Losing weight and not needing to weigh food
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I think folk don't get why you feel sorry for us food weighers. what is there to feel sorry for? also no one wants pity for something that A works and B is their choice. just saying.2
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I'm also curious why people are so offended by what I feel sorry for? It's not like I'm saying, "Man, those starving people in Africa and people that weigh their food really have it tough in life."
What reason would there be to feel sorry for someone weighing other than you feel they have it tough?1 -
BreezeDoveal wrote: »Therealobi1 wrote: »I'm also curious why people are so offended by what I feel sorry for? It's not like I'm saying, "Man, those starving people in Africa and people that weigh their food really have it tough in life."
could be this line. lol
I see some people making a 2nd job out of measuring and weighing. When I lost 100 lbs in 2 - 3 years. I didn't weigh my food once.
Well of course, someone in another thread said weighing and measuring things was a job.
Can't op feel sorry for people that work as cooks?
yep she can.
my face would be sweating all day long if i had to work in a kitchen0 -
Doesn't weighing food usually come up when someone is all, "halp...i'm eating 2 calories per day and not losing weight?"
Of course it's possible to lose weight without weighing food...but some people really suck at estimating portions.5 -
That's not really what you said.
Also, I suspect everyone knows that.
But hey "it's possible to lose weight without weighing food" wouldn't be a debate. "We should pity those who weigh food," is. Win/win!4 -
I'm also curious why people are so offended by what I feel sorry for? It's not like I'm saying, "Man, those starving people in Africa and people that weigh their food really have it tough in life."
I dunno. Why did you claim to feel fat shamed when someone said they pitied you for needing to lose 100 lbs (according to you)?
People frequently don't like to be pitied and saying "I feel sorry for you" (as opposed to feeling that inside and not expressing it) is not usually a positive statement.1 -
I started weight loss in 2007. I lost 65ish pounds. I've kept it *mostly* off.
The first 40 pounds, easy peasy. I weighed myself, logged my food (by guessing mostly) and that was all.
The next 25 pounds, not so easy. I had a very thin margin of error because I actually want to eat the right amount of food, and I don't want to under-eat (or over-eat.) That's when I bought a food scale. For the record I also bought a HR monitor, but I stopped using that within a few months.
When I hit goal, I stopped logging. Portions continued to increase without my knowing it, extra calories are easy to sneak in, and I started to gain again...just like OP.
However, I never got up more than 15 pounds in the last (nearly) ten years. When I started to gain I would go back to the food scale, food logging and my body-weight scale. Finally tired of re-losing that 10-15, I buckled down and use all three tools daily now. It's the only way for me. It takes me all of five extra minutes a day and I don't ever want to have to lose those last ten pounds again.1 -
This seems to be an emotional subject. But weighing and logging food works for all walks of life.
This thread didn't go how you expected it to, so now everyone else is losing their you know what but you're still the rational one. LOL. There is a saying that goes "If it smells like poo everywhere you go, you should probably check the bottom of your own shoe". It's pretty apropos here.15 -
Maxematics wrote: »This seems to be an emotional subject. But weighing and logging food works for all walks of life.
This thread didn't go how you expected it to, so now everyone else is losing their you know what but you're still the rational one. LOL. There is a saying that goes "If it smells like poo everywhere you go, you should probably check the bottom of your own shoe". It's pretty apropos here.
this made me chuckle.1 -
Maybe if you had weighed your food you would have seen that you could have eaten more and you might not have relapsed and gained back your weight?
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I'm also curious why people are so offended by what I feel sorry for? It's not like I'm saying, "Man, those starving people in Africa and people that weigh their food really have it tough in life."
1. Most people here are not offended. Most people think you're ridiculous for doling out pity and attaching emotion to something that's a neutral, emotionless tool. Do you feel sorry for someone who chooses to do their crossword puzzle in pen instead of pencil? They're both writing implements that help you complete a task. One lets you erase your mistakes; one lets you see the letters more clearly. Choose what works for you.
2. A few of us are offended because your feeling sorry for us using different tools than you did implies we're still "doing it wrong." I don't weigh all my food. I don't consistently log. But when I do, I'm doing it for a reason that goes beyond weight loss or maintenance. I'm doing it to prevent an eating disorder relapse. If I manage my food and portions correctly through weighing and logging, I feel less temptation to purge or starve myself. I don't want your pity that I went through that because I'm a stronger person for it, and I most certainly don't want your pity for using tools that keep me healthy.
3. Weighing is common advice to people in a plateau so they can be sure they're eating what they think they're eating, and it's common advice to newbies because if they start off weighing this process goes faster and smoother. People can choose to take that advice, or they can keep doing their own thing (as you did) because we're all adults and are hopefully intelligent enough to do what works best for us. *babyunicorn*ing on advice that helps a good number of people just because it's not what you did is tunnel vision.8 -
I hate weighing my food. I lost my first 40lbs without ever using a food scale. Just eyeballing stuff....but I was also set at 1200 calories. about 4 months I realized I couldn't keep going at 1200 and started to eat back my exercise calories and set my calorie goal higher....and I plateau'd for a YEAR.
After being hard headed for a year and not losing but know damn well why, I finally got the food scale. I don't using for everything any more because I do hate it, and I'm really good at eyeballing meat and veggies and liquids. I use it religiously for flour, rice, grains and beans because I can jam 2 cups of rice in a 1 cup measurement. My baking has also gotten a lot better from weighing my flour.
I think the OP might have seen some of the numerous threads where people say their weight loss stalled, which lead to the inevitable "are you weighing your food" question. Yes, it's tedious to see those threads, over and over and over. But, the question always has to be asked because it's the most likely answer...someone is taking in too much food without knowing it. Don't look for a zebra in a herd of horses. Sure, there could be a zebra but it's most likely another horse.2 -
Op if your way works for you then that's great!
But why did you gain back the weight if this was so simple and easy for you????????????
I lost all my weight and kept it off. Learned portion control and moderation. Weighed my solids and measured my liquids. So don't feel bad for me, I was able to keep my weight off9 -
Kind of off topic, but I find it interesting (not good or bad) what people hate and don't. I don't hate weighing food at all -- maybe because it fits with how I cook, maybe because I used to use it for baking, so it doesn't seem weird. I do blow hot and cold on logging -- sometimes I like it, sometimes I really don't (and that's why I typically don't at maintenance). I particularly hate logging things like stews or other items where you really have to use the recipe builder. Okay, more simply, I hate the recipe builder. I also really hate estimating restaurant meals and have stopped even bothering -- I now guess at what seems a reasonable calorie amount with some cushion and log it.
Similarly, I didn't like trying to estimate burn from exercise, so went to TDEE.
I also hate and won't pre-log -- I like to play it by ear when cooking, to the point of deciding on dinner based on what's in my refrigerator when I get home (I know roughly and of course know the protein) and combinations that come to me during the day. (I can get close enough to the goals that matter to me -- protein, calories, lots of vegetables, reasonably balance of fat/carbs for my preference -- on the fly.) Yet I get that pre-logging doesn't feel burdensome to and even works wonderfully for others.
Does anyone else want to share what they like and have tried and rejected as not for them and any theories as to why? ;-)2 -
mskessler89 wrote: »This pity for people who weigh their food seems to be the new "So sorry you have to log your food, you should learn to eat intuitively!" It's annoying as hell.
None of us are counting calories for the sheer thrill of it. It's ok for people to acknowledge that reality. If somebody else is glad they don't need to do it the same way you do, that doesn't take away from your journey.1 -
I mostly weigh my food. However, I do take shortcuts:
1. I pre-log my food, so I don't log the amount I weighed, I weigh the amount I logged. I typically don't correct errors of a few grams, but big errors I'll adjust.
2. I don't always weigh every condiment and such. Often I will weigh the first few times and average those, and assume I will use about the same every time. I weigh high-calorie things like peanut butter every time.
3. I don't weigh single serving prepackaged food. I know any individual package can be off but I figure it averages out over time.
Really, though, since I use my scale to assemble recipes, it's faster than measuring cups and less to worry about in terms of dishes.
You don't need to be supremely accurate as long as you're incorporating feedback from the bathroom scale to fine-tune your calorie goals over time. That said, simple weighing of food gets you into a much better place with regard to accuracy.
Anyhow I certainly don't need any pity. My techniques are quick, easy almost to the point of being automatic, and help me achieve great success.0 -
NorthCascades wrote: »mskessler89 wrote: »This pity for people who weigh their food seems to be the new "So sorry you have to log your food, you should learn to eat intuitively!" It's annoying as hell.
None of us are counting calories for the sheer thrill of it. It's ok for people to acknowledge that reality. If somebody else is glad they don't need to do it the same way you do, that doesn't take away from your journey.
They can be glad they don't do it the same way I do without telling me I need to do something else or feeling sorry for me for doing what it takes to keep myself healthy.1 -
Great, it's this OP again0
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I thought if I exercised about 4-5 days a week and ate what I thought was relatively less, I'd lose weight. Doing that I lost maybe 4ish pounds, regained and then stuck at 210. Before doing that, I lost weight easily by counting calories/measuring. I started counting and measuring again and these past few months I've lost about 15 pounds. Until I have a real grasp of portions/how much I'm eating, it's much easier for me to lose weight now that I'm measuring than when I'm not.1
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