I have the WORST dating history of all time
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Sinistrous wrote: »sklarbodds wrote: »Sinistrous wrote: »sklarbodds wrote: »Oh, I had another girl get another guy's number on our 2nd date right in front of me. The crappy thing is I drove and I had to take her home (I can't be that mean and just leave her there), but when I got to her house she asked, "Aren't you coming up?"...I'm like, "You're kidding, right?". She was honestly confused why I was upset.
Wow o.o
Be glad she did that in front of you, who knows what you could have caught from her... -shudder-
Good point. She texted me later she didn't feel fidelity was a realistic expectation in a relationship anymore.
/SMDH
She's the only shifting constant. Fidelity is necessary for quite a huge number of people.
My last date did not feel that way either with her ex husband.0 -
Maybe me being a nice guy (hopefully relatively normal) this will fare well for me.0
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Describe the kind of men you date. Where are you usually meeting them?0
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I've been doing the online dating thing here and there. I've had mostly pleasant experiences - just wasn't the right "match". My slogan is I'm not looking for the perfect man, but the man who is perfect for me. The perfect man doesn't exist.
With that being said - the worst things I've had asked of me in the online dating world rank in the following manner:
1. Can I tie you up and gag you?
2. Can you be a third wheel in my relationship?
3. Will you be my activity partner?
4. Think you could be my sugar mama?
5. Can you send me a picture of you and your child?
Yep. Those were all blatant "delete and block" situations.0 -
sklarbodds wrote: »Oh, I had another girl get another guy's number on our 2nd date right in front of me. The crappy thing is I drove and I had to take her home (I can't be that mean and just leave her there), but when I got to her house she asked, "Aren't you coming up?"...I'm like, "You're kidding, right?". She was honestly confused why I was upset.
I was out with dinner with my friends at our favorite place... and it's often a date spot- so my clinical psychologist friend and I- we like to rate/judge the dates- figure out if it's 1, 2nd, 3rd- or little more long term etc etc...
well- it's a cosy intimate place- easy to share you're personal bubble with people you don't know.. .tables are U shaped so you often face another table... .and we had casually been talking to the obviously new to each other/dating table across from us- except the guy who was facing us (and I was on the edge- so he was to my right) spent an awful lot of time staring at me. (which I non-nonchalantly confirmed with my friend- who was facing him.
His date was giving mixed signals- cute- well dressed- not ALL into him- but not out and out rejection.
Anyway- they leave- she slides out first- and he slides out behind- and as he leaves (she's walking toward the door) he slipped their receipt under my plate- which- I refused to pick up for at last 5 min- we started laughing before they got the door closed behind them.
Anyway- friend leans over- grabs said receipt and opens it for me- it's "let's have dinner some time + #############'s"
seriously dude? seriously. WTF. fortunately I was out with friends so it was hysterically tacky and amusing to us- but dude- why would I go on a date with you- clearly you have no class.
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Sometimes I wonder if the guys I've been on terrible dates with ever tell stories about this really weird/boring/uptight girl they went out for dinner with once who WOULDN'T take a photo of her knickers for him under the table, and looked bemused and offended when he mentioned he thought ugly people shouldn't be allowed to procreate.0
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@prminx you made my day with that convo!0
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JeriAnne84 wrote: »sklarbodds wrote: »I am always encouraged by threads like this...because I know just being a decent normal guy makes me stand out in a crowd LOL
As far as 'test drive the car'...well, that's crap. Sexual compatibility isn't nothing (but certainly not something to be decided on the first date), but that analogy is ludicrous and demeaning.
I have a lot of female friends on dating sites and I know they have it worse. But I've certainly had my fair share of bad experiences too.
I had one girl who was a bit older (5 years) but I didn't mind, I'm in my 30s. She was cute and fun to talk to. We met for a drink on a Friday and then for dinner on Saturday. On Sunday, I had to fly out to San Fran for a business trip for a week. I got a text from her to have a safe flight and to text when I land (which I did). But from the trip, my phone was completely dead so I dropped off my stuff in my hotel room and put my phone on the charger and went out with the coworker I was with (a guy). Got back to my hotel around midnight and just crashed from the long day. Checked my phone in the morning and had about 25 text messages from her that started off with, "What are you doing your first night?" and ended with, "Why the F__K are you ignoring me? You're f__king someone else aren't you? You're throwing away a really good thing here". I was polite and just texted back, "I believe we're just looking for different things".
The funny thing is that was my FIRST time dating online...I'm still surprised I got back online
Do you wear chain metal now just in case you go out with another crazy? I had a guy do that to me. We actually went on two dates and then he told me he was really just looking for someone to have fun with and I was too sweet of a girl to do that to. Okay, I appreciated his honesty. 2 years later he texts me and tells me he was stupid to let me go and wanted to see me again. I'm like okay, maybe. I was single at the time so no big deal. Until I went to work and got slammed with reports. I had no time to eat lunch let alone text someone. It went from the nice "hows work" through 30 some messages that ended with him telling me I was a b**** and could have at least told him I wasn't intrested and that he hoped I got AIDS. I told him he needed to calm down and to stop messaging me because he was psycho and I didn't need his drama in my life. He responded by blocking me on Facebook. Which ya know, cut me deep. lol
Oh EDIT: 3 months later he called me at 4 AM drunk and wanted me to come hang out. My boyfriend answered the phone. Surprise!
Haha yikes. That's the other thing...if it doesn't work out for me I simply text, "Thanks but it's not working out. Good luck!". I'll never understand the butthurt some guys get from a woman not being interested. Look, there's about 3.5 billion women in the world, odds are good some aren't going to like you. Get over it. It only takes one decent girl to change everything. And if you react like that, maybe it's a reflection on why nobody wants to be with you (immaturity much?).
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blueeyesgrace wrote: »I've been doing the online dating thing here and there. I've had mostly pleasant experiences - just wasn't the right "match". My slogan is I'm not looking for the perfect man, but the man who is perfect for me. The perfect man doesn't exist.
With that being said - the worst things I've had asked of me in the online dating world rank in the following manner:
1. Can I tie you up and gag you?
2. Can you be a third wheel in my relationship?
3. Will you be my activity partner?
4. Think you could be my sugar mama?
5. Can you send me a picture of you and your child?
Yep. Those were all blatant "delete and block" situations.
LOL. The guy who wanted to meet me only an hour from our first message ended up calling me the next day to make me "feel more comfortable." Then proceeded to ask me if I would let him tie me up. SMDH.
One of my other favorites from the online dating classics:
HIM (after about 3 messages): Can I get some more pics of you?
ME: Sure, I can upload a few more to the website
HIM: Oh, I thought maybe you could just text me some <wink, wink>.
ME: Seriously? I don't do nudie pics. <delete>0 -
And how did he feel about it? Some people don't admit to others that they may have an "open" relationship. I know I sure as hell don't have one and not going to try to push for it, either.yopeeps025 wrote: »
My last date did not feel that way either with her ex husband.
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I'm gay and plenty of men assume I just haven't met the "right man to straighten me up" and another bunch of women assumed I'd be dumb (I may look like it! But I'm not lol) and when I mention I study, work and do all kinds of *kitten*; they tell me I'm a stuck up b*tch.
This thread makes me go and give my gf a bear hug.0 -
Sinistrous wrote: »omg i think im glad i dont live in the USA .. lol
lovin this thread btw
What's that got to do with USA? lol. The entire world is messed up when it comes to "love" xD[/quote
just cos the crazy posts seem to be from US folks.. .. i know the UK is just as bad but ive never heard any horror stories similar to the ones posted here ..lol0 -
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just cos the crazy posts seem to be from US folks.. .. i know the UK is just as bad but ive never heard any horror stories similar to the ones posted here ..lol
Ah, fair enough. But then again, what time is it for you guys over there? I figure a lot of you are at work right now, yes? (Or some getting off work and getting stuck in traffic on their way home?)
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Sinistrous wrote: »
I did too, until I realised he was 100% deadly serious.0 -
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Sinistrous wrote: »
I did too, until I realised he was 100% deadly serious.
Oh, damn. So wrong lol
Did you find a place to hide your face? I wouldn't have known what to do with myself.0 -
sklarbodds wrote: »JeriAnne84 wrote: »sklarbodds wrote: »I am always encouraged by threads like this...because I know just being a decent normal guy makes me stand out in a crowd LOL
As far as 'test drive the car'...well, that's crap. Sexual compatibility isn't nothing (but certainly not something to be decided on the first date), but that analogy is ludicrous and demeaning.
I have a lot of female friends on dating sites and I know they have it worse. But I've certainly had my fair share of bad experiences too.
I had one girl who was a bit older (5 years) but I didn't mind, I'm in my 30s. She was cute and fun to talk to. We met for a drink on a Friday and then for dinner on Saturday. On Sunday, I had to fly out to San Fran for a business trip for a week. I got a text from her to have a safe flight and to text when I land (which I did). But from the trip, my phone was completely dead so I dropped off my stuff in my hotel room and put my phone on the charger and went out with the coworker I was with (a guy). Got back to my hotel around midnight and just crashed from the long day. Checked my phone in the morning and had about 25 text messages from her that started off with, "What are you doing your first night?" and ended with, "Why the F__K are you ignoring me? You're f__king someone else aren't you? You're throwing away a really good thing here". I was polite and just texted back, "I believe we're just looking for different things".
The funny thing is that was my FIRST time dating online...I'm still surprised I got back online
Do you wear chain metal now just in case you go out with another crazy? I had a guy do that to me. We actually went on two dates and then he told me he was really just looking for someone to have fun with and I was too sweet of a girl to do that to. Okay, I appreciated his honesty. 2 years later he texts me and tells me he was stupid to let me go and wanted to see me again. I'm like okay, maybe. I was single at the time so no big deal. Until I went to work and got slammed with reports. I had no time to eat lunch let alone text someone. It went from the nice "hows work" through 30 some messages that ended with him telling me I was a b**** and could have at least told him I wasn't intrested and that he hoped I got AIDS. I told him he needed to calm down and to stop messaging me because he was psycho and I didn't need his drama in my life. He responded by blocking me on Facebook. Which ya know, cut me deep. lol
Oh EDIT: 3 months later he called me at 4 AM drunk and wanted me to come hang out. My boyfriend answered the phone. Surprise!
Haha yikes. That's the other thing...if it doesn't work out for me I simply text, "Thanks but it's not working out. Good luck!". I'll never understand the butthurt some guys get from a woman not being interested. Look, there's about 3.5 billion women in the world, odds are good some aren't going to like you. Get over it. It only takes one decent girl to change everything. And if you react like that, maybe it's a reflection on why nobody wants to be with you (immaturity much?).
/rant
Omg! See more women would appreciate a guy saying its not working out then just stopping all conversation at once and disappearing without so much of a "hey...this isn't going like I wanted it to". Some guys think they barf rainbows and fart cinnamon buns and every woman should like them.0 -
Sinistrous wrote: »
And how did he feel about it? Some people don't admit to others that they may have an "open" relationship. I know I sure as hell don't have one and not going to try to push for it, either.yopeeps025 wrote: »
My last date did not feel that way either with her ex husband.
I will just cliff note that conversation. We talked for two weeks everyday before going out.
She wanted to bring others in the marriage because he complained about not sowing his oats. She was his first. I was like well to some men that matters that they did not experience some before marriage.
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Sinistrous wrote: »just cos the crazy posts seem to be from US folks.. .. i know the UK is just as bad but ive never heard any horror stories similar to the ones posted here ..lol
Ah, fair enough. But then again, what time is it for you guys over there? I figure a lot of you are at work right now, yes? (Or some getting off work and getting stuck in traffic on their way home?)
im at work right now..i work night shifts with nothing to do but chat online to friends etc and then workout around midnight .. i also work long hrs which gives me no time for the real life dating game..hence ive tried the online stuff.. makes life easier at times, but still hard work with SOME of the women on those sites..0 -
JeriAnne84 wrote: »sklarbodds wrote: »JeriAnne84 wrote: »sklarbodds wrote: »I am always encouraged by threads like this...because I know just being a decent normal guy makes me stand out in a crowd LOL
As far as 'test drive the car'...well, that's crap. Sexual compatibility isn't nothing (but certainly not something to be decided on the first date), but that analogy is ludicrous and demeaning.
I have a lot of female friends on dating sites and I know they have it worse. But I've certainly had my fair share of bad experiences too.
I had one girl who was a bit older (5 years) but I didn't mind, I'm in my 30s. She was cute and fun to talk to. We met for a drink on a Friday and then for dinner on Saturday. On Sunday, I had to fly out to San Fran for a business trip for a week. I got a text from her to have a safe flight and to text when I land (which I did). But from the trip, my phone was completely dead so I dropped off my stuff in my hotel room and put my phone on the charger and went out with the coworker I was with (a guy). Got back to my hotel around midnight and just crashed from the long day. Checked my phone in the morning and had about 25 text messages from her that started off with, "What are you doing your first night?" and ended with, "Why the F__K are you ignoring me? You're f__king someone else aren't you? You're throwing away a really good thing here". I was polite and just texted back, "I believe we're just looking for different things".
The funny thing is that was my FIRST time dating online...I'm still surprised I got back online
Do you wear chain metal now just in case you go out with another crazy? I had a guy do that to me. We actually went on two dates and then he told me he was really just looking for someone to have fun with and I was too sweet of a girl to do that to. Okay, I appreciated his honesty. 2 years later he texts me and tells me he was stupid to let me go and wanted to see me again. I'm like okay, maybe. I was single at the time so no big deal. Until I went to work and got slammed with reports. I had no time to eat lunch let alone text someone. It went from the nice "hows work" through 30 some messages that ended with him telling me I was a b**** and could have at least told him I wasn't intrested and that he hoped I got AIDS. I told him he needed to calm down and to stop messaging me because he was psycho and I didn't need his drama in my life. He responded by blocking me on Facebook. Which ya know, cut me deep. lol
Oh EDIT: 3 months later he called me at 4 AM drunk and wanted me to come hang out. My boyfriend answered the phone. Surprise!
Haha yikes. That's the other thing...if it doesn't work out for me I simply text, "Thanks but it's not working out. Good luck!". I'll never understand the butthurt some guys get from a woman not being interested. Look, there's about 3.5 billion women in the world, odds are good some aren't going to like you. Get over it. It only takes one decent girl to change everything. And if you react like that, maybe it's a reflection on why nobody wants to be with you (immaturity much?).
/rant
Omg! See more women would appreciate a guy saying its not working out then just stopping all conversation at once and disappearing without so much of a "hey...this isn't going like I wanted it to". Some guys think they barf rainbows and fart cinnamon buns and every woman should like them.
I do, but I'm humble about it
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JeriAnne84 wrote: »sklarbodds wrote: »I am always encouraged by threads like this...because I know just being a decent normal guy makes me stand out in a crowd LOL
As far as 'test drive the car'...well, that's crap. Sexual compatibility isn't nothing (but certainly not something to be decided on the first date), but that analogy is ludicrous and demeaning.
I have a lot of female friends on dating sites and I know they have it worse. But I've certainly had my fair share of bad experiences too.
I had one girl who was a bit older (5 years) but I didn't mind, I'm in my 30s. She was cute and fun to talk to. We met for a drink on a Friday and then for dinner on Saturday. On Sunday, I had to fly out to San Fran for a business trip for a week. I got a text from her to have a safe flight and to text when I land (which I did). But from the trip, my phone was completely dead so I dropped off my stuff in my hotel room and put my phone on the charger and went out with the coworker I was with (a guy). Got back to my hotel around midnight and just crashed from the long day. Checked my phone in the morning and had about 25 text messages from her that started off with, "What are you doing your first night?" and ended with, "Why the F__K are you ignoring me? You're f__king someone else aren't you? You're throwing away a really good thing here". I was polite and just texted back, "I believe we're just looking for different things".
The funny thing is that was my FIRST time dating online...I'm still surprised I got back online
Do you wear chain metal now just in case you go out with another crazy? I had a guy do that to me. We actually went on two dates and then he told me he was really just looking for someone to have fun with and I was too sweet of a girl to do that to. Okay, I appreciated his honesty. 2 years later he texts me and tells me he was stupid to let me go and wanted to see me again. I'm like okay, maybe. I was single at the time so no big deal. Until I went to work and got slammed with reports. I had no time to eat lunch let alone text someone. It went from the nice "hows work" through 30 some messages that ended with him telling me I was a b**** and could have at least told him I wasn't intrested and that he hoped I got AIDS. I told him he needed to calm down and to stop messaging me because he was psycho and I didn't need his drama in my life. He responded by blocking me on Facebook. Which ya know, cut me deep. lol
Oh EDIT: 3 months later he called me at 4 AM drunk and wanted me to come hang out. My boyfriend answered the phone. Surprise!
LOL. Amazing.
I got booty called on Christmas Day this year. True story.0 -
You mean "Women", right? LOL.
im at work right now..i work night shifts with nothing to do but chat online to friends etc and then workout around midnight .. i also work long hrs which gives me no time for the real life dating game..hence ive tried the online stuff.. makes life easier at times, but still hard work with SOME of the women on those sites..
I'm joking, I'm joking.. Although, you never know LOL.
Ok, sorry.. I'm done -shuts up- lol
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helenarriaza wrote: »I'm gay and plenty of men assume I just haven't met the "right man to straighten me up" and another bunch of women assumed I'd be dumb (I may look like it! But I'm not lol) and when I mention I study, work and do all kinds of *kitten*; they tell me I'm a stuck up b*tch.
This thread makes me go and give my gf a bear hug.
Haha, conversely Louis C.K. always said he wasn't sure if he was gay or not. How does he know he just hasn't seen that one amazing penis that changes everything for him? LMAO 0
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