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    Is it wrong to have a cyber GF and a real one as well?

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    • Posts: 1,674 Member
      JessicaJS23 wrote: »
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      This is a lesson most people learn till is too late.
    • Posts: 48 Member
      keep it real brother
    • Posts: 1,235 Member
      sw33tp3a15 wrote: »
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      This is a lesson most people learn till is too late.

      Omg. This is actually pretty *kitten* amazing.
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      Summersoul130 wrote: »
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      *kitten* right!? This is the weirdest thing I've ever read. The internet is destroying our brains.. ):

      ....if THIS is the weirdest thing you've ever read, you must have not been around the internet a lot O_o
    • Posts: 1,415 Member
      edited January 2016
      Several years ago, met and started seeing someone who belonged in the same guild on WoW for almost a year. Not really ashamed nor embarrassed or anything about it. Nobody believed us when we'd tell people how we met.

      You guys try this coffee and bagel thing? Interesting dating app.
    • Posts: 90 Member
      ald783 wrote: »
      I think I'd be more embarrassed than jealous if someone I was dating had a cyber girlfriend. Like is this a 1997 AOL chatroom?
      ...what she said. Lets just all pretend we are not 13 yr olds here
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      fat2fitaddict wrote: »
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      ...what she said. Lets just all pretend we are not 13 yr olds here

      I think at 12-13, I didn't give a crap about AOL lol

      I was killin' it on Crash Bandicoot and Twisted Metal around that age.
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      ThatFatAsianNerd wrote: »
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      I think at 12-13, I didn't give a crap about AOL lol

      I was killin' it on Crash Bandicoot and Twisted Metal around that age.

      Does that mean you play hearthstone? @ThatFatAsianNerd
    • Posts: 56 Member
      Unless the "real" gf is cool with it, it's dangerous ground.

      Personal experience here. I've been married for over 14 years. We've had a lot of issues, but stuck through for comfort (some issues were major, there was ongoing emotional/financial control/abuse, etc that made leaving less of an option even after it was obvious we were toxic for eachother).
      In another possibly bad idea, we were poly/open for the majority of the time. The marriage weathered several outside partners and consensual "affairs" with no bad effects, but cyber relationships are what killed it.

      I started texting a guy who was in the military. No harm, no foul, right. He was overseas, married, and it was all platonic. His wife left him, but when he came back to the US he was still 11 or 12 hours away. We flirted a little, and my husband was cool with it, even offered to let me fly out to go visit. We kept texting and talking on the phone and, he was there for me during some really bad times when my husband was emotionally unavailable. He was a really good friend, then something happened that had me worried for his safety and I realized I was in love with him. When his enlistment ended, he moved across the country, within a few hours of me. We're spending as much time as we can together and taking it slow, because we really are starting at zero to get to know eachother as we are, not as we pictured eachother online.

      During this, my husband started asking an "old friend" for relationship advice. Said friend has experience with polyamory, but also has happened to have a crush on him for years. Her advice ended up making things much worse, because it kept coming back to him leaving me, taking our son, and going to live with her (she lost custody of her own child and wants a replacement - not happening with mine). But when he's stressed or wants advice, she's just a few clicks on the mouse or taps on the phone screen away, so he keeps confiding in her.

      Online is even more convenient than real life relationships, because people are available, and because they can hide the negative or hard parts of interacting with eachother. And it becomes very easy to turn the other person into your fantasy partner, projecting what you want onto them, instead of seeing them as they are, because it isn't the same as spending time together in person. It may not be the best way to start or build a new relationship, but it will end an existing one easy enough.
    • Posts: 1,415 Member
      Lol @ _whatsherface

      Your situation just sounds way too F'd up, firead. Nevertheless, I agree with your last paragraph.





    • Posts: 882 Member
      Well that escalated quickly... lol
    • Posts: 58 Member
      lol
    • Posts: 1,415 Member
      edited January 2016
      If you're a dude, just assume every girl online is some 60 year old weirdo perv and play along with it. Once you get bored, go out and talk to real people, which I think I should do for myself right now lol






    • Posts: 305 Member
      ^^ howd you know?! Btw im 61 and definitely a man :neutral:
    • Posts: 1,548 Member
      I really think some people took this thread way too seriously......MFP noobs? I think so......it's a joke people.
    • Posts: 3,964 Member
      jlisa24 wrote: »
      ^^ howd you know?! Btw im 61 and definitely a man :neutral:
      You 61 year old creepy dudes are all the same!
    • Posts: 139 Member
      ald783 wrote: »
      I think I'd be more embarrassed than jealous if someone I was dating had a cyber girlfriend. Like is this a 1997 AOL chatroom?

      Lmao
    • Posts: 305 Member
      doglover485 wrote: »
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      RNGRZulu wrote: »
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      You 61 year old creepy dudes are all the same!

      Muahahahaha!
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    • Posts: 408 Member
      Good to go, listen to Shia and just do it
    • Posts: 1,235 Member
      ThatFatAsianNerd wrote: »
      Lol @ _whatsherface

      Your situation just sounds way too F'd up, firead. Nevertheless, I agree with your last paragraph.





      Wait... What? Lol. What situation?
    • Posts: 1,863 Member
      _whatsherface wrote: »
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      Wait... What? Lol. What situation?

      I got a headache and almost lost my eyes in the back of my head reading it. Proceed with caution.
    • Posts: 1,218 Member
      Cyber GF is a waste of time....
    • Posts: 9,591 Member
      If you have to ask this question legitimately, you shouldn't be in a relationship that isn't open, period.
    • Posts: 9,591 Member
      newmeadow wrote: »
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      Pretty sure he was just joshing.

      Why do people bother making these threads then?
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      Tialuna18 wrote: »
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      Why do people bother making these threads then?

      trolling
    • Posts: 1,548 Member
      Tialuna18 wrote: »
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      Why do people bother making these threads then?

      Just look how much fun it was
    • Posts: 283 Member
      People are just jealous they don't have enough skill or game to do it all.
    • Posts: 9,591 Member
      Yeah...takes a lot of skill to cheat. : /
    • Posts: 2,817 Member
      Tialuna18 wrote: »
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      Why do people bother making these threads then?

      That would be the "Fun" part of "Chit-Chat Fun & Games"

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