Do you post "gym selfies?"

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  • baldielove13
    baldielove13 Posts: 219 Member
    I have an anonymous Instagram account on which I sometimes share post-workout selfies. I use my IG fitness account as sort of an illustrated supplement to MFP. There's a whole community of people on IG similar to MFP, with an added visual element.

    It may be a little narcissistic, but I think that a lot of the gym selfies I see on the fitness community of IG are all about fostering hard work and self care, much like MFP.

    Same here. I post a daily gym selfie on IG, and it gives me a confidence boost. I can see the progress as I scroll through all the pics.
  • LolBroScience
    LolBroScience Posts: 4,537 Member
    I don't post selfies too often. I do post clips of my workout though. Does that mean I'm extra narcissistic?
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  • Cranquistador
    Cranquistador Posts: 39,744 Member
    I don't post selfies too often. I do post clips of my workout though. Does that mean I'm extra narcissistic?
    Please do not cease or desist.
  • nick40vmi
    nick40vmi Posts: 70 Member
    Based upon the opinions of most of the users who have posted, it seems they do not feel the Brunel University in London study does not hold true and narcissism is not prevalent in those who post 'gym selfies' on social media sites. Great discussion!
  • LolBroScience
    LolBroScience Posts: 4,537 Member
    edited June 2015
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    Based upon the opinions of most of the users who have posted, it seems they do not feel the Brunel University in London study does not hold true and narcissism is not prevalent in those who post 'gym selfies' on social media sites. Great discussion!

    Me thinks the study should be re-titled "Group of DYEL's conduct study on personal jealousy - Haters gonna hate."
  • bepeejaye
    bepeejaye Posts: 775 Member
    I think it is all relative - it depends on who is doing the defining (which camp one is on). I have a feeling soon enough they will do a study on people that do not post/take selfies, accompanied by a defining word for them :smiley:
  • nick40vmi
    nick40vmi Posts: 70 Member
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    Based upon the opinions of most of the users who have posted, it seems they do not feel the Brunel University in London study does not hold true and narcissism is not prevalent in those who post 'gym selfies' on social media sites. Great discussion!

    Me thinks the study should be re-titled "Group of DYEL's conduct study on personal jealousy - Haters gonna hate."

    Hahahaha quite amusing, however the study is performed in a objective manner as is all scholarly work. I doubt the motivations for the study are based upon emotional responses
  • TR0berts
    TR0berts Posts: 7,739 Member
    I see you have very little experience with studies.
  • nick40vmi
    nick40vmi Posts: 70 Member
    TR0berts wrote: »
    I see you have very little experience with studies.

    To disagree with my response may require some rebuttal, but I am quite sure the statement, stands to reason, to be true.
  • ElizabethKalmbach
    ElizabethKalmbach Posts: 1,415 Member
    Is the selfie situationally appropriate? On this site, yes. On FB? Maybe not so much. I think that question has bearing on the conclusion I would come to one way or the other. That being said, my gym doesn't allow cameras, so, no selfies for me.
  • nick40vmi
    nick40vmi Posts: 70 Member
    Is the selfie situationally appropriate? On this site, yes. On FB? Maybe not so much. I think that question has bearing on the conclusion I would come to one way or the other. That being said, my gym doesn't allow cameras, so, no selfies for me.

    Just out of curiosity, why does your gym not allow cameras? An oddly specific policy I might add.
  • LolBroScience
    LolBroScience Posts: 4,537 Member
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    Is the selfie situationally appropriate? On this site, yes. On FB? Maybe not so much. I think that question has bearing on the conclusion I would come to one way or the other. That being said, my gym doesn't allow cameras, so, no selfies for me.

    Just out of curiosity, why does your gym not allow cameras? An oddly specific policy I might add.

    It's common at a lot of commercial gyms actually
  • TR0berts
    TR0berts Posts: 7,739 Member
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    Is the selfie situationally appropriate? On this site, yes. On FB? Maybe not so much. I think that question has bearing on the conclusion I would come to one way or the other. That being said, my gym doesn't allow cameras, so, no selfies for me.

    Just out of curiosity, why does your gym not allow cameras? An oddly specific policy I might add.


    I see you have very little experience with gyms, as well.
  • nick40vmi
    nick40vmi Posts: 70 Member
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    Is the selfie situationally appropriate? On this site, yes. On FB? Maybe not so much. I think that question has bearing on the conclusion I would come to one way or the other. That being said, my gym doesn't allow cameras, so, no selfies for me.

    Just out of curiosity, why does your gym not allow cameras? An oddly specific policy I might add.

    It's common at a lot of commercial gyms actually

    I do not usually go to gyms or know much about them, so my knowledge on their policies is fairly limited.
  • ElizabethKalmbach
    ElizabethKalmbach Posts: 1,415 Member
    It's not that unusual, really. My gyms are a part of a State University, so I always figured it was just a way for them to reduce headaches and shenanigans. I've never really needed to prove to anyone but my insurance provider that I was at the gym anyway, and just swiping my ID at the door does that.
  • nick40vmi
    nick40vmi Posts: 70 Member
    TR0berts wrote: »
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    Is the selfie situationally appropriate? On this site, yes. On FB? Maybe not so much. I think that question has bearing on the conclusion I would come to one way or the other. That being said, my gym doesn't allow cameras, so, no selfies for me.

    Just out of curiosity, why does your gym not allow cameras? An oddly specific policy I might add.


    I see you have very little experience with gyms, as well.

    I find your posts irrelevant to the discussion and frankly distasteful, I would like to ask you to please cease any further negative comments. Thank you.
  • thesupremeforce
    thesupremeforce Posts: 1,206 Member
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    TR0berts wrote: »
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    Is the selfie situationally appropriate? On this site, yes. On FB? Maybe not so much. I think that question has bearing on the conclusion I would come to one way or the other. That being said, my gym doesn't allow cameras, so, no selfies for me.

    Just out of curiosity, why does your gym not allow cameras? An oddly specific policy I might add.


    I see you have very little experience with gyms, as well.

    I find your posts irrelevant to the discussion and frankly distasteful, I would like to ask you to please cease any further negative comments. Thank you.

    You did start a topic to link people to a blog that doesn't really say anything that references a study nobody can access. Then you haven't actually contributed much of anything to the discussion, so I can see why people would poke fun at you.
  • TR0berts
    TR0berts Posts: 7,739 Member
    They're actually quite relevant.

    First post of mine: it doesn't matter what anyone thinks of others posting gym selfies.

    Second post of mine: studies are often started because someone has an emotional investment in the subject.

    Third post of mine: confirmed by you later, that you don't know basic rules of most gyms.


    I give your trolling a 3/10.
  • nick40vmi
    nick40vmi Posts: 70 Member
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    TR0berts wrote: »
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    Is the selfie situationally appropriate? On this site, yes. On FB? Maybe not so much. I think that question has bearing on the conclusion I would come to one way or the other. That being said, my gym doesn't allow cameras, so, no selfies for me.

    Just out of curiosity, why does your gym not allow cameras? An oddly specific policy I might add.


    I see you have very little experience with gyms, as well.

    I find your posts irrelevant to the discussion and frankly distasteful, I would like to ask you to please cease any further negative comments. Thank you.

    You did start a topic to link people to a blog that doesn't really say anything that references a study nobody can access. Then you haven't actually contributed much of anything to the discussion, so I can see why people would poke fun at you.

    My dear sir, I've been a catalyst for intelligent discussion. My contribution has been that of a third person stand point.
  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
    edited June 2015
    Didn't you know? If you are fit, you're supposed to be ashamed of that progress. You should not share it on Facebook, because that would be narcissistic. You should not post status updates of successes in the gym or progress made. That is braggery.

    However... If you are volunteering at your child's school - THAT is FB worthy. Because that shows you are a good parent. Or if you make a delicious meal. You should post THOSE pics. Or, you can always feel free to post a meme about how you are NOT fit or beautiful, that you have curves and focus on your family. Those are acceptable.

    But posting pictures that show you may have a nice physique? Despicable. Heaven forbid someone feels that you are telling them that you are a better at parenting er... cooking er... taking care of yourself. You may come across as having a better family life er... cooking skills er... body than them. And that's clearly wrong.

    ETA: Oh and don't forget vacation photos... those are perfect photos to post. No one will ever think that you are posting those because you're richer than them, or have better opportunities. Everyone wants to see your posts of your world travels. But not your running route... or your new work out clothes. Fancy shoes? yes... Runners no.

    Clear... right?
  • MityMax96
    MityMax96 Posts: 5,778 Member
    I don't post selfies too often. I do post clips of my workout though. Does that mean I'm extra narcissistic?

    I need to start doing this, so I can see my form....especially on squats.
    Hard to get a good idea on your form doing a squat and trying to watch in a mirror.
  • nick40vmi
    nick40vmi Posts: 70 Member
    TR0berts wrote: »
    They're actually quite relevant.

    First post of mine: it doesn't matter what anyone thinks of others posting gym selfies.

    Second post of mine: studies are often started because someone has an emotional investment in the subject.

    Third post of mine: confirmed by you later, that you don't know basic rules of most gyms.


    I give your trolling a 3/10.

    My point for your second claim is a scientific experiment should not have emotional variables that may skew the data.

    Your third claim is claim was correct but by chance not by the evidence presented.

    But by the nature of your posts they are to discourage me which I assure you they do not, but have hindered the ability of reasonable discussion. Please, end this behavior.
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  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
    MireyGal76 wrote: »
    Didn't you know? If you are fit, you're supposed to be ashamed of that progress. You should not share it on Facebook, because that would be narcissistic. You should not post status updates of successes in the gym or progress made. That is braggery.

    However... If you are volunteering at your child's school - THAT is FB worthy. Because that shows you are a good parent. Or if you make a delicious meal. You should post THOSE pics. Or, you can always feel free to post a meme about how you are NOT fit or beautiful, that you have curves and focus on your family. Those are acceptable.

    But posting pictures that show you may have a nice physique? Despicable. Heaven forbid someone feels that you are telling them that you are a better at parenting er... cooking er... taking care of yourself. You may come across as having a better family life er... cooking skills er... body than them. And that's clearly wrong.

    Damn girl! Remind me not to piss you off! Lovely work, by the way. I did post a troll pic on page 2 too. Of course, I also posted a picture of a women getting pelted with hot dogs, so, what do I know?

    haha... this is a sensitive topic for me. I am bombarded daily on FB with the articles that say it's ok to be overweight, to celebrate your body and who you are... to "rock those curves" and yet it is abundantly clear that ONLY applies if you are overweight... because god forbid you even HINT at being in shape, or going to the gym. You must be a bad mother / sacrificing your family if you are.
  • TR0berts
    TR0berts Posts: 7,739 Member
    Re: point 2: they often do. That's why studies are peer-reviewed. To make sure the science is correct and not swayed by external circumstances.

    The fact that you can't handle criticism is your problem. On the off chance that you're not just a Friday Troll, I'll advise you to think more about what you're trying to say/do. Create better threads and discussions. And actually try taking a stance. Your posts in this thread scream troll, as you haven't expressed any opinions - rather, tried to play "gotcha" with a couple of posters.
  • nick40vmi
    nick40vmi Posts: 70 Member
    MireyGal76 wrote: »
    Didn't you know? If you are fit, you're supposed to be ashamed of that progress. You should not share it on Facebook, because that would be narcissistic. You should not post status updates of successes in the gym or progress made. That is braggery.

    However... If you are volunteering at your child's school - THAT is FB worthy. Because that shows you are a good parent. Or if you make a delicious meal. You should post THOSE pics. Or, you can always feel free to post a meme about how you are NOT fit or beautiful, that you have curves and focus on your family. Those are acceptable.

    But posting pictures that show you may have a nice physique? Despicable. Heaven forbid someone feels that you are telling them that you are a better at parenting er... cooking er... taking care of yourself. You may come across as having a better family life er... cooking skills er... body than them. And that's clearly wrong.

    ETA: Oh and don't forget vacation photos... those are perfect photos to post. No one will ever think that you are posting those because you're richer than them, or have better opportunities. Everyone wants to see your posts of your world travels. But not your running route... or your new work out clothes. Fancy shoes? yes... Runners no.

    Clear... right?

    This refers back to the previous question:

    If one is already proud of their accomplishment, regardless of what it is, by posting for a public audience to see, does that constitute as 'narcissistic'?
  • MityMax96
    MityMax96 Posts: 5,778 Member
    MireyGal76 wrote: »
    MireyGal76 wrote: »
    Didn't you know? If you are fit, you're supposed to be ashamed of that progress. You should not share it on Facebook, because that would be narcissistic. You should not post status updates of successes in the gym or progress made. That is braggery.

    However... If you are volunteering at your child's school - THAT is FB worthy. Because that shows you are a good parent. Or if you make a delicious meal. You should post THOSE pics. Or, you can always feel free to post a meme about how you are NOT fit or beautiful, that you have curves and focus on your family. Those are acceptable.

    But posting pictures that show you may have a nice physique? Despicable. Heaven forbid someone feels that you are telling them that you are a better at parenting er... cooking er... taking care of yourself. You may come across as having a better family life er... cooking skills er... body than them. And that's clearly wrong.

    Damn girl! Remind me not to piss you off! Lovely work, by the way. I did post a troll pic on page 2 too. Of course, I also posted a picture of a women getting pelted with hot dogs, so, what do I know?

    haha... this is a sensitive topic for me. I am bombarded daily on FB with the articles that say it's ok to be overweight, to celebrate your body and who you are... to "rock those curves" and yet it is abundantly clear that ONLY applies if you are overweight... because god forbid you even HINT at being in shape, or going to the gym. You must be a bad mother / sacrificing your family if you are.

    I have noticed and thought that as well....
    But luckily a lot of friends on FB are into working out and lifting and stuff.....so I see more of that, than I do of what you see. :smile:
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  • MireyGal76
    MireyGal76 Posts: 7,334 Member
    nick40ghs wrote: »
    MireyGal76 wrote: »
    Didn't you know? If you are fit, you're supposed to be ashamed of that progress. You should not share it on Facebook, because that would be narcissistic. You should not post status updates of successes in the gym or progress made. That is braggery.

    However... If you are volunteering at your child's school - THAT is FB worthy. Because that shows you are a good parent. Or if you make a delicious meal. You should post THOSE pics. Or, you can always feel free to post a meme about how you are NOT fit or beautiful, that you have curves and focus on your family. Those are acceptable.

    But posting pictures that show you may have a nice physique? Despicable. Heaven forbid someone feels that you are telling them that you are a better at parenting er... cooking er... taking care of yourself. You may come across as having a better family life er... cooking skills er... body than them. And that's clearly wrong.

    ETA: Oh and don't forget vacation photos... those are perfect photos to post. No one will ever think that you are posting those because you're richer than them, or have better opportunities. Everyone wants to see your posts of your world travels. But not your running route... or your new work out clothes. Fancy shoes? yes... Runners no.

    Clear... right?

    This refers back to the previous question:

    If one is already proud of their accomplishment, regardless of what it is, by posting for a public audience to see, does that constitute as 'narcissistic'?

    Possibly, yes. Or they're being social.

    Are you being narcissistic by posting a study which allows you to showcase your advanced intellect?
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