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KickTheSky wrote: »Miss_Chiev0us wrote: »KickTheSky wrote: »Miss_Chiev0us wrote: »KickTheSky wrote: »I'm about to tell someone the long overdue truth.
Spoiler alert: I'm still angry and looking back, I don't think you really ever apologized.
I don't know the situation so who am I to judge BUT ask yourself if it's really worth it. Holding onto anger is like poison. What will it bring you? The situation will probably still be the same but worst. We always want to try to hurt the people who hurt us but from my experience it's not really worth it in the end.
Too late. The cards are on the table and I just torched all the bridges. The manipulation ended tonight.
I hope things work out for you ❤ I was just sharing my experience. The few times I've done stuff like that I regretted it and it only hurt me more. Nothing wrong with burning bridges, it all brings us experience and makes us better. Maybe now you can leave it in the past where it belongs and be happy xo
To truly leave it in the past would mean leaving here for good. Which I almost did. Maybe it will be easier this time.
Hugs to you and hope that however you dealt with it and whatever you said, will give you some peace. Life can be very difficult. So far, I've found the ups and downs balance each other out, even the most difficult issues. I also am a believer of 'there is a reason for everything'. Sometimes I feel bitter and angry and feel there is no good reason but also feel that's not for us to know either. It probably all sounds like gibberish but it keeps me going on to my next day without sinking deep. I'd love to go back and change many things that happened in my life but if it meant giving up what I have now, I'm not sure that I could.
And I'm glad we don't get to make that choice, we just have to trust and have faith. Easier said than done. 0 -
I've been feeling like a stale piece of bread for a while now. Like listless. 😶 nondescript.3
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Yoshiboobs wrote: »I've been feeling like a stale piece of bread for a while now. Like listless. 😶 nondescript.
good analogy, me too, need to get a spark...somehow....fire up some personality or some *kitten*...or a general interest in being3 -
Yoshiboobs wrote: »I've been feeling like a stale piece of bread for a while now. Like listless. 😶 nondescript.
Spread a little bit of raspberry jam on yourself and start dancing.
Especially now because the yellow jackets are getting early fallish thick.
Feel better quick!! Feeling like listless bread is no fun. 2 -
Yoshiboobs wrote: »I've been feeling like a stale piece of bread for a while now. Like listless. 😶 nondescript.
maybe go cause a lil trouble, but like microdosing any activities so u dont go to jail or nothing ♥️
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Ran 20 miles this morning for the first time. Felt surprisingly good. Just missed breaking my goal of 2.5 hrs. May try again next week.8
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Yoshiboobs wrote: »I've been feeling like a stale piece of bread for a while now. Like listless. 😶 nondescript.
good analogy, me too, need to get a spark...somehow....fire up some personality or some *kitten*...or a general interest in being
I'm blaming retrograde. Maybe we can make a sandwich?Yoshiboobs wrote: »I've been feeling like a stale piece of bread for a while now. Like listless. 😶 nondescript.
Spread a little bit of raspberry jam on yourself and start dancing.
Especially now because the yellow jackets are getting early fallish thick.
Feel better quick!! Feeling like listless bread is no fun.
😅 🤔 The jackets are thicc you say? Sounds like a party if I'm dancing while covered in food items.sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Yoshiboobs wrote: »I've been feeling like a stale piece of bread for a while now. Like listless. 😶 nondescript.
maybe go cause a lil trouble, but like microdosing any activities so u dont go to jail or nothing ♥️
Ya I'm going to hand my coffee back to the Starbucks employee and demand whipped cream instead of just taking the no whipped cream version that they've been giving me.2 -
a mfp Ragnar team😃1
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Yoshiboobs wrote: »Yoshiboobs wrote: »I've been feeling like a stale piece of bread for a while now. Like listless. 😶 nondescript.
good analogy, me too, need to get a spark...somehow....fire up some personality or some *kitten*...or a general interest in being
I'm blaming retrograde. Maybe we can make a sandwich?Yoshiboobs wrote: »I've been feeling like a stale piece of bread for a while now. Like listless. 😶 nondescript.
Spread a little bit of raspberry jam on yourself and start dancing.
Especially now because the yellow jackets are getting early fallish thick.
Feel better quick!! Feeling like listless bread is no fun.
😅 🤔 The jackets are thicc you say? Sounds like a party if I'm dancing while covered in food items.sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Yoshiboobs wrote: »I've been feeling like a stale piece of bread for a while now. Like listless. 😶 nondescript.
maybe go cause a lil trouble, but like microdosing any activities so u dont go to jail or nothing ♥️
Ya I'm going to hand my coffee back to the Starbucks employee and demand whipped cream instead of just taking the no whipped cream version that they've been giving me.
look em right in the eye, steal a cookie, then put $2 in tip jar, walk out3 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Yoshiboobs wrote: »Yoshiboobs wrote: »I've been feeling like a stale piece of bread for a while now. Like listless. 😶 nondescript.
good analogy, me too, need to get a spark...somehow....fire up some personality or some *kitten*...or a general interest in being
I'm blaming retrograde. Maybe we can make a sandwich?Yoshiboobs wrote: »I've been feeling like a stale piece of bread for a while now. Like listless. 😶 nondescript.
Spread a little bit of raspberry jam on yourself and start dancing.
Especially now because the yellow jackets are getting early fallish thick.
Feel better quick!! Feeling like listless bread is no fun.
😅 🤔 The jackets are thicc you say? Sounds like a party if I'm dancing while covered in food items.sweet_ermengarde wrote: »Yoshiboobs wrote: »I've been feeling like a stale piece of bread for a while now. Like listless. 😶 nondescript.
maybe go cause a lil trouble, but like microdosing any activities so u dont go to jail or nothing ♥️
Ya I'm going to hand my coffee back to the Starbucks employee and demand whipped cream instead of just taking the no whipped cream version that they've been giving me.
look em right in the eye, steal a cookie, then put $2 in tip jar, walk out
You could probably Sooo get away with this 😂...2 -
Grumpy, mumbling old people,
I get it now.1 -
well this was all a colossal waste of time *gestures vaguely*3
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When someone is mad at you but you aren’t mad back, are you supposed to act mad anyway? Like never address them and give them the cold shoulder? Or do you treat them like you normally would? Do they perceive that as disingenuous? What is the socially acceptable thing to do? Which is more/less aggravating to you if you’re the aggrieved party? I never know how to handle this4
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When someone is mad at you but you aren’t mad back, are you supposed to act mad anyway? Like never address them and give them the cold shoulder? Or do you treat them like you normally would? Do they perceive that as disingenuous? What is the socially acceptable thing to do? Which is more/less aggravating to you if you’re the aggrieved party? I never know how to handle this
just ignore them until they get their mind right6 -
When someone is mad at you but you aren’t mad back, are you supposed to act mad anyway? Like never address them and give them the cold shoulder? Or do you treat them like you normally would? Do they perceive that as disingenuous? What is the socially acceptable thing to do? Which is more/less aggravating to you if you’re the aggrieved party? I never know how to handle this
just ignore them until they get their mind right
Ok thanks2 -
When someone is mad at you but you aren’t mad back, are you supposed to act mad anyway? Like never address them and give them the cold shoulder? Or do you treat them like you normally would? Do they perceive that as disingenuous? What is the socially acceptable thing to do? Which is more/less aggravating to you if you’re the aggrieved party? I never know how to handle this
personally, i’m always down for a fight. to get yourself in the mood just think back to all the perceived slights youve ever got from them, and even mix up those memories with any other bad history u have with other people bc dragging your demons along for the ride really makes it escalate nicely imo5 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »When someone is mad at you but you aren’t mad back, are you supposed to act mad anyway? Like never address them and give them the cold shoulder? Or do you treat them like you normally would? Do they perceive that as disingenuous? What is the socially acceptable thing to do? Which is more/less aggravating to you if you’re the aggrieved party? I never know how to handle this
personally, i’m always down for a fight. to get yourself in the mood just think back to all the perceived slights youve ever got from them, and even mix up those memories with any other bad history u have with other people bc dragging your demons along for the ride really makes it escalate nicely imo
This sounds exhausting, can i drink first or is that a bad idea3 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »When someone is mad at you but you aren’t mad back, are you supposed to act mad anyway? Like never address them and give them the cold shoulder? Or do you treat them like you normally would? Do they perceive that as disingenuous? What is the socially acceptable thing to do? Which is more/less aggravating to you if you’re the aggrieved party? I never know how to handle this
personally, i’m always down for a fight. to get yourself in the mood just think back to all the perceived slights youve ever got from them, and even mix up those memories with any other bad history u have with other people bc dragging your demons along for the ride really makes it escalate nicely imo
This sounds exhausting, can i drink first or is that a bad idea
oh, drinking is encouraged!3 -
When someone is mad at you but you aren’t mad back, are you supposed to act mad anyway? Like never address them and give them the cold shoulder? Or do you treat them like you normally would? Do they perceive that as disingenuous? What is the socially acceptable thing to do? Which is more/less aggravating to you if you’re the aggrieved party? I never know how to handle this
wait.
Let's say hypothetically, you're mad at me (which, ironically, isn't much of a stretch; I digress.) & I'm not angry back at you. The question then is: Should I act angry back at you?
I think maybe the rational thing to do is to discuss and defuse the situation, no matter the perceived socially acceptable approach.
If I'm angry at you (which, ironically, isn't much of a stretch; I digress.) and you don't act angry back at me, I would wonder if my anger is misplaced.
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sweet_ermengarde wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »When someone is mad at you but you aren’t mad back, are you supposed to act mad anyway? Like never address them and give them the cold shoulder? Or do you treat them like you normally would? Do they perceive that as disingenuous? What is the socially acceptable thing to do? Which is more/less aggravating to you if you’re the aggrieved party? I never know how to handle this
personally, i’m always down for a fight. to get yourself in the mood just think back to all the perceived slights youve ever got from them, and even mix up those memories with any other bad history u have with other people bc dragging your demons along for the ride really makes it escalate nicely imo
This sounds exhausting, can i drink first or is that a bad idea
oh, drinking is encouraged!
All my demons are teetotalers, this is terrible 😭1 -
Motorsheen wrote: »When someone is mad at you but you aren’t mad back, are you supposed to act mad anyway? Like never address them and give them the cold shoulder? Or do you treat them like you normally would? Do they perceive that as disingenuous? What is the socially acceptable thing to do? Which is more/less aggravating to you if you’re the aggrieved party? I never know how to handle this
wait.
Let's say hypothetically, you're mad at me (which, ironically, isn't much of a stretch; I digress.) & I'm not angry back at you. The question then is: Should I act angry back at you?
I think maybe the rational thing to do is to discuss and defuse the situation, no matter the perceived socially acceptable approach.
If I'm angry at you (which, ironically, isn't much of a stretch; I digress.) and you don't act angry back at me, I would wonder if my anger is misplaced.
You could date my mom and all my sisters simultaneously and I still can’t imagine getting mad at you ❤️
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Motorsheen wrote: »When someone is mad at you but you aren’t mad back, are you supposed to act mad anyway? Like never address them and give them the cold shoulder? Or do you treat them like you normally would? Do they perceive that as disingenuous? What is the socially acceptable thing to do? Which is more/less aggravating to you if you’re the aggrieved party? I never know how to handle this
wait.
Let's say hypothetically, you're mad at me (which, ironically, isn't much of a stretch; I digress.) & I'm not angry back at you. The question then is: Should I act angry back at you?
I think maybe the rational thing to do is to discuss and defuse the situation, no matter the perceived socially acceptable approach.
If I'm angry at you (which, ironically, isn't much of a stretch; I digress.) and you don't act angry back at me, I would wonder if my anger is misplaced.
You could date my mom and all my sisters simultaneously and I still can’t imagine getting mad at you ❤️
..... tell me more about your mom.
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Motorsheen wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »When someone is mad at you but you aren’t mad back, are you supposed to act mad anyway? Like never address them and give them the cold shoulder? Or do you treat them like you normally would? Do they perceive that as disingenuous? What is the socially acceptable thing to do? Which is more/less aggravating to you if you’re the aggrieved party? I never know how to handle this
wait.
Let's say hypothetically, you're mad at me (which, ironically, isn't much of a stretch; I digress.) & I'm not angry back at you. The question then is: Should I act angry back at you?
I think maybe the rational thing to do is to discuss and defuse the situation, no matter the perceived socially acceptable approach.
If I'm angry at you (which, ironically, isn't much of a stretch; I digress.) and you don't act angry back at me, I would wonder if my anger is misplaced.
You could date my mom and all my sisters simultaneously and I still can’t imagine getting mad at you ❤️
..... tell me more about your mom.
Well.. her first car was a brand new red Challenger she paid for with her own money 😁4 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »When someone is mad at you but you aren’t mad back, are you supposed to act mad anyway? Like never address them and give them the cold shoulder? Or do you treat them like you normally would? Do they perceive that as disingenuous? What is the socially acceptable thing to do? Which is more/less aggravating to you if you’re the aggrieved party? I never know how to handle this
personally, i’m always down for a fight. to get yourself in the mood just think back to all the perceived slights youve ever got from them, and even mix up those memories with any other bad history u have with other people bc dragging your demons along for the ride really makes it escalate nicely imo
This sounds exhausting, can i drink first or is that a bad idea
oh, drinking is encouraged!
All my demons are teetotalers, this is terrible 😭
Terrible, but also, not so terrible.... when you take alcohol out of the equation, it simply removes one layer of potential conflict and let's one achieve greater focus on the true issues as hand.2 -
Motorsheen wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »When someone is mad at you but you aren’t mad back, are you supposed to act mad anyway? Like never address them and give them the cold shoulder? Or do you treat them like you normally would? Do they perceive that as disingenuous? What is the socially acceptable thing to do? Which is more/less aggravating to you if you’re the aggrieved party? I never know how to handle this
personally, i’m always down for a fight. to get yourself in the mood just think back to all the perceived slights youve ever got from them, and even mix up those memories with any other bad history u have with other people bc dragging your demons along for the ride really makes it escalate nicely imo
This sounds exhausting, can i drink first or is that a bad idea
oh, drinking is encouraged!
All my demons are teetotalers, this is terrible 😭
Terrible, but also, not so terrible.... when you take alcohol out of the equation, it simply removes one layer of potential conflict and let's one achieve greater focus on the true issues as hand.
Quit being so reasonable, it’s rude1 -
Motorsheen wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »When someone is mad at you but you aren’t mad back, are you supposed to act mad anyway? Like never address them and give them the cold shoulder? Or do you treat them like you normally would? Do they perceive that as disingenuous? What is the socially acceptable thing to do? Which is more/less aggravating to you if you’re the aggrieved party? I never know how to handle this
personally, i’m always down for a fight. to get yourself in the mood just think back to all the perceived slights youve ever got from them, and even mix up those memories with any other bad history u have with other people bc dragging your demons along for the ride really makes it escalate nicely imo
This sounds exhausting, can i drink first or is that a bad idea
oh, drinking is encouraged!
All my demons are teetotalers, this is terrible 😭
Terrible, but also, not so terrible.... when you take alcohol out of the equation, it simply removes one layer of potential conflict and let's one achieve greater focus on the true issues as hand.
Quit being so reasonable, it’s rudeMotorsheen wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »When someone is mad at you but you aren’t mad back, are you supposed to act mad anyway? Like never address them and give them the cold shoulder? Or do you treat them like you normally would? Do they perceive that as disingenuous? What is the socially acceptable thing to do? Which is more/less aggravating to you if you’re the aggrieved party? I never know how to handle this
personally, i’m always down for a fight. to get yourself in the mood just think back to all the perceived slights youve ever got from them, and even mix up those memories with any other bad history u have with other people bc dragging your demons along for the ride really makes it escalate nicely imo
This sounds exhausting, can i drink first or is that a bad idea
oh, drinking is encouraged!
All my demons are teetotalers, this is terrible 😭
Terrible, but also, not so terrible.... when you take alcohol out of the equation, it simply removes one layer of potential conflict and let's one achieve greater focus on the true issues as hand.
Quit being so reasonable, it’s rude
Sorry, I'll try to revert back to acting like a *kitten*, *kitten*.
So, what are you wearing?1 -
Motorsheen wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »When someone is mad at you but you aren’t mad back, are you supposed to act mad anyway? Like never address them and give them the cold shoulder? Or do you treat them like you normally would? Do they perceive that as disingenuous? What is the socially acceptable thing to do? Which is more/less aggravating to you if you’re the aggrieved party? I never know how to handle this
personally, i’m always down for a fight. to get yourself in the mood just think back to all the perceived slights youve ever got from them, and even mix up those memories with any other bad history u have with other people bc dragging your demons along for the ride really makes it escalate nicely imo
This sounds exhausting, can i drink first or is that a bad idea
oh, drinking is encouraged!
All my demons are teetotalers, this is terrible 😭
Terrible, but also, not so terrible.... when you take alcohol out of the equation, it simply removes one layer of potential conflict and let's one achieve greater focus on the true issues as hand.
Quit being so reasonable, it’s rudeMotorsheen wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »When someone is mad at you but you aren’t mad back, are you supposed to act mad anyway? Like never address them and give them the cold shoulder? Or do you treat them like you normally would? Do they perceive that as disingenuous? What is the socially acceptable thing to do? Which is more/less aggravating to you if you’re the aggrieved party? I never know how to handle this
personally, i’m always down for a fight. to get yourself in the mood just think back to all the perceived slights youve ever got from them, and even mix up those memories with any other bad history u have with other people bc dragging your demons along for the ride really makes it escalate nicely imo
This sounds exhausting, can i drink first or is that a bad idea
oh, drinking is encouraged!
All my demons are teetotalers, this is terrible 😭
Terrible, but also, not so terrible.... when you take alcohol out of the equation, it simply removes one layer of potential conflict and let's one achieve greater focus on the true issues as hand.
Quit being so reasonable, it’s rude
Sorry, I'll try to revert back to acting like a *kitten*, *kitten*.
So, what are you wearing?
Do you kiss my mother with that mouth?1 -
Motorsheen wrote: »Motorsheen wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »When someone is mad at you but you aren’t mad back, are you supposed to act mad anyway? Like never address them and give them the cold shoulder? Or do you treat them like you normally would? Do they perceive that as disingenuous? What is the socially acceptable thing to do? Which is more/less aggravating to you if you’re the aggrieved party? I never know how to handle this
personally, i’m always down for a fight. to get yourself in the mood just think back to all the perceived slights youve ever got from them, and even mix up those memories with any other bad history u have with other people bc dragging your demons along for the ride really makes it escalate nicely imo
This sounds exhausting, can i drink first or is that a bad idea
oh, drinking is encouraged!
All my demons are teetotalers, this is terrible 😭
Terrible, but also, not so terrible.... when you take alcohol out of the equation, it simply removes one layer of potential conflict and let's one achieve greater focus on the true issues as hand.
Quit being so reasonable, it’s rudeMotorsheen wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »sweet_ermengarde wrote: »When someone is mad at you but you aren’t mad back, are you supposed to act mad anyway? Like never address them and give them the cold shoulder? Or do you treat them like you normally would? Do they perceive that as disingenuous? What is the socially acceptable thing to do? Which is more/less aggravating to you if you’re the aggrieved party? I never know how to handle this
personally, i’m always down for a fight. to get yourself in the mood just think back to all the perceived slights youve ever got from them, and even mix up those memories with any other bad history u have with other people bc dragging your demons along for the ride really makes it escalate nicely imo
This sounds exhausting, can i drink first or is that a bad idea
oh, drinking is encouraged!
All my demons are teetotalers, this is terrible 😭
Terrible, but also, not so terrible.... when you take alcohol out of the equation, it simply removes one layer of potential conflict and let's one achieve greater focus on the true issues as hand.
Quit being so reasonable, it’s rude
Sorry, I'll try to revert back to acting like a *kitten*, *kitten*.
So, what are you wearing?
Do you kiss my mother with that mouth?
pffft.....
I Wish.1 -
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