True Confessions - Don't Judge

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  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    I'm sooo tempted to goof here but I won't. It's serious stuff.

    I wish you well.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Yes @LL5lifts good advice for all..

  • sw33tp3a1
    sw33tp3a1 Posts: 5,065 Member
    I like beer wayyyyy too much.
  • nolan44219
    nolan44219 Posts: 1,221 Member
    sw33tp3a1 wrote: »
    I like beer wayyyyy too much.

    Me too!!!
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    I confess I find some people REALLY annoying
  • sw33tp3a1
    sw33tp3a1 Posts: 5,065 Member
    synchkat wrote: »
    I confess I find some people REALLY annoying


    So do I!!!!
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  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    I confess, I really don't drink all that much. Couple of beers a year at the most. Keeps me out of jail.
  • BoosDimples
    BoosDimples Posts: 2,826 Member
    i confess that i was invited t a birthday dinner and I honestly wanted to decline the offer, but I told myself this year I would make a conscious effort to get out more. So here it I go, slowly escaping the hermit life, one outing at a time.

    Sometimes it's worth putting yourself out there. I hope you have a good time! :smile:
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    i confess that i was invited t a birthday dinner and I honestly wanted to decline the offer, but I told myself this year I would make a conscious effort to get out more. So here it I go, slowly escaping the hermit life, one outing at a time.

    So glad you decided to go ..have a great time .. :)
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    i confess that i was invited t a birthday dinner and I honestly wanted to decline the offer, but I told myself this year I would make a conscious effort to get out more. So here it I go, slowly escaping the hermit life, one outing at a time.

    that's awesome have fun!
  • Cerealsensei
    Cerealsensei Posts: 1,625 Member
    i confess if i go out to this restaurant (which I've never been to) and the food isn't up to par I'm kicking somebody lol. Appreciate the support though, you're all awesome.
  • BoosDimples
    BoosDimples Posts: 2,826 Member
    Oh Lordy! You sound like my hubs! :lol:
  • JLAJ81
    JLAJ81 Posts: 2,477 Member
    I confess I catfished myself.
  • gcibsthom
    gcibsthom Posts: 30,145 Member
    I confess sometimes I would just like to surround myself with animals...dogs and cats....people confuse me...
  • BoosDimples
    BoosDimples Posts: 2,826 Member
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    I confess sometimes I would just like to surround myself with animals...dogs and cats....people confuse me...

    I :heart: you so much! :kissing_heart:
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    I confess sometimes I would just like to surround myself with animals...dogs and cats....people confuse me...

    I :heart: you so much! :kissing_heart:

    We should all take a leaf out of Gary's book ..

    He is awesome hey Boo :)
  • BoosDimples
    BoosDimples Posts: 2,826 Member
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    I confess sometimes I would just like to surround myself with animals...dogs and cats....people confuse me...

    I :heart: you so much! :kissing_heart:

    We should all take a leaf out of Gary's book ..

    He is awesome hey Boo :)

    Absolutely! As are you, my dear sista! :heart:
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    I confess sometimes I would just like to surround myself with animals...dogs and cats....people confuse me...

    I :heart: you so much! :kissing_heart:

    We should all take a leaf out of Gary's book ..

    He is awesome hey Boo :)

    Absolutely! As are you, my dear sista! :heart:

    <3 ya Boo
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  • BoosDimples
    BoosDimples Posts: 2,826 Member
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    I confess sometimes I would just like to surround myself with animals...dogs and cats....people confuse me...

    I :heart: you so much! :kissing_heart:

    We should all take a leaf out of Gary's book ..

    He is awesome hey Boo :)

    Absolutely! As are you, my dear sista! :heart:

    <3 ya Boo

    :heart: you more, most beautiful!
  • angelxsss
    angelxsss Posts: 2,402 Member
    edited January 2017
    Tonight my dude finally understood that he thinks we could have a future while I know we can't. I've been trying to tell him that that's the case from the get go, but he decided to believe "it's just the beginning, we'll see where it goes" and leaving the door open for something to possibly happen.

    I confess that even though one could argue it was him letting himself get hurt after I clearly explained my stance, I still feel awful for hurting his feelings.

    I also confess that I'm possibly more sad for me than for him. I've been really happy after being really sad for so long, and I know I'm just going to go back to being sad, and I really am having a hard time with accepting that that's how it'll be again.
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    angelxsss wrote: »
    Tonight my dude finally understood that he thinks we could have a future while I know we can't. I've been trying to tell him that that's the case from the get go, but he decided to believe "it's just the beginning, we'll see where it goes" and leaving the door open for something to possibly happen.

    I confess that even though one could argue it was him letting himself get hurt after I clearly explained my stance, I still feel awful for hurting his feelings.

    I also confess that I'm possibly more sad for him than for me. I've been really happy after being really sad for so long, and I know I'm just going to go back to being sad, and I really am having a hard time with accepting that that's how it'll be again.

    But why can't you just see where it goes? If you're enjoying him and having fun why set parameters
  • angelxsss
    angelxsss Posts: 2,402 Member
    synchkat wrote: »
    angelxsss wrote: »
    Tonight my dude finally understood that he thinks we could have a future while I know we can't. I've been trying to tell him that that's the case from the get go, but he decided to believe "it's just the beginning, we'll see where it goes" and leaving the door open for something to possibly happen.

    I confess that even though one could argue it was him letting himself get hurt after I clearly explained my stance, I still feel awful for hurting his feelings.

    I also confess that I'm possibly more sad for him than for me. I've been really happy after being really sad for so long, and I know I'm just going to go back to being sad, and I really am having a hard time with accepting that that's how it'll be again.

    But why can't you just see where it goes? If you're enjoying him and having fun why set parameters

    Because he's too old and I'm not attracted to him. And I don't want to waste his time or lead him on because I know he's more serious about me than I am about him. He talked tonight about me meeting his kids. And we've been at this for just short of 3 weeks
  • nolan44219
    nolan44219 Posts: 1,221 Member
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    angelxsss wrote: »
    synchkat wrote: »
    angelxsss wrote: »
    Tonight my dude finally understood that he thinks we could have a future while I know we can't. I've been trying to tell him that that's the case from the get go, but he decided to believe "it's just the beginning, we'll see where it goes" and leaving the door open for something to possibly happen.

    I confess that even though one could argue it was him letting himself get hurt after I clearly explained my stance, I still feel awful for hurting his feelings.

    I also confess that I'm possibly more sad for him than for me. I've been really happy after being really sad for so long, and I know I'm just going to go back to being sad, and I really am having a hard time with accepting that that's how it'll be again.

    But why can't you just see where it goes? If you're enjoying him and having fun why set parameters

    Because he's too old and I'm not attracted to him. And I don't want to waste his time or lead him on because I know he's more serious about me than I am about him. He talked tonight about me meeting his kids. And we've been at this for just short of 3 weeks

    What is 'too old'? Your opinion of how old of a person you should be dating or what you think other people will think? You said you are happy and haven't been in a long time so there is something there. Maybe worth exploring if you are truly happy because a young hotty may treat you like dirt. This guy has experience.
    Don't stick around if you will always be looking for something better though

    This^^^
  • MalkinMagic71
    MalkinMagic71 Posts: 1,433 Member
    angelxsss wrote: »
    synchkat wrote: »
    angelxsss wrote: »
    Tonight my dude finally understood that he thinks we could have a future while I know we can't. I've been trying to tell him that that's the case from the get go, but he decided to believe "it's just the beginning, we'll see where it goes" and leaving the door open for something to possibly happen.

    I confess that even though one could argue it was him letting himself get hurt after I clearly explained my stance, I still feel awful for hurting his feelings.

    I also confess that I'm possibly more sad for him than for me. I've been really happy after being really sad for so long, and I know I'm just going to go back to being sad, and I really am having a hard time with accepting that that's how it'll be again.

    But why can't you just see where it goes? If you're enjoying him and having fun why set parameters

    Because he's too old and I'm not attracted to him. And I don't want to waste his time or lead him on because I know he's more serious about me than I am about him. He talked tonight about me meeting his kids. And we've been at this for just short of 3 weeks

    Honesty can be brutal but I think being honest with him was the best thing you could do.
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    angelxsss wrote: »
    synchkat wrote: »
    angelxsss wrote: »
    Tonight my dude finally understood that he thinks we could have a future while I know we can't. I've been trying to tell him that that's the case from the get go, but he decided to believe "it's just the beginning, we'll see where it goes" and leaving the door open for something to possibly happen.

    I confess that even though one could argue it was him letting himself get hurt after I clearly explained my stance, I still feel awful for hurting his feelings.

    I also confess that I'm possibly more sad for him than for me. I've been really happy after being really sad for so long, and I know I'm just going to go back to being sad, and I really am having a hard time with accepting that that's how it'll be again.

    But why can't you just see where it goes? If you're enjoying him and having fun why set parameters

    Because he's too old and I'm not attracted to him. And I don't want to waste his time or lead him on because I know he's more serious about me than I am about him. He talked tonight about me meeting his kids. And we've been at this for just short of 3 weeks

    What is 'too old'? Your opinion of how old of a person you should be dating or what you think other people will think? You said you are happy and haven't been in a long time so there is something there. Maybe worth exploring if you are truly happy because a young hotty may treat you like dirt. This guy has experience.
    Don't stick around if you will always be looking for something better though

    IIRC, she said he's my age (like late 40's).
  • jnichel
    jnichel Posts: 4,553 Member
    angelxsss wrote: »
    synchkat wrote: »
    angelxsss wrote: »
    Tonight my dude finally understood that he thinks we could have a future while I know we can't. I've been trying to tell him that that's the case from the get go, but he decided to believe "it's just the beginning, we'll see where it goes" and leaving the door open for something to possibly happen.

    I confess that even though one could argue it was him letting himself get hurt after I clearly explained my stance, I still feel awful for hurting his feelings.

    I also confess that I'm possibly more sad for him than for me. I've been really happy after being really sad for so long, and I know I'm just going to go back to being sad, and I really am having a hard time with accepting that that's how it'll be again.

    But why can't you just see where it goes? If you're enjoying him and having fun why set parameters

    Because he's too old and I'm not attracted to him. And I don't want to waste his time or lead him on because I know he's more serious about me than I am about him. He talked tonight about me meeting his kids. And we've been at this for just short of 3 weeks

    What caused the attraction to disappear in 3 weeks? I mean, I assume you were attracted to him at the beginning.