WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR APRIL 2015

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  • cityjaneLondon
    cityjaneLondon Posts: 12,370 Member
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    Sylvia - concentrate on you for the next while. We want you well and rested. :flowerforyou:

    Margaret - Beautiful! <3

    This evening I got an email from my old schoolfriend who is going to be at her flat on the coast next weekend. I have arranged to go down on the train to see her on Saturday. Hooray! Now I have something to look forward to. :laugh:

    Got to put the chilli in containers for the freezer, then bed.

    Love Heather UK
  • mollywhippet
    mollywhippet Posts: 1,890 Member
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    Today's joke of the day:

    :)

    While walking down the street one day a US senator is tragically hit by a truck and dies. His soul arrives in heaven and is met by St. Peter at the entrance.

    "Welcome to heaven," says St. Peter. "Before you settle in, it seems there is a problem. We seldom see a high official around these parts, you see, so we're not sure what to do with you."

    "No problem, just let me in," says the man.

    "Well, I'd like to, but I have orders from higher up. What we'll do is have you spend one day in hell and one in heaven. Then you can choose where to spend eternity."

    "Really, I've made up my mind. I want to be in heaven," says the senator.

    "I'm sorry, but we have our rules." And with that, St.Peter escorts him to the elevator and he goes down, down, down to hell.

    The doors open and he finds himself in the middle of a green golf course. In the distance is a clubhouse and standing in front of it are all his friends and other politicians who had worked with him. Everyone is very happy and in evening dress.

    They run to greet him, shake his hand, and reminisce about the good times they had while getting rich at the expense of the people. They play a friendly game of golf and then dine on lobster, caviar and champagne.

    Also present is the devil, who really is a very friendly & nice guy who has a good time dancing and telling jokes. They are having such a good time that before he realizes it, it is time to go. Everyone gives him a hearty farewell and waves while the elevator raises.

    The elevator goes up, up, up and the door reopens on heaven where St. Peter is waiting for him. "Now it's time to visit heaven."

    So, 24 hours pass with the senator joining a group of contented souls moving from cloud to cloud, playing the harp and singing.

    They have a good time and, before he realizes it, the 24 hours have gone by and St. Peter returns. "Well, then, you've spent a day in hell and another in heaven. Now choose your eternity."

    The senator reflects for a minute, then he answers: "Well, I would never have said it before, I mean heaven has been delightful, but I think I would be better off in hell."

    So St. Peter escorts him to the elevator and he goes down, down, down to hell. Now the doors of the elevator open and he's in the middle of a barren land covered with waste and garbage. He sees all his friends, dressed in rags, picking up the trash and putting it in bags as more trash falls from above.

    The devil comes over to him and puts his arm around his shoulder. "I don't understand," stammers the senator. "Yesterday I was here and there was a golf course and clubhouse, and we ate lobster and caviar, drank champagne, and danced and had a great time. Now there's just a wasteland full of garbage and my friends look miserable. What happened?"

    The devil looks at him, smiles and says, "Yesterday we were campaigning....Today you voted."



    >:)
  • exermom
    exermom Posts: 6,397 Member
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    Did 10 minutes of this "10 Minute Solution Pilates" DVD that I have . The plan for tomorrow is to do some HIIT (gotta torch those calories from Easter!)

    Janet
    - hope your lab work goes well. And the reward of shopping -- couldn't be better. Let us know what you take to the Moose

    naiomi
    - great NSV. Doesn't DH realize that it takes a while to cook a baked ham?

    Cynthia - this sounds weird, but when I awake and my tongue feels "anesthetized", I've usually had a lot of carbs the day before, something that my body isn't used to

    Mary - I'm jealous, you got such a good place. Congrats! Be sure to check out the weather for the entire year before deciding to move. depending on where in TX you are, it might not be humid now, but what is it like in august? When we moved to NC, Vince did a lot of research on the climate/weather conditions, etc. here. The last time there was a hurricane here was over 20 years ago (we are so far inland). There are some storms but they break up once they reach the mountains so we don't get them as fierce. It does get hot here, but very seldom does it get humid. Down side (well, sort of) is that even the mere mention of the word "snow" and people go into full blown panic mode. In some ways this is probably good, they don't know how to drive in snow so that keeps them off the roads (well, most of them anyway) I know you'll make the right decision

    pip
    - now that was mean of you with a capital "m" -- posting those pics. You had me thinking about running to the refrigerator. Those desserts!!!

    katla - the only time I swim for exercise is when I go to the Y and use the deep end of their pool. To me, I just find it so so relaxing to just float in the pool listening to the waterfall.

    Sylvia - you sure have your hands full with ds. Good luck on your colonoscopy. They're so much fun!!!!! When I had mine, I was told that I could eat/drink anything that you can read a newspaper thru, like jello (if I never see another jello, it'll be too soon for me), tea, water, etc.

    terri - like pip, I very seldom do fast food places. As a matter of fact, I really can't remember the last time I ate at one, except for Subway.

    Margaret - what lovely grand neice and nephew you have there. Those dimples, makes me want to just squeeze them

    Exercised then went to pick up one of Loki's prescriptions. Then went to Food Lion to get some asparagus they had on sale. It really wasn't that good, too woody. Then Vince and I went to WalMart, he needed to get a few prescriptions and I bought just a few things we needed from there. Worked some more on the latch hook rug. Going to be keeping my eyes open for the crochet hook and yarn for the other tree skirt. Tonight is mahjongg.

    Then tomorrow after exercise, "l'll take a "wash off the sweat" shower, then have to go to the church to count the money they get from their collections. Have a few more of the key lime cupcakes that I'll take there. Less to have in the house tempting me. Really, I'm not so much tempted but by the time Vince can get to them (he has cake to finish, Starburst jellybeans, and pizzelles) they might very well be stale. Afterwards I'll go to ceramics and hopefully finish painting the praying mantis. Then I'll probably have to go another day to put the glaze on and then it'll be fired.

    Michele in NC
  • dia_nruf
    dia_nruf Posts: 112 Member
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    Heather UK: Have you given thought of publishing your book in the e-book format? Not sure if there is even a difference.

    Terri in Milwaukee: I would check the laws in your state on an expiration date for gift certificates. In most state that is illegal.

    Sylvia: I’m sorry you’re having this situation with your son. My heart goes out to you. Sometimes they do make us want to pull our hair out by the roots, and they know which buttons to push.

    So….no snow as of yet…..halleluiah!

    Heading to cook chicken for dinner…can’t wait.

    Beth in Maine
  • Lestan48
    Lestan48 Posts: 489 Member
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    Tuesday and Blaize was a good boy overnight, no nasty surprises. let him out at 7am and gave him his breakfast. Need to make rice, pasta and veg to add to his meat now, will ask vet today
    Food today = 1625, training + Wii Gold's boxing, JJ's Circuit A and Bob's kettlebells, run on beach with Blaize = ~660 cals
    Lesley in Tasmania
    Photo is of Blaize resting
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  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 16,993 Member
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    :D Lesley, thank you for sharing the picture of Blaize...he is wonderful....and how great that he will go for a run on the beach with you....what a perfect companion.

    <3 Barbie
  • mollywhippet
    mollywhippet Posts: 1,890 Member
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    Leslie, what a little doll!

    Michele, they told me I could have jello, but nothing red or purple. Well, red jello is the only flavor I can choke down, so I don't think I'll be eating any jello. :'(



  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 16,732 Member
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    stats for the day:
    ride hm 2 gym- 11.47min, 15mph 2.9mi = 104c
    spin- 42min, 87ar 104aw, 10-15g, 17.2mi = 328c
    ride gym 2 dome- 6.48min, 12.4amph, 1.4mi = 65c
    ride dome 2 hm- 16.09min, 10amph, 2.6m
    648cal
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 16,732 Member
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    cutie poocher lestan!! congrats!!
  • DamitJanit
    DamitJanit Posts: 1,329 Member
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    Call me crazy but I love to see other people happy and succeeding.

    Good Evening Ladies,

    Pip, you ate all of that?? OMG. You could have shared some with us. yum

    Katla, glad you had a good Easter. I’m keeping my fingers crossed for your taxes getting done and in the mail. The month is ticking away.

    Yannie, I hope they warned you about the bruising. My friend that just had it done looked like I had beaten her with a baseball bat. It will improve every day. I’m just glad you had it taken care of.

    Carey, I feel sure that menu planning will help when you go back to work. It is the only way I can know I’m eating the right amount of calories, although sometimes I come in under more than intended. Good luck with getting your things done. I do like the jar idea.

    Peachstategal, if you want to get the closets done, remember the 15 minutes a day plan. I have been shocked at what I have accomplished and never get too worn out in just that amount of time.

    Carol, okay, ya got me. :/ I went back and looked at my oat bran and it has 190 calories per ½ cup. If I take that times 6 it is 1140, plus the mix and egg, it comes out to 26 calories per mini-muffin or 112 per regular muffin. I sure liked it better the way I did it at first. Obviously, math is not my strong suit either??? LOL I got Bob’s the first time, but this time I ordered Bergin Fruit & Nut Company. It is a little coarser, which I like and it had the best price per ounce. I did buy 6 bags to get the best price and free shipping.

    Sylvia, my heart goes out to you with the way your son is manipulating you. (Been there, done that.) I don’t know why we let them do it to us, but it must be in the Mother gene. If you are going to do all the work, it would have at least been nice if he had let you start early. I guess Julie doesn’t know how to clean an apartment, since she must not know how to help with a move. Geezzeee, I’m getting PO’d for you. My last colonoscopy prep was way easier and better than the time before. I’ll cross my fingers for you that this one is a breeze for you. ((Hugs)) I agree that Pip’s pictures were “food porn”. Lol Is that even allowed on this site??

    Heather, Way to Go on keeping that pound off. Watch out or another one may just follow. On the book, I vote for normal paperback size. What is that, about 4 x 6?

    Terri, Hooray for finding the gift certificate. I do hope they will give you an extension on the other one you found. I’m glad you are liking the tile. You keep talking about the ugly shade of green on the walls. Is there a reason not to paint it a color you like? Glad you can get back in your kitchen tomorrow. I’m sure that will be nice.

    NMMargaret, love all the pictures. Beautiful children!!!

    Chris, if I had carrot cake at home that is something I wouldn't be able to resist. Good plan to let others enjoy it.

    Sylvia, so sorry about your DS. Sometimes we just can’t help our kids and they have to figure things out on their own. I’m sending best wishes for your upcoming procedure, including the prep. Think positive and take care of yourself and try not to worry about DS. (easy to say, but hard to do sometimes) Big ((((Huggs))))
    Loved the joke. Sounds just like a salesman!

    Heather, how nice that you will get to visit your friend. Have a wonderful time. <3

    Michele, It’s funny you asked about the Moose. I had a Suddenly Salad mix from before beginning my journey, so decided to make it to get it out of the pantry. I never see any pasta salad there, so thought that would be a good change. You may have guessed by now that mine was one of four on the table tonight. LOL Very little was eaten so home it came for DH. What can I say? By the way, you are doing “food porn talk” by mentioning those key lime cupcakes. They sound soooo good!

    Beth, keeping my fingers crossed for no snow for you. The weather people are often wrong, you know.

    Lesley, Blaize is a doll!! OMG no wonder you chose him! So happy that he likes all your activities.

    Welcome to any Newbies that I missed. Come often and join in the chat. This thing works!! Please sign your post with what you want to be called. It makes it easier for us to respond to you. Also a location is great, be it specific or general. We are happy to have you join us.

    It took over an hour after my pain med but my back got better. I normally take it before I do too much and it prevents the pain, but once I get in pain it just takes longer to get rid of it. I got my dish ready for Moose tonight and finally did a little exercise but back was having no part of it today. Tomorrow is a new day. At the Moose meeting, for the first time everyone noticed my weight loss. I’ll admit it does make ya feel good. o:) Many of them were asking how I did it so we might end up with some new ladies on here.

    Thought for the day:

    Spend time with those
    who bring out
    the best in you,
    not the stress
    in you.


    I love you ladies. Have a good one! (as they say down South) B)


    Words I live by:
    savor. I have to slow down and savor every bite.
    and
    opportunity. Each day offers new opportunities for good health and happiness if we just look for them and choose them.

    Janet
    Myrtle Beach, SC
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 16,732 Member
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    damnit - at least i didn't get the runs!
  • naiomi2015
    naiomi2015 Posts: 95 Member
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    Hi Everyone,

    Cityjanelondon Glad you will be able to see your lingtime friend. Nothing like folk who know us through the good and the bad over time.

    Mollywhippit Great joke -thanks.

    ExermomHad the ham tonight w/sweet potatoes, veg and baked apple. I wish DH had a better idea re: cooking etc... But as a rule he does not. DH does voice his appreciation for meals and other things I do.

    Lestan48 Great Picts of your new family member. Looks like Blaze has readily become part of your life. I am so happy for you.

    Sylvia I don't have children but I can remember that my Mom taught me a lot about how to live life when she said no as well as yes. You have a right to have your time respected.

    I spend a lot of my day sitting down. So after reading how many in this group are able to reach 10k steps I thought I would try to get up at least 1x every hour. If my Withings did not register 1k in the passing hour I then would use the elipticle to supplement my steps. Well I managed to get to 10K. Cook dinner, do 3 loads of laundry and return a few calls.

    I found it just about impossible to write reports or respond to e-mail so this is going to take some trial and error to find a way that works. In addition my legs and arms feel like rubber. Oh well ... Live and learn.

    Naiomi2015 41F overcast night in Massachusetts
  • exermom
    exermom Posts: 6,397 Member
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    oh Lesley - Blaize is absolutely beautiful! And he's so lucky to have you.

    Sylvia - that's right! now that you mention it, I couldn't have anything red. They didn't specifically mention purple, but I don't think I had it or if I did I only had a little

    Janet
    - my father was a (is this what they call it?) Grand Moose.

    Washed the bedspread and quilt that were on the bed in the back bedroom. Afterwards, I'll probably put the summer bedspread on and no quilt. this is a quilt that was handstitched by my aunt. she did lovely work.

    The first of the christmas tree skirts is almost done. Now I have to figure out how to turn the back part onto the back. Did I sufficiently confuse everyone????? I wonder....I put this rubber backing stuff on and then let it dry. I wonder if I can cut out the shape, turn the extra under, perhaps sew it into place, then put the rubber backing on. that'll help to keep it from unraveling. What does anyone else do to the finish off a latchhook piece?

    Michele in NC
  • Lilymay2
    Lilymay2 Posts: 2,524 Member
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    Checking in... work today....painted when I got home... read some of the posts.

    Sylvia - I might have mention that Julie could come help. But that might get the kids in trouble for tattling!... oh good grief kids!

    Night all
    Lillian in West Central Saskatchewan

    And hopefully there is no snow tomorrow morning...!!
  • drkatiebug
    drkatiebug Posts: 1,947 Member
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    Sylvia,I am probably weird, but when I prep for a colonoscopy I like to prepare lemon jello and drink it like tea while it is still warm. My mother tried it on my suggestion and told me I was flat out crazy! I thought it was very filling and delicious. How about banana Popsicles? That is another favorite. As for the son, good for you for not being available tomorrow. Setting boundaries is good for stopping manipulative behavior.

    Lestan, congrats on the new dog. He is a cutie.

    I'm reading a new and interesting perspective on decluttering. It is called "The Life Changing Magic of Tidying Up." Have any of you read it? The author totally debunks the 15 minute a day thing. I don't know if I can do it her way, but I am enjoying the book and she does make some valid points.

    Thanks to those who wished me out of my blahs. I am better today, but still need to do some shaking it off. If I could get caught up with some work for others that I'm over-extended on, it would help.



  • jmkmomm
    jmkmomm Posts: 3,247 Member
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    Sylvia, loved, loved the joke!. I think your son is trying to get as much out of his disease as he can, with his ex, you and probably his children. I mean, he does have a very serious disease, eventually fatal, but he needs to have responsibility also and teach it to his children. I really feel for you with this one.

    Lesley, precious pooch. You are one brave woman though to have a dark haired dog on that lovely carpet!

    Pip, I take it that the food pron pics were taken at a buffet? My success at a buffet is to start out with a good salad. I hate green salad that has the lettuce leaves all big and hanging out of your mouth. I like mine chopped as fine as I can get them. So after I add my toppings, just other veggies, maybe an egg and cranberries, I chop them up. This can be difficult on the size plates you get at a buffet. So it takes me quite a while. But in the mean time my husband is already gone back for his second plate on the meat and potatoes. So after I finish my salad I go for one meat and a couple of veggies. I must admit I do visit the desert bar but get little pieces. I know those places must hate me but when they cut that wonderful looking carrot cake in such nice pieces, I either cut I tiny piece off of their neatly cut slices or I just scrape some cake off the plate that other people have left. That prevents me from having the cream cheese frosting to! And no bread anymore. Who knows how many age 50+ women are going to join our forum now tht they here we have food porn over here!!!

    MN Margaret, your grand children are so lovely. My husband is already asking when we are going to go down and see the kids. We just got back Friday night!

    my husband is getting his first colonoscopy soon. The office nurse and I talked about it today as to what GI group to have do it. He had had it scheduled before and chickened out and had it cancelled. Said he was not going to have it done in the same place where he worked and know that those women had seen his butt! He would always deliver the drug cart to the colonoscopy unit. Then he had hi heart attack and couldn't be off some of his medicine at all for the test. Now the cardiologist has given his OK to get it scheduled. His brother has to have one every yea due to the amount of polyps he always has. One year it was 16. His Mom finally got polyp free. So here he is at almost 67 and never had one. Will not be fun with him and the diet or the prep.

    I am trying out the cinnamon stick idea several of you have about the sugar ants. I put one in front of the door, one by the back splash in back of the sink since I see them scattering underneath that and one by the big food box. I'm not comfortable putting any by her food bowl, afraid she won't eat her food if that is there. So I have checked the big food box and would still see a couple of ants in it. got them out and food refreshed and now literally have that box surrounded by cinnamon sticks like a fort! Tomorrow in the daylight I will see how the doorway looks like. I have several down there now instead of just one. Those things were expensive!!

    Joyce, Indiana
  • CynthiaT60
    CynthiaT60 Posts: 1,280 Member
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    Good morning everyone!

    Sylvia: fwiw, I think you did the right thing about the cleaning. So glad you’re getting help with your tummy problems.

    Margaret: thanks for the photos; lovely.

    Leslie: Blaize is a sweetheart!

    Not much news here; still have a light cold. Working today.


    Hope we all have a good day.

    Cynthia :flowerforyou:


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  • dreamwriter
    dreamwriter Posts: 610 Member
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    I jumped ahead to Page 9 because I knew I was not going to catch up otherwise.

    Vicki- Sorry to hear about your Mom's continued health problems. Her's hoping that she can be home soon.

    Carey - Thank you. I am trying to do some self care.

    Lesley- Blaize is a gorgeous hunk. What fun the two of you will have.

    Janet - My clinic just got this amazing little machine that gives your A1C in about 5 minutes. They are just trying it but I hope they keep it.

    Mary - 84 sounds perfect to me. Snow that we got Saturday is sticking around. Sounds like you found a nice play to stay.

    Pip - Brunch and the view look fantastic!

    Sylvia - Your situation with your DS sounds frustrating. As Moms all we can really do is love them - Warts and all.

    Some of you are asking what silent reflux is. It doesn't give you the bitter taste in the mouth. I feel like I constantly have a lump in my throat and am continuously clearing it. For years I was having severe asthma attacks. Turns out it is probably the reflux. I get a tickle in the back of my throat. Start to cough, can't stop and usually end up vomiting. This can last for hours or days. There are other signs too. This is what they think it is. I will be having an endoscopy to check condition of my esophagus.
    DS is frustrating me behind reason. He is having "sleepovers" at her house. Grrrr.....I told him that they should be in counselling before any of this. They both want to go forth with the hearing in June. I don't understand how you can have a relationship and going to court over custody. So Messed Up! Easter weekend was not the joy I was hoping for. I understand wanting to save your family but how can he with all she did. He says it was terrible and he's not forgetting. As I said all I can do is love him and hope he doesn't mess things up for himself and be left broken hearted and broke.
    Two Easter dinners and I didn't cook either. The egg hunt was fun, noisy and chaotic. I made the mistake of having pie out at the farm. To me it is still Lynn's kitchen and her pies were delicious so out of habit I had pie. The coconut cream was the worst I've tasted. The lemon meringue was good but not in the same league as Lynn's. Oh well.
    Individual counselling. I am nervous but hopeful that these sessions will help us build a stronger marriage so we can enjoy one another again.
    Looking forward to riding my trike soon if Mother Nature is done showing us who is boss.
    Sorry for running on.
    -Sharon in Lethbridge.
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 9,821 Member
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    good morning,
    not feeling so hot. didn't eat so well yesterday.. stress level pretty high.. DH is getting frustrated.. he wants to take a shower and cant.. because you have to either paint or tile the wall before using the shower, came home last night and he was nasty with me, and again this morning.. so will just stay away.. do what I need to do and go about my business.all I can say is thank goodness we are doing one room at a time or else I think I would have pulled my hair out..
    what is will the pages now? I cant stand this .are they trying to fix things? I dont have Google Chrome on my laptop
  • grandmallie
    grandmallie Posts: 9,821 Member
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    Well it has finally caught up with me..got a tummy bug..staying in bed