don't be fooled.
    However a lot of today's generation base a person on their looks... One day they will realise looks fade.. And they could be left with someone they dislike underneath.. However not all people thankfully think that way :joy:
  • GaleHawkins
    GaleHawkins Posts: 8,159 Member
    At least this is a long lived thread.

    Since women live longer maybe looking for a younger guy makes sense at some ages. :)
  • urloved33
    urloved33 Posts: 3,323 Member
    go ahead date him...you will grow tired of him soon enough. unless he is filthy rich...in which case you will tire of him after the divorce sets you up for life.
  • lilbitoftrouble
    lilbitoftrouble Posts: 2,052 Member
    I am too old!
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    It's cool you guys. The OP is my friend. We talked about it way back when she posted this thread. It's all good. It's a good relationship. So, don't worry about her or the guy. Some relationships have age differences. It's ok. The circumstances matter. Not just one rule applied to all.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
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  • AutumnFREESPIRIT
    AutumnFREESPIRIT Posts: 396 Member
    I'm 29 but I like dating older guys. They seem to be more mature and know how to treat a lady right. I don't necessarily care about the money aspect of it. I have a great job and my parents have money. So, my advice is age doesn't matter when the guy is right and treats you right. Just go with what your heart tells you. Age is just a number.
  • MonkeyMel21
    MonkeyMel21 Posts: 2,396 Member
    When I was 21 I gave my boss blow jobs in his office a lot. He was maybe 33-35 and super hot. I still talk to him on occasion and he's still super hot.
  • MonkeyMel21
    MonkeyMel21 Posts: 2,396 Member
    Chaelaz wrote: »
    I am looking for young hot girls with Daddy issues, oral fixations, and lesbian tendencies. I have a strong portfolio and a weak heart.

    Apply within...

    But do you look hot in a suit?
  • Chieflrg
    Chieflrg Posts: 9,097 Member
    Dead or whatever age you're questioning strangers on the internet. Which ever one is applicable.
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    Chaelaz wrote: »
    I am looking for young hot girls with Daddy issues, oral fixations, and lesbian tendencies. I have a strong portfolio and a weak heart.

    Apply within...

    But do you look hot in a suit?

    Very.

    I live in Arizona so we look hot in anything but a cold pool.
  • SubZeroDude
    SubZeroDude Posts: 1,519 Member
    How do you measure what's relative?

  • _SummerGirl_
    _SummerGirl_ Posts: 3,791 Member
    Chaelaz wrote: »
    I am looking for young hot girls with Daddy issues, oral fixations, and lesbian tendencies. I have a strong portfolio and a weak heart.

    Apply within...

    Boo. Then I'm out since I'm old. :cry: haha
  • burning2much
    burning2much Posts: 4,846 Member
    As long as one can keep up I'm golden...
  • SherryTeach
    SherryTeach Posts: 2,836 Member
    Aviva92 wrote: »
    kind of think that around early 30's is when some men look their best. He probably won't look so great anymore in 5 years or so.

    Really? I have had my BF since he was 36. He's 61 now and quite an attractive man. Lots of things get better with age.
  • RJ0274
    RJ0274 Posts: 4,173 Member
    I'm 29 but I like dating older guys. They seem to be more mature and know how to treat a lady right. I don't necessarily care about the money aspect of it. I have a great job and my parents have money. So, my advice is age doesn't matter when the guy is right and treats you right. Just go with what your heart tells you. Age is just a number.

    A wise comment! Please let me know if you are accepting applications! :)
  • Determined_ella_89
    Determined_ella_89 Posts: 1,710 Member
    @Determined_ella_89

    You make great points and on the surface I agree with them. However, there are valid reasons why people are skeptical of a MUCH younger woman being with an older man. Especially if that older man has money.

    Ah yes I agree that sadly there are women (pathetic excuses for human beings) that get with an older aged men for their money only... I wonder when they get older and get fleeced in the same way.. Will they feel proud of what they have done? I could never get with a man for money.. If he has money... That's his business. Some older men know these type of women do that to them.. But they love the company... But why would you want bought company? I'm sure many women would want a man that will want their company. Little rant there 0_o gold diggers and money anger me :neutral::joy: Lol
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