WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR AUGUST 2105

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  • janetr7476
    janetr7476 Posts: 4,001 Member
    edited August 2015
    Terri - Doctors will definitely not treat you any longer if you do not follow their advice. I've had friends/family that the docs told them same thing with mammograms, PAP's whatever. It certainly is the doctors call. I guess they figure if you aren't going to follow their advice, you can go somewhere else. Glad you got a laugh out of the "face chat" story but I'm tellin ya it was downright scary. lol

    DJ - you are exactly right, it is what it is. Some days I look in the mirror and think not too bad, other day I think wow what happened overnight? I'm good with it. I look a whole lot better than I did when I turned 64 at 125 lbs heavier, even with more wrinkles!! :)

    Janetr OKC
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,244 Member
    I got more $$ for my ride!! i'm sooo excited! need $75 to reach my goal!!
  • Vickil57
    Vickil57 Posts: 1,882 Member
    Happy Wednesday! I had a good day off yesterday, got alot done and weigh in yesterday I was down 1.9 pound. Had good eating also. One day at a time. Walked the furbabies at the Hall County park last evening and went around another way and added 1\4 mile to our walk. I work the long shift 6-5:30 today and next two days. Off the weekend and looking forward to that. DGD, Paytn is coming to spend part of the weekend with us. Then Sunday we are going to popcorn days at North Loup. Our CMA group is riding in the parade.

    Kim--I got tried just reading your schedule.

    Becca--Congrates on the good doctors appointment.

    Mindy--Looks good

    DJ--Sending prayers for your friend. Nothing like scaring her and then making her waite.

    Heather--Sure hope you feel better soon.

    Janetr--Congrates on the moble home, hope you have lots of happy miles ahead. Love the picture of the puppy and kitty.

    Margaet--Thanks for sharing, I enjoyed that and made me think.

    pip--I feel the same way about asking people for money. Our CMA group has a once a year fund raiser the first Saturday in May. The money goes to send Bibles and transportaion to third world countries and around the world. I really believe in this and find it so hard to ask for money. What I have done the last couple years is write a letter and enclose a return stamped and address envelope and put in the date by which I need it back and leave the rest up to God.

    Sharon--Hugs!

    Meg--Congrates on your empty nest, enjoy.

    Sylvia--Sounds like DGD is really proud of the cake and you.

    Well I am caught up to end of page 63 and time to finish up and get ready to go home. Going for our walk soon as I get off work. We have found we have better luck if we do it before supper. Have a great rest of the day.
    Blessings, Vicki GI NE
  • janetr7476
    janetr7476 Posts: 4,001 Member
    Meg - and others who inquired about the puppy pic and his cone, this was just a post I saw on FB and loved. Don't know what happened to poor puppy. :(

    Janetr OKC
  • GreatLakeGirl
    GreatLakeGirl Posts: 11 Member
    Hello! I'm new to mfp and these message boards. I'd love some new friends! Please friend me if you would too. I'm over 50 and would love to lose about 20 lbs!
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,190 Member
    edited August 2015
    smiley-happy032.gif Terri, there are a lot of foods that I don't keep in my house, because I found that I cannot eat them like normal people...it looks like those frosted flakes will have to be on your list.

    smiley-happy032.gif Heather, my husband recently bought a tablet and on his first day after using it for awhile, it shut off and he couldn't get it to turn back on again. He did some searching on the Internet and finally found directions that had him holding down more than one button together for about 30 seconds and some other stuff and it turned on again....no one could have figured it out on their own.

    smiley-happy032.gif Meg, I'll see the doctor next month about the results of my bone density scan. The appointment is already made and I'll share what she says.

    smiley-happy032.gif Kim, as safe as I think my neighborhood is and as much walking as I've done in the dark, I wasn't able to convince my neighbor that it was safe so in the winter she walks later in the day. I agree that you have to do what you are comfortable with. One way I have made exercise more fun and interesting is to watch TV while exercising. When I ride my recumbent bike I knit and watch TV. When I walk the dogs, I listen to podcasts, music, or audio books. Sometimes when I walk, I'll do squats or stretches while the dog is sniffing something and standing in one place. Keep paying attention to what other people do and you'll find something that appeals to you.

    smiley-happy032.gif Carol in NC, I hope you will continue to be gentle with yourself and not let the perfect be the enemy of the best. Even if your kids left a mess, don't clean up more than you have energy for. Many of the chores will wait.

    smiley-happy032.gif I eat on a regular schedule and carry a back-up snack with me at all times in case my plans get interrupted.


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  • Annr
    Annr Posts: 2,765 Member
    I have good news folks....So I had a message from my doctors office saying that my results from my blood tests were in. Last year my cholestrol was 231....a couple of years before that is was 237. So this morning it stated that I was 224, so I am going in the right direction! Its still kind of high but its nice to be proactive about that.
    At my TOPS meeting I weighed in at 233, so 2.50 lbs gone. I am really glad Im not in the 250's anymore. The 240's flew by, and I didnt even last long there:-) It was a good meeting with 30 weighing in, 23 lbs lost, and 18 lbs gained, so a positve 5 lbs in the blue.
    After the meeting I had my lunch with was GONNA be my own large tomato, but it was brown inside...oh darn. I had another one from the food bank, so I had a huge mega tomato sandwich piled on some romaine lettuce, and Dave's Killer bread. Light mayo here and there. It was AWESOME!!!

    In the afternoon husband and I went to my mammogram appointment. So you know how I am.....so the lady tells me to put the open robe and be bare from the waist up. I ask her if I can just take off my shirt in the tech room. She says, no you have to put the robe thing on...*sigh* Then in the tech room she says to take my arm out of my right sleeve... I tell her flatly, "I am going to put this robe on the chair here". Don't make me have to wrestle this stupid open robe thingy, while you wrestle my boobs into the machine....What a waste of a garment. I know because I HAD to touch it, it will be washed...waste of water, MY time, and such...*another sigh*

    The best part was that the pavillion where radiology dept was had an entry area with a baby grand piano in it. I went to the info lady and asked if I could please play it! She said of course and to please DO! So my husband sat back down and I played for 30 minutes. My music is a couple steps up from elevator music, kind of like music you would hear at a gallery opening. Very William Ackerman, Windham Hill ish. Anyway I was in my element, and its a great stress reliever!!! I left very happy.

    Oh before the appointment a lady came up to us in the parking lot, asking how we liked the Chevy Spark we have. She has a white one. So we ooh'ed and aaah'ed about our cute cars, and I introduced her to Pearl...(my Hawaiian hula dancer on the dash board of my Spark). Anyway we kind of have a car clan going, and wave at each over when we pass by. There is only 6 cars that I know of around here that are Sparks.

    I am proud of myself for finally getting my act together about my weight. The stress of my husbands liver issue isn't a valid reason anymore. It just doesn't apply now. I can put focus on me and its ok. I can put myself first and its ok. I can tell my family when I am stressed about this journey and they both understand. Its a breath of fresh air to be committed to something, and stick with it.

    Thanks everyone for being your wonderful selves, and being part of my journey.
    ps. Oh the weight recorder lady that was rude last week by saying, 'I beat you", after I had weighed in....well she gained this week. You reap what you sow.....sooo there....
    Becca
    Oregonian
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    Heather: My mom was also a person who sabotaged self-esteem. She would pat me on the rear-end and say, "Fat fanny," or "Pat fanny." Sometimes it was one right after the other. She thought it was funny & I thought I had a hopelessly big rear end. :cry: The very same rear end is smaller right now than it has ever been in proportion to the rest of me. I consider the improvement a victory of effort & MFP over expectations. :bigsmile:

    Sylvia: What is the Ashley Madison list? :huh:

    Pip: I'm learning that I can do things I thought were out of reach forever. You are right about that. However, I pick my battles and I would have to train for a bazillion years before I was fit enough for the ride you'll be doing. I'll cheer for you from the cyber-sidelines. :star:

    Terri: What an honor for your son's HS bowling team. Helping Veterans back to their cars after the Honor Flight is something he will remember forever. :flowerforyou:

    Vicki: Congratulations on the loss! WTG! :flowerforyou:

    Janet: Rosebuds and Hanging Baskets...:laugh: :laugh: :laugh:



    The guy came out to give us a bid on installing windows like our neighbor's. Yikes! I took the estimate over and had them look at it. We are having more done than they did & they thought it looked reasonably reasonable. At least they didn't think it was unreasonable. :ohwell: Have I mentioned that I HATE spending money? :noway:

    Katla in Beautiful NW Oregon

    “Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time.” Thomas A. Edison

    August Goals:
    1. Log every bite and swallow.
    2. Cardio exercise at least 3 days a week. Work on flexibility and back strength.
    3. Have fun every day.
    4. Drink at least three glasses of water daily, preferably more!
    5. Eliminate alcohol.
    6. Monitor sleep. Try to average 7 or more hours of sleep nightly.

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  • fanncy0626
    fanncy0626 Posts: 7,152 Member
    Hello Ladies! For our 5th Anniversary ( wood )My DH woke me up with a card, wooden tongs and diamond earrings to replace the one That fell out of my ear last month. I gave him an antique coke pitcher and 6 glasses and tonight I have a wooden leaf hanging on a gold belt Adam and Eve style I will leave the rest to your imagination... We just checked into the hotel and the Desk clerk gave us a gift bag of goodies and bottled water and told us congratulations! Very thoughtful!

    Have a great night everyone!

    Mary from Minnesota
  • janetr7476
    janetr7476 Posts: 4,001 Member
    Katla - my sister that was just 13 months older than me, and skinny, called me "fat man" most of our growing up years. MY mother never said anything to her about it. She got clarinet, piano and voice lessons, this rest of us got none. I begged to be in Girl Scouts when I was in grade school, but we couldn't afford it. I wonder about a lot of this as an adult, but it can't be changed so I try not to dwell there.

    Janetr OKC
  • 17761776
    17761776 Posts: 1,098 Member
    Annr wrote: »
    I have good news folks....So I had a message from my doctors office saying that my results from my blood tests were in. Last year my cholestrol was 231....a couple of years before that is was 237. So this morning it stated that I was 224, so I am going in the right direction! Its still kind of high but its nice to be proactive about that.
    At my TOPS meeting I weighed in at 233, so 2.50 lbs gone. I am really glad Im not in the 250's anymore. The 240's flew by, and I didnt even last long there:-) It was a good meeting with 30 weighing in, 23 lbs lost, and 18 lbs gained, so a positve 5 lbs in the blue.
    After the meeting I had my lunch with was GONNA be my own large tomato, but it was brown inside...oh darn. I had another one from the food bank, so I had a huge mega tomato sandwich piled on some romaine lettuce, and Dave's Killer bread. Light mayo here and there. It was AWESOME!!!

    In the afternoon husband and I went to my mammogram appointment. So you know how I am.....so the lady tells me to put the open robe and be bare from the waist up. I ask her if I can just take off my shirt in the tech room. She says, no you have to put the robe thing on...*sigh* Then in the tech room she says to take my arm out of my right sleeve... I tell her flatly, "I am going to put this robe on the chair here". Don't make me have to wrestle this stupid open robe thingy, while you wrestle my boobs into the machine....What a waste of a garment. I know because I HAD to touch it, it will be washed...waste of water, MY time, and such...*another sigh*

    The best part was that the pavillion where radiology dept was had an entry area with a baby grand piano in it. I went to the info lady and asked if I could please play it! She said of course and to please DO! So my husband sat back down and I played for 30 minutes. My music is a couple steps up from elevator music, kind of like music you would hear at a gallery opening. Very William Ackerman, Windham Hill ish. Anyway I was in my element, and its a great stress reliever!!! I left very happy.

    Oh before the appointment a lady came up to us in the parking lot, asking how we liked the Chevy Spark we have. She has a white one. So we ooh'ed and aaah'ed about our cute cars, and I introduced her to Pearl...(my Hawaiian hula dancer on the dash board of my Spark). Anyway we kind of have a car clan going, and wave at each over when we pass by. There is only 6 cars that I know of around here that are Sparks.

    I am proud of myself for finally getting my act together about my weight. The stress of my husbands liver issue isn't a valid reason anymore. It just doesn't apply now. I can put focus on me and its ok. I can put myself first and its ok. I can tell my family when I am stressed about this journey and they both understand. Its a breath of fresh air to be committed to something, and stick with it.

    Thanks everyone for being your wonderful selves, and being part of my journey.
    ps. Oh the weight recorder lady that was rude last week by saying, 'I beat you", after I had weighed in....well she gained this week. You reap what you sow.....sooo there....
    Becca
    Oregonian

    You have grown since I started, wonderful!!!!!! I agree with the robe, why?? We all have the same, different size but same. I'm so proud of you, keep it up!!! Gayle Minneapolis
  • 17761776
    17761776 Posts: 1,098 Member
    fanncy0626 wrote: »
    Hello Ladies! For our 5th Anniversary ( wood )My DH woke me up with a card, wooden tongs and diamond earrings to replace the one That fell out of my ear last month. I gave him an antique coke pitcher and 6 glasses and tonight I have a wooden leaf hanging on a gold belt Adam and Eve style I will leave the rest to your imagination... We just checked into the hotel and the Desk clerk gave us a gift bag of goodies and bottled water and told us congratulations! Very thoughtful!

    Have a great night everyone!

    Mary from Minnesota
    You go girl!!! I was going to ask what type of food you like? Do you have a favorite in Mpls? I think this can wait, have fun!! Gayle Minneapolis
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,190 Member
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    Here I am on the first day of school in San Juan, Puerto Rico where my parents enrolled me in Catholic school because I was too young to get into first grade in the school on the military base. The curls in my hair are a permanent done on a machine that had curlers hanging down to have hair wrapped around them and you had to sit with your head attached to the machine for a lot longer than a five year old wanted to sit.
  • barbiecat
    barbiecat Posts: 17,190 Member
    bubbex2 wrote: »
    I am new here.....I just wanted to post on this board since everyone elsewhere is so young!
    I am 68. I weigh 126.5 trying to get down to 115. I couldn't figure out why I wasn't losing until my dr. pointed out I was eating mostly carbs. I'm now on a low carb diet and I've lost 3 lbs. in a little over a week. I also do weight and interval training.
    I have been widowed for four years and am in a wonderful long term relationship.
    I'd be glad to chat with anyone.

    You have come to the right place. This is a very supportive group that talks about the real things that go on with women over 50. You must be shorter than I am, because when I got down to 115 my doctor had a fit and told me to gain weight.
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,244 Member
    stats for the day:
    ride hm 2 gym- 10.28min, 16.8amph, 2.9mi = 126c
    spin- 40min, 88ar, 106aw, 10-13g, 17.5mi = 347c
    ride gym 2 wk- 54min, 12.6amph, 11.3mi = 508c
    ride dome 2 hm- 15.40min, 9.7amph, 2.5mi =195c
    total cal 1176
  • pipcd34
    pipcd34 Posts: 17,244 Member
    annr - CONGRATS on your success!!
    katla - i will take those cyber space cheers!
  • DamitJanit
    DamitJanit Posts: 1,329 Member
    Call me crazy but I love to see other people happy and succeeding .

    Good Evening Ladies,

    Heather, bummer about breaking your glass items. Bummer also about the pharmacist being at lunch. Isn’t that the way it often is? Crossing my fingers for your charging tablet. Do you think the oven light is just burned out?

    Linda, you are so right that I need a swift kick for not exercising more. The rest of you kickers just line up behind Linda.

    Katla, you just sound like me as far as the interest in things goes. So why were you talking about a prescription for Adderall?? Laffin’ at your description of home perms. I had naturally curly hair, so none for me, but I could smell it for days after BF got one.

    Sylvia, I’ll be interested to hear how your DGS likes gymnastics. LOL on the Ashley Madison site.

    Meg, congrats on your loss!!! Who cares how you did it, just keep it up. Lol

    Terri, that is great to get to help the Vets back to their cars after the Honor Flight.

    Heather, have a marvelous time in London. I’m glad you always have your emergency snack with you. ((Hugs))

    Janetr, the think you have to remember is that you look fantastic! No matter what you see on a given day, just remember that.

    Pip, way to go on your donations!!! You are the bomb.

    Vicki, way to go on your loss!!! Wooo Hoooo

    Janetellen2015, welcome. This is a great place for support and information. Please tell us a bit about yourself to help us get to know you. We also ask that you sign each post with the name you want to be called along with a location, general or specific.

    Katla, a big congrats on the smaller fanny!!! That has to make you feel great. I’m with you on hating to spend money on some things. Unfortunately some things are worth it.

    Mary, sounds like a great Anniversary celebration. Careful with that wooden leaf. Lol

    Barbie, what a precious picture!!! Weren’t you the little cutie.

    I didn't do too much today. It rained somewhat hard much of the day which just made it a lazy day. I think we got around 4". Tomorrow I'm having lunch with a friend and may do a little shopping. I might try to do a little more exercise than I've been doing lately, which is some push ups and a few planks.

    I hope all of you have a good night and a healthy and happy day. rose.gif

    Words I live by:
    Savor. I have to slow down and savor every bite.
    and
    Opportunity. Each day offers new opportunities for good health and happiness if we just look for them and choose them.
    I Love you, smiley-love013.gif
    DJ
  • terri_mom
    terri_mom Posts: 748 Member
    I took my nighttime medicine after cutting up a mango and mixing it into a greek yogurt and posting it in my food diary. So if I get up in the middle of the night I will NOT have Frosted flakes ! ! !
  • margaretturk
    margaretturk Posts: 5,251 Member
    edited August 2015
    Linda the story about the carrot, egg, and coffee was a timely story for me. To add to this story someone once told me about a how frog has enough sense to not go into a boiling pot of water. However if it is put in a pot of water and the water is heated to boiling it does not realize it needs to jump out. This is where the friends of the frog pull it out before it is too late. The water here this week was boiling. Thank all of you for being my friend and helping me find my way out.

    I did not go into what made it so difficult here because I did not have the energy to do that. Still don't. I find it is better for me to concentrate on other things. Part of my way of finding the way out of the boiling pot without turning to food as the answer.

    If you could please send prayers to my son. God is talking to him. He is having trouble hearing him. May his ears open, so he will start to heal. Amen.

    :heart: MNMargaret
  • DamitJanit
    DamitJanit Posts: 1,329 Member
    MNMargaret, so glad you got out of the water.

    Terri, so very happy that you won't have Frosted flakes tonight.

    It seems all is well so I'm going to bed. Good night my friends.

    DJ
    Myrtle Beach, SC
  • janetr7476
    janetr7476 Posts: 4,001 Member
    DJ - thanks, I will remember that.

    MNMargaret - will remember you and your son in prayer. Addiction is a disabling thing. We still struggle with my grandson. It is so hard for all involved. Warm (((hugs)))

    Janetr OKC
  • exermom
    exermom Posts: 6,515 Member
    Did 1 hr of Kathe Smith's Ultimate Video Workout DVD. The plan for tomorrow is to do the LaLoFit DVD

    Things are getting hectic. Saturday is our pool party. Will be busy getting ready for that. Then the next day Rori and Carol will be here, which will be so much fun. So if you don't see me on here for a bit, that's why. Tonight I'm probably going to skim the posts.

    Exercised, then had a Newcomer board meeting, went to Aldi to get a few things (needed the strawberries for the cake), then in the pool, then dinner, then ceramics. Picked up my sign today. It'll be a lot of work but I think in the end it'll be worth it. The fish are pretty "bland" so Jess is a great artist (she certainly didn't get that from me!) so I'll ask her to draw "scales" and some design on the fish for me. If I have an outline to follow, I can do it.

    pip - now I know why you have such great legs

    Heather - lovely pic

    Lisa - ("smoke on the water......") You're a great manager

    Carol - sure hope things work out for you and we can get together Sun.

    Welcome everyone new!

    Meg - yea to you

    My mother was a hairdresser. I had perms all the time when she was alive

    terri - congrats to your son's hs bowling team. What an honor

    janetr - I heard the hanging baskets story a few years ago but still really enjoyed it

    Becca - yea for your blood work! I love tomato sandwiches

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  • dlm4mom
    dlm4mom Posts: 251 Member
    I just returned home from taking my youngest baby to college. Sad and happy day.
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    edited August 2015
    DamitJanit wrote: »
    Call me crazy but I love to see other people happy and succeeding .

    Katla, you just sound like me as far as the interest in things goes. So why were you talking about a prescription for Adderall?? Laffin’ at your description of home perms. I had naturally curly hair, so none for me, but I could smell it for days after BF got one.
    Katla49 wrote: »
    DamitJanit wrote: »
    Call me crazy but I love to see other people happy and succeeding .

    Katla, you just sound like me as far as the interest in things goes. So why were you talking about a prescription for Adderall?? Laffin’ at your description of home perms. I had naturally curly hair, so none for me, but I could smell it for days after BF got one.

    DJ: My DH is interested in adderol on my behalf. He thinks I am a space cadet. I think I'm doing fine, so there is some conflict of opinion. I was struggling with depression and anxiety last fall and my family staged an intervention. Not fun. It did motivate me to make needed changes like eliminating alcohol and getting adequate sleep. I get spacey when I'm over tired. My main strategies include what I've mentioned and having fun every day. Today the hummingbirds came back to my feeder. That counts as fun in my book. I'd let it go empty while we were traveling and I recently refilled it. In my opinion, what I'm doing for my health is working very well.
  • Katla49
    Katla49 Posts: 10,385 Member
    DJ: My DH is interested in adderol on my behalf. He thinks I am a space cadet. I think I'm doing fine, so there is some conflict of opinion. I was struggling with depression and anxiety last fall and my family staged an intervention. Not fun. It did motivate me to make needed changes like eliminating alcohol and getting adequate sleep. I get spacey when I'm over tired. My main strategies include what I've mentioned and having fun every day. Today the hummingbirds came back to my feeder. That counts as fun in my book. I let it go empty while we were traveling and I recently refilled it. In my opinion, what I'm doing for my health is working very well.
  • GodMomKim
    GodMomKim Posts: 3,703 Member
    Gloria – you are doing great!

    Heather – yellow roses – wonderful; great picture!, what a drag to have broken a lemon juicer !

    Sharon – I am proud of you for keep going to counseling – even though you cry don’t worry about it.. as that is a stress reliever..

    Penny – thanks…

    Barbie – cute pictures

    Carol – take care of yourself! Do not go to you folks if it is not right for you, and do tell the Doc about the health mess the meds are making…

    Linda – love the water story! May we all be coffee!

    Bubbex2 – welcome

    Home permanents!!! Tonette and those plastic torture things… I remember them and trying to sleep on rollers, they had spikes that were to “hold” the hair they made sleeping impossible. And I wore headgear too…

    Jane – wow, if my family were to get together (and we don’t – too many problems) but everyone would be only 7….

    Meg – good job!

    Becca – you are doing great, glad you had a “back-up” tomato!

    Katla – I had windows done and it is crazy expensive, I did them in groups, so that broke up the charges into different years. I am glad you are taking care of yourself, meds should be discussed by you and Doc, not decided by DH…

    Terri – NO FLAKES!!!

    Margaret – take care, sending good thoughts to your son.

    So today was dinner out at a burger place called Red Robin, it is not healthy at all, but one of my favorites - I love it and a couple of times a year a friend and I go and spilt a burger, it’s not enough food, but ½ of a burger was 425 calories! So some veggies when I got home. The good thing I had been careful all day and walked a lot, I stayed under!

    Today my friend came for coffee and in all the discussion of my schedule, I realized that I was looking for a time EVERYDAY, then the light went on I don’t have to do the core exercises everyday so this morning I got up at the regular time and did them between getting up and serving coffee. That worked great, that would give me a 2 day a week window, I would like to find a 3rd day, but 2 is 200% better than 0!!!



    August Goals:
    Walk everyday –try to hit 180 miles, august 25 145 miles so far
    1 plank every day and log here – goal more then 19
    Log everyday –
    Eat mindfully-
    Weekly fun things –
    W1 – Visiting with niece Emily - a trip to SF
    W2 – BFF came for 2 days and a dinner party
    W3 – went to a banjo band concert – a first for me
    W4 – Dinner out with friends, hiked with my hiking group
    Kim from N. California
  • jmkmomm
    jmkmomm Posts: 3,247 Member
    Gloworm, add me to the list of wanting to have a hot stone massage. Sounds so relaxing. I have only had 2 massages in my life. The first one was a gift from a wonderful friend for my 50th bday. The next was was from me 'just because'. Now my 'just because' purchases are clothes or jewelry. Not so much on hte clothes lately. I am trying to get back down to fit comfortably into what is in my closet. I refuse to buy more clothes until then. And I like a massage to be intense. I would have described it with a different word but it just didn't sound right, if you know what I mean!! o:) You know I'm not writing a love letter to my husband here. I am describing a massage. Anyway, when she got done with my 'intense' massage, I was so limp and relaxed from themassage itself and enjoying hte music I didn't want to get off the table.

    Sharon, you thank your DD and DSIL for doing the MS walk for me. You are so right about your descriptio about sex life with in the marriage. When I have just been called a f*****g b***h, I am in no mood to hop in the sack with him then or any day after for awhile.

    Heather, Yeah, you are back. But you don't have to be 'up' every day every hour. All emotions are a gift from God. When we don't allow ourselves those emotions, we are denying ourselves a gift and blessing from God. The trick is to learn how to use those 'down' times and how to lift yourselves out of them and not be in depression. And no, I am not saying that we can click ourselves in and out of depression like Alice to get back to Kansas. Sometimes, like with Carol NC, we need to look for help. Your grand son has that same look on his face that your brother has. Knowing personally the long and erratic work schedule that medical staff work, that 3 PM time for lunch was probably his first time since 7 AM to even sit down. We also had to endure the at home perms inflicted on us by Mom. All 3 of us girls plus Mom all had the same hairstyle. It was what she knew. I remember one time sitting in the kitchen while Mom was giving oldest sister a perm. Being bored and because I was always reading something, I read the box. It said it was a new kind and had 'hidden body' I always took things literally and was looking all over the kitchen and never found the hidden body. Mom didn't even have an answer for me. I also remember when we went to same sister's high school graduation that the program said the band was playing 76 trombones. I looked at the band and then asked my dad why there weren't 76 trombones. How could they play that song. You just have to order those gag candles where they won't blow out!!! >:)

    Barbie, thanks so much. Now I'm not dizzy from standing on my head. My first thought when I saw the picture of all of you on stage with your sailor hats was that you 4 look like performers on a USO tour for the troops. Cute picture but sure does sound like a weird way to get a permanent.

    Miriam, no need to apologize. You are doing a superheroes job! <3

    Lisa, dramatic pictures.

    Carol NC, big, big hugs to you. One day at a time, one task at a time. Right now you need tunnel vision so you don't see the whole messy house, just a portion at a time. And right now, that portion may be just you.

    Terri, I once worked with a vascular surgeon who's specialty was bypass grafts on clogged arteries in the leg. After he would do one, part of his discharge teaching for his patients that smoked was to let them know that if they continued to smoke and they needed another bypass surgery to not even try to call him. He would refuse to see them. O Holy Night at age 5, how wonderful. Wish it was something you could put on U-tube so we could watch it. But I don't think they did much video taping back then. how wonderful your son can be part of the honor flight experience. That walk or wheel chair ride out to the car will be so wonderful. Those old veterans will talk his head off. I hope he listens to everyone of their stories. I have always wondered and worried at the same time how those veterans can tolerate that long day of activities.

    Pip, thanks for giving us the history of Kirby and then you and the MS ride. He is a good man and a champion.

    Allison, do you get up that early intentionally or were you not sleeping. If I got up at that time, I would jsut go potty and go back to bed.

    DJ, my daughter takes her girls tablets when the girls go to bed and put them on the chargers in her bedroom. That way the girls don't have access to them at all. Love the icon about sex!!!

    Linda/IA. loved your coffee bean story. My husband can get pretty angry. But he always says it is just his reaction to some one else's stupidity. Like if some one cut's in front of him to close. Of course anyone would be upset. But not everyone does the things he does, like go around that person and not in a safe way and then immediately cuts right in front of them and then zooms off 20 miles over speed limit. He chooses to do that. He could chose another more rational way. But he says he wouldn't even have to do it if the guy hadn't done it to him. He just does not get that that bad reaction comes from him.

    bubbex, welcome, I looked at your diary and are you sure you are eating enough?

    Becca, would have loved to be in that lobby. I'm sure the receptionist enjoyed her private concert.

    Mary Minnesota, hope you put out the Do not disturb sign. Sounds like one hot night in Minnesota.

    Michele, love the fish. Are you still looking for something big for around the pool or is this one of them?

    We had an experience today. Remember I had kept out a couple of pieces of the tree base that I wanted to incorparate in my landscaping? Well I was told to put them in the sun to help them dry before I stained and sealed them. So we dis that, that is until we knew rain was coming. So at midnight one night we are out there trying to put a big bag around them and get them safe and dry. Well a week has gone by and they were still in the plastic bags. So tonight we decided to try to get them into the garage. Charlie and Michelle were the ones who got them out of the garage and this time it was me and Charlie. Charlie has always prided himself of his muscle strength. I have tried to remind him that he is 67 now and yes he walks everyday but that's all.So here we are trying to lift one. No can do. So we try to get my wheel chair out of the very unorganized garage to try to put the wood on the seat. The same seat that is usual wheel chair length and piece of wood is several feet. So we finally get it on the seat but Charlie has to hold onto a large portion of it while I take wheel chair backwards on a very rough and bumpy ground. Wood falls of of seat, Charlie falls, several curse words. Luckily a man has just turned down our street to get to hi house. We are not a real neighborly neighborhood. So this guy barley parks his car, runs up to us and asks if we need help. Uh, yeah. So he easily picks one and then the other up and takes them into garage. It was quite an awakening for Charlie. Now I will try again get him to join the Y. he knows he ain't what he used to be. We were trying to place them in the garage so they were against the wall and I do one and the guy does the other. Charlie see that I have more strength than he does. Now I wasn't picking it up, I was just walking the wood closer to the wall but he couldn't do it. We are both a little sore tonight. I will take advil, Charlie will not admit that he needs something. The neighbors on either sides of us are both widows and we are friends with both and kind of look after them. But are we now part of that older neighbor that needs looking after??? I sure hope not.

    Michelle is having an MRI on the cervical part of her spine tomorrow. She has always had back trouble but has always been like my Mom. So what, I have pain. But life goes on so I just do it. But I'm glad we didn't have to ask her to help with this. I had a cervical MRI and it was awful. The awful part was that any time they were actually taking 'cuts' with the MRI, you couldn't swallow because the part that is being xrayed has to be still so you can't swallow. Sometimes a cut would be 5 minutes. Choir practice was really good tonight. We are working on Christmas music now along with our other music. It is all so beautiful. I have hardly any hair left on my arms but if I did, the hair would have been standing up. That's how awesome some of this music is. Wish my legs would lose the hair! Why is it my arms and neither regions that is losing it???

    Nite, nite, Joyce, Indiana


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    GloworminWA Posts: 704 Member
    Heather - I too was subjected to perms every year before school until I had a say in it! I think 6th grade perm was the worst as I have fine hair and ended up with frizz :-( Your fruit cake reminded me of my grandmother from Winnipeg who used to make fruit cake every year at Christmas. I'm one of the weirdos who still loves fruit cake :)
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    GloworminWA Posts: 704 Member
    Congratulations to all the "losers" this week! I am down another 2lbs I have now lost a total of 84lbs. I still have a ways to go and it will take time but this is not a race it's a journey and I'd rather be the tortoise than the hare!

    Carol - I know too well about bipolar. My son's father was bipolar (or as they called it then Manic Depressive. He would not stay on his meds so was in and out of Mental Hospitals. He also drank and got very mean when he was in his manic state. I was in and out of that relationship for 5 years before I came to the realization that if the doctors couldn't cure him neither could I. He was physically and mentally abusive and for some reason I evidently felt that I deserved it. Leaving was the best thing I ever did, Now they think my son is bipolar which I knew was a possibility before he was born.

    I have GOT to go to bed. Night all <3