Dating age difference?

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  • pie_eyes
    pie_eyes Posts: 12,964 Member
    Silversonnet wrote: »
    Silversonnet wrote: »
    Older men are hot

    But 18 years is the cap

    Lol
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  • KT_3009
    KT_3009 Posts: 1,042 Member
    edited October 2015
    10 years older and 2yrs younger
  • ValerieMartini2Olives
    ValerieMartini2Olives Posts: 3,024 Member
    Ideally, I like up to a 5 year difference older. 1-2 years younger. But my current boyfriend is 10 years older.
  • Kulaid77
    Kulaid77 Posts: 1,191 Member
    +/- 10
  • JustMissTracy
    JustMissTracy Posts: 6,338 Member
    Blankly4200 wrote: »
    JustMissTracy wrote: »
    Blankly4200 wrote: »
    I prefer older, but not older than 45

    LOL..what if he's 46, loaded, and treats you like a king?

    I don't know looks and personality are important, but for the most part I'll be a certain age at some point and a lot of time to look at old testes.

    LOL!
  • JustMissTracy
    JustMissTracy Posts: 6,338 Member
    TheRoadDog wrote: »
    It doesn't matter what the age difference is, my wife says I can't date others.

    However, in the 70's I was dating a gal 15 years older than me. That was a pain in the @ss. She was always trying to help me improve myself. Plus, I was listening to Sammy Hagar and AC/DC and she was listening to Barry Manilow. Made roadtrips a drag.

    I met my wife in 1990. She's 8 years younger than me. Accepts me for who I am and didn't try to change anything. Seems to be the right age difference. For us, anyway.

    I hope that I am never faced with dating again. I'm too old. The overly self-involved, selfie-taking, constantly texting, FB addicted gals of the current generation just wear me out.

    Well said! (I don't let hubby date other women either, regardless how old they are :p )
  • WickedPineapple
    WickedPineapple Posts: 698 Member
    Personality and future plans always come first, but from my, albeit limited, dating experience and crushes I tend to prefer men -2/+5 years and women closer to my own age -2/+2. Mr. Pineapple is a little over 4 years older than me.
  • JenAndSome
    JenAndSome Posts: 1,893 Member
    I have dated 5 years younger than me and 30+ years older. Current BF is 20 years older. I generally work better with people 5+ years older than me.
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  • mbaker566
    mbaker566 Posts: 11,233 Member
    I've done 11 years older but now I have a six year difference. I don't really get along with people my age. most of my friends are 40+
  • BeefyUk
    BeefyUk Posts: 2,602 Member
    I'm 41 ....
    -20 / +10
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  • gio0323
    gio0323 Posts: 294 Member
    Married now but if I was single no more than 7 older and 15 younger :). But rules can be broken lol
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
    @ 41 and married but if I was single, 30 would be my lower limit and 45 would be my upper.
  • gio0323
    gio0323 Posts: 294 Member
    Silversonnet wrote: »
    gio0323 wrote: »
    Married now but if I was single no more than 7 older and 15 younger :). But rules can be broken lol

    The married rules or the age rules :o

    Both, lmao
  • wolfsbayne2
    wolfsbayne2 Posts: 100 Member
    I've gone 11 years younger (recent) and I would possibly go 10-15 years older.
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  • gio0323
    gio0323 Posts: 294 Member
    18 to 80, blind, cripple or crazy and if they can't walk, I will tow them
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  • gio0323
    gio0323 Posts: 294 Member
    Zachary_Fredrick wrote: »
    gio0323 wrote: »
    18 to 80, blind, cripple or crazy and if they can't walk, I will tow them

    You have to admire a guy who has standards!

    Absolutely, you need to draw the line somewhere, can't just go for everyone you see lol
  • gman6464
    gman6464 Posts: 222 Member
    Silversonnet wrote: »
    Qualifiers: abs and intelligence.

    Dammit, the plural form of ab foils me again!


  • blu_de_ville
    blu_de_ville Posts: 4,296 Member
    I don't mind things like age and hair color B)
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    PurringMyrrh wrote: »
    I'm 37. Never younger, but up to like a hot 60 (68 if you're Sammy Hagar) would be fine for some fun. Provided everything still works...

    Like credit cards and doors to nice cars?

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    :p
  • Timshel_
    Timshel_ Posts: 22,834 Member
    I don't care about age.
  • LindsayPosey
    LindsayPosey Posts: 2,638 Member
    10 years older
  • Determined_ella_89
    Determined_ella_89 Posts: 1,710 Member
    edited October 2015
    I have to say that I disagree with the "that's sick" etc comments.... If a man and woman love each other why should age matter? People are so stereotypical... Oh that 20 year old is sleeping with a man old enough to be her grandad.. That's disgusting.....? One question.... Who put that sh¡t into your head? Lol... Brain washed... We are all human... We can all have feelings for one another.. Just because we compare them to ages that we have in our family.... Or because we are sadly influenced by others to think it's wrong... It's so sad. I know a couple that have a 35 year age gap.... They have been together 10 years... They got together when she was 24... And they are the most loving couple I've seen... She's an old soul... He's young at heart.. They are perfect together... People focus on age and looks far too much... What really matters is compatibility.. Love.. Care.. Trust.. Honesty... And a future you see with them in it. And no the women that want older men don't have daddy issues ;) stereotypical again... Maybe they want some experience.. Some intelligence.. Maturity. Some younger have all that too.. Again it's how you feel inside what counts not what you look like. Or a number.. :heart:
  • moijo1
    moijo1 Posts: 1,214 Member
    Determined_ella_89 wrote: »
    I have to say that I disagree with the "that's sick" etc comments.... If a man and woman love each other why should age matter? People are so stereotypical... Oh that 20 year old is sleeping with a man old enough to be her grandad.. That's disgusting.....? One question.... Who put that sh¡t into your head? Lol... Brain washed... We are all human... We can all have feelings for one another.. Just because we compare them to ages that we have in our family.... Or because we are sadly influenced by others to think it's wrong... It's so sad. I know a couple that have a 35 year age gap.... They have been together 10 years... They got together when she was 24... And they are the most loving couple I've seen... She's an old soul... He's young at heart.. They are perfect together... People focus on age and looks far too much... What really matters is compatibility.. Love.. Care.. Trust.. Honesty... And a future you see with them in it. And no the women that want older men don't have daddy issues ;) stereotypical again... Maybe they want some experience.. Some intelligence.. Maturity. Some younger have all that too.. Again it's how you feel inside what counts not what you look like. Or a number.. :heart:

    for me its just personal preference :)

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