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LiftingSpirits wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Moon_Stone wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
For me, a silent partner makes me rage. Im not saying a person should stay for abuse, but kitten respond, answer, argue back or apologize as you see fit. Don’t just walk away. The only exception would be someone who communicates that he needs time/space instead of just wandering off.JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Try using radical honesty to a jealous insecure spouse and see what happens 🤣🤣🤣
i think the real solution is to just not carewhoever cares the least, wins
Not really for example i accidentally knocked my wife's Fitbit thingy off the charger while trying to my headphones. She flips out coz it didnt charge I just kept quiet then she said do you not care? I didn't answer she kept asking so I finally said it was an accident! She still kept on and then said do you just want me to just shuttup huh? I said yeah it was an accident. She laugh said sorry and left. So not caring leads to more yelling 🤣🤣🤣
well if we're being brutally honest- i think the right thing to do would've been just accept the yelling and then said nothing in response and just got up and left for a few hours without responding.
the trick to that is having somewhere to go and something to do for those hours
One thing I've learned is keeping quiet just makes it worse. We didn't argue it was more of a b**ch*ng on her side. But she got over it.
She's aries I'm Pisces water puts out fire lol
why do you think it bothers you so much? if someone was to react to you that way i mean
Mostly Because it’s dismissive of my valid thoughts and emotions.
Because it communicates that he doesn’t think we’re worth putting up a fight for.
Eta: and because the silent treatment is mean
i do wonder how you react to an argument in a relationship. i imagine it could be fascinating.
if anybody out there is reading, and considering making this a new thread discussion, make sure and ask "when's the last time you shouted at your significant other and what was it about"
i think the answers, or non-answers, to that question could tell us more about each other than nearly every other thread combined.
i agree with the bolded. That's the scary part. Does anyone really want anyone knowing who they truly are deep down?
I always welcome changes in my life I always like the adventure part of it. I always thought I can handle it really well. We moved a lot when I was a child so everything should be easy right? Well there's a major change in my life coming soon and I've been stressing about it a lot it feels like I'm falling apart inside. I don't know why I'm so scared perhaps maybe it's because for almost 2 decades I controlled most of the changes coming my and this one im helpless. I dunno *kitten* it I guess. I can front all I want to but I guess deep down I'm truly a chicken chit lol
I think it is natural to fear certain changes in life. I bet you will embrace the *kitten* out of it though. I love that you are laying it out there. Your fear is just your perception that the change will be negative. It may open up some amazing opportunities for you. There are lots of positive outcome possibilities too whether it come directly from the change or whether you decide to make it happen outside of the original change.
Thanks for the positive outlook on things. I think I was subtle enough to get some things out of my chest without putting out too much info on my personal struggles.
I hugged it.JustPassingTime wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Moon_Stone wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
For me, a silent partner makes me rage. Im not saying a person should stay for abuse, but kitten respond, answer, argue back or apologize as you see fit. Don’t just walk away. The only exception would be someone who communicates that he needs time/space instead of just wandering off.JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »JustPassingTime wrote: »Try using radical honesty to a jealous insecure spouse and see what happens 🤣🤣🤣
i think the real solution is to just not carewhoever cares the least, wins
Not really for example i accidentally knocked my wife's Fitbit thingy off the charger while trying to my headphones. She flips out coz it didnt charge I just kept quiet then she said do you not care? I didn't answer she kept asking so I finally said it was an accident! She still kept on and then said do you just want me to just shuttup huh? I said yeah it was an accident. She laugh said sorry and left. So not caring leads to more yelling 🤣🤣🤣
well if we're being brutally honest- i think the right thing to do would've been just accept the yelling and then said nothing in response and just got up and left for a few hours without responding.
the trick to that is having somewhere to go and something to do for those hours
One thing I've learned is keeping quiet just makes it worse. We didn't argue it was more of a b**ch*ng on her side. But she got over it.
She's aries I'm Pisces water puts out fire lol
why do you think it bothers you so much? if someone was to react to you that way i mean
Mostly Because it’s dismissive of my valid thoughts and emotions.
Because it communicates that he doesn’t think we’re worth putting up a fight for.
Eta: and because the silent treatment is mean
i do wonder how you react to an argument in a relationship. i imagine it could be fascinating.
if anybody out there is reading, and considering making this a new thread discussion, make sure and ask "when's the last time you shouted at your significant other and what was it about"
i think the answers, or non-answers, to that question could tell us more about each other than nearly every other thread combined.
i agree with the bolded. That's the scary part. Does anyone really want anyone knowing who they truly are deep down?
I always welcome changes in my life I always like the adventure part of it. I always thought I can handle it really well. We moved a lot when I was a child so everything should be easy right? Well there's a major change in my life coming soon and I've been stressing about it a lot it feels like I'm falling apart inside. I don't know why I'm so scared perhaps maybe it's because for almost 2 decades I controlled most of the changes coming my and this one im helpless. I dunno *kitten* it I guess. I can front all I want to but I guess deep down I'm truly a chicken chit lol
I think it is natural to fear certain changes in life. I bet you will embrace the *kitten* out of it though. I love that you are laying it out there. Your fear is just your perception that the change will be negative. It may open up some amazing opportunities for you. There are lots of positive outcome possibilities too whether it come directly from the change or whether you decide to make it happen outside of the original change.
Thanks for the positive outlook on things. I think I was subtle enough to get some things out of my chest without putting out too much info on my personal struggles.
I hugged it.
I felt it
I wondered why the earth tipped
I don't get it?
Because cataclysmic axial pole shift analysis obviously 🤦🏼♀️
Hank! Hank! Haaaaank! Really? I don't wanna Google anything right now
How can you not know about it already? I’m embarrassed for your mother
Is that like global warming?
Hahahaha! Oh my gosh your ignorance is adorable 😂 now will someone please google it and explain it to us
You and @JustPassingTime make the earth move under my feet. I feel the sky tumbling down.
She’s got it.2 -
This is sooo funny.0
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What I'm getting myself into and if it's worth it...0
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caco_ethes wrote: »
I'd do itNotSo_LittleRichard wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »NotSo_LittleRichard wrote: »
I wonder why $18,522 dollars
ETA: That's only $12.86 an hour
If you only divide by the number of "work" hours, 40 hours a week for 8 weeks it's $57.88/hour.
But you're also confined to a bed for social things, so maybe not worth it.
Math checks out. Except you would be "working" 24 hrs a day. I'm not sure the atrophy of laying in bed 24 hrs a day for 60 days is worth it. Not to mention how many other side effects.
2 months in bed sounds like my dream vacay
Its 100% not bad. I’m wondering what kind of ectomy i can have this year so i can spend the spring in bed again
I don't think you understand the experiment. You can't leave the bed for any reason..... any reason.0 -
This is going to be one long *kitten* week3
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Tankiscool wrote: »This is going to be one long *kitten* week
Hang in there, pumpkin. Let me know if you need an ear1 -
caco_ethes wrote: »
I'd do itNotSo_LittleRichard wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »NotSo_LittleRichard wrote: »
I wonder why $18,522 dollars
ETA: That's only $12.86 an hour
If you only divide by the number of "work" hours, 40 hours a week for 8 weeks it's $57.88/hour.
But you're also confined to a bed for social things, so maybe not worth it.
Math checks out. Except you would be "working" 24 hrs a day. I'm not sure the atrophy of laying in bed 24 hrs a day for 60 days is worth it. Not to mention how many other side effects.
2 months in bed sounds like my dream vacay
Its 100% not bad. I’m wondering what kind of ectomy i can have this year so i can spend the spring in bed again
I don't think you understand the experiment. You can't leave the bed for any reason..... any reason.
I do understand the experiment, I’m totally cool with being diapered for two months while someone feeds me spaghetti-os3 -
JustPassingTime wrote: »I can't believe @caco_ethes is gonna leave me hanging 😑
What’s to explain?0 -
caco_ethes wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »
I'd do itNotSo_LittleRichard wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »NotSo_LittleRichard wrote: »
I wonder why $18,522 dollars
ETA: That's only $12.86 an hour
If you only divide by the number of "work" hours, 40 hours a week for 8 weeks it's $57.88/hour.
But you're also confined to a bed for social things, so maybe not worth it.
Math checks out. Except you would be "working" 24 hrs a day. I'm not sure the atrophy of laying in bed 24 hrs a day for 60 days is worth it. Not to mention how many other side effects.
2 months in bed sounds like my dream vacay
Its 100% not bad. I’m wondering what kind of ectomy i can have this year so i can spend the spring in bed again
I don't think you understand the experiment. You can't leave the bed for any reason..... any reason.
I do understand the experiment, I’m totally cool with being diapered for two months while someone feeds me spaghetti-os
That's not how they do it at hospitals. Ask a nurse.0 -
caco_ethes wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »
I'd do itNotSo_LittleRichard wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »NotSo_LittleRichard wrote: »
I wonder why $18,522 dollars
ETA: That's only $12.86 an hour
If you only divide by the number of "work" hours, 40 hours a week for 8 weeks it's $57.88/hour.
But you're also confined to a bed for social things, so maybe not worth it.
Math checks out. Except you would be "working" 24 hrs a day. I'm not sure the atrophy of laying in bed 24 hrs a day for 60 days is worth it. Not to mention how many other side effects.
2 months in bed sounds like my dream vacay
Its 100% not bad. I’m wondering what kind of ectomy i can have this year so i can spend the spring in bed again
I don't think you understand the experiment. You can't leave the bed for any reason..... any reason.
I do understand the experiment, I’m totally cool with being diapered for two months while someone feeds me spaghetti-os
That's not how they do it at hospitals. Ask a nurse.
So I’ll pee in a cathemometer 🤷🏼♀️1 -
caco_ethes wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »
I'd do itNotSo_LittleRichard wrote: »RomaineCalm wrote: »NotSo_LittleRichard wrote: »
I wonder why $18,522 dollars
ETA: That's only $12.86 an hour
If you only divide by the number of "work" hours, 40 hours a week for 8 weeks it's $57.88/hour.
But you're also confined to a bed for social things, so maybe not worth it.
Math checks out. Except you would be "working" 24 hrs a day. I'm not sure the atrophy of laying in bed 24 hrs a day for 60 days is worth it. Not to mention how many other side effects.
2 months in bed sounds like my dream vacay
Its 100% not bad. I’m wondering what kind of ectomy i can have this year so i can spend the spring in bed again
I don't think you understand the experiment. You can't leave the bed for any reason..... any reason.
I do understand the experiment, I’m totally cool with being diapered for two months while someone feeds me spaghetti-os
That's not how they do it at hospitals. Ask a nurse.
So I’ll pee in a cathemometer 🤷🏼♀️
When my dad was sick he had to use a bed pan. So... I'm pretty sure that's what they'll make you use too. Which is why they would have to pay me at least $13 an hour for me to even be interested.1 -
JustPassingTime wrote: »Oh my God what started out as a laid back evening is turning into a nightmare 😑
Murphy strikes again?2 -
JustPassingTime wrote: »Oh my God what started out as a laid back evening is turning into a nightmare 😑
Aww, sorry. Just bc I said the earth tipped.. :hugs:1 -
LiftingSpirits wrote: »Tankiscool wrote: »This is going to be one long *kitten* week
Hang in there, pumpkin. Let me know if you need an ear
Thanks hun!
Fam is all good now. Just this week just has been served by Murphy himself. Whatever can go wrong, already has and it's only Tueaday. Top it on that it's my bday today I guess I'll always remember this one lol. 6 -
Tankiscool wrote: »This is going to be one long *kitten* week
False
It’ll be the same duration as every week3 -
Tankiscool wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »Tankiscool wrote: »This is going to be one long *kitten* week
Hang in there, pumpkin. Let me know if you need an ear
Thanks hun! Fam is all good now. Just this week just has been served by Murphy himself. Whatever can go wrong, already has and it's only Tueaday. Top it on that it's my bday today I guess I'll always remember this one lol.
Big hug brother man1 -
Tankiscool wrote: »LiftingSpirits wrote: »Tankiscool wrote: »This is going to be one long *kitten* week
Hang in there, pumpkin. Let me know if you need an ear
Thanks hun! Fam is all good now. Just this week just has been served by Murphy himself. Whatever can go wrong, already has and it's only Tueaday. Top it on that it's my bday today I guess I'll always remember this one lol.
Heyyy happy birthday! No really, i insist2 -
tinkerhellraiser wrote: »really have no idea what day it is but not ready to find out yet
I feel this way very often1 -
Too many stuff.. now probably won't be able to sleep..😣1
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