Who should text first after a hookup?

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bemyyfriend0918
bemyyfriend0918 Posts: 241 Member
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Just out of curiosity... Does it matter if the guy texts first or the girl? Does it mean the girl isn't interested if she doesn't text first, or vice versa?
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  • ValerieMartini2Olives
    ValerieMartini2Olives Posts: 3,024 Member
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    Are we talking about a hookup hookup
  • melmelw03
    melmelw03 Posts: 5,332 Member
    edited September 2016
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    Villae81 wrote: »
    melmelw03 wrote: »
    If you did it right, he'll blow your phone up.
    Constantly. :confused:

    Did it right meaning beat it up so good he knocked out and when he woke up no evidence of you being there kinda right?

    I mean, not everyone likes to snuggle afterwards. :lol:
  • DeficitDuchess
    DeficitDuchess Posts: 3,099 Member
    edited September 2016
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    I'd just text 1st because why wait? I believe that too much responsibility, is being levied at men; to approach/court women. Which leads to unfair amounts, of potential rejection; for them. Why should they always have to be put, in a situation in which; they might be rejected by us & we not at least share half, of that burden ourselves?
  • DeficitDuchess
    DeficitDuchess Posts: 3,099 Member
    edited September 2016
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    _birdie__ wrote: »
    the one with the lowest self esteem texts first

    don't blow your cover

    I disagree, I have a high self esteem; which means I'd be able to handle the rejection! Therefore there's no risk, in exposing myself; to that potential result!
  • DeficitDuchess
    DeficitDuchess Posts: 3,099 Member
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    _birdie__ wrote: »
    DeficitDuchess wrote: »
    _birdie__ wrote: »
    the one with the lowest self esteem texts first

    don't blow your cover

    I disagree, I have a high self esteem; which means I'd be able to handle the rejection! Therefore there's no risk, in exposing myself; to that potential result!

    please don't disagree with me i hate that

    Post here:

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  • TestNamePleaseIgnore
    TestNamePleaseIgnore Posts: 295 Member
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    2016.
  • Erik8484
    Erik8484 Posts: 458 Member
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    If you text first he might think you hooked up with him because you like him that would be a disaster.
  • ClubSilencio
    ClubSilencio Posts: 2,983 Member
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    Well, speaking from personal experience................ nah j/k :unamused:
  • Shana67
    Shana67 Posts: 680 Member
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    Huh? What? There are rules for this stuff?

    I am so glad my hookups were mostly pre-cell phone. LOL.
  • Caporegiem
    Caporegiem Posts: 4,297 Member
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    Next time you drug him and take his kidney if you want to guarantee to get a text back from him the next day.
  • AskTracyAnnK28
    AskTracyAnnK28 Posts: 2,817 Member
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    Don't text him, girl!

    If he's into you he'll text you.

    If it's really driving you crazy you can send one text, but if he doesn't reply or his reply is short like "lol" then drop it.
  • cwolfman13
    cwolfman13 Posts: 41,865 Member
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    Sext him...
  • djeffreys10
    djeffreys10 Posts: 2,312 Member
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    Why do people think there are rules. Be yourself, and do whatever feels natural. If you want to text, text. If you don't, don't. If whatever you would do naturally causes issues in any way, on to the next one.
  • DeficitDuchess
    DeficitDuchess Posts: 3,099 Member
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    djeffreys10 wrote: »
    Why do people think there are rules. Be yourself, and do whatever feels natural. If you want to text, text. If you don't, don't. If whatever you would do naturally causes issues in any way, on to the next one.

    Hear, here!

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