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caco_ethes wrote: »melissawill2017 wrote: »Keep_on_cardio wrote: »melissawill2017 wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
I have it virtually and irl Every. *kitten*. Day. If I try to interject some odd tidbit of real conversation the party of the first part cannot relate.melissawill2017 wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »You: hi!
Me: hello!
You: how are you?
Me: fine, you?
You: good, thanks.
silence
You: How was your day?
Me: Oh you know, same ol, same ol. Thanks for asking. Yours?
You: it was good. Did some stuff.
Me: oh good.
silence
Me: so, I’ll talk to you soon.
You: yeah, good. Let’s keep in touch.
Perspective!🤔 I have this exact conversation on my phone right now..
Yep- same!! Makes me question why I hold onto such shallow relationships? I think next conversation with them I’ll just screenshot the one before- cause it’s literally going to be identical! I like your thought process- next time I’m going to throw in the most random thing to say- it’ll either make the convo better or finally end it all together!!🤣
Or when you give some real conversation, they respond in a short exchange with mere disinterest.
Ugh.. yep, that’s my favorite! I can definitely be a “wordy” talker so I don’t expect to be matched word for word. However, if I write a paragraph & only get back a word or two then it tells me all I need to know about the value that person places on our relationship! ( 🎶 Thank you next... 🎶 )
Yesterday i messaged a friend a big long diatribe about my day/life and ranted about a few things. I finally asked “but how are you?”
The message i got back was:
I am fine
That was it. I laughed so hard, still laughing about it today in fact
I admire the fact that you can laugh it off. I feel so vulnerable when I’m treated in this manor.
Although I have come to realize at times it’s my own expectations that let me down and it’s actually not the person’s fault.3 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »I apologize. I have been having a super rough time lately and was particularly snarky yesterday.
I love you ❤1 -
r3d_butt3rfly_ wrote: »GymGoddessGoals wrote: »I apologize. I have been having a super rough time lately and was particularly snarky yesterday.
I love you ❤
I love you too.1 -
laprimaJenny wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »melissawill2017 wrote: »Keep_on_cardio wrote: »melissawill2017 wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
I have it virtually and irl Every. *kitten*. Day. If I try to interject some odd tidbit of real conversation the party of the first part cannot relate.melissawill2017 wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »You: hi!
Me: hello!
You: how are you?
Me: fine, you?
You: good, thanks.
silence
You: How was your day?
Me: Oh you know, same ol, same ol. Thanks for asking. Yours?
You: it was good. Did some stuff.
Me: oh good.
silence
Me: so, I’ll talk to you soon.
You: yeah, good. Let’s keep in touch.
Perspective!🤔 I have this exact conversation on my phone right now..
Yep- same!! Makes me question why I hold onto such shallow relationships? I think next conversation with them I’ll just screenshot the one before- cause it’s literally going to be identical! I like your thought process- next time I’m going to throw in the most random thing to say- it’ll either make the convo better or finally end it all together!!🤣
Or when you give some real conversation, they respond in a short exchange with mere disinterest.
Ugh.. yep, that’s my favorite! I can definitely be a “wordy” talker so I don’t expect to be matched word for word. However, if I write a paragraph & only get back a word or two then it tells me all I need to know about the value that person places on our relationship! ( 🎶 Thank you next... 🎶 )
Yesterday i messaged a friend a big long diatribe about my day/life and ranted about a few things. I finally asked “but how are you?”
The message i got back was:
I am fine
That was it. I laughed so hard, still laughing about it today in fact
I admire the fact that you can laugh it off. I feel so vulnerable when I’m treated in this manor.
Although I have come to realize at times it’s my own expectations that let me down and it’s actually not the person’s fault.
Oh, they were absolutely joking. Just taking a little jab, which is why it was so funny 😅0 -
caco_ethes wrote: »laprimaJenny wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »melissawill2017 wrote: »Keep_on_cardio wrote: »melissawill2017 wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
I have it virtually and irl Every. *kitten*. Day. If I try to interject some odd tidbit of real conversation the party of the first part cannot relate.melissawill2017 wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »You: hi!
Me: hello!
You: how are you?
Me: fine, you?
You: good, thanks.
silence
You: How was your day?
Me: Oh you know, same ol, same ol. Thanks for asking. Yours?
You: it was good. Did some stuff.
Me: oh good.
silence
Me: so, I’ll talk to you soon.
You: yeah, good. Let’s keep in touch.
Perspective!🤔 I have this exact conversation on my phone right now..
Yep- same!! Makes me question why I hold onto such shallow relationships? I think next conversation with them I’ll just screenshot the one before- cause it’s literally going to be identical! I like your thought process- next time I’m going to throw in the most random thing to say- it’ll either make the convo better or finally end it all together!!🤣
Or when you give some real conversation, they respond in a short exchange with mere disinterest.
Ugh.. yep, that’s my favorite! I can definitely be a “wordy” talker so I don’t expect to be matched word for word. However, if I write a paragraph & only get back a word or two then it tells me all I need to know about the value that person places on our relationship! ( 🎶 Thank you next... 🎶 )
Yesterday i messaged a friend a big long diatribe about my day/life and ranted about a few things. I finally asked “but how are you?”
The message i got back was:
I am fine
That was it. I laughed so hard, still laughing about it today in fact
I admire the fact that you can laugh it off. I feel so vulnerable when I’m treated in this manor.
Although I have come to realize at times it’s my own expectations that let me down and it’s actually not the person’s fault.
Oh, they were absolutely joking. Just taking a little jab, which is why it was so funny 😅
Joking? Sounds like an insensitive cad to me. You know what they say about removing toxic people from your life....your life might smell better but your life’s soil probably still won’t grow anything for a few years.4 -
Reckoner68 wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »laprimaJenny wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »melissawill2017 wrote: »Keep_on_cardio wrote: »melissawill2017 wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »
I have it virtually and irl Every. *kitten*. Day. If I try to interject some odd tidbit of real conversation the party of the first part cannot relate.melissawill2017 wrote: »your_future_ex_wife wrote: »You: hi!
Me: hello!
You: how are you?
Me: fine, you?
You: good, thanks.
silence
You: How was your day?
Me: Oh you know, same ol, same ol. Thanks for asking. Yours?
You: it was good. Did some stuff.
Me: oh good.
silence
Me: so, I’ll talk to you soon.
You: yeah, good. Let’s keep in touch.
Perspective!🤔 I have this exact conversation on my phone right now..
Yep- same!! Makes me question why I hold onto such shallow relationships? I think next conversation with them I’ll just screenshot the one before- cause it’s literally going to be identical! I like your thought process- next time I’m going to throw in the most random thing to say- it’ll either make the convo better or finally end it all together!!🤣
Or when you give some real conversation, they respond in a short exchange with mere disinterest.
Ugh.. yep, that’s my favorite! I can definitely be a “wordy” talker so I don’t expect to be matched word for word. However, if I write a paragraph & only get back a word or two then it tells me all I need to know about the value that person places on our relationship! ( 🎶 Thank you next... 🎶 )
Yesterday i messaged a friend a big long diatribe about my day/life and ranted about a few things. I finally asked “but how are you?”
The message i got back was:
I am fine
That was it. I laughed so hard, still laughing about it today in fact
I admire the fact that you can laugh it off. I feel so vulnerable when I’m treated in this manor.
Although I have come to realize at times it’s my own expectations that let me down and it’s actually not the person’s fault.
Oh, they were absolutely joking. Just taking a little jab, which is why it was so funny 😅
Joking? Sounds like an insensitive cad to me. You know what they say about removing toxic people from your life....your life might smell better but your life’s soil probably still won’t grow anything for a few years.
They probably fat fingered the send button before they finished and I’m just giving entirely too much credit3 -
It's our anniversary!3
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On the road again. 🎤🎙️🎶🎵
I love road trips.
Except for the semi trucks on the freeway n make me nervous.
I've seen final destination, that crap does happen!
Every log truck, "We're going to die".
Every gas tanker, "We're going to die".
May your day be filled with love and light.
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I love Halloween, so my grotesque appearance on random trips to Walmart look like a fun spooky choice and not just my reality3
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CaliValleyGirl wrote: »It's our anniversary!
Happy Anniversary!1 -
CaliValleyGirl wrote: »It's our anniversary!
Happy Anniversary!
Thank you!0 -
Plague_Doktor wrote: »I love Halloween, so my grotesque appearance on random trips to Walmart look like a fun spooky choice and not just my reality
I smile when they compliment me on my costume, then weep into my Oreos when I get back to the car2 -
I miss the anticipation for trips that i felt as a kid. As an adult it sometimes just feels more stressy than excited2
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caco_ethes wrote: »I miss the anticipation for trips that i felt as a kid. As an adult it sometimes just feels more stressy than excited
are we there yet?1 -
caco_ethes wrote: »I miss the anticipation for trips that i felt as a kid. As an adult it sometimes just feels more stressy than excited
sometimes ?
sometimes ?
I need to move.
.... any vacancies in West Dakota ??0 -
George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I miss the anticipation for trips that i felt as a kid. As an adult it sometimes just feels more stressy than excited
are we there yet?
This is even going to be a kidless vacation. Just me and two of my friends. How am i not involuntarily pumping my fist in the air?3 -
Motorsheen wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I miss the anticipation for trips that i felt as a kid. As an adult it sometimes just feels more stressy than excited
sometimes ?
sometimes ?
I need to move.
.... any vacancies in West Dakota ??
West Dakota is one giant vacancy0 -
caco_ethes wrote: »George_of_the_Jungle wrote: »caco_ethes wrote: »I miss the anticipation for trips that i felt as a kid. As an adult it sometimes just feels more stressy than excited
are we there yet?
This is even going to be a kidless vacation. Just me and two of my friends. How am i not involuntarily pumping my fist in the air?
IDK but if you don't wanna go then I will!1 -
Reckoner68 wrote: »Plague_Doktor wrote: »I love Halloween, so my grotesque appearance on random trips to Walmart look like a fun spooky choice and not just my reality
I smile when they compliment me on my costume, then weep into my Oreos when I get back to the car
Same pal, same1 -
Getting nervous.
So far we almost hit a solid safety barrier that rolled into the freeway. Then we almost hit hay bales that fell off a truck.
I'm ready to go home.1
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