women who dont shave
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MrTolerable wrote: »wolfsbayne wrote: »MrTolerable wrote: »wolfsbayne wrote: »MrTolerable wrote: »wolfsbayne wrote: »MrTolerable wrote: »chicks that don't shave are disgusting - what would you think if guys didn't shave their chest and groom their pleasure region?!
Talk about a double standard!!
I love hairy chests and have no preference in regards to the other.
stay classy - for sophisticated millennial women - there is clearly a preference towards having groomed men. Likewise a prime man would never pursue a bed buddy who doesn't respect herself enough to shave herself.
I didn't say I didn't shave, just I prefer hairy men because to ME, it's very masculine.
While I recognize that is your personal preference - it is however clearly an archaic sentiment.. like don't get me wrong many of buds and my gf have requested the stubble or the beard on occasion - but not grooming the body - da faq?!
I'm also going to add that, in my opinion, a "prime" man wouldn't be pursuing just a "bed buddy." I digress.
You like that word don't you, archaic.
I can see why, it's a fun word, I would look it up though.
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MrTolerable wrote: »wolfsbayne wrote: »MrTolerable wrote: »wolfsbayne wrote: »MrTolerable wrote: »wolfsbayne wrote: »MrTolerable wrote: »chicks that don't shave are disgusting - what would you think if guys didn't shave their chest and groom their pleasure region?!
Talk about a double standard!!
I love hairy chests and have no preference in regards to the other.
stay classy - for sophisticated millennial women - there is clearly a preference towards having groomed men. Likewise a prime man would never pursue a bed buddy who doesn't respect herself enough to shave herself.
I didn't say I didn't shave, just I prefer hairy men because to ME, it's very masculine.
While I recognize that is your personal preference - it is however clearly an archaic sentiment.. like don't get me wrong many of buds and my gf have requested the stubble or the beard on occasion - but not grooming the body - da faq?!
I'm also going to add that, in my opinion, a "prime" man wouldn't be pursuing just a "bed buddy." I digress.
You like that word don't you, archaic.
I can see why, it's a fun word, I would look it up though.
also the word "clearly"
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MrTolerable wrote: »wolfsbayne wrote: »MrTolerable wrote: »wolfsbayne wrote: »MrTolerable wrote: »wolfsbayne wrote: »MrTolerable wrote: »chicks that don't shave are disgusting - what would you think if guys didn't shave their chest and groom their pleasure region?!
Talk about a double standard!!
I love hairy chests and have no preference in regards to the other.
stay classy - for sophisticated millennial women - there is clearly a preference towards having groomed men. Likewise a prime man would never pursue a bed buddy who doesn't respect herself enough to shave herself.
I didn't say I didn't shave, just I prefer hairy men because to ME, it's very masculine.
While I recognize that is your personal preference - it is however clearly an archaic sentiment.. like don't get me wrong many of buds and my gf have requested the stubble or the beard on occasion - but not grooming the body - da faq?!
I'm also going to add that, in my opinion, a "prime" man wouldn't be pursuing just a "bed buddy." I digress.
You like that word don't you, archaic.
I can see why, it's a fun word, I would look it up though.
It fit appropriately?0 -
MrTolerable wrote: »blktngldhrt wrote: »MrTolerable wrote: »chicks that don't shave are disgusting - what would you think if guys didn't shave their chest and groom their pleasure region?!
Talk about a double standard!!
Dont gaf what my boyfriend does with his chest and pleasure region hair.
Ironic your name is mrtolerable
I mean honestly I don't know if my gf would gaf either - but I respect her enough to groom myself just as she grooms herself.
Hair is dirty and disgusting and I'd say women with unkempt body-hair would fall under the same two adjectives describing hair.
Posted about body hair earlier in the thread.."It triggers disgust because it reminds humans how dangerous sex can be. And that’s why we shave it off. Because armpit hair betrays the western fantasy about sex, which is that sex is fun, pleasurable, innocent, and inconsequential, a fantasy that elides the evolutionary truth."
which makes sense considering you think looking for a man who wants more than a bed buddy is 'clearly an archaic sentiment'0 -
RedArizona5 wrote: »Well ok I had fun getting pushed away so I will leave. I thought I was helping but i made things worse for everyone. I never had intentions to start pages of arguments and even though I never said anything wrong and still called out for it THATS when I should have walked away. And i DIDNT so thats my bad. But I hope most of you are happy. I didn't know that you guys had an agenda t take a random comment and spit it out on my face so thanks for being the change you wanted to see in this world. I simply gave my opinions and for some reason even though others stated theirs you had to chop my head off for them. From here on will be jeers of pride for making me leave ok congrats then idk what it accomplished. Its the holidays and it offing sucks so thanks all of you who just don't really know hot be accepting of people with difference of options its really sad that you can't say something. I said its gross but do what you want and men prefer smooth over non so what you could have ignore them. I said use hair conditioner could have ignored-why me? i don't get it. So I'm going to try to enjoy the rest of the day and i won't be mean to you guys like you were to me. Because I don't want to be treated that way on here or anywhere else. If I came on here with all caps being a jerk ok fine i would take the replies. I wasn't being a jerk? was i? But fen tore me up anyways thanx i see how it is guys should be proud of yourselves but i don't have a bad conscience for what I said. Maybe after the responses came in yeah but can anyone blame me? So Im sorry for the everything hope your all happy
Yay! I win.
Nope, you didn't win. You proved her point and one I was going to post as well but decided she was doing a great job.
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RedArizona5 wrote: »Well ok I had fun getting pushed away so I will leave. I thought I was helping but i made things worse for everyone. I never had intentions to start pages of arguments and even though I never said anything wrong and still called out for it THATS when I should have walked away. And i DIDNT so thats my bad. But I hope most of you are happy. I didn't know that you guys had an agenda t take a random comment and spit it out on my face so thanks for being the change you wanted to see in this world. I simply gave my opinions and for some reason even though others stated theirs you had to chop my head off for them. From here on will be jeers of pride for making me leave ok congrats then idk what it accomplished. Its the holidays and it offing sucks so thanks all of you who just don't really know hot be accepting of people with difference of options its really sad that you can't say something. I said its gross but do what you want and men prefer smooth over non so what you could have ignore them. I said use hair conditioner could have ignored-why me? i don't get it. So I'm going to try to enjoy the rest of the day and i won't be mean to you guys like you were to me. Because I don't want to be treated that way on here or anywhere else. If I came on here with all caps being a jerk ok fine i would take the replies. I wasn't being a jerk? was i? But fen tore me up anyways thanx i see how it is guys should be proud of yourselves but i don't have a bad conscience for what I said. Maybe after the responses came in yeah but can anyone blame me? So Im sorry for the everything hope your all happy
Yay! I win.
Nope, you didn't win. You proved her point and one I was going to post as well but decided she was doing a great job.
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To each their own, but personally, I think it's disgusting. If I let my leg hair grow for a few days for lack of time to shave, they get caught in my pants legs and pull, they rub up against the sheets and pull, if I'm sitting on the couch with shorts and my legs touch, it's scratches. Just horrible. And arm pits-- I suppose since I grew up in a generation of seeing absolutely no arm pit hair, I just find it horribly unattractive and associate it with being "manly" (blame society if you wish).
Now men, I prefer "manscaped", but no shaving for them! I want it trimmed and kept up, but not hairless!0 -
MrTolerable wrote: »MrTolerable wrote: »wolfsbayne wrote: »MrTolerable wrote: »wolfsbayne wrote: »MrTolerable wrote: »wolfsbayne wrote: »MrTolerable wrote: »chicks that don't shave are disgusting - what would you think if guys didn't shave their chest and groom their pleasure region?!
Talk about a double standard!!
I love hairy chests and have no preference in regards to the other.
stay classy - for sophisticated millennial women - there is clearly a preference towards having groomed men. Likewise a prime man would never pursue a bed buddy who doesn't respect herself enough to shave herself.
I didn't say I didn't shave, just I prefer hairy men because to ME, it's very masculine.
While I recognize that is your personal preference - it is however clearly an archaic sentiment.. like don't get me wrong many of buds and my gf have requested the stubble or the beard on occasion - but not grooming the body - da faq?!
I'm also going to add that, in my opinion, a "prime" man wouldn't be pursuing just a "bed buddy." I digress.
You like that word don't you, archaic.
I can see why, it's a fun word, I would look it up though.
It fit appropriately?
are you sure? if youre sure you should use an exclamation point! archaic = old fashioned0 -
To each their own, but personally, I think it's disgusting. If I let my leg hair grow for a few days for lack of time to shave, they get caught in my pants legs and pull, they rub up against the sheets and pull, if I'm sitting on the couch with shorts and my legs touch, it's scratches. Just horrible. And arm pits-- I suppose since I grew up in a generation of seeing absolutely no arm pit hair, I just find it horribly unattractive and associate it with being "manly" (blame society if you wish).
Now men, I prefer "manscaped", but no shaving for them! I want it trimmed and kept up, but not hairless!
I like your description. Its very similar to what I feel on my face if I let a week go by. lol0 -
blktngldhrt wrote: »MrTolerable wrote: »blktngldhrt wrote: »MrTolerable wrote: »chicks that don't shave are disgusting - what would you think if guys didn't shave their chest and groom their pleasure region?!
Talk about a double standard!!
Dont gaf what my boyfriend does with his chest and pleasure region hair.
Ironic your name is mrtolerable
I mean honestly I don't know if my gf would gaf either - but I respect her enough to groom myself just as she grooms herself.
Hair is dirty and disgusting and I'd say women with unkempt body-hair would fall under the same two adjectives describing hair.
Posted about body hair earlier in the thread.."It triggers disgust because it reminds humans how dangerous sex can be. And that’s why we shave it off. Because armpit hair betrays the western fantasy about sex, which is that sex is fun, pleasurable, innocent, and inconsequential, a fantasy that elides the evolutionary truth."
which makes sense considering you think looking for a man who wants more than a bed buddy is 'clearly an archaic sentiment'
^I don't see what your point is - sure it triggers disgust because it reminds humans of how dangerous sex is... I mean you could faq up your entire genetic line mating with the wrong person!
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I mean imagine if women didn't shave their pleasure regions as well?! No one would mate with them - it'd be disgusting.
I seriously don't see your point.. I'm not just talking armpit hair either, under the chin, armpits, legs, pleasure regions, the tail/lower back.. I mean this needs to be maintained and maintained well -0 -
I'm going to stop shaving, thanks to this thread.0
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Normal healthy psychologically stable men like women who behave femininely and imho body hair is a masculine trait - because simply men have more facial and body hair then their counterpart.. it is that simple. so if women want a normal healthy man then they can accommodate this SOCIAL NORM.0
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I definitely believe that if you don't want to shave and are comfortable with it, more power to you.
HOWEVER, I personally would feel like a gross man if I didn't shave lol. I know a lot of people don't shave during the winter, but I do. I guess I just never thought about why I wouldn't shave in the colder months.
Sure, I'm pretty much always wearing pants, but I can't stand rubbing my hand or arm against my leg and feeling hair. I shave my legs every other day and use baby oil gel on them and they stay soft all year long. I also always shave under my arms. Once again, I just see it as a necessity. I also shave...the other regions of my body on a regular basis lol.
I just feel like if I sweat, those hairs are going to hold on to the scent that much more. I personally find it not so lovely looking, but that's just me.0 -
I live in Santa Cruz, California and theres a LOT of hippie ladies who do not shave. Im totally used to seeing it and it doesnt bother me at all but personally I like smooth legs0
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To each their own.....not one bit bothered by it at all! Different is good!0
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MrTolerable wrote: »blktngldhrt wrote: »MrTolerable wrote: »chicks that don't shave are disgusting - what would you think if guys didn't shave their chest and groom their pleasure region?!
Talk about a double standard!!
Dont gaf what my boyfriend does with his chest and pleasure region hair.
Ironic your name is mrtolerable
I mean honestly I don't know if my gf would gaf either - but I respect her enough to groom myself just as she grooms herself.
Hair is dirty and disgusting and I'd say women with unkempt body-hair would fall under the same two adjectives describing hair.
Ill see myself out of this thread.
Kinda over how this thread got taken over by mean-spirited haters. Im not dirty or disgusting for being a part of the female gender with no hair removal. I am a human being making choices for my body that actually have nothing to do with my hygiene. I shower, i use D.O. for any B.O., as well as perfume for fun.
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To each their own, but personally, I think it's disgusting. If I let my leg hair grow for a few days for lack of time to shave, they get caught in my pants legs and pull, they rub up against the sheets and pull, if I'm sitting on the couch with shorts and my legs touch, it's scratches. Just horrible. And arm pits-- I suppose since I grew up in a generation of seeing absolutely no arm pit hair, I just find it horribly unattractive and associate it with being "manly" (blame society if you wish).
Now men, I prefer "manscaped", but no shaving for them! I want it trimmed and kept up, but not hairless!
This is exactly how I feel. I grew up seeing shaving as a necessity. I feel more feminine, soft, and just all around better about myself if I shave regularly.
On the other hand, my boyfriend has a full on fluffy beard that I love, and he doesn't shave anything. There's just something about my "hairlessness" and his hairiness that I like together lol. I just feel feminine and he seems more masculine with hair; which is why I guess I want to make sure I don't have hair and he does.
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MrTolerable wrote: »I mean imagine if women didn't shave their pleasure regions as well?! No one would mate with them - it'd be disgusting.
I seriously don't see your point.. I'm not just talking armpit hair either, under the chin, armpits, legs, pleasure regions, the tail/lower back.. I mean this needs to be maintained and maintained well -
Also this is just ludicrous. For being "MrTolerable", you're pretty intolerable.0 -
MrTolerable wrote: »I mean imagine if women didn't shave their pleasure regions as well?! No one would mate with them - it'd be disgusting.
I seriously don't see your point.. I'm not just talking armpit hair either, under the chin, armpits, legs, pleasure regions, the tail/lower back.. I mean this needs to be maintained and maintained well -
Really? Because my husband and I "mate" at least four times a week and I don't shave my lady bits.
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MrTolerable wrote: »Normal healthy psychologically stable men like women who behave femininely and imho body hair is a masculine trait - because simply men have more facial and body hair then their counterpart.. it is that simple. so if women want a normal healthy man then they can accommodate this SOCIAL NORM.
Body hair is a male trait. LOL
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There is something about it in my mind that makes it seem unclean to not shave, I just personally would never do it and don't find it attractive. Although hairy men are a different story.. who knows0
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I love these kind of threads where if you disagree with the norm, you're the enlightened, morally correct one, and everyone else is just a stupid sheeple. Pssttt that's intolerant of you
I shave. I'm blonde so you can't see it anyway, but I love the feel of my sheets on smooth skin.0 -
Capt. Obvious swooping in! It all comes down to a choice. Some choose out of necessity and some have no choice. The society/culture you live in has to do with it. As Shakespeare said: To be shaved or not to be shaved that is the question.0
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sunglasses_and_ocean_waves wrote: »I love these kind of threads where if you disagree with the norm, you're the enlightened, morally correct one, and everyone else is just a stupid sheeple. Pssttt that's intolerant of you
I shave. I'm blonde so you can't see it anyway, but I love the feel of my sheets on smooth skin.
Nah I get it if people thinks it is unattractive but I was more miffed at the malicious adjectives he used to describe the people who don't shave. That's where I interpret him as intolerant.
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TheVirgoddess wrote: »MrTolerable wrote: »I mean imagine if women didn't shave their pleasure regions as well?! No one would mate with them - it'd be disgusting.
I seriously don't see your point.. I'm not just talking armpit hair either, under the chin, armpits, legs, pleasure regions, the tail/lower back.. I mean this needs to be maintained and maintained well -
Really? Because my husband and I "mate" at least four times a week and I don't shave my lady bits.
Thanks for sharing!
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MrTolerable wrote: »blktngldhrt wrote: »MrTolerable wrote: »chicks that don't shave are disgusting - what would you think if guys didn't shave their chest and groom their pleasure region?!
Talk about a double standard!!
Dont gaf what my boyfriend does with his chest and pleasure region hair.
Ironic your name is mrtolerable
I mean honestly I don't know if my gf would gaf either - but I respect her enough to groom myself just as she grooms herself.
Hair is dirty and disgusting and I'd say women with unkempt body-hair would fall under the same two adjectives describing hair.
Ill see myself out of this thread.
Kinda over how this thread got taken over by mean-spirited haters. Im not dirty or disgusting for being a part of the female gender with no hair removal. I am a human being making choices for my body that actually have nothing to do with my hygiene. I shower, i use D.O. for any B.O., as well as perfume for fun.
Bye!
it does not surprise me at all to see this thread turn into a mass of judgement and disgust
its slightly disappointing but mfp disappoints all the time you will get use to it
btw I also do not shave , shower daily ...but i dont wear deodorant because i dont like it ...still not gross & dirty though!
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I actually like body hair on women. I also like it when people make choices about their body because it's what they prefer, and not because they feel pressured by others. Personally, I only shave when and if I feel like it. There is nothing inherently gross about body hair, and there is nothing wrong with shaving it either.0
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