I have a gym crush he's caucasian and I'm mix ! Help!
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I've seen bigotry in action even here in squeaky-nice Canada. But I believe you have to go looking for it. Stare the fools down I say.
When my son-in-law attended his citizenship ceremony with wife and child, his family got rude stares and sneers from a pot-bellied white balding ignoramus who apparently was there with his filipino mail-order bride and parents. My daughter stared him down while my son-in-law shrugged, "What are you going to do?"
Not that I have any biases against white middle-aged balding pot-bellied ignoramuses who have to buy their brides.0 -
i'm a white boy and my ex was a dark skinned girl. i had no ragrets. you should go for it. he may not be interested but if he's a regular type dude, he'll prob go for it too. doesn't mean you have to get married or anything. just give him your number.
You should get that tattooed on your back.
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i'm a white boy and my ex was a dark skinned girl. i had no ragrets. you should go for it. he may not be interested but if he's a regular type dude, he'll prob go for it too. doesn't mean you have to get married or anything. just give him your number.
You should get that tattooed on your back.
the bold part or the whole message?
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google "no ragrets..."0
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I live in northeast Florida as well, and have no shortage of friends in interracial relationships. I don't think most people would bat an eye. He may or may not have an issue with the color of your skin, but you'll never know if you don't approach him.0
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I've lived in AL, GA or LA my entire life! This is a generational thing. Our parents or grandparents may have had to deal with this kind of stuff but not our generation. I've always had a firm policy when it comes to dating women of color...if she's firm enough I'll date her!0
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Go for it! Life is short. He could be your Prince Charming but you'll never know if you don't take a risk.0
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Alluminati wrote: »He used to be skinned?
**cries**
If i missed spelled some word's.... sorry . I was typing on a Iphone
I live in northeast Florida as well, and have no shortage of friends in interracial relationships. I don't think most people would bat an eye. He may or may not have an issue with the color of your skin, but you'll never know if you don't approach him.
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Im going too. I was just talking to one of my co owrkers who is a guy. He gave me some advice on how to go about it. So ill keep you guys updated on sunday!0
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HawleyGriffin wrote: »i'm a white boy and my ex was a dark skinned girl. i had no ragrets. you should go for it. he may not be interested but if he's a regular type dude, he'll prob go for it too. doesn't mean you have to get married or anything. just give him your number.
You should get that tattooed on your back.
Or below the neck
beat me to it.
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porcelain_dj wrote: »Im going too. I was just talking to one of my co owrkers who is a guy. He gave me some advice on how to go about it. So ill keep you guys updated on sunday!
Did he say to say..."Hi. How are you?"?0 -
Backagainbbg340 wrote: »
Ask yourself: what would Clayton do?
Hahahaha
Ok going to YouTube chappelles standup material
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porcelain_dj wrote: »Im going too. I was just talking to one of my co owrkers who is a guy. He gave me some advice on how to go about it. So ill keep you guys updated on sunday!
Is this coworker gay? I only ask because he might be giving you bad advice just so he can hit on the dude.0 -
Backagainbbg340 wrote: »porcelain_dj wrote: »Im going too. I was just talking to one of my co owrkers who is a guy. He gave me some advice on how to go about it. So ill keep you guys updated on sunday!
Did he say to say..."Hi. How are you?"?
No.... not yet.0 -
If things don't work out, let me know. I'm white. I'm only 5'11 3/8" but you can't tell the difference horizontally.0
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porcelain_dj wrote: »Backagainbbg340 wrote: »porcelain_dj wrote: »Im going too. I was just talking to one of my co owrkers who is a guy. He gave me some advice on how to go about it. So ill keep you guys updated on sunday!
Did he say to say..."Hi. How are you?"?
No.... not yet.
Then his advice sucks because "hi" is usually a good starting place for someone you've never talked to.0 -
I just randomly saw this pic right after I read this thread, so it must be a sign for you to go for it.
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Grow a pair... Your hot... don't sweat it0
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porcelain_dj wrote: »Ok so I have a hug crush on this guy that goes to my gym. I workout 4 days a week and 3 out of the 4 day I'm there he is also there. When I go to the gym I'm extremely focused and he is too. It all started about a month and a half ago. I was working out with one of my co workers . We were just chit chatting about how to build muscle in my problem areas when my crush (not at the time) walked by. My co worker stated to me that my crush use to be extremely skinned and now he is just godly lol like a Greek god !!! He's about 6'3 ,caucasian ,blonde hair , blue eyes and slim built. Ever since that day I started to notice him more and more. About a week and a half after that I was working out my triceps. I looked in the mirror to make sure my form was correct and then I saw him looking at me in the same mirror but then he quickly turned his head . Ever since then I can feel him looking at me and when I decided to look back he looks away. I'm extremely shy to say anything and when I hype my self to say something I chicken out big time . In my gym there's a private room with punching bags , ropes and TRX equipment. I was working out on one of the stands and I had my head phones in just jamming. He came over and point basically asking if I was done and I just waved it off like yea I'm done. Big mistake ... That was like my chance but I never took off my headphones. But lately for the last week I've notice him workout closer and closer to me. I don't know if I'm over thinking that he might be interested because I'm so interested in him. Should I say anything to him? I don't know if he is even attracted to me . I'm a very pretty woman inside and out but I'm mix with Peruvian , Jamaican and Native American and I'm on the browner side. I'm curvy built 36-27-43 . I started at 179 now I'm 159 !!!! So I don't know if he is interested in another race . I'm down with the swirl life lol( interracial dating) but I never been hit on by a white guy before. And I am so scared of rejection because I never put myself in the position to be rejected. So what should I do!!!! I need help!!!! Serious answers please!!
i'm a white boy and my ex was a dark skinned girl. i had no ragrets. you should go for it. he may not be interested but if he's a regular type dude, he'll prob go for it too. doesn't mean you have to get married or anything. just give him your number.
You're very purdy for a white boy.
OP, and that's how it's done.
Oh yeah you welcome.
Oh FFS. You two get in a thread and it just gets ruined. I'll never get that out of my head.0 -
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Ruined threads are the best threads.0
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LiftingRiot wrote: »Grow a pair... Your hot... don't sweat it
Ah no dont grow those.. That will be a sure turn off I think!0 -
porcelain_dj wrote: »Ok so I have a hug crush on this guy that goes to my gym. I workout 4 days a week and 3 out of the 4 day I'm there he is also there. When I go to the gym I'm extremely focused and he is too. It all started about a month and a half ago. I was working out with one of my co workers . We were just chit chatting about how to build muscle in my problem areas when my crush (not at the time) walked by. My co worker stated to me that my crush use to be extremely skinned and now he is just godly lol like a Greek god !!! He's about 6'3 ,caucasian ,blonde hair , blue eyes and slim built. Ever since that day I started to notice him more and more. About a week and a half after that I was working out my triceps. I looked in the mirror to make sure my form was correct and then I saw him looking at me in the same mirror but then he quickly turned his head . Ever since then I can feel him looking at me and when I decided to look back he looks away. I'm extremely shy to say anything and when I hype my self to say something I chicken out big time . In my gym there's a private room with punching bags , ropes and TRX equipment. I was working out on one of the stands and I had my head phones in just jamming. He came over and point basically asking if I was done and I just waved it off like yea I'm done. Big mistake ... That was like my chance but I never took off my headphones. But lately for the last week I've notice him workout closer and closer to me. I don't know if I'm over thinking that he might be interested because I'm so interested in him. Should I say anything to him? I don't know if he is even attracted to me . I'm a very pretty woman inside and out but I'm mix with Peruvian , Jamaican and Native American and I'm on the browner side. I'm curvy built 36-27-43 . I started at 179 now I'm 159 !!!! So I don't know if he is interested in another race . I'm down with the swirl life lol( interracial dating) but I never been hit on by a white guy before. And I am so scared of rejection because I never put myself in the position to be rejected. So what should I do!!!! I need help!!!! Serious answers please!!
i'm a white boy and my ex was a dark skinned girl. i had no ragrets. you should go for it. he may not be interested but if he's a regular type dude, he'll prob go for it too. doesn't mean you have to get married or anything. just give him your number.
You're very purdy for a white boy.
OP, and that's how it's done.
Oh yeah you welcome.
Oh FFS. You two get in a thread and it just gets ruined. I'll never get that out of my head.
This isn't about you KK, it's about OP's desire for Greek, blue eyed, and slender.
I have two of those characteristics. What've you got?0 -
Sparky_1113 wrote: »LiftingRiot wrote: »Grow a pair... Your hot... don't sweat it
Ah no dont grow those.. That will be a sure turn off I think!
You never know. There's rumor up thread that he just might like that. His orientation hasn't been confirmed, because you know, that would require the OP to talk to him.0 -
Sparky_1113 wrote: »LiftingRiot wrote: »Grow a pair... Your hot... don't sweat it
Ah no dont grow those.. That will be a sure turn off I think!
You never know. There's rumor up thread that he just might like that. His orientation hasn't been confirmed, because you know, that would require the OP to talk to him.
He'll be her best gay friend evar!!!!0
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