What's on your mind?

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  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    My hair stylist hasn't returned my text...its been 2 days.

    Do I break-up with her? Or give it another 24 hours and text again?

    If everyone who I ever left hanging with noresponse for 2 days or more "broke up" with me... I don't think I would know a single person 😂

    Same!
    But I'm paying this lady...and paying her well, and she's running a business

    If it was a friend, family member or coworker...
    (yeah, I suck a bit)
  • mommabear4315
    mommabear4315 Posts: 3,424 Member
    I can barely manage walking in high heels........

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    I can walk fine and even jog( if needed) in platform, thick heel shoes like the ones she’s wearing. I can’t on the narrow thin heels. Hell I can barely walk in them.
  • mommabear4315
    mommabear4315 Posts: 3,424 Member
    Why are some people so blinded to their 💩-y attitudes? I mean we all have bad days. It’s your job take care of it.
  • MelG7777
    MelG7777 Posts: 14,233 Member
    Why are some people so blinded to their 💩-y attitudes? I mean we all have bad days. It’s your job take care of it.

    Yaaas! Agreed. ❤️
  • TarryTaffy
    TarryTaffy Posts: 883 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    My hair stylist hasn't returned my text...its been 2 days.

    Do I break-up with her? Or give it another 24 hours and text again?

    Ooof....is she amazing? If so, I’d stick it out. I literally haven’t been to a salon in over 6 years cuz of a few bad experiences. I wouldn’t give her up if she’s good.

    She is amazing, I've followed her around to 3 different locations, and don't mind driving 30 minutes to see her.

    And you are right, I feel your pain on a *kitten* stylist, last 2 I saw before current one butchered my hair.

    Vikka... I've been having Verizon glitches the past 2-wks, if that's your service or if it's part of the Verizon network... people I've left VM for swearing they've never received them, with that "I know you didn't leave a VM" attitude. :( Also, a friend I texted on the 7th, suddenly replied yesterday, saying he swears the msg just suddenly appeared. I know there was a major outage recently, well at least one, but don't know enough about telcom to know what causes the regular issues I encounter.

    As far as hairdressers, I became one in my teens after someone cut off my waist length hair into a boy's cut, accidentally... his English comprehension wasn't optimal. I'll never forget the feel of icy cold sheers across my neck. I had that Scarlett O'Hara declaration of shaking my fist at the sky & lamenting, "As god as my witness, no one will ever touch my hair again!"

    So, don't give up on her. Maybe call instead of text, or do both. Most hairdressers don't ignore clients, cuz at least in the states, most make an hourly wage (yeah, they don't get to keep the entire $60 you paid for the cut, which most seem to think, unless they are independent contractors... the vast majority can't afford to be) & according to the BLS (Bureau of Labor Stats), most make under $23K/yr. They rely on tips, like waitresses. I doubt she's ignoring you.

    Good luck. I hope you 2 connect today!
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  • TarryTaffy
    TarryTaffy Posts: 883 Member
    Pancakes which absolutely makes no sense because every time I eat said pancakes I get a tummy ache resulting in regret and swear them off until the next craving occurs and now I'm wondering why I struggle with learning lessons ok Im done

    Lol. I do the same with potato chips. I must be on CCTV in 100 supermarkets across America, circling the chips isle like a starving shark. 99% of the time, I leave them on the shelf... but, it takes great effort to do so. When I give in, I always feel awful physically & about my lack of self control.

    My problem is not craving them, but I obsess about chips daily, often. I suppose there are worse things to OCD over. :smile:
  • George_of_the_Jungle
    George_of_the_Jungle Posts: 3,316 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    My hair stylist hasn't returned my text...its been 2 days.

    Do I break-up with her? Or give it another 24 hours and text again?

    If everyone who I ever left hanging with noresponse for 2 days or more "broke up" with me... I don't think I would know a single person 😂

    Same here
  • MelG7777
    MelG7777 Posts: 14,233 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    My hair stylist hasn't returned my text...its been 2 days.

    Do I break-up with her? Or give it another 24 hours and text again?

    If everyone who I ever left hanging with noresponse for 2 days or more "broke up" with me... I don't think I would know a single person 😂

    True
  • George_of_the_Jungle
    George_of_the_Jungle Posts: 3,316 Member
    TarryTaffy wrote: »
    Pancakes which absolutely makes no sense because every time I eat said pancakes I get a tummy ache resulting in regret and swear them off until the next craving occurs and now I'm wondering why I struggle with learning lessons ok Im done

    Lol. I do the same with potato chips. I must be on CCTV in 100 supermarkets across America, circling the chips isle like a starving shark. 99% of the time, I leave them on the shelf... but, it takes great effort to do so. When I give in, I always feel awful physically & about my lack of self control.

    My problem is not craving them, but I obsess about chips daily, often. I suppose there are worse things to OCD over. :smile:

    Ok, don't judge me....I currently have 3 spoons and one plate. One has ice cream, one has peanut butter, the other has chocolate syrup. I have zero self control at the moment! 😂 Send help!

    Chips are a whole other story.

    Way to not cross contaminate!
  • jestog63
    jestog63 Posts: 86 Member
    Humor
  • LiftNRiot
    LiftNRiot Posts: 463 Member
    edited January 2020
    jestog63 wrote: »
    Humor

    Nuff said. Thats why we love you baby.
  • honeybee__12
    honeybee__12 Posts: 15,688 Member
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  • cdubks88
    cdubks88 Posts: 3,573 Member
    I feel like I've came a long way in the last few weeks. 4 months ago I cried every day, I was scared of what's happening to me and what may happen. I haven't cried in weeks. Life can be really unfair, crazy and unexpected and we can't control what happens to us. We can feel sorry for ourselves and be upset for a while, it's part of the healing process. But, we have to accept and move forward and let things go or we get stuck in negativity that consumes us. I am changed by what has been happening to me but I refuse to get reduced by it.

    You're fantastic. 😊
  • unstableunicorn
    unstableunicorn Posts: 216 Member
    edited January 2020
    Old Man bearded Schwarzeneggar is hot. 🤤

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  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    edited January 2020
    How did they know it was sick? Do they not usually hang around? And do they have any zoonotic illnesses that poses a human health hazard?

    In my totally imaginative picture of Aus, there are Roos hopping along like bunnies in your yard...
  • mommabear4315
    mommabear4315 Posts: 3,424 Member
    I feel like I've came a long way in the last few weeks. 4 months ago I cried every day, I was scared of what's happening to me and what may happen. I haven't cried in weeks. Life can be really unfair, crazy and unexpected and we can't control what happens to us. We can feel sorry for ourselves and be upset for a while, it's part of the healing process. But, we have to accept and move forward and let things go or we get stuck in negativity that consumes us. I am changed by what has been happening to me but I refuse to get reduced by it.

    I admire your strength. Have a great day.
  • mommabear4315
    mommabear4315 Posts: 3,424 Member
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    Breathtaking
  • bz2018
    bz2018 Posts: 143 Member
    Currently a Gala Apple is on my mind. Just one though.
  • 1948Peachy
    1948Peachy Posts: 1,511 Member
    My Pom made it through one more day! :)
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    I feel like I've came a long way in the last few weeks. 4 months ago I cried every day, I was scared of what's happening to me and what may happen. I haven't cried in weeks. Life can be really unfair, crazy and unexpected and we can't control what happens to us. We can feel sorry for ourselves and be upset for a while, it's part of the healing process. But, we have to accept and move forward and let things go or we get stuck in negativity that consumes us. I am changed by what has been happening to me but I refuse to get reduced by it.

    I wish I could inspiring, like, AND hug this ❤️
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    MelG7777 wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    My hair stylist hasn't returned my text...its been 2 days.

    Do I break-up with her? Or give it another 24 hours and text again?

    If everyone who I ever left hanging with noresponse for 2 days or more "broke up" with me... I don't think I would know a single person 😂

    True

    OMG What d'you mean true? 😂
  • Mr_Healthy_Habits
    Mr_Healthy_Habits Posts: 12,588 Member
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    My hair stylist hasn't returned my text...its been 2 days.

    Do I break-up with her? Or give it another 24 hours and text again?

    If everyone who I ever left hanging with noresponse for 2 days or more "broke up" with me... I don't think I would know a single person 😂

    Same here

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  • TwitchyMacGee
    TwitchyMacGee Posts: 3,120 Member
    idk what to do with myself when my boss is being nice