True Confessions - Don't Judge

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  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    synchkat wrote: »
    I confess I must be pmsing or something cause I seem to be taking the opposite side of everything today

    No you aren't.

    haha thanks I feel like I am
  • Carillon_Campanello
    Carillon_Campanello Posts: 726 Member
    I confess. I'm scared to try dead lifting. I had a bad back injury and I'm afraid I'm going to screw it up and re-injure my back doing DL's.

    Not gonna do it.
  • turbostang7
    turbostang7 Posts: 1,352 Member
    I confess that I'm so tired. I don't usually sleep well or much but it's been even less than my normal 3ish hours lately.
  • BedsideTableKangaroo
    BedsideTableKangaroo Posts: 736 Member
    I confess as bad as it sounds, I will be glad when this fundraising event that I have been working my *kitten* off on is over on Saturday. I have organized many events in the past several years but this one has been the most stressful and exhausting. It is literally life or death for a teenage girl that is dear to me. I am too emotionally involved and stressed over making sure it is perfect to raise the money she needs to get her new lungs. To top it off, her 10 year old brother who is also dear to me, tried hanging himself over the weekend. Not because he wants to die but he wants to give his lungs to his older sister. Luckily he did not succeed and he rushed immediately to their family counselor and it was explained to him that even if he did die, it doesn't mean his sister would get his lungs. It is so heart breaking to watch. I can't imagine this being my actual kids. I would be a mess. I am already a mess just being a good friend to their mom.

    thoughts are with you and that family, that's rough. you're doing a great thing.
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    synchkat wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    138shades wrote: »
    I can't remember the last time I worked out........and I feel really down about it. I don't know when I will start either. I'm just so tired and exhausted with my life right now.

    This is a vicious cycle. When you feel like crap you don't want to work out, but then you feel even worse for not working out and that is when some people start to give up and eat more junk, Exercise is an amazing way to lift your spirits. Unless I was sick or very injured I have NEVER regretted going to the gym. It always makes me feel so much better, especially when I really kick my own butt and push myself. Just go. You will be happy you did. And good luck

    not to be a contrarian but sometimes, and this happened to me recently, you just can't.. You are doing everything you can to just survive life that you have to let something fall by the wayside. I described it as living in a fog and eventually the fog lifts and life begins again but while that fog is there it takes every ounce of energy to just get through your days.

    Yes exercise is great for the endorphins and while foggy you know this and know that it would help immensely but man life has a way of really sucking sometimes.

    I hear what you are saying and I felt like crap last night and skipped the gym today. Sometimes it is best for your mental and physical health to rest. One day or a couple days may be necessary. Weeks or months usually isn't.
    I am up just after 4am every day to make the time for it through more other *kitten* than you can possibly imagine. I make the time because I NEED it. My body and brain need this. Not everyone is in my situation, but trust me on this. Me going to the gym is best for me and everyone around me.

    I don't think you understand what I said though. Sometimes it is weeks or months that you need to take because you are just completely mentally and physically exhausted dealing with what is going on in your life. From October to December I had to put my needs behind others because they needed me more. It was physically and mentally exhausting and while I'd have loved to take some me time I couldn't. I NEEDed a release, my brain NEEDed a break but my family needed me more and you know what I'm glad that I gave them every ounce of my being because now I have absolutely no regrets and there's always today and tomorrow to get back at it.
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    edited April 2017
    I confess as bad as it sounds, I will be glad when this fundraising event that I have been working my *kitten* off on is over on Saturday. I have organized many events in the past several years but this one has been the most stressful and exhausting. It is literally life or death for a teenage girl that is dear to me. I am too emotionally involved and stressed over making sure it is perfect to raise the money she needs to get her new lungs. To top it off, her 10 year old brother who is also dear to me, tried hanging himself over the weekend. Not because he wants to die but he wants to give his lungs to his older sister. Luckily he did not succeed and he rushed immediately to their family counselor and it was explained to him that even if he did die, it doesn't mean his sister would get his lungs. It is so heart breaking to watch. I can't imagine this being my actual kids. I would be a mess. I am already a mess just being a good friend to their mom.

    OMG how heartbreaking. You're doing a really good thing that the family and universe will appreciate. You can rest when it's done :)
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    I confess as bad as it sounds, I will be glad when this fundraising event that I have been working my *kitten* off on is over on Saturday. I have organized many events in the past several years but this one has been the most stressful and exhausting. It is literally life or death for a teenage girl that is dear to me. I am too emotionally involved and stressed over making sure it is perfect to raise the money she needs to get her new lungs. To top it off, her 10 year old brother who is also dear to me, tried hanging himself over the weekend. Not because he wants to die but he wants to give his lungs to his older sister. Luckily he did not succeed and he rushed immediately to their family counselor and it was explained to him that even if he did die, it doesn't mean his sister would get his lungs. It is so heart breaking to watch. I can't imagine this being my actual kids. I would be a mess. I am already a mess just being a good friend to their mom.

    You're awesome. It doesn't sound bad you want it to be over. You're human and I'm sure it's all taking it's toll on you. I'm so sorry for this family. It's really sad.
  • Carillon_Campanello
    Carillon_Campanello Posts: 726 Member
    I confess the office is closing at 12:30 today due to weather. I plan to lounge in my underpants the rest of the day.

    That's saucy.
  • sw33tp3a1
    sw33tp3a1 Posts: 5,065 Member
    I confess the word 'babe' irks me. Anyone who calls me that gets an eye roll lol
  • Carillon_Campanello
    Carillon_Campanello Posts: 726 Member
    sw33tp3a1 wrote: »
    I confess the word 'babe' irks me. Anyone who calls me that gets an eye roll lol

    Likewise when called "buddy".
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    I confess I'm curious as too how one goes about choosing a neurosurgeon.
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    sw33tp3a1 wrote: »
    I confess the word 'babe' irks me. Anyone who calls me that gets an eye roll lol

    omg me too and sweetheart. both make me cringe. The Sweetheart is because of someone who called every one that and was the smarmiest, sleaziest person I know
  • RavenLibra
    RavenLibra Posts: 1,737 Member
    I confess the office is closing at 12:30 today due to weather. I plan to lounge in my underpants the rest of the day.
    why wear underpants at all ???

  • Carillon_Campanello
    Carillon_Campanello Posts: 726 Member
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    sw33tp3a1 wrote: »
    I confess the word 'babe' irks me. Anyone who calls me that gets an eye roll lol

    Likewise when called "buddy".

    How about "champ"?

    Champ, chief, hoss. Eff off with that garbage...douche.
  • Carillon_Campanello
    Carillon_Campanello Posts: 726 Member
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    lstrat115 wrote: »
    sw33tp3a1 wrote: »
    I confess the word 'babe' irks me. Anyone who calls me that gets an eye roll lol

    Likewise when called "buddy".

    How about "champ"?

    Champ, chief, hoss. Eff off with that garbage...douche.

    Calm down, Scout! ;)

    Shut up Beavis!
  • RavenLibra
    RavenLibra Posts: 1,737 Member
    I confess. I'm scared to try dead lifting. I had a bad back injury and I'm afraid I'm going to screw it up and re-injure my back doing DL's.

    Not gonna do it.
    Dead lift will be Okay as long as you prepare yourself for it... start light in order to get the technique right... I began the strong lifts 5x5 at 135 lbs (deads)... and when I hit 235 I strained a hamstring... I thought I heard it go "twang" when it happened... man it was all I could do to re-rack the weights and limp to the dressing room without looking like I needed medical assistance...I didn't try deads again for 3 months...and even now I am just closing back in on 200 lbs. it's all about preparation... technique and flexibility. find complimentary exercises and don't forget ab work is imprtant to back health
  • diezel67
    diezel67 Posts: 97 Member
    I confess slowly losing weight!
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    I confess seasonal allergies suck
  • kq1981
    kq1981 Posts: 1,098 Member
    I confess, I swear like a trooper, play classical piano and am the "funny friend".
  • RastaLousGirl
    RastaLousGirl Posts: 2,119 Member
    I was in a tornado last week, and it hit my work.. never been in that situation, thought with all the industrial plants surrounding us that it wouldn't happen.. I confessed, I almost peed in my pants.... Still could not believe it.
  • pbandwine
    pbandwine Posts: 1,236 Member
    I confess that I hate LuLaRoe *kitten*.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    sw33tp3a1 wrote: »
    I confess the word 'babe' irks me. Anyone who calls me that gets an eye roll lol

    What if they're right?
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    RavenLibra wrote: »
    I confess the office is closing at 12:30 today due to weather. I plan to lounge in my underpants the rest of the day.
    why wear underpants at all ???

    Words to live by.
  • Motorsheen
    Motorsheen Posts: 20,508 Member
    sw33tp3a1 wrote: »
    I confess the word 'babe' irks me. Anyone who calls me that gets an eye roll lol

    Likewise when called "buddy".

    The HR director where I work always calls me that.

    I'm not offended.

  • BedsideTableKangaroo
    BedsideTableKangaroo Posts: 736 Member
    synchkat wrote: »
    I confess seasonal allergies suck

    i confess the change in profile pic made me halt my scrolling for a bit.
  • Fat_tasha
    Fat_tasha Posts: 14 Member
    I confess that the 1st guy I loved he was engaged and I didn't knew about it , after a while I heard from other friends that next week is his wedding .. when I asked him about it ,his answer was no I'm not you heard wrong ,
    after few days he called to say that I'm the worst person he ever meat and I will never find anyone can love me or be with me like he did , and yes I'm getting married tmw ..
  • LittleHearseDriver
    LittleHearseDriver Posts: 2,677 Member
    I need a nap.
  • liftingmomlife
    liftingmomlife Posts: 47 Member
    I confess I pretend I'm sad that I'm moving out of state, but really I'm super excited.
  • synchkat
    synchkat Posts: 37,368 Member
    I confess I lost my keys today. Then found them hanging from the lock in the front door.
  • turbostang7
    turbostang7 Posts: 1,352 Member
    I need a nap.

    Me too. I wish I could take a nap!