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  • RomaineCalm
    RomaineCalm Posts: 3,972 Member
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    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    ElC_76 wrote: »
    Moon_Stone wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Try using radical honesty to a jealous insecure spouse and see what happens 🤣🤣🤣

    i think the real solution is to just not care
    whoever cares the least, wins

    Not really for example i accidentally knocked my wife's Fitbit thingy off the charger while trying to my headphones. She flips out coz it didnt charge I just kept quiet then she said do you not care? I didn't answer she kept asking so I finally said it was an accident! She still kept on and then said do you just want me to just shuttup huh? I said yeah it was an accident. She laugh said sorry and left. So not caring leads to more yelling 🤣🤣🤣

    well if we're being brutally honest- i think the right thing to do would've been just accept the yelling and then said nothing in response and just got up and left for a few hours without responding.

    the trick to that is having somewhere to go and something to do for those hours

    One thing I've learned is keeping quiet just makes it worse. We didn't argue it was more of a b**ch*ng on her side. But she got over it.


    She's aries I'm Pisces water puts out fire lol
    For me, a silent partner makes me rage. Im not saying a person should stay for abuse, but kitten respond, answer, argue back or apologize as you see fit. Don’t just walk away. The only exception would be someone who communicates that he needs time/space instead of just wandering off.

    why do you think it bothers you so much? if someone was to react to you that way i mean

    Mostly Because it’s dismissive of my valid thoughts and emotions.

    Because it communicates that he doesn’t think we’re worth putting up a fight for.

    Eta: and because the silent treatment is mean

    i do wonder how you react to an argument in a relationship. i imagine it could be fascinating.

    if anybody out there is reading, and considering making this a new thread discussion, make sure and ask "when's the last time you shouted at your significant other and what was it about"

    i think the answers, or non-answers, to that question could tell us more about each other than nearly every other thread combined.

    i agree with the bolded. That's the scary part. Does anyone really want anyone knowing who they truly are deep down?

    I always welcome changes in my life I always like the adventure part of it. I always thought I can handle it really well. We moved a lot when I was a child so everything should be easy right? Well there's a major change in my life coming soon and I've been stressing about it a lot it feels like I'm falling apart inside. I don't know why I'm so scared perhaps maybe it's because for almost 2 decades I controlled most of the changes coming my and this one im helpless. I dunno *kitten* it I guess. I can front all I want to but I guess deep down I'm truly a chicken chit lol

    I think it is natural to fear certain changes in life. I bet you will embrace the *kitten* out of it though. I love that you are laying it out there. Your fear is just your perception that the change will be negative. It may open up some amazing opportunities for you. There are lots of positive outcome possibilities too whether it come directly from the change or whether you decide to make it happen outside of the original change.

    Thanks for the positive outlook on things. I think I was subtle enough to get some things out of my chest without putting out too much info on my personal struggles.

    I hugged it.
    Moon_Stone wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »
    Try using radical honesty to a jealous insecure spouse and see what happens 🤣🤣🤣

    i think the real solution is to just not care
    whoever cares the least, wins

    Not really for example i accidentally knocked my wife's Fitbit thingy off the charger while trying to my headphones. She flips out coz it didnt charge I just kept quiet then she said do you not care? I didn't answer she kept asking so I finally said it was an accident! She still kept on and then said do you just want me to just shuttup huh? I said yeah it was an accident. She laugh said sorry and left. So not caring leads to more yelling 🤣🤣🤣

    well if we're being brutally honest- i think the right thing to do would've been just accept the yelling and then said nothing in response and just got up and left for a few hours without responding.

    the trick to that is having somewhere to go and something to do for those hours

    One thing I've learned is keeping quiet just makes it worse. We didn't argue it was more of a b**ch*ng on her side. But she got over it.


    She's aries I'm Pisces water puts out fire lol
    For me, a silent partner makes me rage. Im not saying a person should stay for abuse, but kitten respond, answer, argue back or apologize as you see fit. Don’t just walk away. The only exception would be someone who communicates that he needs time/space instead of just wandering off.

    why do you think it bothers you so much? if someone was to react to you that way i mean

    Mostly Because it’s dismissive of my valid thoughts and emotions.

    Because it communicates that he doesn’t think we’re worth putting up a fight for.

    Eta: and because the silent treatment is mean

    i do wonder how you react to an argument in a relationship. i imagine it could be fascinating.

    if anybody out there is reading, and considering making this a new thread discussion, make sure and ask "when's the last time you shouted at your significant other and what was it about"

    i think the answers, or non-answers, to that question could tell us more about each other than nearly every other thread combined.

    i agree with the bolded. That's the scary part. Does anyone really want anyone knowing who they truly are deep down?

    I always welcome changes in my life I always like the adventure part of it. I always thought I can handle it really well. We moved a lot when I was a child so everything should be easy right? Well there's a major change in my life coming soon and I've been stressing about it a lot it feels like I'm falling apart inside. I don't know why I'm so scared perhaps maybe it's because for almost 2 decades I controlled most of the changes coming my and this one im helpless. I dunno *kitten* it I guess. I can front all I want to but I guess deep down I'm truly a chicken chit lol

    I think it is natural to fear certain changes in life. I bet you will embrace the *kitten* out of it though. I love that you are laying it out there. Your fear is just your perception that the change will be negative. It may open up some amazing opportunities for you. There are lots of positive outcome possibilities too whether it come directly from the change or whether you decide to make it happen outside of the original change.

    Thanks for the positive outlook on things. I think I was subtle enough to get some things out of my chest without putting out too much info on my personal struggles.

    I hugged it.

    I felt it

    I wondered why the earth tipped

    I don't get it?

    Because cataclysmic axial pole shift analysis obviously 🤦🏼‍♀️

    Hank! Hank! Haaaaank! Really? I don't wanna Google anything right now

    How can you not know about it already? I’m embarrassed for your mother

    Is that like global warming?

    Hahahaha! Oh my gosh your ignorance is adorable 😂 now will someone please google it and explain it to us

    You and @JustPassingTime make the earth move under my feet. I feel the sky tumbling down.

    She’s got it.
  • ElC_76
    ElC_76 Posts: 3,054 Member
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    This is sooo funny.
  • your_future_ex_wife
    your_future_ex_wife Posts: 4,278 Member
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    ElC_76 wrote: »
    This is sooo funny.

    Funny how? What’s funny about it?
  • _sw33tp3a_11
    _sw33tp3a_11 Posts: 4,692 Member
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    What I'm getting myself into and if it's worth it...
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
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    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »

    I'd do it

    If you only divide by the number of "work" hours, 40 hours a week for 8 weeks it's $57.88/hour.
    But you're also confined to a bed for social things, so maybe not worth it.

    Math checks out. Except you would be "working" 24 hrs a day. I'm not sure the atrophy of laying in bed 24 hrs a day for 60 days is worth it. Not to mention how many other side effects.

    2 months in bed sounds like my dream vacay

    Its 100% not bad. I’m wondering what kind of ectomy i can have this year so i can spend the spring in bed again

    I don't think you understand the experiment. You can't leave the bed for any reason..... any reason.
  • Tankiscool
    Tankiscool Posts: 11,105 Member
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    This is going to be one long *kitten* week
  • LiftingSpirits
    LiftingSpirits Posts: 2,207 Member
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    Tankiscool wrote: »
    This is going to be one long *kitten* week

    Hang in there, pumpkin. Let me know if you need an ear
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
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    cee134 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »

    I'd do it

    If you only divide by the number of "work" hours, 40 hours a week for 8 weeks it's $57.88/hour.
    But you're also confined to a bed for social things, so maybe not worth it.

    Math checks out. Except you would be "working" 24 hrs a day. I'm not sure the atrophy of laying in bed 24 hrs a day for 60 days is worth it. Not to mention how many other side effects.

    2 months in bed sounds like my dream vacay

    Its 100% not bad. I’m wondering what kind of ectomy i can have this year so i can spend the spring in bed again

    I don't think you understand the experiment. You can't leave the bed for any reason..... any reason.

    I do understand the experiment, I’m totally cool with being diapered for two months while someone feeds me spaghetti-os
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
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    I can't believe @caco_ethes is gonna leave me hanging 😑

    What’s to explain?
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
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    caco_ethes wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »

    I'd do it

    If you only divide by the number of "work" hours, 40 hours a week for 8 weeks it's $57.88/hour.
    But you're also confined to a bed for social things, so maybe not worth it.

    Math checks out. Except you would be "working" 24 hrs a day. I'm not sure the atrophy of laying in bed 24 hrs a day for 60 days is worth it. Not to mention how many other side effects.

    2 months in bed sounds like my dream vacay

    Its 100% not bad. I’m wondering what kind of ectomy i can have this year so i can spend the spring in bed again

    I don't think you understand the experiment. You can't leave the bed for any reason..... any reason.

    I do understand the experiment, I’m totally cool with being diapered for two months while someone feeds me spaghetti-os

    That's not how they do it at hospitals. Ask a nurse.
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
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    cee134 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »

    I'd do it

    If you only divide by the number of "work" hours, 40 hours a week for 8 weeks it's $57.88/hour.
    But you're also confined to a bed for social things, so maybe not worth it.

    Math checks out. Except you would be "working" 24 hrs a day. I'm not sure the atrophy of laying in bed 24 hrs a day for 60 days is worth it. Not to mention how many other side effects.

    2 months in bed sounds like my dream vacay

    Its 100% not bad. I’m wondering what kind of ectomy i can have this year so i can spend the spring in bed again

    I don't think you understand the experiment. You can't leave the bed for any reason..... any reason.

    I do understand the experiment, I’m totally cool with being diapered for two months while someone feeds me spaghetti-os

    That's not how they do it at hospitals. Ask a nurse.

    So I’ll pee in a cathemometer 🤷🏼‍♀️
  • cee134
    cee134 Posts: 33,711 Member
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    caco_ethes wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    cee134 wrote: »
    caco_ethes wrote: »
    Vikka_V wrote: »
    iMago wrote: »

    I'd do it

    If you only divide by the number of "work" hours, 40 hours a week for 8 weeks it's $57.88/hour.
    But you're also confined to a bed for social things, so maybe not worth it.

    Math checks out. Except you would be "working" 24 hrs a day. I'm not sure the atrophy of laying in bed 24 hrs a day for 60 days is worth it. Not to mention how many other side effects.

    2 months in bed sounds like my dream vacay

    Its 100% not bad. I’m wondering what kind of ectomy i can have this year so i can spend the spring in bed again

    I don't think you understand the experiment. You can't leave the bed for any reason..... any reason.

    I do understand the experiment, I’m totally cool with being diapered for two months while someone feeds me spaghetti-os

    That's not how they do it at hospitals. Ask a nurse.

    So I’ll pee in a cathemometer 🤷🏼‍♀️

    When my dad was sick he had to use a bed pan. So... I'm pretty sure that's what they'll make you use too. Which is why they would have to pay me at least $13 an hour for me to even be interested.
  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,208 Member
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    Oh my God what started out as a laid back evening is turning into a nightmare 😑

    Murphy strikes again?
  • ElC_76
    ElC_76 Posts: 3,054 Member
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    Oh my God what started out as a laid back evening is turning into a nightmare 😑

    Aww, sorry. Just bc I said the earth tipped.. :hugs:
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
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    Tankiscool wrote: »
    This is going to be one long *kitten* week

    False

    It’ll be the same duration as every week
  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,208 Member
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    Tankiscool wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    This is going to be one long *kitten* week

    Hang in there, pumpkin. Let me know if you need an ear

    Thanks hun! :) Fam is all good now. :) Just this week just has been served by Murphy himself. Whatever can go wrong, already has and it's only Tueaday. Top it on that it's my bday today I guess I'll always remember this one lol.

    Big hug brother man
  • caco_ethes
    caco_ethes Posts: 11,962 Member
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    Tankiscool wrote: »
    Tankiscool wrote: »
    This is going to be one long *kitten* week

    Hang in there, pumpkin. Let me know if you need an ear

    Thanks hun! :) Fam is all good now. :) Just this week just has been served by Murphy himself. Whatever can go wrong, already has and it's only Tueaday. Top it on that it's my bday today I guess I'll always remember this one lol.

    Heyyy happy birthday! No really, i insist
  • kinetixtrainer2
    kinetixtrainer2 Posts: 9,208 Member
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    really have no idea what day it is but not ready to find out yet

    I feel this way very often
  • lx1x
    lx1x Posts: 38,323 Member
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    Too many stuff.. now probably won't be able to sleep..😣