Sex.. Is it really what keeps the relationship together?
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Interesting question. I need research, data, and scientific studies please...0
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Of course. That's why people have their tingly bits.. Well.. Tingle, when they want that person.
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kinkyslinky16 wrote: »
When the roller coaster is out of commission, they don't close the entire theme park. The log flume is always a great second choice.
Sex may or may not be important in your relationship, but having a matching sex drive sure is. I'm in the best relationship of my life, in part, because I've finally met my sexual match. That happiness permeates to every other part of our relationship.0 -
Is it important. ... of course. But it's not the only thing. If your relationship is based solely around sex then you're missing out on the emotional connection.0
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acquilla30 wrote: »yopeeps025 wrote: »MoiAussi93 wrote: »yopeeps025 wrote: »MoiAussi93 wrote: »Sex isn't the only thing that matters, but it is a "must have". If the sex isn't good, I won't want to be with the person very long. I would never be with them long enough to "love" them if the sex isn't good.
I don't know If I would say all of that. I guess you might not like virgins at all because there not good in bed. (Maybe)
I think since I never answer the OP that yes sex is also a must have in a relationship. I am one of those every other day types at minimum. Now if she sucks in bed then two qualities could help with that which will help build the relationship. Trust and communication. She does not have to be the best at sex for it to work. It would be up to me to also use those two qualities so she can become an amazing partner and also me for her which will lead to great sex
Maybe even mind blowing sex. I'm still trying to figure out what this means for men? Actually nevermind I think I can answer my own questions. I have a better guess what it means for women.
I'm a 44 year old woman, and have absolutely no interest in virgins!! Never had, never will.
I think with any new person, there is a learning curve. But that is very different than having bad sex. I'n my experience, a person who is good in bed is a good communicator, open minded, and will very quickly figure out what works for me...either by observation/trial & error, or by actually listening to what I tell them...I think I have a responsibility to speak up if I want something I'm not getting or if what they're doing isn't working for me. If they don't...then I don't see the point in sticking with them long enough to get attached emotionally and make the ultimate breakup more painful. This is not a process that takes months...you're either compatible or you're not and that is usually clear very quickly.
Preach. Tell us men what you want. There is no better feeling than hear the woman you're with scream exactly what she wants.
Except when your neighbors have to hear it lol.
At least they will know what good sex is suppose to sound like.0 -
It might be the case until you get married, then it becomes almost non-existant!!!! LOL0
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My husband and I have been together 15 years. It wouldn't have lasted this long if it wasn't good. I imagine it will drop off when we are in our 80s; but by then, it will be too late to trade him in.0
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I believe chemistry is necessary to maintain a relationship, sex generally is part of that .. so yes.0
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mynameisoliverqueen wrote: »It might be the case until you get married, then it becomes almost non-existant!!!! LOL
If that happens you're doing marriage wrong.
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Absolutely not. I am 20 years old and still am a virgin and I have had quite a few long relationships. And sex was never involved I am still young, but I do not believe that sex ever has to be involved before marriage for it to be successful. Now when you are married I believe that it is a special way to show your love to one another and it could be a bond in the relationship. What I am getting to is sex can be important but it is not a crucial factor!
Come back here after you marry, have sex and that sex life dries up. If it doesn't then good for you!0 -
Sex.. Is it really what keeps the relationship together?
Online and on the side, yes.0 -
You gotta let your light shine ;0)0
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Theres alot more to a relationship than sex but what's a relationship without good sex?! The jack rabbit is good for a while but that *kitten* gets expensive on batteries0
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Ooh, let's not put duracell out of business, cheaper to run, and much more fun?0
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I can tell you from my experience being in a relationship with a woman that has no interest in sex its very tough. You start to think its your fault and just not attractive enough. So I do think its veryimportant0
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I think you def need good sex to have a happy lasting relationship BUT good sex with nothing else is not going to make a good relationship either0
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Me and you babe! Me and you!0
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Haha your everywhere0
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lol don't worry, I can't stay out when the sun is shining..0
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kinkyslinky16 wrote: »
Pahaaha0
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