How can some people eat so much junk and gain no weight?

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  • ItsyBitsy246
    ItsyBitsy246 Posts: 307 Member
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    My boyfriend's entire immediate family are beanpoles. They eat whatever and whenever they want, as I've observed. They likely eat more than I observe since I'm not with them 24/7. Piles of food. Family dinners amaze me sometimes, they think its funny. Boyfriend detests exercise, and is not active unless you count mowing a teeny lawn once a week and taking out the garbage pails. Parents are elderly now and don't get around much, but never had middle-age spread. So, meh, I chalk it up to genetics, sunspots, or some other mysterious force of the universe that doesn't apply to me.
  • kshama2001
    kshama2001 Posts: 27,900 Member
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    My 78 year old mom always hovers around Underweight and even used a tub of weight gainer. When I eat with her, she eats large meals. However:
    1. She is extremely active. This time of year she often puts in an 8 hour day in her garden, and also walks, and goes to the gym for strength training with a trainer. She was Client of the Month this month :)
    2. She eats irregularly. She often has breakfast after noon.
    3. Her large meals have a lot of high volume, low calorie foods.
  • gonetothedogs19
    gonetothedogs19 Posts: 325 Member
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    Serah87 wrote: »
    Francl27 wrote: »
    I'm kinda amazed that some people are in complete denial that it might actually be the case for some people.

    Science. CICO. Deficit=lose weight. Hit TDEE=maintaining. Surplus=you gain weight. Because science.

    When I was in college - Almost 6' 1", 145 lbs., no exercise other than walking to class, ate like a horse, and could not put on a pound. I even bought a product called "Weight On." It didn't work.

    When I hit my late 20's, I ate less, but started gaining weight.

    There is only one answer - metabolism. With a super-fast metabolism, calories out seems to have no limit. At least that's how it worked for me.
  • huntersmom2016
    huntersmom2016 Posts: 185 Member
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    Some people are just built that way. I have a nephew that tried so hard to get into the Marines but they kept rejecting him bc he didn't weigh enough. He would eat and eat to gain weight. Eventually he made the weight requirement... Barely

    To add to my previous post... My nephew was born prematurely and very small. Probably affected him in some way that makes it hard to gain weight
  • LINIA
    LINIA Posts: 1,046 Member
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    There are some people who can eat much more than others and NOT GET FAT, they exist and CICO isn't always the only answer for everyone.

    WE are very alike but we are also different in terms of thyroid function, metabolism, physiology---this is a great thread. Thanks OP for eliciting this discussion.
  • CooCooPuff
    CooCooPuff Posts: 4,374 Member
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    Question: Are there any statistics about the number of people with conditions that can effect the CO part of the equation, like thyroid conditions can?

    Are there be more people with conditions that make it necessary to cut more calories to lose, or more that would need to eat more to gain?
  • ObsidianMist
    ObsidianMist Posts: 519 Member
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    Some people are just built that way. I have a nephew that tried so hard to get into the Marines but they kept rejecting him bc he didn't weigh enough. He would eat and eat to gain weight. Eventually he made the weight requirement... Barely

    To add to my previous post... My nephew was born prematurely and very small. Probably affected him in some way that makes it hard to gain weight

    I wonder if this is a factor. I wasn't a preemie, but I was small, just over 5 pounds at birth, and so I've always been small.
  • JaneSnowe
    JaneSnowe Posts: 1,283 Member
    edited June 2016
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    LINIA wrote: »
    There are some people who can eat much more than others and NOT GET FAT, they exist and CICO isn't always the only answer for everyone.

    WE are very alike but we are also different in terms of thyroid function, metabolism, physiology---this is a great thread. Thanks OP for eliciting this discussion.

    1st bolded portion: What would be the process by which that happens?

    2nd bolded portion: Wouldn't this just mean that some people's RMR is different than others'? It might be harder for some to determine their RMR but CICO would still apply. The food they eat doesn't just disappear. If they have a hard time gaining weight, it's because either CI<CO or because CI=CO.
  • MarkusDarwath
    MarkusDarwath Posts: 393 Member
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    In my youth I ate copiously, was skinny and seemingly couldn't gain weight for trying. That changed around the age of 20 or so. Back then I also had an average body temp of 99.1 where today it is the standard 98.6. Half a degree F, over 170 pounds of body mass (what I weighed most of my senior year in high school), 24/7 is a lot of energy. So yes, fast metabolisms do exist.
  • boomboom70
    boomboom70 Posts: 13 Member
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    Re fidgeting, I saw a UK documentary a few years ago about this exact topic - i.e. why skinny people could seemingly eat whatever they wanted, not exercise and stay lean. Turns out the people in question were jiggling their legs and feet pretty much 24/7 and it was burning everything off.
  • melonaulait
    melonaulait Posts: 769 Member
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    My bf eats gigantic portions for lunch at work, but after work he eats more like child portions. He just doesn't like to eat too much at one meal, except at work.
  • tanya_03
    tanya_03 Posts: 14 Member
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    Don't forget, being skinny doesn't necessarily mean that he is healthy... he might also feel like crap all the time, but because this is how he eats all the time, it will feel normal to him
  • californiagirl2012
    californiagirl2012 Posts: 2,625 Member
    edited June 2016
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    There is no way you could know what any other person really eats unless you were that person 24x7. Mainly It is a waste of precious time to look too much at what others are doing and worry too much about it. It does not change anything for you either way, whether what they do is truth or not.

    There is most likely so many more important things to put your attention on if you want to be successful in life.
  • LivingtheLeanDream
    LivingtheLeanDream Posts: 13,345 Member
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    We can't look at what others do... that guy probably is extremely active, or eats alot at that one meal and then hardly anything the rest of the day...
    People are overweight because they either eat too much/don't move enough.
    You'll find that slim people are inclined to stop before they are full and are usually naturally active.
  • stevencloser
    stevencloser Posts: 8,911 Member
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    CooCooPuff wrote: »
    Question: Are there any statistics about the number of people with conditions that can effect the CO part of the equation, like thyroid conditions can?

    Are there be more people with conditions that make it necessary to cut more calories to lose, or more that would need to eat more to gain?

    I can't even get numbers on how strongly thyroid conditions affect someone's metabolism. If it's still in the +-300 kcal for 96% of the population statistic it loses all credibility.
  • LivingtheLeanDream
    LivingtheLeanDream Posts: 13,345 Member
    edited June 2016
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    Some people are just built that way. I have a nephew that tried so hard to get into the Marines but they kept rejecting him bc he didn't weigh enough. He would eat and eat to gain weight. Eventually he made the weight requirement... Barely

    To add to my previous post... My nephew was born prematurely and very small. Probably affected him in some way that makes it hard to gain weight

    I wonder if this is a factor. I wasn't a preemie, but I was small, just over 5 pounds at birth, and so I've always been small.

    This is interesting! my sister was born premature and she is stick thin (she doesn't exercise at all and eats loads all the time - yeah totally annoying when I have to watch everything that goes in my mouth).... perhaps its just coincidence but for any science buffs out there it would be nice to hear your opinions.
  • EvgeniZyntx
    EvgeniZyntx Posts: 24,208 Member
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    CooCooPuff wrote: »
    Question: Are there any statistics about the number of people with conditions that can effect the CO part of the equation, like thyroid conditions can?

    Are there be more people with conditions that make it necessary to cut more calories to lose, or more that would need to eat more to gain?

    I can't even get numbers on how strongly thyroid conditions affect someone's metabolism. If it's still in the +-300 kcal for 96% of the population statistic it loses all credibility.

    But a condition isn't just about RER.

    Consider PCOS - it apparently reduces the ability to burn fat, reduces cardiovascular response to exercise (beyond the weight factor) so that the amount of calories one can burn during effort are reduced. So while metabolism might be only slightly reduced - macro partitioning becomes more important AND the Calorie Out part of the equation is also affected because it just is that much harder to be active at the same level. And it takes a lot of effort to retain a healthy VO2max.

    Food for thought.