"I'm pretty into myself"

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  • wineplease
    wineplease Posts: 469 Member
    I really thought I liked myself, but I suppose it does make sense that I maybe just have low self esteem. Now I'm just confused. How do you know if you really love yourself or if it's your low self esteem in disguise? :(

    I think if you look at your life as a whole, you may be able to answer the question. Did you at one time have low self esteem? Think poorly of yourself? Have someone else make you feel bad about yourself? Sometimes that just stays with us. So, even when we're doing better, feeling good about ourselves and ready to shout it out to the world, we still have some of that fear/doubt deep inside.
  • TyTy76
    TyTy76 Posts: 1,761 Member
    I like myself daily.
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  • CorvusCorax77
    CorvusCorax77 Posts: 2,536 Member
    I HAVE CIBO MATTO!!!!!!!!!!!
  • angelams1019
    angelams1019 Posts: 1,102 Member
    this is still dumb
    i cant believe I wasted 2 mins of my life on this post
    I want a refund please

    KTHXBAI!

    I dont know what KTHXBA means

    Kay....thanks....bye.

    hahahaha This! Sorry we are boring you. But I think you missed the point.

    The girl is a narcissist and this post is dumb

    Aww...I'm sorry you feel that way :cry:
  • nomeejerome
    nomeejerome Posts: 2,616 Member
    So I posted a status last night: "I think its pretty safe to say...I'm pretty into myself. Sorry I'm not sorry! :tongue: "

    This is the response I got: "Too me it kinda just comes off like low self esteem. It's been my experience that the ones who talk the loudest/most about how great they are and how much they love themselves are actually just trying to convince the world of that because they can't seem to convince themselves. ...but we all have to find ways to cope with ourselves, and if that works for you, then great. It's like Kanye said, 'We all self conscious, I'm just the first to admit it.'"

    This opened up a really interesting conversation in my mind and I thought I'd see if anyone else wanted to chime in.

    So the big question is this: WHY isn't it socially acceptable to love yourself?? lol Think about it...Its not usually socially acceptable to go around saying you love yourself and praising yourself without people thinking you're either conceited and arrogant or sad and insecure. But WHY?! lol Why isn't it socially acceptable to love ourselves and be OPEN about it?

    I think I'm pretty AWESOME...Some days more than others. If you're awesome too, not afraid to say it out loud, and aren't offended by my awesomeness, feel free to ADD ME!! :drinker:

    I have not read through all of the responses...but they referenced Kanye? Really? That guy is a *kitten*
  • this is still dumb
    i cant believe I wasted 2 mins of my life on this post
    I want a refund please

    KTHXBAI!

    I dont know what KTHXBA means

    Kay....thanks....bye.

    hahahaha This! Sorry we are boring you. But I think you missed the point.

    The girl is a narcissist and this post is dumb

    I'm out of here before it gets ugly. I do NOT want to be caught in the middle of this.
  • Lone_Wolf70
    Lone_Wolf70 Posts: 2,820 Member
    63lbs to go and you're "pretty into yourself"? I cant say anything I want to without getting a strike.
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    63lbs to go and you're "pretty into yourself"? I cant say anything I want to without getting a strike.

    Confidence isn't always about looks.
  • CorvusCorax77
    CorvusCorax77 Posts: 2,536 Member
    63lbs to go and you're "pretty into yourself"? I cant say anything I want to without getting a strike.

    HOLY *kitten*.

    What an epic arsehole you are being!

    Loving oneself isn't about body fat percentage.

    SMH.

    Ok. I'm done with this thread.

    (does one last quick check for any diodelcibo action....and JETS!)
  • angelams1019
    angelams1019 Posts: 1,102 Member
    63lbs to go and you're "pretty into yourself"? I cant say anything I want to without getting a strike.

    I'm sorry...I'm not really sure what me having 63 pounds to go has to do with me being "pretty into myself". Why don't you clear that up for me :smile:
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    this is still dumb
    i cant believe I wasted 2 mins of my life on this post
    I want a refund please

    KTHXBAI!

    I dont know what KTHXBA means

    Kay....thanks....bye.

    hahahaha This! Sorry we are boring you. But I think you missed the point.

    The girl is a narcissist and this post is dumb

    Hey, guess what?

    You don't have to hang around in this thread if you don't want to... so if it's dumb... then why are you still in it?

    Or if you are sooooo offended by this girl's dumb post, you could just report it.
  • My0WNinspiration
    My0WNinspiration Posts: 1,146 Member


    Is this better:


    DIODELCIBO!!!! Abbi pietà di me!

    :love:

    damn :ohwell:

    guess he doesn't speak Italian after all :tongue:

    probably a "catfish"
  • CorvusCorax77
    CorvusCorax77 Posts: 2,536 Member


    Is this better:


    DIODELCIBO!!!! Abbi pietà di me!

    :love:

    damn :ohwell:

    guess he doesn't speak Italian after all :tongue:

    probably a "catfish"



    *kicks dirt*
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member


    Is this better:


    DIODELCIBO!!!! Abbi pietà di me!

    :love:

    damn :ohwell:

    guess he doesn't speak Italian after all :tongue:

    probably a "catfish"

    I swear I'm a French model...
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member


    Is this better:


    DIODELCIBO!!!! Abbi pietà di me!

    :love:

    damn :ohwell:

    guess he doesn't speak Italian after all :tongue:

    probably a "catfish"

    I swear I'm a French model...

    Bonjour!
  • CorvusCorax77
    CorvusCorax77 Posts: 2,536 Member


    Is this better:


    DIODELCIBO!!!! Abbi pietà di me!

    :love:

    damn :ohwell:

    guess he doesn't speak Italian after all :tongue:

    probably a "catfish"

    I swear I'm a French model...

    Bonjour!!!

    (and I'm a professional surfer bikini model! it's true! can't put anything on the internet that isn't true!)

    ETA: If you want me to stop creeping you, just PM me a copy of each of your profile pics :love:
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member


    Is this better:


    DIODELCIBO!!!! Abbi pietà di me!

    :love:

    damn :ohwell:

    guess he doesn't speak Italian after all :tongue:

    probably a "catfish"

    I swear I'm a French model...

    Bonjour!!!

    (and I'm a professional surfer bikini model! it's true! can't put anything on the internet that isn't true!)

    Qué significa "bonjour"?
  • mmm_drop
    mmm_drop Posts: 1,126 Member
    In my experience, if you are awesome, the awesomeness generally shows itself within a few interactions (even online). You don't need to proclaim it. Saying it doesn't make you NOT awesome. But it might make your awesomeness shine a little less bright.
    This.

    If you think it/feel it, all of the people who need to believe it (read: just you) already know it. I don't understand the need to say it/type it. But, if you were on my FL I wouldn't assume you have poor self-esteem because you said it. I'd probably pat you on the bottom and say "yay!"

    *pats bottom* YAY!
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    ETA: If you want me to stop creeping you, just PM me a copy of each of your profile pics :love:

    Trust me... he doesn't want you to stop. :laugh:

    Besides... the ones you want to see aren't in his profile... anymore.:sad:
  • SoViLicious
    SoViLicious Posts: 2,633 Member
    63lbs to go and you're "pretty into yourself"? I cant say anything I want to without getting a strike.


    You look like you drive a van and try to lure children with candy. I bet you do, don't you? Creepy gonna creep!
  • CorvusCorax77
    CorvusCorax77 Posts: 2,536 Member


    Qué significa "bonjour"?

    http://youtu.be/v_CgPsGY5Mw


    Tu mi hai sorriso!
  • CorvusCorax77
    CorvusCorax77 Posts: 2,536 Member
    ETA: If you want me to stop creeping you, just PM me a copy of each of your profile pics :love:

    Trust me... he doesn't want you to stop. :laugh:

    Besides... the ones you want to see aren't in his profile... anymore.:sad:

    are you his friend?? I heard he doesn't accept friends!!! I HAVE BEEN LED ASTRAY!!!!!!!!!!!
  • firstsip
    firstsip Posts: 8,399 Member
    I love lamp.
  • iulia_maddie
    iulia_maddie Posts: 2,780 Member
    I love lamp.

    And lamp loves you.
  • kennethmgreen
    kennethmgreen Posts: 1,759 Member
    Hate to get cliche here, but I'm pretty sure we all know what happens when we point fingers.
    Hangnails?

    I hate those!
  • diodelcibo
    diodelcibo Posts: 2,564 Member


    Qué significa "bonjour"?

    http://youtu.be/v_CgPsGY5Mw


    Tu mi hai sorriso!

    How did you find this video of me?

    Btw guys don't date that chick she doesn't put out on the first date.
  • kennethmgreen
    kennethmgreen Posts: 1,759 Member
    What right did he or she have to concern him or herself with how the OP thought or felt?
    That door opens as soon as the OP broadcasts.
    You're exactly right. When I posted the status I subjected myself to other people's opinions. I'm glad I did because I think regardless of your stance, its an interesting topic. Some of us will agree and some of us wont. Thats life! :smile:
    Last quote is OP.

    While others bicker about who gets to say what to whom, I wanted to call out your response here. To me, that is awesome - at least in the context of forum behavior. Thanks, OP, for the great attitude. Forum needs more of that.
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  • Dunkirk
    Dunkirk Posts: 465 Member
    When you love yourself, it makes you are nice person as you're free to be kind and loving to others. Loving yourself means you're pretty secure emotionally and you can happily put other peoples needs ahead of your own. Loving yourself is not being self absorbed, or pretty much into yourself. Selfish, unkind, thoughtless and hateful people don't love themselves.