True Confessions - Don't Judge
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MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »Ben_there_done_that wrote: »I'm feeling a little depressed that my wife is stifling my potential dream job prospects. I owe the family stability, after missing so much on deployment, but I still feel too young to just sit around and wait to die.
Have you told her this? Providing for your family is a wonderful thing but it won't do them much good if you're unhappy. Any way you can work at getting the Dream job while working a stable job?
Yeah, we're in the early stages of discussion. I think she's in the bargaining phase. Haha. I don't think I'll be unhappy working dead end 9-5 like some 'normal person'. I'm in a perpetual state of mild content. Unfortunately, the dream job will require me to jump in with both feet.0 -
Ben_there_done_that wrote: »MeeseeksAndDestroy wrote: »Ben_there_done_that wrote: »I'm feeling a little depressed that my wife is stifling my potential dream job prospects. I owe the family stability, after missing so much on deployment, but I still feel too young to just sit around and wait to die.
Have you told her this? Providing for your family is a wonderful thing but it won't do them much good if you're unhappy. Any way you can work at getting the Dream job while working a stable job?
Yeah, we're in the early stages of discussion. I think she's in the bargaining phase. Haha. I don't think I'll be unhappy working dead end 9-5 like some 'normal person'. I'm in a perpetual state of mild content. Unfortunately, the dream job will require me to jump in with both feet.
You'd be very surprised what a few years of it will do to you. You can always make money, you can't get the years back.
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I confess I rather enjoyed the torture I put myself through by taking a walk outside. It's hot as balls outside.2
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That's some great insight, guys. Thanks for the feedback. I think her primary concern is the high likelihood of being relocated often, 25% travel, long hours, always being on call, and the (marginal) possibility of my death or disability.2
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Ben_there_done_that wrote: »That's some great insight, guys. Thanks for the feedback. I think her primary concern is the high likelihood of being relocated often, 25% travel, long hours, always being on call, and the (marginal) possibility of my death or disability.
Those are some valid concerns that aren't just from a monetary stand point. It sounds like she may actually like you and want you around more, preferably not dead either.4 -
ICF that, after reading these posts, I feel really guilty for making my wife move with me to our 3rd city in 3 years because of work. Ouch.
But it's been a great ride so far1 -
I confess I should bury myself in a hole... people are annoying the *kitten* out of me today. I should have called in irritated.2
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@Ben_there_done_that wrote: »That's some great insight, guys. Thanks for the feedback. I think her primary concern is the high likelihood of being relocated often, 25% travel, long hours, always being on call, and the (marginal) possibility of my death or disability.
Very curious what this job is.0 -
I've been trying very very hard to be positive and stay in a better mood, but today is just a *kitten* day.0
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whats all this red/blue pill stuff? is it all from that stupid documentary? (aside from matrix)3
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MrStabbems wrote: »whats all this red/blue pill stuff? is it all from that stupid documentary? (aside from matrix)
Lack of originality I guess.1 -
I confess i served a drunk guy a soda water shot with a salt rim and a lime on saturday4
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captainfantastic94 wrote: »I confess i served a drunk guy a soda water shot with a salt rim and a lime on saturday
OMG I have totally done that. And when people complain their drink is too weak, the next one, then only booze I put in I pour into the straw so they think it's strong but really it's super not.3 -
I'm logging my hours but just looking at apartments1
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