How can some people eat so much junk and gain no weight?

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  • ItsyBitsy246
    ItsyBitsy246 Posts: 307 Member
    My boyfriend's entire immediate family are beanpoles. They eat whatever and whenever they want, as I've observed. They likely eat more than I observe since I'm not with them 24/7. Piles of food. Family dinners amaze me sometimes, they think its funny. Boyfriend detests exercise, and is not active unless you count mowing a teeny lawn once a week and taking out the garbage pails. Parents are elderly now and don't get around much, but never had middle-age spread. So, meh, I chalk it up to genetics, sunspots, or some other mysterious force of the universe that doesn't apply to me.
  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 28,052 Member
    My 78 year old mom always hovers around Underweight and even used a tub of weight gainer. When I eat with her, she eats large meals. However:
    1. She is extremely active. This time of year she often puts in an 8 hour day in her garden, and also walks, and goes to the gym for strength training with a trainer. She was Client of the Month this month :)
    2. She eats irregularly. She often has breakfast after noon.
    3. Her large meals have a lot of high volume, low calorie foods.
  • gonetothedogs19
    gonetothedogs19 Posts: 325 Member
    Serah87 wrote: »
    Francl27 wrote: »
    I'm kinda amazed that some people are in complete denial that it might actually be the case for some people.

    Science. CICO. Deficit=lose weight. Hit TDEE=maintaining. Surplus=you gain weight. Because science.

    When I was in college - Almost 6' 1", 145 lbs., no exercise other than walking to class, ate like a horse, and could not put on a pound. I even bought a product called "Weight On." It didn't work.

    When I hit my late 20's, I ate less, but started gaining weight.

    There is only one answer - metabolism. With a super-fast metabolism, calories out seems to have no limit. At least that's how it worked for me.
  • huntersmom2016
    huntersmom2016 Posts: 185 Member
    Some people are just built that way. I have a nephew that tried so hard to get into the Marines but they kept rejecting him bc he didn't weigh enough. He would eat and eat to gain weight. Eventually he made the weight requirement... Barely

    To add to my previous post... My nephew was born prematurely and very small. Probably affected him in some way that makes it hard to gain weight
  • LINIA
    LINIA Posts: 1,159 Member
    There are some people who can eat much more than others and NOT GET FAT, they exist and CICO isn't always the only answer for everyone.

    WE are very alike but we are also different in terms of thyroid function, metabolism, physiology---this is a great thread. Thanks OP for eliciting this discussion.
  • CooCooPuff
    CooCooPuff Posts: 4,374 Member
    Question: Are there any statistics about the number of people with conditions that can effect the CO part of the equation, like thyroid conditions can?

    Are there be more people with conditions that make it necessary to cut more calories to lose, or more that would need to eat more to gain?
  • ObsidianMist
    ObsidianMist Posts: 519 Member
    Some people are just built that way. I have a nephew that tried so hard to get into the Marines but they kept rejecting him bc he didn't weigh enough. He would eat and eat to gain weight. Eventually he made the weight requirement... Barely

    To add to my previous post... My nephew was born prematurely and very small. Probably affected him in some way that makes it hard to gain weight

    I wonder if this is a factor. I wasn't a preemie, but I was small, just over 5 pounds at birth, and so I've always been small.
  • JaneSnowe
    JaneSnowe Posts: 1,283 Member
    edited June 2016
    LINIA wrote: »
    There are some people who can eat much more than others and NOT GET FAT, they exist and CICO isn't always the only answer for everyone.

    WE are very alike but we are also different in terms of thyroid function, metabolism, physiology---this is a great thread. Thanks OP for eliciting this discussion.

    1st bolded portion: What would be the process by which that happens?

    2nd bolded portion: Wouldn't this just mean that some people's RMR is different than others'? It might be harder for some to determine their RMR but CICO would still apply. The food they eat doesn't just disappear. If they have a hard time gaining weight, it's because either CI<CO or because CI=CO.
  • MarkusDarwath
    MarkusDarwath Posts: 393 Member
    In my youth I ate copiously, was skinny and seemingly couldn't gain weight for trying. That changed around the age of 20 or so. Back then I also had an average body temp of 99.1 where today it is the standard 98.6. Half a degree F, over 170 pounds of body mass (what I weighed most of my senior year in high school), 24/7 is a lot of energy. So yes, fast metabolisms do exist.
  • boomboom70
    boomboom70 Posts: 13 Member
    Re fidgeting, I saw a UK documentary a few years ago about this exact topic - i.e. why skinny people could seemingly eat whatever they wanted, not exercise and stay lean. Turns out the people in question were jiggling their legs and feet pretty much 24/7 and it was burning everything off.
  • melonaulait
    melonaulait Posts: 769 Member
    My bf eats gigantic portions for lunch at work, but after work he eats more like child portions. He just doesn't like to eat too much at one meal, except at work.
  • tanya_03
    tanya_03 Posts: 14 Member
    Don't forget, being skinny doesn't necessarily mean that he is healthy... he might also feel like crap all the time, but because this is how he eats all the time, it will feel normal to him
  • californiagirl2012
    californiagirl2012 Posts: 2,625 Member
    edited June 2016
    There is no way you could know what any other person really eats unless you were that person 24x7. Mainly It is a waste of precious time to look too much at what others are doing and worry too much about it. It does not change anything for you either way, whether what they do is truth or not.

    There is most likely so many more important things to put your attention on if you want to be successful in life.
  • LivingtheLeanDream
    LivingtheLeanDream Posts: 13,342 Member
    We can't look at what others do... that guy probably is extremely active, or eats alot at that one meal and then hardly anything the rest of the day...
    People are overweight because they either eat too much/don't move enough.
    You'll find that slim people are inclined to stop before they are full and are usually naturally active.
  • stevencloser
    stevencloser Posts: 8,911 Member
    CooCooPuff wrote: »
    Question: Are there any statistics about the number of people with conditions that can effect the CO part of the equation, like thyroid conditions can?

    Are there be more people with conditions that make it necessary to cut more calories to lose, or more that would need to eat more to gain?

    I can't even get numbers on how strongly thyroid conditions affect someone's metabolism. If it's still in the +-300 kcal for 96% of the population statistic it loses all credibility.
  • LivingtheLeanDream
    LivingtheLeanDream Posts: 13,342 Member
    edited June 2016
    Some people are just built that way. I have a nephew that tried so hard to get into the Marines but they kept rejecting him bc he didn't weigh enough. He would eat and eat to gain weight. Eventually he made the weight requirement... Barely

    To add to my previous post... My nephew was born prematurely and very small. Probably affected him in some way that makes it hard to gain weight

    I wonder if this is a factor. I wasn't a preemie, but I was small, just over 5 pounds at birth, and so I've always been small.

    This is interesting! my sister was born premature and she is stick thin (she doesn't exercise at all and eats loads all the time - yeah totally annoying when I have to watch everything that goes in my mouth).... perhaps its just coincidence but for any science buffs out there it would be nice to hear your opinions.
  • EvgeniZyntx
    EvgeniZyntx Posts: 24,208 Member
    CooCooPuff wrote: »
    Question: Are there any statistics about the number of people with conditions that can effect the CO part of the equation, like thyroid conditions can?

    Are there be more people with conditions that make it necessary to cut more calories to lose, or more that would need to eat more to gain?

    I can't even get numbers on how strongly thyroid conditions affect someone's metabolism. If it's still in the +-300 kcal for 96% of the population statistic it loses all credibility.

    But a condition isn't just about RER.

    Consider PCOS - it apparently reduces the ability to burn fat, reduces cardiovascular response to exercise (beyond the weight factor) so that the amount of calories one can burn during effort are reduced. So while metabolism might be only slightly reduced - macro partitioning becomes more important AND the Calorie Out part of the equation is also affected because it just is that much harder to be active at the same level. And it takes a lot of effort to retain a healthy VO2max.

    Food for thought.

  • DebSozo
    DebSozo Posts: 2,578 Member
    Yes all calories are burned by some kind of heat generation, but you don't believe people can burn variable amounts of calories given identical activity levels? People can't just have bodies that burn more calories than average? There are lots of processes that burn calories in the body that don't involve movement. Some people will burn more calories than you while sitting perfectly still or sleeping, some less.

    Yes, that can happen, but only by generating excess heat. The energy must go somewhere...

    I'm an engineer. This is very much my area of expertise. Energy in equals energy out in ANY system. It is not a matter of opinion, and in the human body there is limited variation in energy out unless there'sa big difference in activity level. Imo, those rare cases where someone genuinely eats hugely with little activity and fails to gain weight are more likely a digestive problem reducing the amount of energy going in.

    What are your ideas about gut bacteria?
  • DebSozo
    DebSozo Posts: 2,578 Member
    Serah87 wrote: »
    Francl27 wrote: »
    I'm kinda amazed that some people are in complete denial that it might actually be the case for some people.

    Science. CICO. Deficit=lose weight. Hit TDEE=maintaining. Surplus=you gain weight. Because science.

    When I was in college - Almost 6' 1", 145 lbs., no exercise other than walking to class, ate like a horse, and could not put on a pound. I even bought a product called "Weight On." It didn't work.

    When I hit my late 20's, I ate less, but started gaining weight.

    There is only one answer - metabolism. With a super-fast metabolism, calories out seems to have no limit. At least that's how it worked for me.

    That is like my brother. He is 6'3 and weighed 145 pounds at 18 years old. He ate constantly it seemed, and he had no visible fat. I'm fairly sure metabolism comes into play.
  • DebSozo
    DebSozo Posts: 2,578 Member
    For those bringing up teenagers, I think teenagers and other children are a whole different ball game, growing uses energy.

    And they have faster metabolisms. Mine slowed down over time, unfortunately.
  • Queenmunchy
    Queenmunchy Posts: 3,380 Member
    edited June 2016
    You're all talking about "fast metabolism" and "fidgeting" or "being active" as if they were different things. A fast metabolism manifests itself through fidgeting and spontaneous activity (also generating excess heat). It's not some magic thing that makes the calories disappear. They get burned the same way you burn yours.

    The one way the calories CAN disappear, and it's worth mentioning, is through digestive problems. If your gut is not functioning properly, you might not be able to absorb all the energy from your food, and calories are then literally going down the toilet.

    I personally wouldn't wish for that. Nor would I wish to be unable to put on fat, or to lose my passion for food. We all have our own challenges. I'll stick with mine.

    This is my husband. Because his IBS is so severe, he was diagnosed with wasting syndrome. He eats, but he's not really processing much. He - at one point - got down to 110lbs, partially because he didn't want to eat from the pain. Medical marijuana has helped tremendously to slow his body down and allow him to hold onto food longer, plus he gets hungrier.
  • DebSozo
    DebSozo Posts: 2,578 Member
    kshama2001 wrote: »
    My 78 year old mom always hovers around Underweight and even used a tub of weight gainer. When I eat with her, she eats large meals. However:
    1. She is extremely active. This time of year she often puts in an 8 hour day in her garden, and also walks, and goes to the gym for strength training with a trainer. She was Client of the Month this month :)
    2. She eats irregularly. She often has breakfast after noon.
    3. Her large meals have a lot of high volume, low calorie foods.

    She does intermittent fasting. :)
    Does your mom eat low calorie foods on purpose to stay thin?
  • EvgeniZyntx
    EvgeniZyntx Posts: 24,208 Member
    DebSozo wrote: »
    Yes all calories are burned by some kind of heat generation, but you don't believe people can burn variable amounts of calories given identical activity levels? People can't just have bodies that burn more calories than average? There are lots of processes that burn calories in the body that don't involve movement. Some people will burn more calories than you while sitting perfectly still or sleeping, some less.

    Yes, that can happen, but only by generating excess heat. The energy must go somewhere...

    I'm an engineer. This is very much my area of expertise. Energy in equals energy out in ANY system. It is not a matter of opinion, and in the human body there is limited variation in energy out unless there'sa big difference in activity level. Imo, those rare cases where someone genuinely eats hugely with little activity and fails to gain weight are more likely a digestive problem reducing the amount of energy going in.

    What are your ideas about gut bacteria?

    What no lipogenesis? There are a lot of normal anabolic reactions in the body that are endergonic and not heat generating.
  • DebSozo
    DebSozo Posts: 2,578 Member
    synacious wrote: »
    I'm not trying to be mean or anything but since we can all agree that metabolisms vary based on a multitude of factors, what exactly is the discussion here at this point?

    ... Some people fidget, some people don't. Some people workout, some people don't. Some people have higher body temperatures, other people don't. Half of these things are things we cannot change, so I would think that the ultimate take away from this should be that we should focus on ourselves, no?

    ...You can't sit on the couch and get upset that someone else sitting on the couch can eat more than you. You can't workout for 30 minutes or even an hour per day and get upset that someone sitting on the couch can eat more than you. All you can do is do the best you can for yourself because your own body is all you have to work with.

    ...I would never, ever disregard someone's opinion due to their weight. It's callous and inane. I was overweight myself, many people here were/are; why in the hell would we treat someone like that? I swear discussions like this, while thought provoking, get muddled by certain individuals who have zero grasp on reality. Nobody is perfect, but if actual discussions are to be had, let's stick to what facts we do know instead of acting like statistical outliers are actually the norm. It defeats the purpose of topics like this.

    Why are there always people in the MFP Community who like to squelch conversations just because they don't like what others converse about? I think that OP wrote a very thought provoking question that has generated interest.

    We know that people have varying ages, metabolisms, health, and activity levels that impact CICO. Be happy and enjoy your health, youth, and whatever else you have going for you. If anyone compliments your physique do them a favor, perhaps, and nicely tell them that you burn off lots of calories with extra workouts so that you can eat more. I am enjoying reading about this topic.
  • DebSozo
    DebSozo Posts: 2,578 Member
    DebSozo wrote: »
    Yes all calories are burned by some kind of heat generation, but you don't believe people can burn variable amounts of calories given identical activity levels? People can't just have bodies that burn more calories than average? There are lots of processes that burn calories in the body that don't involve movement. Some people will burn more calories than you while sitting perfectly still or sleeping, some less.

    Yes, that can happen, but only by generating excess heat. The energy must go somewhere...

    I'm an engineer. This is very much my area of expertise. Energy in equals energy out in ANY system. It is not a matter of opinion, and in the human body there is limited variation in energy out unless there'sa big difference in activity level. Imo, those rare cases where someone genuinely eats hugely with little activity and fails to gain weight are more likely a digestive problem reducing the amount of energy going in.

    What are your ideas about gut bacteria?

    What no lipogenesis? There are a lot of normal anabolic reactions in the body that are endergonic and not heat generating.

    I would love to research about them more.
  • niblue
    niblue Posts: 339 Member
    dave_in_ni wrote: »
    How exactly does this work? I have lost quite a lot of weight in this past 6 months, over 3 stone. But even when at my fattest I never ate as much as 1 little skinny guy I work with.

    I am eating 1500 cals per day at the moment, this is one meal I count over 1000 cals roughly in 1 meal. For lunch he a burger and several bars of chocolate, chips/crips washed down with a bottle of coke, and this is every day. I'm sure the guy easily eats double what I do. French fries and burgers are a daily thing for him. Even at my fattest I never ate anywhere near that amount.

    How exactly can he do this? He's not active at all, never does any exercise either.

    My wife is about half my weight and eats about twice as much but doesn't put any weight on. Can be quite frustrating at times!