Is porn ruining expectations about sex?

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  • NorthCascades
    NorthCascades Posts: 10,968 Member
    sunnybeaches105 wrote: »
    Did I miss the sex epidemic?

    People were having sex before I was born! :wink:
  • CSARdiver
    CSARdiver Posts: 6,252 Member
    wolverine66 wrote: »
    melmelw03 wrote: »
    This thread has lasted a lot longer than I expected.

    Unlike like the last guy I was with.

    porn helps with stamina.

    'tis true.
  • Tr4pQueen
    Tr4pQueen Posts: 127 Member
    I think CMT has ruined expectations worse.. I mean if that $75.94 I spent at the store, Takes the rest the night off as it slides to the floor...my man, he be pi$$ed.


  • Icheatonmywife
    Icheatonmywife Posts: 132 Member
    Heartisalonelyhunter wrote: »
    mountman2012 wrote: »
    Porn is nothing more then entertainment... guys are visual, woman are not. Thats why guys are the ones who like it most.

    Haha. A total myth perpetuated by ugly guys. News flash: A lot of women watch porn and like looking at hot naked men (and/or women)
    Wow its harsh around, here there goes my self esteem out the window... now I'm fat and ugly.... :s
  • sunnybeaches105
    sunnybeaches105 Posts: 2,831 Member
    NorthCascades wrote: »
    sunnybeaches105 wrote: »
    Did I miss the sex epidemic?

    People were having sex before I was born! :wink:

    I'm calling BS on this
  • lilac_bunny
    lilac_bunny Posts: 137 Member
    Maybe it depends what kind of porn you are watching? Some of the positions I don't think are the best but they give a better visual angle for the camera. Maybe if men watched more domination porn they would be more inclined to do as they are told and not push their luck haha.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    edited August 2016
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  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    Sugar_Pill wrote: »
    wolverine66 wrote: »
    melmelw03 wrote: »
    This thread has lasted a lot longer than I expected.

    Unlike like the last guy I was with.

    porn helps with stamina.

    Because- desensitization.

    Fact.

    Um. No.

    Because it helps one take the bullet out of the chamber, ifyouknowwhatimean
  • Tr4pQueen
    Tr4pQueen Posts: 127 Member
    Sugar_Pill wrote: »
    Tr4pQueen wrote: »
    I think CMT has ruined expectations worse.. I mean if that $75.94 I spent at the store, Takes the rest the night off as it slides to the floor...my man, he be pi$$ed.


    I'm a little upset I dont have your username

    If you ever need an extra I can lend it out. *fist bumps*
  • angelique_redhead
    angelique_redhead Posts: 782 Member
    I used to watch. Now I don't bother. Why work myself up if I don't have a partner? A lot of it is just plain amusing though.
  • kevinf2380
    kevinf2380 Posts: 256 Member
    edited August 2016
    BinaryPulsar wrote: »
    I go to these fetish dance parties. And sometimes I feel like I am in a porn. I think about how people are often complaining about how everything is fetishized and pornified culture..and then I just can't help but laugh about what they would think if they saw this.

    I think it's funny how seem to use any excuse to bring up that you go to fetish exotic parties.

    I think you've brought this up in every thread I've seen you comment on.
  • rebel_26
    rebel_26 Posts: 1,826 Member
    I could/should be a porn star. It didn't pay well enough.
  • melmelw03
    melmelw03 Posts: 5,332 Member
    angelique_redhead wrote: »
    I used to watch. Now I don't bother. Why work myself up if I don't have a partner? A lot of it is just plain amusing though.

    Um....you're doing it all wrong.
  • melmelw03
    melmelw03 Posts: 5,332 Member
    kevinf2380 wrote: »
    BinaryPulsar wrote: »
    I go to these fetish dance parties. And sometimes I feel like I am in a porn. I think about how people are often complaining about how everything is fetishized and pornified culture..and then I just can't help but laugh about what they would think if they saw this.

    I think it's funny how seem to use any excuse to bring up that you go to fetish exotic parties.

    I think you've brought this up in every thread I've seen you comment on.

    +1
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    edited August 2016
    kevinf2380 wrote: »
    BinaryPulsar wrote: »
    I go to these fetish dance parties. And sometimes I feel like I am in a porn. I think about how people are often complaining about how everything is fetishized and pornified culture..and then I just can't help but laugh about what they would think if they saw this.

    I think it's funny how seem to use any excuse to bring up that you go to fetish exotic parties.

    I think you've brought this up in every thread I've seen you comment on.

    I'm sorry that it bothers you. I can certainly understand why hearing things repeated is annoying. And of course different people have different tolerance levels in terms of what they think should be shared or not. But, mfp is a more anonymous format. I don't talk about it in other contexts. I don't think this is a thread topic that is out of place for it...as in use any excuse. So, my opinion differs from you on that. Sorry I mentioned it in your thread about porn, though (and yes, I knew I had mentioned it in two other threads that you were in: one about marriage and one about sex). If you frequent sex topics you might see people talking about things related to sex. Just fyi. Btw, if it bothers you so much why would you specifically ask me about it twice (including a pm)? I wouldn't elaborate or share more info if you didn't ask. If you frequent diet and fitness threads you would see me talking about diet and fitness (and other things you might find even more annoying or unpleasant).
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    Sugar_Pill wrote: »
    kevinf2380 wrote: »
    BinaryPulsar wrote: »
    I go to these fetish dance parties. And sometimes I feel like I am in a porn. I think about how people are often complaining about how everything is fetishized and pornified culture..and then I just can't help but laugh about what they would think if they saw this.

    I think it's funny how seem to use any excuse to bring up that you go to fetish exotic parties.

    I think you've brought this up in every thread I've seen you comment on.

    Isn't that just a strip club?

    It's not. It's just a dance party. And there are sometimes themes. And there are very short shows. Like two shows, each being 2 minutes, and each performer will perform two. There is no handing out money. And it's a social gathering. It has a very different feeling from a strip club. But, I am sure there are others that are more like a strip club.
  • kevinf2380
    kevinf2380 Posts: 256 Member
    edited August 2016
    @BinaryPulsar It doesn't bother me. I was just wondering why you feel the need to constantly mention it. You've done it in other threads that weren't even in that topic. Even this one has no real reason to bring that up.
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    edited August 2016
    kevinf2380 wrote: »
    @BinaryPulsar It doesn't bother me. I was just wondering why you feel the need to constantly mention it. You've done it in other threads that weren't even in that topic. Even this one has no real reason to bring that up.

    Really? It's about porn having an influence. Seems incredibly related to me. I only bring it up in context. I don't bring it up when talking about diet and fitness. But, I am sorry. I apologize. If you want to harp on it, and start being a dick about it that's your choice. You brought up sex stuff in a different thread and then you made a post about porn, but I didn't call you out in an awkward way about it (until now). Should I talk about how I want to cheat on my wife instead?
  • rebel_26
    rebel_26 Posts: 1,826 Member
    edited August 2016
    kevinf2380 wrote: »
    @BinaryPulsar It doesn't bother me. I was just wondering why you feel the need to constantly mention it. You've done it in other threads that weren't even in that topic. Even this one has no real reason to bring that up.
    She must like fetishes?
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    edited August 2016
    I think they are fun. I like to dance. And those parties are very fun for dancing. I talk about dancing a lot. Sorry guys. And people asked questions sometimes, so I answered. Didn't think it was such a big deal. But, I see it is. So, I hear you. Hope you can accept my apologies. But, I am still going to mention that I am a dancer (I'm a contemporary dancer), and that I enjoy going out dancing for recreation. You will have to ignore me if you don't like dancing. It's the reason I joined mfp. And there are other things I talk a lot about also that you could find annoying (I won't provide examples). I will avoid porn threads, though.
  • Geeky_and_Cheeky
    Geeky_and_Cheeky Posts: 493 Member
    I don't think it does. I watch lots of porn & don't have sex. :( #singlelife

    But it really really does. Sex is usually nothing like in porn. I'm wayyy to awkward for all that
  • Heartisalonelyhunter
    Heartisalonelyhunter Posts: 786 Member
    Espressocycle wrote: »
    I'll tell you what porn has ruined. Bushes.

    5j0yoz20ob50.jpeg
  • AmandaHugginkiss
    AmandaHugginkiss Posts: 486 Member
    It's a good thing the world has women around to constantly remind men to lower their expectations.
  • merryward13
    merryward13 Posts: 1,662 Member
    MeganMoroz89 wrote: »
    Heartisalonelyhunter wrote: »
    Espressocycle wrote: »
    I'll tell you what porn has ruined. Bushes.

    5j0yoz20ob50.jpeg

    I'm so horrified that I think he looks attractive here

    That is quite horrifying
  • sunnybeaches105
    sunnybeaches105 Posts: 2,831 Member
    merryward13 wrote: »
    MeganMoroz89 wrote: »
    Heartisalonelyhunter wrote: »
    Espressocycle wrote: »
    I'll tell you what porn has ruined. Bushes.

    5j0yoz20ob50.jpeg

    I'm so horrified that I think he looks attractive here

    That is quite horrifying

    He's rich too
  • Heartisalonelyhunter
    Heartisalonelyhunter Posts: 786 Member
    MeganMoroz89 wrote: »
    Heartisalonelyhunter wrote: »
    Espressocycle wrote: »
    I'll tell you what porn has ruined. Bushes.

    5j0yoz20ob50.jpeg

    I'm so horrified that I think he looks attractive here
    BinaryPulsar wrote: »
    I think they are fun. I like to dance. And those parties are very fun for dancing. I talk about dancing a lot. Sorry guys. And people asked questions sometimes, so I answered. Didn't think it was such a big deal. But, I see it is. So, I hear you. Hope you can accept my apologies. But, I am still going to mention that I am a dancer (I'm a contemporary dancer), and that I enjoy going out dancing for recreation. You will have to ignore me if you don't like dancing. It's the reason I joined mfp. And there are other things I talk a lot about also that you could find annoying (I won't provide examples). I will avoid porn threads, though.
    BinaryPulsar wrote: »
    I think they are fun. I like to dance. And those parties are very fun for dancing. I talk about dancing a lot. Sorry guys. And people asked questions sometimes, so I answered. Didn't think it was such a big deal. But, I see it is. So, I hear you. Hope you can accept my apologies. But, I am still going to mention that I am a dancer (I'm a contemporary dancer), and that I enjoy going out dancing for recreation. You will have to ignore me if you don't like dancing. It's the reason I joined mfp. And there are other things I talk a lot about also that you could find annoying (I won't provide examples). I will avoid porn threads, though.

    I am actually fascinated. What happens in a fetish club? Do you go single or as a couple and hook up with other people? How do they approach you?
  • DiamondShines4u
    DiamondShines4u Posts: 1 Member
    I think men are very visual, and get stimulated by what they more so than women do. Yes, I do think porn is setting certain expectations about sex. Porn was considered to be "extreme" sex, but now extreme sex is almost the norm. No place to go from there but down (and not in a good way).
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    edited August 2016
    Heartisalonelyhunter wrote: »
    MeganMoroz89 wrote: »
    Heartisalonelyhunter wrote: »
    Espressocycle wrote: »
    I'll tell you what porn has ruined. Bushes.

    5j0yoz20ob50.jpeg

    I'm so horrified that I think he looks attractive here
    BinaryPulsar wrote: »
    I think they are fun. I like to dance. And those parties are very fun for dancing. I talk about dancing a lot. Sorry guys. And people asked questions sometimes, so I answered. Didn't think it was such a big deal. But, I see it is. So, I hear you. Hope you can accept my apologies. But, I am still going to mention that I am a dancer (I'm a contemporary dancer), and that I enjoy going out dancing for recreation. You will have to ignore me if you don't like dancing. It's the reason I joined mfp. And there are other things I talk a lot about also that you could find annoying (I won't provide examples). I will avoid porn threads, though.
    BinaryPulsar wrote: »
    I think they are fun. I like to dance. And those parties are very fun for dancing. I talk about dancing a lot. Sorry guys. And people asked questions sometimes, so I answered. Didn't think it was such a big deal. But, I see it is. So, I hear you. Hope you can accept my apologies. But, I am still going to mention that I am a dancer (I'm a contemporary dancer), and that I enjoy going out dancing for recreation. You will have to ignore me if you don't like dancing. It's the reason I joined mfp. And there are other things I talk a lot about also that you could find annoying (I won't provide examples). I will avoid porn threads, though.

    I am actually fascinated. What happens in a fetish club? Do you go single or as a couple and hook up with other people? How do they approach you?

    I want to tell you. Just don't want to cause more upset to people. :-/

    You can go single or as a couple. You can go monogamous (like my husband and I) or you can meet people. Fun music, very fun dancing in a nightclub setting, there is a bar for people that want to drink (my husband is a non-drinker, I can't drink because of a medical issue). There are short shows a couple times during the night (sometimes a fashion show). There are sometimes themes to dress in a costume if you want. There is a dress code to get in. Just to keep the outfits interesting. It's just like going out to a dance club. But better music, funner outfits, wider age range, and couples can go. It reminds me of the parties I went to in college. Creative, artistic, and fun. But, any age. If people want to go they can. And if they don't they don't have to. It's not everyone's cup of tea. It may not exist everywhere. I love going out dancing and was happy to discover these because I fit in better than at a regular 20 something club with singles listening to the latest pop tunes over and over. The people that run the parties are my age, so I like their music taste. And I like the outfits. My only comment about it in this thread was related to the topic. I posted other comments before bringing it up. Just making chit chat. And I definitely don't bring it up in unrelated threads, just to be clear. I should have stuck to the topic of those tiny pizza tables.

    Edit to add: I forgot to answer about how people approach you. In my experience they usually compliment you on your outfit or dancing. Later dance with you. Talk to you while taking a break for a drink or water. You end up making friends.
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