Younger girl dating older guys?
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AntRobertson wrote: »Ninininininininininin 19 nininininninin 19...
The very fact that most, if not all, 19 year olds wouldn't get that reference means I'd probably stay away.
Paul Hardcastle. I'm far older than 19.
Obviously it depends on the maturity level of the 19-year-old (and her older partner as well). When I was 19 I was in college thinking about school and parties and such. I don't think I'd have had much in common with a man 10-15 years older, if he were more established in his career and thinking about settling down. On the other hand, in my mid-to-late 20s, I had no problem dating men in their early-to-mid 40s...while there may have been a bit of a generation gap (Where were you when JFK was assassinated? Oh wait, you weren't born yet) about some things...we were at similar places in our lives.
But men will always be attracted to younger women. At least physically. So I figure I could do okay with 60-year-old men at this point.0 -
AntRobertson wrote: »Ninininininininininin 19 nininininninin 19...
The very fact that most, if not all, 19 year olds wouldn't get that reference means I'd probably stay away.
Okay I'll be honest, I have no idea what that means. Lol.
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When I was 17 I had a major crush on a 26 year old coworker. We started dating when I was 21 and he was 30, and then got married a year and a half later. The girl he dated before me was a year older than me and he swore loudly that he'd never date someone that much younger again.
I knew we were meant to be. ;P0 -
When I was 17 I had a major crush on a 26 year old coworker. We started dating when I was 21 and he was 30, and then got married a year and a half later. The girl he dated before me was a year older than me and he swore loudly that he'd never date someone that much younger again.
I knew we were meant to be. ;P
Haha I guess everyone's different...0 -
Too each his own... but I am 41 with 2 young kids. Can't see a fit with someone in their 20's. I'm thinking 8-10 years +/- for me. Wait a minute... +10 puts that person in their 50's.... So glad I am happily married.0
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This isn't always true of older men. All of it. It depends on the man.
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19 man that is young. At least you specify have fun or/and dating. Well you got to be old enough to drink to date me. 21+.0
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19 is way too young. Late 20's would be the youngest I could go with. I prefer woman in their 40's though.0
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My husband is five years younger than me, and when we were first together in our twenties I could definitely feel the age gap. Now that we are both in our thirties things feel more comfortable.0
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No chance I would date a 19 year old.0
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My daughter is 19 (almost 20) & I would be pretty upset if she was interested in a man 10 years older than she is. Of course, she's caught up in a lot of studying, sorority functions, etc. None of that would interest a grown man. She's also a relationship type (like her mommy haha) & doesn't do the hook up thing so if that's what they were after it would be wasted energy.0
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My daughter is 23 dating a 30 year old. He's a great guy and he treats her great. All I could ever ask.0
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I feel that a grown man (25+) who is dating a teenager has some maturity or insecurity issues. What the heck does an adult have in common with a teenager, and for how long?
I believe it's because they don't want to deal with a mature mind or they want to be your daddy. Just my .02
Be careful.
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I married my first husband when I was 18 and he was 24. It lasted all of 4 years.
I met my current husband when I was 23 and he was 30. We've been together for going on 25 years. If I hadn't been married the first time, I wouldn't have known what my true wants and needs in a partner was. I was also a single mom of a toddler at 23, so I was more mature than a lot of young women my age. If I had met my current husband a few years earlier, we never would have even dated. He was too into partying and being a wild child and I needed stability in my life. So I was the more mature of the two of us when we met. He's come a long way.
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tonydevolani wrote: »ill date the 19year old
ill have fun with the 14year old
Be careful with what you say. The FBI might come knocking on your door.
Yeah buddy, that's sick.0 -
nah, to big a gap. I have nieces that age0
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This post just reminded me that I'm not some young thang anymore.0
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I'm 18 and I've dated a 27 year old guy. It worked out great, but eventually life just took us in different directions. Sometimes it works and sometimes it wont. I think it depends more on the people and how well they fit together as opposed to one's age.0
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I don't think age really matters. If you connect, that's all that counts0
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tonydevolani wrote: »yes im joking i dont like 14year olds
OMG WOW0 -
well i met my wife when she was 17 and i was 26, 6 years later and we are married with two kids, take that as you will lol0
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If my 17 year old daughter came home with someone significantly older than her...well that man and I would be having a pretty serious discussion.0
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I dated a guy who was oldeer then me, he was just like 3 years older. But in saying that i was 13 he was 16. Big difference back then. But now i'm 23 and i'd have a limit at like 37ish. lol ..But i'm very much in a relationship. Just putting my opinion out there .0
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In my late 20's, I dated a couple of younger women 18-23. The passion was there, the fun was there, and it was nice to have someone who was enthusiastic about life. In the end, though, every time that we parted ways the breakup was ugly (they got clingy and acted irrationally towards the end) and happened because of mismatched life priorities. On the other hand, I married an older woman, and our priorities are the same, and we talk out our differences. Furthermore, breakups with people closer to my age were more amicable. Some of those people even continue to be my friends. That wasn't possible with the younger ones.0
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Yes and no. I'm certainly no pro porn guy in bed (just your average guy), but I think the difference with older men is, we are just more comfortable with being as good as we are and what we do know we know well. And we actually have more interest in her enjoyment than our own.
Of course, not all older guys are like that.
As far as sleeping with a younger girl, if I was single and just looking to have fun that would be fine. However, I really think it would be hard to have a lot in sync with personal goals. Hell, I am looking to retire in 10 years and a 20 something would just be trying to find a career.
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once a guy hits 35, rule us half your age + 7.0
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Yes and no. I'm certainly no pro porn guy in bed (just your average guy), but I think the difference with older men is, we are just more comfortable with being as good as we are and what we do know we know well. And we actually have more interest in her enjoyment than our own.
Of course, not all older guys are like that.
As far as sleeping with a younger girl, if I was single and just looking to have fun that would be fine. However, I really think it would be hard to have a lot in sync with personal goals. Hell, I am looking to retire in 10 years and a 20 something would just be trying to find a career.
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I don't follow rules nor do I subscribe to societal notions of age limits upon relationships aside from those that protect the underage.
As has been said before, it depends upon the maturity level of both partners.
That said, at a certain point, natural differences between the ages can start to become rather difficult to bridge depending upon that ages of the couple. Like @Chaelaz mentioned, the differences in goals and life criteria can be killer. It's not impossible to do and it's absurd to say that there is any "right" age for dating, but one must be honest about the challenges that face such a relationship.0 -
I have a 10 year rule, i try not to date anyone more than 10 years younger. So my cut off is normally 26. My grandparents were 10 years apart in age and it lasted 50 some years.0
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