How to get gf into fitness?

born2transform · January 2016

I'm praying this guy is a troll.... so ridiculous.

lisalsd1 · January 2016

_incogNEATo_ wrote: »

If you think she's fat now, wait until you get married.

Basically, this guy beat me to it. I was going to say, "don't get her pregnant," b/c she'll get fatter, and I'm sure she doesn't want an a-hole for a "baby daddy."

Kvm11628 · January 2016

@sabrinasmith7 You missed my point. I said, you are young, not married [yet, but congrats on the engagement], and you have not had the impact of pregnancy, you are likely in for a surprise.

Your body will change as you get older and it definitely will when you have kids. It doesn't mean it will be bad, and it doesn't mean it won't be even better, but it is harder to get where you are now.

What I am saying is if he is already making suggestions, I would suspect those suggestions may come again - stronger - in the future. So, if hearing that he thinks your tone needs to improve now might make you insecure, just be careful.

William4MVP · January 2016

didn't read rest of the replies, just replying to the first post.

If you can't accept her for her lifestyle and who she is..why be with her? You don't get to decide if she changes or not. Just leave her if it's bothering you enough to come onto a forum to discuss it.

sabrinasmith7 · January 2016

kimvmajor wrote: »

@sabrinasmith7 You missed my point. I said, you are young, not married [yet, but congrats on the engagement], and you have not had the impact of pregnancy, you are likely in for a surprise.

Your body will change as you get older and it definitely will when you have kids. It doesn't mean it will be bad, and it doesn't mean it won't be even better, but it is harder to get where you are now.

What I am saying is if he is already making suggestions, I would suspect those suggestions may come again - stronger - in the future. So, if hearing that he thinks your tone needs to improve now might make you insecure, just be careful.

I generally agree with him on my tone, it's bad sometimes and unintentionally. I don't think he would ever comment on my weight, but I also know if I ended being 150lbs (without pregnancy) I need to do something about it, in other words I need to stop letting myself go lol
He understands pregnancy does some serious hell to the women body. And I don't ever see that being an issue