I have a gym crush he's caucasian and I'm mix ! Help!
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porcelain_dj wrote: »Ok so I have a hug crush on this guy that goes to my gym. I workout 4 days a week and 3 out of the 4 day I'm there he is also there. When I go to the gym I'm extremely focused and he is too. It all started about a month and a half ago. I was working out with one of my co workers . We were just chit chatting about how to build muscle in my problem areas when my crush (not at the time) walked by. My co worker stated to me that my crush use to be extremely skinned and now he is just godly lol like a Greek god !!! He's about 6'3 ,caucasian ,blonde hair , blue eyes and slim built. Ever since that day I started to notice him more and more. About a week and a half after that I was working out my triceps. I looked in the mirror to make sure my form was correct and then I saw him looking at me in the same mirror but then he quickly turned his head . Ever since then I can feel him looking at me and when I decided to look back he looks away. I'm extremely shy to say anything and when I hype my self to say something I chicken out big time . In my gym there's a private room with punching bags , ropes and TRX equipment. I was working out on one of the stands and I had my head phones in just jamming. He came over and point basically asking if I was done and I just waved it off like yea I'm done. Big mistake ... That was like my chance but I never took off my headphones. But lately for the last week I've notice him workout closer and closer to me. I don't know if I'm over thinking that he might be interested because I'm so interested in him. Should I say anything to him? I don't know if he is even attracted to me . I'm a very pretty woman inside and out but I'm mix with Peruvian , Jamaican and Native American and I'm on the browner side. I'm curvy built 36-27-43 . I started at 179 now I'm 159 !!!! So I don't know if he is interested in another race . I'm down with the swirl life lol( interracial dating) but I never been hit on by a white guy before. And I am so scared of rejection because I never put myself in the position to be rejected. So what should I do!!!! I need help!!!! Serious answers please!!
i'm a white boy and my ex was a dark skinned girl. i had no ragrets. you should go for it. he may not be interested but if he's a regular type dude, he'll prob go for it too. doesn't mean you have to get married or anything. just give him your number.
You're very purdy for a white boy.
OP, and that's how it's done.
Oh yeah you welcome.
Oh FFS. You two get in a thread and it just gets ruined. I'll never get that out of my head.
I'm deeply offended that in this day and age there's still people that find Chris Farley repulsive and think he ruins things. Come on, KK! I expect better from you!
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Jackie0Marie wrote: »porcelain_dj wrote: »Ok so I have a hug crush on this guy that goes to my gym. I workout 4 days a week and 3 out of the 4 day I'm there he is also there. When I go to the gym I'm extremely focused and he is too. It all started about a month and a half ago. I was working out with one of my co workers . We were just chit chatting about how to build muscle in my problem areas when my crush (not at the time) walked by. My co worker stated to me that my crush use to be extremely skinned and now he is just godly lol like a Greek god !!! He's about 6'3 ,caucasian ,blonde hair , blue eyes and slim built. Ever since that day I started to notice him more and more. About a week and a half after that I was working out my triceps. I looked in the mirror to make sure my form was correct and then I saw him looking at me in the same mirror but then he quickly turned his head . Ever since then I can feel him looking at me and when I decided to look back he looks away. I'm extremely shy to say anything and when I hype my self to say something I chicken out big time . In my gym there's a private room with punching bags , ropes and TRX equipment. I was working out on one of the stands and I had my head phones in just jamming. He came over and point basically asking if I was done and I just waved it off like yea I'm done. Big mistake ... That was like my chance but I never took off my headphones. But lately for the last week I've notice him workout closer and closer to me. I don't know if I'm over thinking that he might be interested because I'm so interested in him. Should I say anything to him? I don't know if he is even attracted to me . I'm a very pretty woman inside and out but I'm mix with Peruvian , Jamaican and Native American and I'm on the browner side. I'm curvy built 36-27-43 . I started at 179 now I'm 159 !!!! So I don't know if he is interested in another race . I'm down with the swirl life lol( interracial dating) but I never been hit on by a white guy before. And I am so scared of rejection because I never put myself in the position to be rejected. So what should I do!!!! I need help!!!! Serious answers please!!
i'm a white boy and my ex was a dark skinned girl. i had no ragrets. you should go for it. he may not be interested but if he's a regular type dude, he'll prob go for it too. doesn't mean you have to get married or anything. just give him your number.
You're very purdy for a white boy.
OP, and that's how it's done.
Oh yeah you welcome.
Oh FFS. You two get in a thread and it just gets ruined. I'll never get that out of my head.
I'm deeply offended that in this day and age there's still people that find Chris Farley repulsive and think he ruins things. Come on, KK! I expect better from you!
It had less to do with Chris Farley and more to do with Tweedle Dee and Tweedle Dum when they start in on a thread together
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porcelain_dj wrote: »@If he's checking you out, I'd say there's a good chance he's interested. Talk to him. Humor is a good place to start. While you're jamming out, maybe stop and ask if he likes New Kids On The Block, too? (or something silly like that to make him smile and catch him off guard, a bit. Idk, I'm old and unattractive so I have always had to find ways to initiate conversation with women. You are beautiful. I'm sure it will go fine.
Lol I may just do that and thank you. And don't down yourself there's other ways to be attractive other than our outer shell
Well, I am fortunate to have a wonderful and beautiful woman who loves me for me, so I'm good! Good luck and keep us posted!!
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HawleyGriffin wrote: »porcelain_dj wrote: »He's about 6'3 ,caucasian ,blonde hair , blue eyes and slim built.
For the record, I fit this description if you don't mind light brown hair instead
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OP, did you talk to the guy yet? We're all wanting to know. This beats the heck out of daytime television.0
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porcelain_dj wrote: »arkowalyshyn wrote: »Where are you? I'm in Canada (caucasian )and I wouldn't have even thought about the mixed / interracial difference. Here there is such a mix of everyone from every ethnicity from an early age that it's not even a thing. Some people have blue eyes, some have brown, some skin is darker, some people are taller.
Speak up, or you'll always wonder. Good luck, though I'm sure you don't need it.
I live in north east Florida . But the city I live in you do not see a lot of interracial couples. I guess I'm super nervous because I never been approached by other races only black men. And thank you
Omg is this really an issue? Aren't we one race....human? Sorry but it's sad to think anyone even thinks it's an issue! Go get him!!!0 -
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Any update? You promised to update!0
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pookie1983 wrote: »Any update? You promised to update!
This was a bust. Poor girl...0 -
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@porcelain_dj
Be sure to pm me for the secret whiteboy password. You will definitely need that to avoid rejection.
One wrong word and you might get launched over board0 -
@porcelain_dj
Be sure to pm me for the secret whiteboy password. You will definitely need that to avoid rejection.
One wrong word and you might get launched over board
"That part'll happen pretty definitely."0 -
@porcelain_dj
Be sure to pm me for the secret whiteboy password. You will definitely need that to avoid rejection.
One wrong word and you might get launched over board
Omg! That's what I've been doing wrong all these years! I didn't have the secret white boy password!
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Lol I only date white guys. You're super pretty so it should be fairly easy0
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Coming from a white guy, mixed chicks are the best he might be into you too, you never know 0
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C4 is becoming the new love potion #90
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HawleyGriffin wrote: »@porcelain_dj
Be sure to pm me for the secret whiteboy password. You will definitely need that to avoid rejection.
One wrong word and you might get launched over board
Omg! That's what I've been doing wrong all these years! I didn't have the secret white boy password!
I know it
Well what's a girl gotta do to get the password? 0 -
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HawleyGriffin wrote: »HawleyGriffin wrote: »@porcelain_dj
Be sure to pm me for the secret whiteboy password. You will definitely need that to avoid rejection.
One wrong word and you might get launched over board
Omg! That's what I've been doing wrong all these years! I didn't have the secret white boy password!
I know it
Well what's a girl gotta do to get the password?
I can't reveal that on board.
I'm Soo intrigued!
Must be something ban-worthy!0 -
Didnt read the whole thread - but good luck. Dont let any racial hangups stand in your way. I used to be nervous stepping to white women..... once you do it a few times that fear goes away. You can do this.0
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HawleyGriffin wrote: »HawleyGriffin wrote: »HawleyGriffin wrote: »@porcelain_dj
Be sure to pm me for the secret whiteboy password. You will definitely need that to avoid rejection.
One wrong word and you might get launched over board
Omg! That's what I've been doing wrong all these years! I didn't have the secret white boy password!
I know it
Well what's a girl gotta do to get the password?
I can't reveal that on board.
I'm Soo intrigued!
Must be something ban-worthy!
Not intrigued enough since my inbox is empty
Lol! Intrigued, but lazy! I've read your profile before and saw that you don't do friend requests. But from the iPhone app I can't just send you a message. So I'd have to get out of bed, go get my laptop, boot it up...
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