How to get gf into fitness?

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  • provencal73
    provencal73 Posts: 1,275 Member
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    Damn, I wish I had a boyfriend who wanted to workout as much as I do and be my motivation :'(

    This... i have broken it off with guys who don't get it... calles me "youre at the gym again?".. yes, every day you idiot. Get lost. lol

    I think Gym People and Non-Gym People just don't work as a couple. I had a boyfriend years ago who didn't want to take me out on my birthday because it was "cardio day". I no longer date gym guys.

    He should've run his *kitten* to the restaurant then.
  • sullus
    sullus Posts: 2,839 Member
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    Damn, I wish I had a boyfriend who wanted to workout as much as I do and be my motivation :'(

    This... i have broken it off with guys who don't get it... calles me "youre at the gym again?".. yes, every day you idiot. Get lost. lol

    I think Gym People and Non-Gym People just don't work as a couple. I had a boyfriend years ago who didn't want to take me out on my birthday because it was "cardio day". I no longer date gym guys.

    He just didn't want to take you out. "Cardio Day" was his excuse. I SUCK at time management, and I can manage to do cardio and take my wife out to dinner. On the same day, no less.
  • AskTracyAnnK28
    AskTracyAnnK28 Posts: 2,817 Member
    sullus wrote: »
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    Damn, I wish I had a boyfriend who wanted to workout as much as I do and be my motivation :'(

    This... i have broken it off with guys who don't get it... calles me "youre at the gym again?".. yes, every day you idiot. Get lost. lol

    I think Gym People and Non-Gym People just don't work as a couple. I had a boyfriend years ago who didn't want to take me out on my birthday because it was "cardio day". I no longer date gym guys.

    He just didn't want to take you out. "Cardio Day" was his excuse. I SUCK at time management, and I can manage to do cardio and take my wife out to dinner. On the same day, no less.

    No - he was a total Gym Person and very regimented with his workout. He'd miss his own birthday if it was "leg day".

    He did end up taking me out but I broke up with him just a few weeks after that.
  • Tcoll1991
    Tcoll1991 Posts: 2 Member
    If she doesn't like fitness already then don't bother, she has to want to. If she's interested in it at all though suggest that you guys start doing 5ks together. The guy I started seeing suggested this recently as we're both trying to get in shape and I found it to be a cute and motivating way to spend time together doing something we both enjoy.
  • _incogNEATo_
    _incogNEATo_ Posts: 4,537 Member
    sullus wrote: »
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    Damn, I wish I had a boyfriend who wanted to workout as much as I do and be my motivation :'(

    This... i have broken it off with guys who don't get it... calles me "youre at the gym again?".. yes, every day you idiot. Get lost. lol

    I think Gym People and Non-Gym People just don't work as a couple. I had a boyfriend years ago who didn't want to take me out on my birthday because it was "cardio day". I no longer date gym guys.

    He just didn't want to take you out. "Cardio Day" was his excuse. I SUCK at time management, and I can manage to do cardio and take my wife out to dinner. On the same day, no less.

    No - he was a total Gym Person and very regimented with his workout. He'd miss his own birthday if it was "leg day".

    He did end up taking me out but I broke up with him just a few weeks after that.

    Lol, no... Your birthday and leg day can be the same day. It's not like the world stops for your workout. A "gym-goer" realizes that there are still other parts to the day.

    He wasn't interested.

    And there is a thread dedicated to people asking you relationship advice?
  • PalePocahontas
    PalePocahontas Posts: 1,130 Member
    Leave her so she can find someone who appreciates her the way she is.
  • JZygmunt72
    JZygmunt72 Posts: 262 Member
    wow. I hope she breaks up with you. she deserves way better than you.
  • jlisa24
    jlisa24 Posts: 305 Member
    sullus wrote: »
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    Damn, I wish I had a boyfriend who wanted to workout as much as I do and be my motivation :'(

    This... i have broken it off with guys who don't get it... calles me "youre at the gym again?".. yes, every day you idiot. Get lost. lol

    I think Gym People and Non-Gym People just don't work as a couple. I had a boyfriend years ago who didn't want to take me out on my birthday because it was "cardio day". I no longer date gym guys.

    He just didn't want to take you out. "Cardio Day" was his excuse. I SUCK at time management, and I can manage to do cardio and take my wife out to dinner. On the same day, no less.

    No - he was a total Gym Person and very regimented with his workout. He'd miss his own birthday if it was "leg day".

    He did end up taking me out but I broke up with him just a few weeks after that.

    Lol, no... Your birthday and leg day can be the same day. It's not like the world stops for your workout. A "gym-goer" realizes that there are still other parts to the day.

    He wasn't interested.

    And there is a thread dedicated to people asking you relationship advice?

    lol Um, Jan 27th isn't your birthday. It says right here, bicept supersets.

    I'm not that crazy about gym days. Yes I go 6 days a week but that's partially due to the fact that I'm not coming home to a hot peice of *kitten* in my bed waiting for me, either. But whatever, i digress...
  • ew_david
    ew_david Posts: 3,473 Member
    sullus wrote: »
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    Damn, I wish I had a boyfriend who wanted to workout as much as I do and be my motivation :'(

    This... i have broken it off with guys who don't get it... calles me "youre at the gym again?".. yes, every day you idiot. Get lost. lol

    I think Gym People and Non-Gym People just don't work as a couple. I had a boyfriend years ago who didn't want to take me out on my birthday because it was "cardio day". I no longer date gym guys.

    He just didn't want to take you out. "Cardio Day" was his excuse. I SUCK at time management, and I can manage to do cardio and take my wife out to dinner. On the same day, no less.

    No - he was a total Gym Person and very regimented with his workout. He'd miss his own birthday if it was "leg day".

    He did end up taking me out but I broke up with him just a few weeks after that.

    Lol, no... Your birthday and leg day can be the same day. It's not like the world stops for your workout. A "gym-goer" realizes that there are still other parts to the day.

    He wasn't interested.

    And there is a thread dedicated to people asking you relationship advice?

    :D
    Have I told you that I love you yet?
  • junelove89
    junelove89 Posts: 759 Member
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    sullus wrote: »
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    Damn, I wish I had a boyfriend who wanted to workout as much as I do and be my motivation :'(

    This... i have broken it off with guys who don't get it... calles me "youre at the gym again?".. yes, every day you idiot. Get lost. lol

    I think Gym People and Non-Gym People just don't work as a couple. I had a boyfriend years ago who didn't want to take me out on my birthday because it was "cardio day". I no longer date gym guys.

    He just didn't want to take you out. "Cardio Day" was his excuse. I SUCK at time management, and I can manage to do cardio and take my wife out to dinner. On the same day, no less.

    No - he was a total Gym Person and very regimented with his workout. He'd miss his own birthday if it was "leg day".

    He did end up taking me out but I broke up with him just a few weeks after that.

    Lol, no... Your birthday and leg day can be the same day. It's not like the world stops for your workout. A "gym-goer" realizes that there are still other parts to the day.

    He wasn't interested.

    And there is a thread dedicated to people asking you relationship advice?

    lol Um, Jan 27th isn't your birthday. It says right here, bicept supersets.

    I'm not that crazy about gym days. Yes I go 6 days a week but that's partially due to the fact that I'm not coming home to a hot peice of *kitten* in my bed waiting for me, either. But whatever, i digress...

    Totally agree with you. My workout would be done at home if I had "a hot piece of *kitten* in my bed waiting for me" too lol no need for gym. Not as much at least :D
  • KwaziiNeko
    KwaziiNeko Posts: 74 Member
    Give me her number I'll tell her I like her big booty and I'll let her sit on face!
  • JeffreyMGiron
    JeffreyMGiron Posts: 3,582 Member
    junelove89 wrote: »
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    Damn, I wish I had a boyfriend who wanted to workout as much as I do and be my motivation :'(

    This... i have broken it off with guys who don't get it... calles me "youre at the gym again?".. yes, every day you idiot. Get lost. lol

    Precisely ;)

    damn i would be like "you better be going to the gym today!!"
    and then i would stay home and have my quality alone time.
  • junelove89
    junelove89 Posts: 759 Member
    junelove89 wrote: »
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    Damn, I wish I had a boyfriend who wanted to workout as much as I do and be my motivation :'(

    This... i have broken it off with guys who don't get it... calles me "youre at the gym again?".. yes, every day you idiot. Get lost. lol

    Precisely ;)

    damn i would be like "you better be going to the gym today!!"
    and then i would stay home and have my quality alone time.

    Hey, that works too!
  • JeffreyMGiron
    JeffreyMGiron Posts: 3,582 Member
    junelove89 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    Damn, I wish I had a boyfriend who wanted to workout as much as I do and be my motivation :'(

    This... i have broken it off with guys who don't get it... calles me "youre at the gym again?".. yes, every day you idiot. Get lost. lol

    Precisely ;)

    damn i would be like "you better be going to the gym today!!"
    and then i would stay home and have my quality alone time.

    Hey, that works too!

    besides, i dont like working out at the gym, thats why i run trails and have all my other equipment at home. I like the secluded home gym.
  • junelove89
    junelove89 Posts: 759 Member
    junelove89 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    Damn, I wish I had a boyfriend who wanted to workout as much as I do and be my motivation :'(

    This... i have broken it off with guys who don't get it... calles me "youre at the gym again?".. yes, every day you idiot. Get lost. lol

    Precisely ;)

    damn i would be like "you better be going to the gym today!!"
    and then i would stay home and have my quality alone time.

    Hey, that works too!

    besides, i dont like working out at the gym, thats why i run trails and have all my other equipment at home. I like the secluded home gym.

    Me too! I cannot wait for the good weather to start jogging outdoors again B)
    I would love to have my own workout room at home. I need to invest in weights and ditch the crowded gym full of people just taking pictures of themselves or talking and just taking up all the damn machines for no reason! Phew, got that outta my system lol
  • JeffreyMGiron
    JeffreyMGiron Posts: 3,582 Member
    junelove89 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    Damn, I wish I had a boyfriend who wanted to workout as much as I do and be my motivation :'(

    This... i have broken it off with guys who don't get it... calles me "youre at the gym again?".. yes, every day you idiot. Get lost. lol

    Precisely ;)

    damn i would be like "you better be going to the gym today!!"
    and then i would stay home and have my quality alone time.

    Hey, that works too!

    besides, i dont like working out at the gym, thats why i run trails and have all my other equipment at home. I like the secluded home gym.

    Me too! I cannot wait for the good weather to start jogging outdoors again B)
    I would love to have my own workout room at home. I need to invest in weights and ditch the crowded gym full of people just taking pictures of themselves or talking and just taking up all the damn machines for no reason! Phew, got that outta my system lol

    no weather stops me actually, ive ran this whole week in 0-20 degree weather, and i plan on trying to go run in this 2 feet of snow we are anticipating. Then my weights havent touched in a week because im trying to do more runnings for now, but if the snow is too much ill be doing weights all weekend.
  • AskTracyAnnK28
    AskTracyAnnK28 Posts: 2,817 Member
    sullus wrote: »
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    Damn, I wish I had a boyfriend who wanted to workout as much as I do and be my motivation :'(

    This... i have broken it off with guys who don't get it... calles me "youre at the gym again?".. yes, every day you idiot. Get lost. lol

    I think Gym People and Non-Gym People just don't work as a couple. I had a boyfriend years ago who didn't want to take me out on my birthday because it was "cardio day". I no longer date gym guys.

    He just didn't want to take you out. "Cardio Day" was his excuse. I SUCK at time management, and I can manage to do cardio and take my wife out to dinner. On the same day, no less.

    No - he was a total Gym Person and very regimented with his workout. He'd miss his own birthday if it was "leg day".

    He did end up taking me out but I broke up with him just a few weeks after that.

    Lol, no... Your birthday and leg day can be the same day. It's not like the world stops for your workout. A "gym-goer" realizes that there are still other parts to the day.

    He wasn't interested.

    And there is a thread dedicated to people asking you relationship advice?


    @_incogNEATo_ dude...I was 27 and didn't know any better. I learned from my mistakes - which is why people come to me for advice B)

    You certainly are cranky today. better get to the gym and work out your frustration.

  • junelove89
    junelove89 Posts: 759 Member
    junelove89 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    Damn, I wish I had a boyfriend who wanted to workout as much as I do and be my motivation :'(

    This... i have broken it off with guys who don't get it... calles me "youre at the gym again?".. yes, every day you idiot. Get lost. lol

    Precisely ;)

    damn i would be like "you better be going to the gym today!!"
    and then i would stay home and have my quality alone time.

    Hey, that works too!

    besides, i dont like working out at the gym, thats why i run trails and have all my other equipment at home. I like the secluded home gym.

    Me too! I cannot wait for the good weather to start jogging outdoors again B)
    I would love to have my own workout room at home. I need to invest in weights and ditch the crowded gym full of people just taking pictures of themselves or talking and just taking up all the damn machines for no reason! Phew, got that outta my system lol

    no weather stops me actually, ive ran this whole week in 0-20 degree weather, and i plan on trying to go run in this 2 feet of snow we are anticipating. Then my weights havent touched in a week because im trying to do more runnings for now, but if the snow is too much ill be doing weights all weekend.

    I'd do more jogging if I had someone to go explore new places with. I can only do certain areas where I know where I am going and not get eaten by some wild animal lol
    I also do not like jogging in the dark and alone :(
  • JeffreyMGiron
    JeffreyMGiron Posts: 3,582 Member
    junelove89 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    Damn, I wish I had a boyfriend who wanted to workout as much as I do and be my motivation :'(

    This... i have broken it off with guys who don't get it... calles me "youre at the gym again?".. yes, every day you idiot. Get lost. lol

    Precisely ;)

    damn i would be like "you better be going to the gym today!!"
    and then i would stay home and have my quality alone time.

    Hey, that works too!

    besides, i dont like working out at the gym, thats why i run trails and have all my other equipment at home. I like the secluded home gym.

    Me too! I cannot wait for the good weather to start jogging outdoors again B)
    I would love to have my own workout room at home. I need to invest in weights and ditch the crowded gym full of people just taking pictures of themselves or talking and just taking up all the damn machines for no reason! Phew, got that outta my system lol

    no weather stops me actually, ive ran this whole week in 0-20 degree weather, and i plan on trying to go run in this 2 feet of snow we are anticipating. Then my weights havent touched in a week because im trying to do more runnings for now, but if the snow is too much ill be doing weights all weekend.

    I'd do more jogging if I had someone to go explore new places with. I can only do certain areas where I know where I am going and not get eaten by some wild animal lol
    I also do not like jogging in the dark and alone :(

    the trail i take splits into two, theres one with massive inclines, and then theres a straight forward one, each one is about 10 miles and leads to a lake. My ideal goal is run those ten miles non stop...right now i can only do 5...i think if i pace myself a little better i can get do it by May, then again idk because its probably the cold weather thats stopping me from going past 5, but im trying and since i love fishing id have my fishing gear with me when i can run the 10!
  • dbanks80
    dbanks80 Posts: 3,685 Member
    I guess when you've been with someone for so long health is more important than vanity.
  • junelove89
    junelove89 Posts: 759 Member
    junelove89 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    Damn, I wish I had a boyfriend who wanted to workout as much as I do and be my motivation :'(

    This... i have broken it off with guys who don't get it... calles me "youre at the gym again?".. yes, every day you idiot. Get lost. lol

    Precisely ;)

    damn i would be like "you better be going to the gym today!!"
    and then i would stay home and have my quality alone time.

    Hey, that works too!

    besides, i dont like working out at the gym, thats why i run trails and have all my other equipment at home. I like the secluded home gym.

    Me too! I cannot wait for the good weather to start jogging outdoors again B)
    I would love to have my own workout room at home. I need to invest in weights and ditch the crowded gym full of people just taking pictures of themselves or talking and just taking up all the damn machines for no reason! Phew, got that outta my system lol

    no weather stops me actually, ive ran this whole week in 0-20 degree weather, and i plan on trying to go run in this 2 feet of snow we are anticipating. Then my weights havent touched in a week because im trying to do more runnings for now, but if the snow is too much ill be doing weights all weekend.

    I'd do more jogging if I had someone to go explore new places with. I can only do certain areas where I know where I am going and not get eaten by some wild animal lol
    I also do not like jogging in the dark and alone :(

    the trail i take splits into two, theres one with massive inclines, and then theres a straight forward one, each one is about 10 miles and leads to a lake. My ideal goal is run those ten miles non stop...right now i can only do 5...i think if i pace myself a little better i can get do it by May, then again idk because its probably the cold weather thats stopping me from going past 5, but im trying and since i love fishing id have my fishing gear with me when i can run the 10!

    Ive done a 7 mile jog which includes an incline as well. Referred to as "the wall". It's pretty amazing, specially when you go before the sun rises and you get to see it while jogging. I just need to incorporate more weights in my routine now. Im not even sure if all cardio would do anything for me. I have not seen any results that way
  • JeffreyMGiron
    JeffreyMGiron Posts: 3,582 Member
    junelove89 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    Damn, I wish I had a boyfriend who wanted to workout as much as I do and be my motivation :'(

    This... i have broken it off with guys who don't get it... calles me "youre at the gym again?".. yes, every day you idiot. Get lost. lol

    Precisely ;)

    damn i would be like "you better be going to the gym today!!"
    and then i would stay home and have my quality alone time.

    Hey, that works too!

    besides, i dont like working out at the gym, thats why i run trails and have all my other equipment at home. I like the secluded home gym.

    Me too! I cannot wait for the good weather to start jogging outdoors again B)
    I would love to have my own workout room at home. I need to invest in weights and ditch the crowded gym full of people just taking pictures of themselves or talking and just taking up all the damn machines for no reason! Phew, got that outta my system lol

    no weather stops me actually, ive ran this whole week in 0-20 degree weather, and i plan on trying to go run in this 2 feet of snow we are anticipating. Then my weights havent touched in a week because im trying to do more runnings for now, but if the snow is too much ill be doing weights all weekend.

    I'd do more jogging if I had someone to go explore new places with. I can only do certain areas where I know where I am going and not get eaten by some wild animal lol
    I also do not like jogging in the dark and alone :(

    the trail i take splits into two, theres one with massive inclines, and then theres a straight forward one, each one is about 10 miles and leads to a lake. My ideal goal is run those ten miles non stop...right now i can only do 5...i think if i pace myself a little better i can get do it by May, then again idk because its probably the cold weather thats stopping me from going past 5, but im trying and since i love fishing id have my fishing gear with me when i can run the 10!

    Ive done a 7 mile jog which includes an incline as well. Referred to as "the wall". It's pretty amazing, specially when you go before the sun rises and you get to see it while jogging. I just need to incorporate more weights in my routine now. Im not even sure if all cardio would do anything for me. I have not seen any results that way

    i do weights, not super heavy im just trying to get fit, im actually going more towards the stamina and endurance for Soccer, i really never imagine getting super bulk. My friends tell me i should but i just want to be lean and fit.
  • junelove89
    junelove89 Posts: 759 Member
    junelove89 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    Damn, I wish I had a boyfriend who wanted to workout as much as I do and be my motivation :'(

    This... i have broken it off with guys who don't get it... calles me "youre at the gym again?".. yes, every day you idiot. Get lost. lol

    Precisely ;)

    damn i would be like "you better be going to the gym today!!"
    and then i would stay home and have my quality alone time.

    Hey, that works too!

    besides, i dont like working out at the gym, thats why i run trails and have all my other equipment at home. I like the secluded home gym.

    Me too! I cannot wait for the good weather to start jogging outdoors again B)
    I would love to have my own workout room at home. I need to invest in weights and ditch the crowded gym full of people just taking pictures of themselves or talking and just taking up all the damn machines for no reason! Phew, got that outta my system lol

    no weather stops me actually, ive ran this whole week in 0-20 degree weather, and i plan on trying to go run in this 2 feet of snow we are anticipating. Then my weights havent touched in a week because im trying to do more runnings for now, but if the snow is too much ill be doing weights all weekend.

    I'd do more jogging if I had someone to go explore new places with. I can only do certain areas where I know where I am going and not get eaten by some wild animal lol
    I also do not like jogging in the dark and alone :(

    the trail i take splits into two, theres one with massive inclines, and then theres a straight forward one, each one is about 10 miles and leads to a lake. My ideal goal is run those ten miles non stop...right now i can only do 5...i think if i pace myself a little better i can get do it by May, then again idk because its probably the cold weather thats stopping me from going past 5, but im trying and since i love fishing id have my fishing gear with me when i can run the 10!

    Ive done a 7 mile jog which includes an incline as well. Referred to as "the wall". It's pretty amazing, specially when you go before the sun rises and you get to see it while jogging. I just need to incorporate more weights in my routine now. Im not even sure if all cardio would do anything for me. I have not seen any results that way

    i do weights, not super heavy im just trying to get fit, im actually going more towards the stamina and endurance for Soccer, i really never imagine getting super bulk. My friends tell me i should but i just want to be lean and fit.

    Yea, id like to go on for days without gasping for air in between lol
    Good for shaping the legs too. Because everyday is leg day!
  • AskTracyAnnK28
    AskTracyAnnK28 Posts: 2,817 Member
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    sullus wrote: »
    jlisa24 wrote: »
    junelove89 wrote: »
    Damn, I wish I had a boyfriend who wanted to workout as much as I do and be my motivation :'(

    This... i have broken it off with guys who don't get it... calles me "youre at the gym again?".. yes, every day you idiot. Get lost. lol

    I think Gym People and Non-Gym People just don't work as a couple. I had a boyfriend years ago who didn't want to take me out on my birthday because it was "cardio day". I no longer date gym guys.

    He just didn't want to take you out. "Cardio Day" was his excuse. I SUCK at time management, and I can manage to do cardio and take my wife out to dinner. On the same day, no less.

    No - he was a total Gym Person and very regimented with his workout. He'd miss his own birthday if it was "leg day".

    He did end up taking me out but I broke up with him just a few weeks after that.

    Lol, no... Your birthday and leg day can be the same day. It's not like the world stops for your workout. A "gym-goer" realizes that there are still other parts to the day.

    He wasn't interested.

    And there is a thread dedicated to people asking you relationship advice?

    lol Um, Jan 27th isn't your birthday. It says right here, bicept supersets.

    I'm not that crazy about gym days. Yes I go 6 days a week but that's partially due to the fact that I'm not coming home to a hot peice of *kitten* in my bed waiting for me, either. But whatever, i digress...

    yeah well he changed his mind rather rapidly when I said "oh? well I guess I'll go out with the girls instead..."

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  • sabrinasmith7
    sabrinasmith7 Posts: 583 Member
    Idk that's difficult. I'd have to say if my fiancé asked me to lose weight it wouldn't be out of character nor "wrong" because he met me at 115lbs and I'm here for a reason, at 130.
    BUT he has Not asked me to change anything about myself. Except maybe my tone once in a while lol but if he did I could imagine I would feel insecure for the rest of my life about my weight, and that would be bad for our relationship, even detrimental. Coming from a girl I would have to say I'd rather him suggest I help him with exercises, but not ask me to do them. Helping him would motivate myself
  • Kvm11628
    Kvm11628 Posts: 7,386 Member
    edited January 2016
    Idk that's difficult. I'd have to say if my fiancé asked me to lose weight it wouldn't be out of character nor "wrong" because he met me at 115lbs and I'm here for a reason, at 130.
    BUT he has Not asked me to change anything about myself. Except maybe my tone once in a while lol but if he did I could imagine I would feel insecure for the rest of my life about my weight, and that would be bad for our relationship, even detrimental. Coming from a girl I would have to say I'd rather him suggest I help him with exercises, but not ask me to do them. Helping him would motivate myself

    Darlin' if he's already asking you to shift your tone, when you're what? 18 and not even married with kids? Consider that the universe whispering your future to you.
  • sabrinasmith7
    sabrinasmith7 Posts: 583 Member
    kimvmajor wrote: »
    Idk that's difficult. I'd have to say if my fiancé asked me to lose weight it wouldn't be out of character nor "wrong" because he met me at 115lbs and I'm here for a reason, at 130.
    BUT he has Not asked me to change anything about myself. Except maybe my tone once in a while lol but if he did I could imagine I would feel insecure for the rest of my life about my weight, and that would be bad for our relationship, even detrimental. Coming from a girl I would have to say I'd rather him suggest I help him with exercises, but not ask me to do them. Helping him would motivate myself

    Darlin' if he's already asking you to shift your tone, when you're what? 18 and not even married with kids? Consider that the universe whispering your future to you.

    Clearly you didn't do your research.

    I'm 20, engaged and no kids thanks. And I do have an attitude sometimes but I was raised in a family with a naturally hostile tone.
  • sunnybeaches105
    sunnybeaches105 Posts: 2,831 Member
    kimvmajor wrote: »
    Idk that's difficult. I'd have to say if my fiancé asked me to lose weight it wouldn't be out of character nor "wrong" because he met me at 115lbs and I'm here for a reason, at 130.
    BUT he has Not asked me to change anything about myself. Except maybe my tone once in a while lol but if he did I could imagine I would feel insecure for the rest of my life about my weight, and that would be bad for our relationship, even detrimental. Coming from a girl I would have to say I'd rather him suggest I help him with exercises, but not ask me to do them. Helping him would motivate myself

    Darlin' if he's already asking you to shift your tone, when you're what? 18 and not even married with kids? Consider that the universe whispering your future to you.

    Clearly you didn't do your research.

    I'm 20, engaged and no kids thanks. And I do have an attitude sometimes but I was raised in a family with a naturally hostile tone.

    Internet head shrinking FTW
  • JeffreyMGiron
    JeffreyMGiron Posts: 3,582 Member
    kimvmajor wrote: »
    Idk that's difficult. I'd have to say if my fiancé asked me to lose weight it wouldn't be out of character nor "wrong" because he met me at 115lbs and I'm here for a reason, at 130.
    BUT he has Not asked me to change anything about myself. Except maybe my tone once in a while lol but if he did I could imagine I would feel insecure for the rest of my life about my weight, and that would be bad for our relationship, even detrimental. Coming from a girl I would have to say I'd rather him suggest I help him with exercises, but not ask me to do them. Helping him would motivate myself

    Darlin' if he's already asking you to shift your tone, when you're what? 18 and not even married with kids? Consider that the universe whispering your future to you.

    Hi Kim! how are you today?
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