Unrealistic weight loss brags
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Konigboy
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Do any of you see people on your friends list on social media, like Facebook, talking about their weekly weight loss and want to call them out?
I have a few that started the last few months and they posted their first week weight loss, one being 17 lbs another 10 lbs. Great, begining diet flush. Both these individuals have about 40 - 50 lbs to loose. Now they both are posting they are loosing 2 - 3 lbs a day. Of course people are giving them high fives, but I see others posting how they have given up on dieting as it goes so slow. I have been on my journey for years and count my calories and exercise. No way in heck could I lose 2 - 3 lbs a day. One says the only thing different they do is use Thrive products, the other says they just cut out sweets and soda, no other diet changes or exercises. Of course based on pics, not seeing that drastic weight loss they are saying. Lol. I just worry of the false hope they give to others saying you can loose that much weight, so quickly. One even told me they would coach me to get to my goal, since it's taking me so long Lol
I have a few that started the last few months and they posted their first week weight loss, one being 17 lbs another 10 lbs. Great, begining diet flush. Both these individuals have about 40 - 50 lbs to loose. Now they both are posting they are loosing 2 - 3 lbs a day. Of course people are giving them high fives, but I see others posting how they have given up on dieting as it goes so slow. I have been on my journey for years and count my calories and exercise. No way in heck could I lose 2 - 3 lbs a day. One says the only thing different they do is use Thrive products, the other says they just cut out sweets and soda, no other diet changes or exercises. Of course based on pics, not seeing that drastic weight loss they are saying. Lol. I just worry of the false hope they give to others saying you can loose that much weight, so quickly. One even told me they would coach me to get to my goal, since it's taking me so long Lol
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Nah...dudes don't really talk to each other about this stuff...10
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Why let it bother you?12
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I do see that sometimes but I just let it slide. How sad is it to need social media validation of something that quite obviously isn't true?14
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That is sad. It's not that it bothers me when I see it, but I feel like someone should call them out, only because we need to have more realistic standards and expectations for weight loss. it would encourage more people to stick with it.
That someone won't be me though because I hate confrontation and I don't really care about facebook. lol.13 -
I'm no longer on Facebook..but have witnessed that on more than one occasion..I just ignored it.
People are going to do what they're going to do.8 -
Glad I don't have Facebook. Really who cares, let the fools be fooled. Fact is even is their drastic weight (water or fat) loss is real, drastic results are usually a result of major restriction. This kind of restriction usually leads to strong cravings and then bingeing and weight gain. Many people here can relate to yoyo dieting. You worry about you.12
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Do any of you see people on your friends list on social media, like Facebook, talking about their weekly weight loss and want to call them out?
I have a few that started the last few months and they posted their first week weight loss, one being 17 lbs another 10 lbs. Great, begining diet flush. Both these individuals have about 40 - 50 lbs to loose. Now they both are posting they are loosing 2 - 3 lbs a day. Of course people are giving them high fives, but I see others posting how they have given up on dieting as it goes so slow. I have been on my journey for years and count my calories and exercise. No way in heck could I lose 2 - 3 lbs a day. One says the only thing different they do is use Thrive products, the other says they just cut out sweets and soda, no other diet changes or exercises. Of course based on pics, not seeing that drastic weight loss they are saying. Lol. I just worry of the false hope they give to others saying you can loose that much weight, so quickly. One even told me they would coach me to get to my goal, since it's taking me so long Lol
I wouldn't want to be barraged with this unhealthiness. I've hidden a few people in my MFP feed with really unhealthy relationships with CICO. My inner social worker wants to fix them, and I know this is inappropriate.24 -
Happens sporadically with various friends. I have sometimes voiced an opinion (usually if they're sad about a "small" loss) but mostly I let it go. Not one of them has maintained their losses over the years.2
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I have people on my MFP feed that claim that they burn 1,000 calories doing cardio. Whatever!28
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People on my facebook list post about their vacation, cat pictures and about politics. No one is talking about weight loss at all.
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TrailNurse wrote: »I have people on my MFP feed that claim that they burn 1,000 calories doing cardio. Whatever!
Yeah I've seen that too. Oh well!3 -
I wouldn't care at all. I'm so happy with my weight loss it couldn't be better. I'm losing around 1lbs a week and have lost at that rate 20lbs so far since February out of a total of 35lbs to lose. Meanwhile I've eaten so well (read "much") that I can continue doing this forever and it won't bother me. So I don't give a **** about these people. Obviously if you are 500lbs+, a couple of pounds a day is fine but you said these people had 50lbs or less to lose so I can only imagine what they're doing to themselves to lose 3lbs a day. The only thing I feel for them is pity.6
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TrailNurse wrote: »I have people on my MFP feed that claim that they burn 1,000 calories doing cardio. Whatever!
And why would you think this is not possible or even likely? It's really not that hard to do with sufficient amount of time and effort.
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I blocked most of the big fat liars from my newsfeed. Most get a pass for the first couple posts when they get that initial diet whoosh, but anyone who signs up for a MLM is immediately off my newsfeed.
The biggest issue for me right now is a self-proclaimed "Fitness Freak" who I have to deal with in real life. She is constantly talking about how she's "so into fitness!" and always wants me to do the latest "30 Day Challenge!" from Pinterest or try some woo diet fad. Umm, no. You've been 50+ pounds overweight for as long as I've known you. Whatever you're doing isn't working, so why would you think I should do it after you've watched me lose 90 pounds?
The final straw was when I signed up for my first half marathon. I kept getting tons of unwanted suggestions since she has run "a couple" halfs "a few" years ago. When I asked her what her time was, so I could try to figure out which pace group I should start in she told me she averaged 8min/mile her first and 7 her second. Maybe she ran that half with the help of her magic unicorn, because there are pros who would kill for that kind of time. She did shut up when I asked her why she didn't try qualifying for the olympics with times like that. I think she finally realized I could see through her overcompensating BS.41 -
What gets me is when people screen shot their 1,538 calories burned from zumba class and people giving all sorts of praise.17
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cwolfman13 wrote: »Nah...dudes don't really talk to each other about this stuff...
I have decided to be an honorary dude...dya think they'll have me...I drink beer an' everyfink
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TrailNurse wrote: »I have people on my MFP feed that claim that they burn 1,000 calories doing cardio. Whatever!
That's very possible. Albeit an inefficient means of burning calories.. unless ones goal is geared towards looking like a marathon runner. I'm more HIIT inclined. Each to their own.0 -
queenliz99 wrote: »Why let it bother you?
I like your avi @queenliz99 That's fair playing with my head
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@TrailNurse - to be fair though, MFP's calorie estimates can be unbelievable. For example, if I log either 64 minutes of fast/vigorous swimming or 71 minutes of elliptical they each show up as over 1000 calories. I'm not buying it and would edit either of those down quite a bit but I'd expect newbies to log it as is and then post a question in about three weeks wondering why they haven't lost a pound.
ETA: I wouldn't be doing 71 minutes of elliptical in the first place but that's a different thread6 -
Nope. I let them go. I lost 100+ pounds in less than one calendar year. Some people can do it. Some people cannot do it. I remember when I first started I would lose 2-3 pounds a day. But they were very few and far between.
or you can pull their bluff and ask for images/video of the scale when they step on it.
But why let it bother you. You're doing it for you...aren't you? Let them lie about it and pull the wool over peoples eyes. They are only making themselves look bad.TrailNurse wrote: »I have people on my MFP feed that claim that they burn 1,000 calories doing cardio. Whatever!
Would you like to thumb through my Strava account, or Garmin account. I know of a number of times several times I've burned over 1,000 calories either running or cycling.
Example 1 https://www.strava.com/activities/625718841
Example 2 https://www.strava.com/activities/620330642
Example 3 https://www.strava.com/activities/607028260 - And this one is over 2,000 calories burned.
Example 4 https://www.strava.com/activities/571707700/overview - This one is about 2,700 calories burned.
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And you also need to keep in mind that BMI plays a huge role on Calories burned during an exercise. When i first started my weight loss journey I could easily burn 1,000 calories in a 10-12 mile bike ride. But now I need to push that distance out much further to get the same calories burned because my BMI is so much lower.15
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