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"Addiction" versus "Dependence"

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  • zyxst
    zyxst Posts: 9,149 Member
    RobD520 wrote: »
    makingmark wrote: »
    lemurcat12 wrote: »
    @msemotan I think a lot of people who start threads like that do so with the same intent as you - trying to be silly/funny /witty/generally make light of the situation while reaching out for strategies on how to limit their sugar consumption.

    Yeah, I agree with this, and don't want to seem like some humorless word police. When this is the intent I don't usually say anything and just give strategies, since I know what the person means and I understand the non-serious use of the term or the frustration being expressed.

    What bugs me (although I try to not argue, just disagree) are things where it's clear the direct comparison is intended or, especially, where it's asserted it's just like heroin (or whatever) or often "even worse than any other addiction, since you can't stop eating food." Yeah, it's just not.

    Ugh, tell me about it. I know a cocaine addict who's nearly been busted on airlines twice traveling with the stuff, but he keeps doing it because he can't imagine going a whole trip without it. Let me know the next time someone risks arrest because they can't go a few days without a brownie.

    If brownies were illegal there would be a huge number of arrests I am sure. Not a valid argument

    Exactly.

    Cigarettes are addicting; but people don't steal from there family etc...to engage in this addiction.

    I did. Stole plenty to keep smoking. Also did a few more questionable things to get a smoke. When I "need" a smoke, I did whatever to get it. Tobacco is easy to get because it is legal and not many people realize how far someone is willing to go to get their fix. Never assume because a substance is legal that someone won't commit illegal acts to get it.

    Though I don't have an ED or out-of-control eating, I did steal a fair bit of food from shops when I was child, usually because I couldn't afford to buy what I wanted.
  • 2011rocket3touring
    2011rocket3touring Posts: 1,346 Member
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    Generally, from what I've experienced here on MFP, when people say "I'm addicted to sugar" they are really saying two things:
    1) It's not my fault I'm fat
    2) Sugar is the devil...
    Sugar IS the devil!
    I've recently been "enjoying" sugar withdrawal. Trying to get as close as possible to my MFP numbers I've cut down most of my sugar and have had headaches as a result which will hopefully go away over time.
  • stevencloser
    stevencloser Posts: 8,911 Member
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    Generally, from what I've experienced here on MFP, when people say "I'm addicted to sugar" they are really saying two things:
    1) It's not my fault I'm fat
    2) Sugar is the devil...
    Sugar IS the devil!
    I've recently been "enjoying" sugar withdrawal. Trying to get as close as possible to my MFP numbers I've cut down most of my sugar and have had headaches as a result which will hopefully go away over time.
    Low carb flu is not sugar withdrawal.
  • Carlos_421
    Carlos_421 Posts: 5,132 Member
    RobD520 wrote: »
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    @lemurcat12 hit on a valid point. There's a biiiiiiiig difference between "I'm craving these cookies so much that I'm going to eat them even though they will make me fat" and "I'm craving cookies so badly that I'm willing to steal from family members, abandon relationships and sell my body for a hit of tollhouse."

    I woul argue that the 600 pound person who persists in overeating despite being bedridden fits your definition. In extreme examples, people have devistated their families.

    But the degree of damage you describe is NOT required for something to be a clinical addiction.

    600 lb people are willing to commit crimes for a hit of sugar when vegetables and lean proteins are available?? They're so desperate for a fix of candy that they'll directly engage in dangerous activity to get it???

    Come on...obesity can be harmful to family members who have to care for sick and dying loved ones, sure...
    But fat people are fat because of consistently eating in a surplus...not because they're so desperate for a hit of sucrose that they're willing to do whatever they can to get it.

    Wow...
  • Carlos_421
    Carlos_421 Posts: 5,132 Member
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    Generally, from what I've experienced here on MFP, when people say "I'm addicted to sugar" they are really saying two things:
    1) It's not my fault I'm fat
    2) Sugar is the devil...
    Sugar IS the devil!
    I've recently been "enjoying" sugar withdrawal. Trying to get as close as possible to my MFP numbers I've cut down most of my sugar and have had headaches as a result which will hopefully go away over time.

    Sugar =\= caffeine
  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
    makingmark wrote: »
    lemurcat12 wrote: »
    @msemotan I think a lot of people who start threads like that do so with the same intent as you - trying to be silly/funny /witty/generally make light of the situation while reaching out for strategies on how to limit their sugar consumption.

    Yeah, I agree with this, and don't want to seem like some humorless word police. When this is the intent I don't usually say anything and just give strategies, since I know what the person means and I understand the non-serious use of the term or the frustration being expressed.

    What bugs me (although I try to not argue, just disagree) are things where it's clear the direct comparison is intended or, especially, where it's asserted it's just like heroin (or whatever) or often "even worse than any other addiction, since you can't stop eating food." Yeah, it's just not.

    Ugh, tell me about it. I know a cocaine addict who's nearly been busted on airlines twice traveling with the stuff, but he keeps doing it because he can't imagine going a whole trip without it. Let me know the next time someone risks arrest because they can't go a few days without a brownie.

    If brownies were illegal there would be a huge number of arrests I am sure. Not a valid argument

    I seriously doubt it. (Well, people likely would not respect the law, so would violate it, but I don't think the craving for a brownie is ever such that you would risk arrest.)
  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
    edited May 2016
    lemurcat12 wrote: »
    The problem with this is that bad eating behaviors are easily and fully explained (in most cases) by a combination of habit and people being horrible at weighing consequences when those consequences are long-term vs. short-term. If eating one cookie (or having one bad eating day) directly caused serious negative consequences and people still did it, that would be one thing, but I bet given a choice between a "cheat" day and heart disease or a "cheat" day and their job, virtually none of the self-proclaimed sugar addicts on MFP would choose the "cheat" day (those suffering from BED may be an exception, but I think BED is a separate thing).

    I'm not sure how any of what you just said is different from a mild drug addiction, I've known people who smoke marijuana every day, it's also explained as a habit and people making poor choices. Smoking one joint didn't directly cause these people to be broke, it's all of the joints they smoked. The one who failed a drug test, wouldn't have chosen a smoke over his job, it's just the way it happened. Most of society would call it an addiction because drugs are involved; change it to food and you're certain it's not an addiction even though we've just described exactly the same sets of behaviors. That's weird.

    Are they addicted? Do they think they are? (Failing a drug test, unless it was a surprise, seems like a pretty good sign, though. If you knew you'd be tested for brownie consumption -- let's pretend that's possible -- and nevertheless ate one the day before, then that would be an addiction in my mind. I don't see that happening other than in quite rare circumstances (the eating addiction I mentioned above).)

    The consequences that addicts willingly face are typically more immediate, and they make choices -- or are on a path where they will make choices -- to put the addiction over all else. I don't think that's the case with people who struggle with food other than the rare eating addict. Yes, getting obese is bad for your health, but you aren't choosing to eat brownies over your family. You simply don't believe that one brownie or one more day is going to make a difference and perhaps don't believe that cutting down on the brownies will matter that much. This is why understanding the consequences and LOGICAL thinking about food choices and how diet works is so important. They would never say "I care about my brownie more than anything else," even secretly to themselves -- again, with the rare exception. This is normally not what's being discussed on MFP, and it's certainly not the main reason for obesity. Obesity has much more pragmatic solutions and focusing it on this idea that fat people must be addicted or how could they let themselves get fat is really unhelpful IMO, as well as just wrong.
  • Carlos_421
    Carlos_421 Posts: 5,132 Member
    RobD520 wrote: »
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    RobD520 wrote: »
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    @lemurcat12 hit on a valid point. There's a biiiiiiiig difference between "I'm craving these cookies so much that I'm going to eat them even though they will make me fat" and "I'm craving cookies so badly that I'm willing to steal from family members, abandon relationships and sell my body for a hit of tollhouse."

    I woul argue that the 600 pound person who persists in overeating despite being bedridden fits your definition. In extreme examples, people have devistated their families.

    But the degree of damage you describe is NOT required for something to be a clinical addiction.

    600 lb people are willing to commit crimes for a hit of sugar when vegetables and lean proteins are available?? They're so desperate for a fix of candy that they'll directly engage in dangerous activity to get it???

    Come on...obesity can be harmful to family members who have to care for sick and dying loved ones, sure...
    But fat people are fat because of consistently eating in a surplus...not because they're so desperate for a hit of sucrose that they're willing to do whatever they can to get it.

    Wow...

    "Desperation" is not part of the criteria for addictions. A degree of compulsion is; it does not have to reach the point of desperation.

    I never claimed that the situations were identical; or that the level of addiction is anywhere near as severe.

    You still haven't really read my original post.

    Wow.

    Why do you assume I never read your post? I read it before I ever responded. Understood what you were getting at too. My post was an explanation for why the "I'm addicted to sugar claims" get shot down.

    And yeah, you said "the 600 pound person who persists in overeating despite being bedridden fits your definition" after I said that there's a big difference between someone eating cookies despite it making them fat and someone stealing from family members to get a fix of tollhouse.

    So I responded that no, it doesn't fit that definition.

    As lemurcat already explained, there's a difference between failing to associate activities with long term effects (getting fat from too many cookies over time) and deliberately engaging in harmful/dangerous/unethical activity to satisfy a craving.
    Choosing to have the large soda rather than create a calorie deficit hardly demonstrates an addiction in the same way as the destructive behaviors engaged in by true addicts.
  • moe0303
    moe0303 Posts: 934 Member
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    @lemurcat12 hit on a valid point. There's a biiiiiiiig difference between "I'm craving these cookies so much that I'm going to eat them even though they will make me fat" and "I'm craving cookies so badly that I'm willing to steal from family members, abandon relationships and sell my body for a hit of tollhouse."

    There are, however, many cases of people exhibiting other lesser types of addict behavior like eating food out of trash cans and stealing sweets from stores rather than face the humility of buying them.
  • Carlos_421
    Carlos_421 Posts: 5,132 Member
    moe0303 wrote: »
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    @lemurcat12 hit on a valid point. There's a biiiiiiiig difference between "I'm craving these cookies so much that I'm going to eat them even though they will make me fat" and "I'm craving cookies so badly that I'm willing to steal from family members, abandon relationships and sell my body for a hit of tollhouse."

    There are, however, many cases of people exhibiting other lesser types of addict behavior like eating food out of trash cans and stealing sweets from stores rather than face the humility of buying them.

    This would indicate an eating disorder, not a substance addiction.
  • moe0303
    moe0303 Posts: 934 Member
    I get what the OP is saying. Another way to think about it is this: If an alcoholic is sober and free of any physical dependencies, is it reasonable for them to attempt drinking moderately?
  • moe0303
    moe0303 Posts: 934 Member
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    moe0303 wrote: »
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    @lemurcat12 hit on a valid point. There's a biiiiiiiig difference between "I'm craving these cookies so much that I'm going to eat them even though they will make me fat" and "I'm craving cookies so badly that I'm willing to steal from family members, abandon relationships and sell my body for a hit of tollhouse."

    There are, however, many cases of people exhibiting other lesser types of addict behavior like eating food out of trash cans and stealing sweets from stores rather than face the humility of buying them.

    This would indicate an eating disorder, not a substance addiction.
    Which disorder?

  • Carlos_421
    Carlos_421 Posts: 5,132 Member
    moe0303 wrote: »
    I get what the OP is saying. Another way to think about it is this: If an alcoholic is sober and free of any physical dependencies, is it reasonable for them to attempt drinking moderately?

    And the voice of reason cries out that this is a flawed line of reasoning because there is no such thing as an addiction to sugar as a substance!
    If there were such a thing as sugarholism, I would say "Yes! Recovering sugarholics should avoid sugar just like an alcoholic should avoid alcohol."

    But it isn't a thing!!!
  • moe0303
    moe0303 Posts: 934 Member
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    moe0303 wrote: »
    I get what the OP is saying. Another way to think about it is this: If an alcoholic is sober and free of any physical dependencies, is it reasonable for them to attempt drinking moderately?

    And the voice of reason cries out that this is a flawed line of reasoning because there is no such thing as an addiction to sugar as a substance!
    If there were such a thing as sugarholism, I would say "Yes! Recovering sugarholics should avoid sugar just like an alcoholic should avoid alcohol."

    But it isn't a thing!!!
    But if alcohol is an addictive substance shouldn't everybody avoid it? If the physical dependency is gone, shouldn't they be able to moderate?

  • RobD520
    RobD520 Posts: 420 Member
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    moe0303 wrote: »
    I get what the OP is saying. Another way to think about it is this: If an alcoholic is sober and free of any physical dependencies, is it reasonable for them to attempt drinking moderately?

    And the voice of reason cries out that this is a flawed line of reasoning because there is no such thing as an addiction to sugar as a substance!
    If there were such a thing as sugarholism, I would say "Yes! Recovering sugarholics should avoid sugar just like an alcoholic should avoid alcohol."

    But it isn't a thing!!!

    The voice of reason clearly cries out that you are chosing to redefine the term addiction.

    I maintain you either did not read, or you do not understand, or you are chosing to ignore aspects of my original post.
  • Carlos_421
    Carlos_421 Posts: 5,132 Member
    edited May 2016
    RobD520 wrote: »
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    moe0303 wrote: »
    I get what the OP is saying. Another way to think about it is this: If an alcoholic is sober and free of any physical dependencies, is it reasonable for them to attempt drinking moderately?

    And the voice of reason cries out that this is a flawed line of reasoning because there is no such thing as an addiction to sugar as a substance!
    If there were such a thing as sugarholism, I would say "Yes! Recovering sugarholics should avoid sugar just like an alcoholic should avoid alcohol."

    But it isn't a thing!!!

    The voice of reason clearly cries out that you are chosing to redefine the term addiction.

    I maintain you either did not read, or you do not understand, or you are chosing to ignore aspects of my original post.

    Again, I read your post thoroughly.

    The only redefining going on is your turning "addiction" into "irresponsibility."
    Addiction doesn't mean "I want this so bad that I'll do it even though it's bad for me."
    Addiction means "I'm going to do this because I can't help it" or "I'm going to do this because it "hurts" not to."

    ad·dic·tion
    əˈdikSH(ə)n/
    noun
    the fact or condition of being addicted to a particular substance, thing, or activity.
    "he committed the theft to finance his drug addiction"

    ad·dict·ed
    əˈdiktəd/
    adjective
    physically and mentally dependent on a particular substance, and unable to stop taking it without incurring adverse effects.
    "she became addicted to alcohol and diet pills"

    This condition does not occur with sugar. Period.
  • moe0303
    moe0303 Posts: 934 Member
    edited May 2016
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    RobD520 wrote: »
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    moe0303 wrote: »
    I get what the OP is saying. Another way to think about it is this: If an alcoholic is sober and free of any physical dependencies, is it reasonable for them to attempt drinking moderately?

    And the voice of reason cries out that this is a flawed line of reasoning because there is no such thing as an addiction to sugar as a substance!
    If there were such a thing as sugarholism, I would say "Yes! Recovering sugarholics should avoid sugar just like an alcoholic should avoid alcohol."

    But it isn't a thing!!!

    The voice of reason clearly cries out that you are chosing to redefine the term addiction.

    I maintain you either did not read, or you do not understand, or you are chosing to ignore aspects of my original post.

    Again, I read your post thoroughly.

    The only redefining going on is your turning "addiction" into "irresponsibility."
    Addiction doesn't mean "I want this so bad that I'll do it even though it's bad for me."
    Addiction means "I'm going to do this because I can't help it" or "I'm going to do this because it "hurts" not to."

    ad·dic·tion
    əˈdikSH(ə)n/
    noun
    the fact or condition of being addicted to a particular substance, thing, or activity.
    "he committed the theft to finance his drug addiction"

    ad·dict·ed
    əˈdiktəd/
    adjective
    physically and mentally dependent on a particular substance, and unable to stop taking it without incurring adverse effects.
    "she became addicted to alcohol and diet pills"

    This condition does not occur with sugar. Period.

    Nor does it occur with any behaviors...which you concluded earlier could be addictive.

    ETA: There are several sources which define those terms differently.

    Also, I do not think admitting to an addiction is a form of irresponsibility. In fact, I think it is the beginning of taking responsibility for individuals who are truly addicted.
  • RobD520
    RobD520 Posts: 420 Member
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    RobD520 wrote: »
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    moe0303 wrote: »
    I get what the OP is saying. Another way to think about it is this: If an alcoholic is sober and free of any physical dependencies, is it reasonable for them to attempt drinking moderately?

    And the voice of reason cries out that this is a flawed line of reasoning because there is no such thing as an addiction to sugar as a substance!
    If there were such a thing as sugarholism, I would say "Yes! Recovering sugarholics should avoid sugar just like an alcoholic should avoid alcohol."

    But it isn't a thing!!!

    The voice of reason clearly cries out that you are chosing to redefine the term addiction.

    I maintain you either did not read, or you do not understand, or you are chosing to ignore aspects of my original post.

    Again, I read your post thoroughly.

    The only redefining going on is your turning "addiction" into "irresponsibility."
    Addiction doesn't mean "I want this so bad that I'll do it even though it's bad for me."
    Addiction means "I'm going to do this because I can't help it" or "I'm going to do this because it "hurts" not to."

    ad·dic·tion
    əˈdikSH(ə)n/
    noun
    the fact or condition of being addicted to a particular substance, thing, or activity.
    "he committed the theft to finance his drug addiction"

    ad·dict·ed
    əˈdiktəd/
    adjective
    physically and mentally dependent on a particular substance, and unable to stop taking it without incurring adverse effects.
    "she became addicted to alcohol and diet pills"

    This condition does not occur with sugar. Period.

    You totally didn't get it. I wonder if it's worth trying to explain it another way.....

    Is this the dictionary you are quoting?
  • GaleHawkins
    GaleHawkins Posts: 8,159 Member
    edited May 2016
    moe0303 wrote: »
    I get what the OP is saying. Another way to think about it is this: If an alcoholic is sober and free of any physical dependencies, is it reasonable for them to attempt drinking moderately?

    I did not know I was a carbolic until I sat in a AA 12 step training class in denial..
  • Carlos_421
    Carlos_421 Posts: 5,132 Member
    moe0303 wrote: »
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    RobD520 wrote: »
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    moe0303 wrote: »
    I get what the OP is saying. Another way to think about it is this: If an alcoholic is sober and free of any physical dependencies, is it reasonable for them to attempt drinking moderately?

    And the voice of reason cries out that this is a flawed line of reasoning because there is no such thing as an addiction to sugar as a substance!
    If there were such a thing as sugarholism, I would say "Yes! Recovering sugarholics should avoid sugar just like an alcoholic should avoid alcohol."

    But it isn't a thing!!!

    The voice of reason clearly cries out that you are chosing to redefine the term addiction.

    I maintain you either did not read, or you do not understand, or you are chosing to ignore aspects of my original post.

    Again, I read your post thoroughly.

    The only redefining going on is your turning "addiction" into "irresponsibility."
    Addiction doesn't mean "I want this so bad that I'll do it even though it's bad for me."
    Addiction means "I'm going to do this because I can't help it" or "I'm going to do this because it "hurts" not to."

    ad·dic·tion
    əˈdikSH(ə)n/
    noun
    the fact or condition of being addicted to a particular substance, thing, or activity.
    "he committed the theft to finance his drug addiction"

    ad·dict·ed
    əˈdiktəd/
    adjective
    physically and mentally dependent on a particular substance, and unable to stop taking it without incurring adverse effects.
    "she became addicted to alcohol and diet pills"

    This condition does not occur with sugar. Period.

    Nor does it occur with any behaviors...which you concluded earlier could be addictive.

    ETA: There are several sources which define those terms differently.

    Also, I do not think admitting to an addiction is a form of irresponsibility. In fact, I think it is the beginning of taking responsibility for individuals who are truly addicted.

    Actually, it does occur with certain behaviors which is why I called that out in my first post.

    I didn't say that it is irresponsible to admit an addiction. I was contesting the OP's assertion that addiction is defined as craving "something so strongly that they consume the substance, or repeat the behavior, even when the substance or behavior is doing substantial harm."

    That is not addiction. It is irresponsibility.

    Addiction is not just engaging in something regardless of consequences. It is engaging in something because they can't help it whether due to dependency, phsychological disorder, etc.
  • Carlos_421
    Carlos_421 Posts: 5,132 Member
    RobD520 wrote: »
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    RobD520 wrote: »
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    moe0303 wrote: »
    I get what the OP is saying. Another way to think about it is this: If an alcoholic is sober and free of any physical dependencies, is it reasonable for them to attempt drinking moderately?

    And the voice of reason cries out that this is a flawed line of reasoning because there is no such thing as an addiction to sugar as a substance!
    If there were such a thing as sugarholism, I would say "Yes! Recovering sugarholics should avoid sugar just like an alcoholic should avoid alcohol."

    But it isn't a thing!!!

    The voice of reason clearly cries out that you are chosing to redefine the term addiction.

    I maintain you either did not read, or you do not understand, or you are chosing to ignore aspects of my original post.

    Again, I read your post thoroughly.

    The only redefining going on is your turning "addiction" into "irresponsibility."
    Addiction doesn't mean "I want this so bad that I'll do it even though it's bad for me."
    Addiction means "I'm going to do this because I can't help it" or "I'm going to do this because it "hurts" not to."

    ad·dic·tion
    əˈdikSH(ə)n/
    noun
    the fact or condition of being addicted to a particular substance, thing, or activity.
    "he committed the theft to finance his drug addiction"

    ad·dict·ed
    əˈdiktəd/
    adjective
    physically and mentally dependent on a particular substance, and unable to stop taking it without incurring adverse effects.
    "she became addicted to alcohol and diet pills"

    This condition does not occur with sugar. Period.

    You totally didn't get it. I wonder if it's worth trying to explain it another way.....

    Is this the dictionary you are quoting?

    Disagreeing with you =\= not getting it
  • RobD520
    RobD520 Posts: 420 Member
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    RobD520 wrote: »
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    RobD520 wrote: »
    Carlos_421 wrote: »
    moe0303 wrote: »
    I get what the OP is saying. Another way to think about it is this: If an alcoholic is sober and free of any physical dependencies, is it reasonable for them to attempt drinking moderately?

    And the voice of reason cries out that this is a flawed line of reasoning because there is no such thing as an addiction to sugar as a substance!
    If there were such a thing as sugarholism, I would say "Yes! Recovering sugarholics should avoid sugar just like an alcoholic should avoid alcohol."

    But it isn't a thing!!!

    The voice of reason clearly cries out that you are chosing to redefine the term addiction.

    I maintain you either did not read, or you do not understand, or you are chosing to ignore aspects of my original post.

    Again, I read your post thoroughly.

    The only redefining going on is your turning "addiction" into "irresponsibility."
    Addiction doesn't mean "I want this so bad that I'll do it even though it's bad for me."
    Addiction means "I'm going to do this because I can't help it" or "I'm going to do this because it "hurts" not to."

    ad·dic·tion
    əˈdikSH(ə)n/
    noun
    the fact or condition of being addicted to a particular substance, thing, or activity.
    "he committed the theft to finance his drug addiction"

    ad·dict·ed
    əˈdiktəd/
    adjective
    physically and mentally dependent on a particular substance, and unable to stop taking it without incurring adverse effects.
    "she became addicted to alcohol and diet pills"

    This condition does not occur with sugar. Period.

    You totally didn't get it. I wonder if it's worth trying to explain it another way.....

    Is this the dictionary you are quoting?

    Disagreeing with you =\= not getting it

    Where did you receive your clinical training?
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