Personal safety while walking/running
Lindsay_the_great
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Do any of you carry pepper spray or anything while out and about? I don't always feel safe staying out after dark or setting out before sunrise. I hate that I feel that way. What is the best remedy for that? Does anyone here take any precautions besides the obvious- staying in populated areas/lighted paths, etc?
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I carry something similar to this
I'm pretty sure it kept a guy from grabbing my phone outside of the grocery store. Or maybe he just realized there wasn't a lot of value in a $50 Ghettro PCS special.0 -
I think a lot of it, besides the obvious precautions you mentioned, is mental - if you don't feel safe, you just don't, and there's no need to put yourself under pressure.
I'm guessing you have a decently safe neighbourhood to exercise in. Besides what you mentioned, I just make sure I have my reflective patches on, take my phone but keep it concealed, don't wear headphones, and tell someone when you intend to return by. I frequently run in the dark (usually 6am or 5pm) and I have never had any scary incidences (if it helps reassure you even a little).
Note - I live in the UK so I think pepper spray is less of a thing here. I have a friend who carries a personal attack alarm when she goes out at night but she's the only person I know who does.0 -
Most important thing - always have someone know where you're going (route) and when you will be back. Even better, walk with company.
A strong emergency whistle is reported to help, you can get them from sport stores or online. Thir sound is shockingly shrill and carries much farther than human voice.
Also don't listen to music, be very aware what's happening around you - if you're obviously distracted or self-absorbed, you're more likely to be attacked.
And may be above all chose a safer route if you can. But if you really feel you're unsafe and are walking in an unsafe area, the only really safe way is to walk/run on a treadmill or do a youtube dance routine at home or sth - better bored than traumatised/injured/raped/dead.
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Yep, I have pepper spray on my key lanyard. It's around my neck and easy to access.
I was attacked in my early 20s by a man much larger than myself, a former soldier. I walked away from that--he was carried from the scene in an ambulance. Suffice it to say, I don't worry too much about being able to defend myself. I'm tall, strong and don't look like a victim.0 -
I just stay where I feel safe. I had pepper spray but gave it to my daughter.
I use a road ID. My Garmin hrm has a live track where my husband can see my GPS location. There is an app that has an emergency activation, I can't remember which one it is. I don't run in the dark.
I came up on a buck not long back and that made me think about getting faster and carrying a dagger. Literally scared the poo out of me, had to cut it short.0 -
My protection of choice if I have to go out after dark is bright colors, a fairly large over protective mutt, and pepper spray. But I live out in the middle of no where so depending on if there has been an up in rabies problems I may have something more.0
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I always run with my 70lbs German shepherd...keeps people at a far distance.0
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I'm in NZ so I don't think we can even get pepper spray? I usually go out early in the morning. Hubby knows what route I am on and I stay in my neighbourhood where I recognise a lot of people and houses so I know which doors I could knock on at 5am and feel better if I was concerned. I have my phone shoved down between two layers of sportsbra and do have my earbuds in but they are quiet enough that I can hear other walkers and runners approaching.
That being said we live in a really safe and well lit neighbourhood and there are often quite a few other people out exercising when I go.
The times that I have run at night after dark I have either taken my neighbours dog for a run with me or my mother in laws. Both were really pleased to have their dogs exercised and I felt better having them with me!0 -
If you're interested in starting martial arts for protection and fitness, I would thoroughly recommend Ju-Jitsu, as it focuses on situation you would find yourself in on the street, rather than any lofty ideas of competition etc.
Whilst walking in a dodgy area I tend to carry a small knife - providing you aren't fatal, an attacker will be highly unlikely to go to the police about any injury due to their criminality.
Whilst running I keep a small screwdriver in my running pouch with my keys and phone (you can buy them on amazon for about a tenner - very handy)
Just don't tell other people you do this. If talking to an attacker, use a deeper voice than normal and try not to act panicked; you know the drill, they can back off and avoid hassle.0 -
I walk nearly everywhere but keep we're all. Lite up0
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big_lindsay wrote: »What is the best remedy for that?
What makes you feel unsafe? Once you understand that you can work out how to address the concerns.
To me, the biggest risk is someone in a car not paying attention and hitting me. That's a whole different game to dealing with other risks.
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Wiseandcurious wrote: »Most important thing - always have someone know where you're going (route) and when you will be back....
Curious, how does this help? Is it a way to make it easier for the authorities to find the body or find clues as to the make and model of the trunk you get stuffed into?
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I walk & hike with my phone and my heeler. I bike w/ my phone & pepper spray.0
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I live in Brooklyn and for some reason choose to run through the industrial crappy neighborhoods rather than to the park (uphill). I haven't brought pepper spray but I also wouldn't go at night. If I were to run at night I would stay on the busier avenues where there are lots of bodegas open.0
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Wiseandcurious wrote: »Most important thing - always have someone know where you're going (route) and when you will be back....
Curious, how does this help? Is it a way to make it easier for the authorities to find the body or find clues as to the make and model of the trunk you get stuffed into?
Um, realistically, more so someone comes looking sooner rather than later if you slip over and break an ankle...0 -
Wiseandcurious wrote: »Most important thing - always have someone know where you're going (route) and when you will be back....
Curious, how does this help? Is it a way to make it easier for the authorities to find the body or find clues as to the make and model of the trunk you get stuffed into?
Um, realistically, more so someone comes looking sooner rather than later if you slip over and break an ankle...
I have a feeling that only really helps for short runs. My partner only gets a bit uncomfortable if I'm more than an hour or so later than I said I'd be.0 -
Wiseandcurious wrote: »Most important thing - always have someone know where you're going (route) and when you will be back....
Curious, how does this help? Is it a way to make it easier for the authorities to find the body or find clues as to the make and model of the trunk you get stuffed into?
Um, realistically, more so someone comes looking sooner rather than later if you slip over and break an ankle...
In 2015 people are randomly breaking ankles and laying in the dark, hobbled and alone without a cell phone? Are you certain your scenario is more realistic than mine?0 -
MeanderingMammal wrote: »Wiseandcurious wrote: »Most important thing - always have someone know where you're going (route) and when you will be back....
Curious, how does this help? Is it a way to make it easier for the authorities to find the body or find clues as to the make and model of the trunk you get stuffed into?
Um, realistically, more so someone comes looking sooner rather than later if you slip over and break an ankle...
I have a feeling that only really helps for short runs. My partner only gets a bit uncomfortable if I'm more than an hour or so later than I said I'd be.
Agreed - I'm a predictable soul. 75 minutes is my maximum.0 -
rosejyoti55 wrote: »If you're interested in starting martial arts for protection and fitness, I would thoroughly recommend Ju-Jitsu, as it focuses on situation you would find yourself in on the street, rather than any lofty ideas of competition etc.
^^ This, or any self-defense course really might give you a boost of confidence and the know-how to get away from an attacker. Personally I have a lengthy background in Martial Arts, so I have zero fear of walking alone at night (running... good luck catching me!).
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Wiseandcurious wrote: »Most important thing - always have someone know where you're going (route) and when you will be back....
Curious, how does this help? Is it a way to make it easier for the authorities to find the body or find clues as to the make and model of the trunk you get stuffed into?
Um, realistically, more so someone comes looking sooner rather than later if you slip over and break an ankle...
In 2015 people are randomly breaking ankles and laying in the dark, hobbled and alone without a cell phone? Are you certain your scenario is more realistic than mine?
I just thought your comment was a bit crass to be honest. If what you're suggesting does happen, the police will ask when you were expecting back so they can think about how long you've been missing. So telling someone where you're going and when you'll be back would be helpful. And if it makes people feel safer that seems fair enough.0 -
Lots of good ideas here already.
Be aware (no earphones), walk/run toward traffic, being with someone is good if you can, wear bright colors & reflective fabrics, pay attention to your gut feeling!!!
Have a way to protect yourself if necessary (from 2 or 4-legged predators).
This is my choice:
If I'm not carrying my purse (which has a built-in holster), or using a belt-hung holster, I'll use one of these belly bands (PT-1 from pistolwear.com). They work very well for being active, even jogging, & don't bounce.
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Lots of good ideas here already.
Be aware (no earphones), walk/run toward traffic, being with someone is good if you can, wear bright colors & reflective fabrics, pay attention to your gut feeling!!!
Have a way to protect yourself if necessary (from 2 or 4-legged predators).
This is my choice:
If I'm not carrying my purse (which has a built-in holster), or using a belt-hung holster, I'll use one of these belly bands (PT-1 from pistolwear.com). They work very well for being active, even jogging, & don't bounce.
You obviously don't take your personal safety very seriously.
Streetsweeper or just stay home
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Be alert. Stay away from shrubbery and dark spots. Stay away from empty areas. Most important vary your route and the time of your run. Dogs are usually more a real danger than people.0
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Wiseandcurious wrote: »Most important thing - always have someone know where you're going (route) and when you will be back....
Curious, how does this help? Is it a way to make it easier for the authorities to find the body or find clues as to the make and model of the trunk you get stuffed into?
Actually someone comes and saves you from becoming "a body" when you're severelly injured but not killed. Or freezing to death or pneumonia in a secluded part of a park all night while they look elsewhere. Seriously, you don't think it's important that someone knows when and where to start looking for you if you're missing? Anyway getting stuffed in a trunk happens mote rarely I should think and also a lot easier to avoid than getting overpowered and raped in a dark alley. But really, if you're in *this* kind of neighbourhood, as I said, don't run after dark, or at all.
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If you don't live in a good, safe neighborhood where people are nosy, find just such a neighborhood and run there. I do live in such a neighborhood, so I try to run when people are awake. Our neighborhood even has more than one person in LE living nearby (there's a state trooper two doors down from us!) and if I'm running in the dark, I make darn sure my route takes me specifically down streets I know have LE living in them.0
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When I was young and thought I was invincible, I ran in all the bad places at night without a concern. Now that I am older and realize the risks, I got training, got a permit and carry a gun everywhere.
When running, I carry a gun in a concealed holster sold on eBay called NEOcarry. The NEOcarry is similar to the Pistol Wear holster.
Remember, when seconds count, help is minutes away.0 -
obscuremusicreference wrote: »I carry something similar to this
I'm pretty sure it kept a guy from grabbing my phone outside of the grocery store. Or maybe he just realized there wasn't a lot of value in a $50 Ghettro PCS special.
Where did you get this thingymaboob?0 -
I wear my road ID and stay aware. That is all. I always do feel safe though and run from 5:30 to 7:30 am.0
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I have 100lb protection trained German Shepherd. I have a friend that is a cop and he told me most perverts/criminals are more afraid of police dogs than they are guns. I KNOW my dog woul die trying to help me. She has been tested twice, pervert follwing me at dark. She turned around and it was like something out of a cops show. He turned around and jogged off in the other direction. That being said if they have a gun well, noboy is safe.0
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