Has anyone found love on MFP?
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Lol I think I'll be in that same boat.... As much as I'd love to be someone's wife... The Internet destroys hopes of a faithful and trustworthy one. Although tbh it's the person that is responsible, not the Internet.. Wouldn't you hope that finding the right person will be enough.. It takes one hell of an amazing man or woman to tell someone that they're not interested while being married. Happily or not. But some marriages are dangerous and probably torturously awful. I can see why people turn away from their best friend/partner.. But would like to think it would never happen to me in this lifetime. But until you're in that situation I guess you won't know until then
lol isn't love hard work.. @tracyannk28 0 -
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Determined_ella_89 wrote: »tracyannk28 wrote: »Determined_ella_89 wrote: »tracyannk28 wrote: »tracyannk28 wrote: »No...but I did find lots of married guys
totally and completely shocking!!!
next thing you'll tell me how they have on their profile something about being "happily married with kids"
and then in a PM tell say that it's a 'loveless marriage' and he and his wife are 'basically just roommates' and that they are 'only staying together for the kids'
shocking, I know
Can't count how many times I've heard this one...
I think they all read from the same 'Married Man Looking to Cheat' script. You can find these people on any of the random 'blah blah blah Person Above You' threads. it is questionable isn't it? I would love to hear two side to that story rather than one... I think their other half may feel the same or feel the other has lost interest.. Isn't it weird that people find it so hard to just talk to each other? Couldn't that cut all the years short before it gets to the point of divorce or real life cheating?
i got divorced a long time ago because things happened and i changed. i wasn't happy anymore and i knew i'd end up cheating eventually. it was painful and all for both of us. but it was worth it in the long run. i think more people need to realize its okay to walk away if you're only going to burn it all down if you stay.
Sorry to hear that
I guess it is hard to stay with one person for the rest of your life... Especially with age everyone changes... I mean you could have met the perfect girl (looks wise) and married her at 20... But by 30 or 40 you may feel more attracted to someone with intelligence or someone that is kind or caring... Or they could change who they are.. Call it a mid life crisis or whatever but people do change. I guess marriage can be unrealistic to a point. But I truly believe the love for that person will never leave you.. Sometimes I do wonder if being single is better than being married.. Pros and Cons on both tbh 1 -
I apologize I'll stop now..
But the answer.. Hmm yeah I don't know... Lol0 -
Determined_ella_89 wrote: »Determined_ella_89 wrote: »tracyannk28 wrote: »Determined_ella_89 wrote: »tracyannk28 wrote: »tracyannk28 wrote: »No...but I did find lots of married guys
totally and completely shocking!!!
next thing you'll tell me how they have on their profile something about being "happily married with kids"
and then in a PM tell say that it's a 'loveless marriage' and he and his wife are 'basically just roommates' and that they are 'only staying together for the kids'
shocking, I know
Can't count how many times I've heard this one...
I think they all read from the same 'Married Man Looking to Cheat' script. You can find these people on any of the random 'blah blah blah Person Above You' threads. it is questionable isn't it? I would love to hear two side to that story rather than one... I think their other half may feel the same or feel the other has lost interest.. Isn't it weird that people find it so hard to just talk to each other? Couldn't that cut all the years short before it gets to the point of divorce or real life cheating?
i got divorced a long time ago because things happened and i changed. i wasn't happy anymore and i knew i'd end up cheating eventually. it was painful and all for both of us. but it was worth it in the long run. i think more people need to realize its okay to walk away if you're only going to burn it all down if you stay.
Sorry to hear that I guess it is hard to stay with one person for the rest of your life... Especially with age everyone changes... I mean you could have met the perfect girl (looks wise) and married her at 20... But by 30 or 40 you may feel more attracted to someone with intelligence or someone that is kind or caring... Or they could change who they are.. Call it a mid life crisis or whatever but people do change. I guess marriage can be unrealistic to a point. But I truly believe the love for that person will never leave you.. Sometimes I do wonder if being single is better than being married.. Pros and Cons on both tbh
Another passage from the 'Married Man Looking to Cheat Handbook' is that 'she (the wife) let herself go'.
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tracyannk28 wrote: »Determined_ella_89 wrote: »Determined_ella_89 wrote: »tracyannk28 wrote: »Determined_ella_89 wrote: »tracyannk28 wrote: »tracyannk28 wrote: »No...but I did find lots of married guys
totally and completely shocking!!!
next thing you'll tell me how they have on their profile something about being "happily married with kids"
and then in a PM tell say that it's a 'loveless marriage' and he and his wife are 'basically just roommates' and that they are 'only staying together for the kids'
shocking, I know
Can't count how many times I've heard this one...
I think they all read from the same 'Married Man Looking to Cheat' script. You can find these people on any of the random 'blah blah blah Person Above You' threads. it is questionable isn't it? I would love to hear two side to that story rather than one... I think their other half may feel the same or feel the other has lost interest.. Isn't it weird that people find it so hard to just talk to each other? Couldn't that cut all the years short before it gets to the point of divorce or real life cheating?
i got divorced a long time ago because things happened and i changed. i wasn't happy anymore and i knew i'd end up cheating eventually. it was painful and all for both of us. but it was worth it in the long run. i think more people need to realize its okay to walk away if you're only going to burn it all down if you stay.
Sorry to hear that I guess it is hard to stay with one person for the rest of your life... Especially with age everyone changes... I mean you could have met the perfect girl (looks wise) and married her at 20... But by 30 or 40 you may feel more attracted to someone with intelligence or someone that is kind or caring... Or they could change who they are.. Call it a mid life crisis or whatever but people do change. I guess marriage can be unrealistic to a point. But I truly believe the love for that person will never leave you.. Sometimes I do wonder if being single is better than being married.. Pros and Cons on both tbh
Another passage from the 'Married Man Looking to Cheat Handbook' is that 'she (the wife) let herself go'. did you see the man who sued his wife for putting on weight? I wonder if that was actually true! Or the woman that got surgery to make herself look extremely pretty.. Then met her husband to be.. Their kids came out the same as she used to be... The husband apparently went mental with the courts etc... Crazy things where is the love?! 0 -
tracyannk28 wrote: »
don't even get me started.Determined_ella_89 wrote: »Determined_ella_89 wrote: »tracyannk28 wrote: »Determined_ella_89 wrote: »tracyannk28 wrote: »tracyannk28 wrote: »No...but I did find lots of married guys
totally and completely shocking!!!
next thing you'll tell me how they have on their profile something about being "happily married with kids"
and then in a PM tell say that it's a 'loveless marriage' and he and his wife are 'basically just roommates' and that they are 'only staying together for the kids'
shocking, I know
Can't count how many times I've heard this one...
I think they all read from the same 'Married Man Looking to Cheat' script. You can find these people on any of the random 'blah blah blah Person Above You' threads. it is questionable isn't it? I would love to hear two side to that story rather than one... I think their other half may feel the same or feel the other has lost interest.. Isn't it weird that people find it so hard to just talk to each other? Couldn't that cut all the years short before it gets to the point of divorce or real life cheating?
i got divorced a long time ago because things happened and i changed. i wasn't happy anymore and i knew i'd end up cheating eventually. it was painful and all for both of us. but it was worth it in the long run. i think more people need to realize its okay to walk away if you're only going to burn it all down if you stay.
Sorry to hear that I guess it is hard to stay with one person for the rest of your life... Especially with age everyone changes... I mean you could have met the perfect girl (looks wise) and married her at 20... But by 30 or 40 you may feel more attracted to someone with intelligence or someone that is kind or caring... Or they could change who they are.. Call it a mid life crisis or whatever but people do change. I guess marriage can be unrealistic to a point. But I truly believe the love for that person will never leave you.. Sometimes I do wonder if being single is better than being married.. Pros and Cons on both tbh
sometimes things happen you can't control and it changes you.
So true. Been with my husband for 17 years since I was 17. We have changed so much. He's currently not living here, and although we haven't given up yet I don't see it getting any better.0 -
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tracyannk28 wrote: »
don't even get me started.Determined_ella_89 wrote: »Determined_ella_89 wrote: »tracyannk28 wrote: »Determined_ella_89 wrote: »tracyannk28 wrote: »tracyannk28 wrote: »No...but I did find lots of married guys
totally and completely shocking!!!
next thing you'll tell me how they have on their profile something about being "happily married with kids"
and then in a PM tell say that it's a 'loveless marriage' and he and his wife are 'basically just roommates' and that they are 'only staying together for the kids'
shocking, I know
Can't count how many times I've heard this one...
I think they all read from the same 'Married Man Looking to Cheat' script. You can find these people on any of the random 'blah blah blah Person Above You' threads. it is questionable isn't it? I would love to hear two side to that story rather than one... I think their other half may feel the same or feel the other has lost interest.. Isn't it weird that people find it so hard to just talk to each other? Couldn't that cut all the years short before it gets to the point of divorce or real life cheating?
i got divorced a long time ago because things happened and i changed. i wasn't happy anymore and i knew i'd end up cheating eventually. it was painful and all for both of us. but it was worth it in the long run. i think more people need to realize its okay to walk away if you're only going to burn it all down if you stay.
Sorry to hear that I guess it is hard to stay with one person for the rest of your life... Especially with age everyone changes... I mean you could have met the perfect girl (looks wise) and married her at 20... But by 30 or 40 you may feel more attracted to someone with intelligence or someone that is kind or caring... Or they could change who they are.. Call it a mid life crisis or whatever but people do change. I guess marriage can be unrealistic to a point. But I truly believe the love for that person will never leave you.. Sometimes I do wonder if being single is better than being married.. Pros and Cons on both tbh
sometimes things happen you can't control and it changes you.
So true. Been with my husband for 17 years since I was 17. We have changed so much. He's currently not living here, and although we haven't given up yet I don't see it getting any better.
we were high school sweethearts etc. went away to the army. came back. got married. everything blew up barely 3 years later. getting married isn't always the best thing to do either.
Pretty sure at this point if we do divorce I'm not interested in another marriage.0 -
I don't know that it's weird but an actual conversation.0
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